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I dont think you really love your dear mum. Internet should not be an option for you to do that. Let her find one for herself please, or better still, you can tell your pastor, lecturers or trusted relative to recommend a man for her.

Wizlead:
I believe sometimes people get angry over a situation and rise up to do some drastic or nasty to change the known. Situations surrounding me right now demands such decision but what possible ways can I make money out of the whole thing? Some would say yahoo and ritual but I'm not a subscriber to any. I mean making money legitimately out of anger and frustration in this Nigeria? What I'm doing is not sustaining, that is why I'm thinking this way.

The sad reality is that, you need to use money to make money. Since you dont have this privilege, start working for people to earn money.

goodlistener:
Since my elder brother died last year, his wife has tremendously reduce all my aceess to finance. He was our bread winner, never wanted to come public but my conversation with his wife now just pissed me off.

She is delibtatly blocking our access to funds.

Mum has been sick. I told her since last week.

She manages his business and has refused to send the monthly agreed money for 3 months now.

I heard she just bought another car on Tuesday

This should be a real lesson for those that have ears to listen. If you have any relative or sibling who refuse to help you grow and stand on your fit but always want to be the bread winner, please cut him or her completely and face your life.

His wife owe you guys nothing, and she can decide what to and what not to give you. Blame your brother who refused to establish your mum and his siblings when he was still alive and not his wife.

sheldonbbt:
I got married sometime ago, we had a child 2021, after the birth of my child, more than 7 months ago my wife and I have barely had sex up to 3 times. We are still young and this bothers me alot.

I have jokingly said it, I have playfully pleaded with her, gotten angry but this has not resolved anything.

I love sex and was once an acute masturbator, this is driving me crazy because I do not wish to go back to it.

Also, I do not wish to visit a brothel as they are everywhere around us. This is making me regret ever getting married and I am frustrated.

If you are very sure she is ok physically and psychologically, then you need to change your tactic.

An average married woman is manipulative, especially with nice and caring husband. It is all about ego thing and see finish from her. She knew you cant do Jack, and will always begging whenever she denied you sex.

Here is simple tactic you should employ. During one of your happy moments,tell her you have many admirers that are always pastering you for sex, but you refused them because you love her. After this statement or next day, stop completely from asking her for sex, infact let her know from your action that you have lost interest in having sex with her. Dont get arose even if she try to seduce you. If she no change after this, come back here and call me a bastard.

Mossadd:
But how them come allow all those small small African countries to vote when our almight giant of African didn't vote?

UN security council consist of 15 members nations, in which 5 of them, USA, CHINA, UK, RUSSIA, and FRANCE, are permanent members with veto power. The other 10 members are elected periodically base on their economic/military strength. Nigeria on different occasions has been a members of UN security council.

Each of the 5 permanent members can veto decisions of other members. Reason Russia cant be questioned or ordered out of Ukraine.

Prechgold1180:
Did you see anything like youth overpowering the robbers in my write up

Try read to understand
Dey blocked the only exit that Dey could have use to excape more like a one way in one way out thing
Ok let me mk it easier for u to understand
Imagine the youth using like
10 tippers or trailers to block the road

What would the robbers do
Shoot the trailers till it gives way or what

This is what many commenters here dont understand.

By simply use vehicle to block the major entrance roads, it is game over for the robbers. This is simple tactic I was telling people the other day in Ibadan.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
To be sincere those boys are on a different level..I mean the confidence and all..no fear..
Who are they..how did they have that kinda confidence tho..

May God bless those boys. I was telling people the same when they attack bank in Ibadan 2 weeks ago. There is no way they could have escaped on that ever busy road leading to Iwo road and gate in Ibadan.

I dont see anything special about this controversial electoral act bill except electronic transmission of results, only if it would be done from each polling unit.

You need not just a book to understand the basic principle of world politics, rule of law and how societies are formed and organized. You should also read about logic, law of power and how great leaders think or rule on their subjects.

Read from Socratic, down to contemporary scholars. Read about American politics, British parliamentary system and communist China.

You cant find all this in one book, just go to any good book shop or library and get 2 or more books comprises the aforementioned areas.

mooremoney:
Nigeria ma joke, this man will walk away freely soon

Exactly, might not be very soon but he will definitely buy his way out in not distance period.

This is not new, including robbery on banks etc.

Ikem11:
So Ukraine on your own? This life no balance at all... They push you to war and abandon you.

They will still support them through back doors( possibly neighbouring European countries) with more sophisticated ammunition if this war progress to a fierce battle.

America wont openly declare support for non Nato members.

Young generation are much more corrupt than old politicians you are talking about.

Let power be given to whoever deserve it( old or young) without any disparity.

My question is what is Aregbesola want in the affairs of Osun-State again?

jaytii:
Forced to speak about what exactly?

How his successor refused to owe salary/pay half salary?
How his successor decided to pay all pending pensions and gratuity against his wish?
How his successor got rid of the scam Opon Imo?
How his successor decided to take on realistic projects rather than white elephant projects that the state could not afford?

The truth is if he had performed excellently during his tenure, the APC would not have needed a calculator to plot out how they could win the last election.

Only in Nigeria a slowpoke would be asking someone to follow his legacy. No rightfully thinking successor will follow Aregbesola unrealistic policies. APC should know that if his sponsor candidate mistakenly win their primary, they should say good bye to Osun- State.

tollyboy5:
What are the project and why were they abandoned?
Is that not same reason ambode was removed?

We are talking about Osun here not Lagos please.

ivolt:
So, all it boils down to is Aregbe's ego and nothing more.
SMH

Dont mind him, the man does not have any glory to even talk about. He started many big needless projects withiout finishing them in 8 years. No sane civil servants in Osun- state will listen to or vote for any candidate supported by Aregbesola. The reason Oyetola first term election was so close is because of him. If his candidate mistakenly win this primary, APC should kiss Osun goodbye.

Mooh247:
Aregbesola don't score own goal

He is just a shameless human, in a sane society, someone like Aregbesola ought to be in political oblivion by now.

He almost totally ruin the state with wasteful policies and projects that add little or nothing to economic development of the state. He plumped this state into endless internal and external debts to the extent that the state civil servants were paying half salary for long period of time.

To make the matter worse, he adopted same uniform for all primary and secondary schools across the state. Where are OPON IMO that he wasted billions of state fund on today? This same man single handedly changed educational system in the state withiout thinking of consequences.

If he is really a man of wisdom and integrity, he shouldn't have based his grievances with the current state governor on a useless legacy.

TheNiceGuy:
All I know is he'll be worked Against.

If eventually he got the ticket, I'm very sure some candidate will flag another party and destroy his blocks of vote.

He'll NEVER win his reelection, that's the fact.

Abuja and Lagos wont allow that to happen, Oyetola is likely to emerge victorious from the primary. Aregbesola would be called/beg to reconcile with him in order not to lose Osun.

Aregbesola has no good legacy for any sensible leader to follow

Fxzboyz:
It’s very popular among guys saying to their selves “make money and you’ll get women”.

They’re right , you’ll get women that want your money not you.

Women like who they like, your money won’t make them like you, there’ll always be one guy she’s in love with, who you have everything more than but her heart will be closed to you.

You need absolutely nothing in life but money. You may not be rich but at least have something doing or little source of income to sustain your relationship or marriage.

Do not be deceive, a woman can love you withiout money but her heart is always at where she would get the desire comfort she's natural built to seek after. No matter how a woman love you, she will definitely cheat on you or leave you when hunger reset her brain. A rich man wife hardly cheat if her husband show/give his love, time and good sex.

Psalmistproject:
Biden, the jack ass!
Can Trump say a thing like this?
How can US especially Biden watch Russia invade Ukraine even after he has made millions in dollars in Ukraine together with hunter.

What elders seen while sitting down, the children will never see even at the top of a tree.

You dont expect a sensible leader to declare a war with world super power like Russia. What is the point of wasting humans lives to pursue a mere foreign policy. I am 100% sure Trump will never do this as well because you dont fight a country like Russia withiout leading to world war 3.

kayusely70:
I hope the boy would be allowed to attend school as well!

Hahahahaha, typical Nigerian mentality of killing future talent. If Man U sign your kid, tell them you want him to go school nah

Munamoqel:
nice but other regions are putting human development first .while we host over 1.4 million out of school kids in Kano .over 80 percent of the state pipe borne water system is not working anymore .this 5 bn naira could have used to eradicate child begging .

God bless you, some of them are so clueless for real.

For any society to attain it's full potential/development, it must first takes its human development seriously.

If a common man can comfortably feed himself and live in good house, there would be more peace and stability . He will always be willing to give back to society in form of taxes and service, which can be use to create more capital developments.

Two captains in one ship. Amuneke ego and being a boss mentality would only create factions among super eagle players.

Let hope this appointments good for the super Eagle.

To include another liability institution?

Our leaders are nothing but a bunch of mentally retarded individuals.

tensazangetsu20:
It's not anyone's fault thats why we need to be able to choose If we want to be born or not and the kind of life we would like to be born into.

It is entirely the fault of society we found ourselves.

Our upbringing help us morally and in decision making, while society contributes 100% to what we achieve in life.

An average African leader think his society will advance by focusing on modernity, not knowing that the basic for development of any society has been omitted or neglected.

No society or country attained a level of visible development withiout solving physiological needs of its subjects. This is basic tenet of Western ideology that eventually led to their development.

Until food and houses, which is basic need of human existence is surplus, amount to nothing or cost nothing in Africa, there will never be a tangible human, social and economic development.

Abetterperson:
I don't really fancy married at all, it as to do with my upbringing I never grow up in a stable home and I found happiness when my parents were apart rather than together. I really don't like the idea of marriage because I see it as a cage, mind you im not totally against it I just think it wouldn't suit me, I never grew up in a family home so I don't know how to build one.

A guy asked me out and I agreed only on the condition that we wouldn't get married, he refused saying what's the point of the relationship if it wouldn't lead to marriage, even though I don't like the idea of marriage I do want to feel loved and wanted, I still do want kids and some sort of companionship, as crazy as it sounds I just want a baby daddy, I wouldn't have a child with him because I want to money, nop I'm already trying to establish myself, I really want to be financially independent so as to take care of my kids
Now the main reason I don't want marriage is because of my Independence, I don't want to answer to anyone at all and I know it will be difficult if I'm married to someone because in every marriage there is a level of dependence that is needed to make the marriage work, whether you are a man or woman u don't just do what you like especially when there is a child involved, secondly I'm thinking about the emotional stress my kids will go though if the marriage doesn't work, I don't want my child to grew up with memories of dad beating mum, mum shouting at dad, mum throwing a knife at dad and incase I do divorce I don't want my child to be in a state of depression, thirdly most Nigeria men treat their wives as trash, I Know what I'm talking about they don't value their wives, some see them as property other than an actual human being, some think of their wives as house maids and will refuse to do anything in the house or even allow the woman to get a help, some are also serial cheaters and don't see anything wrong with cheating because as they put it "I be man". Now I know that some women are equally as bad but I'm just stating my concern as a woman after all I'm not going to walk down the alter with a woman by my side.
So that's all I need my Independence, stability and control, people are saying I will regret but I really think it's for the best for me, I feel like I have a lot of time to think as I plan on having children at 28 but I don't know if my opinion will change then.

I'm I stupid for not wanting marriage?

Honestly you are not stupid, you"re only battling with innate contradictory opinions,egoism and fear.

You will outgrown this thought one day and wish you did not take this decision if you eventually does.