₦airaland Forum

Though some are due to stress from family challenges but one of the hardest truths women can never accept is the fact that they are also polygamous by nature. Married women are easily/quickly got bored by 1 dick, but will never say it out.

Dont be surprise the same woman will give 100% energy and ready to go many rounds at the sight of a new dick.

Biglittlelois:
If you are trying to insinuate that women are more than men in the world, step out of your sleeping coma and research for your own benefit and knowledge, MEN ARE MORE THAN WOMEN IN THE WORLD, so wipe off the delusion from your thought process and spread the info out to the likes of you who choose to wallow in continuous ignorance just to massage deflated ego

And yes, if all ladies gets married, there will be no single women lacking husbands, instead there will be men lacking wives according to world population,

So I support Op, ladies should ensure that they get married and have kids in a stable comfortable family life/settings.

You are right, statistically men are slightly more than women, but in reality, less men are available for women later in life.

Men are risk takers, they die in large number before making it to adulthood. There are more men in the prisons than women, more men die serving in the military than women. There are many dangerous mining jobs that takes men life than women. More men die in accidents than women.

These and many other reasons affect the ratio of eligible men to women in term of relationship and marriage.

MrBrownJay1:
ARRANT NONSENSE OF THE HIGHEST ORDER!!!!!



DELUDED NONSENSE #1
the same choices that a married mother has, is the same that a babymama would have... no difference whatsoever!



DELUDED NONSENSE #2
why would a child be bitter when he has the love from daddy and mummy?!?! why would a child be bitter, when he has access to both his parents? why would a child be bitter when he/she gets twice as much as everything?!



DELUDED NONSENSE #3
why would any babymama lack self trust/confidence?! you making it sound like these woman are crying all day and hiding away in shame because they are babymamas, lol! NEWSFLASH: some of these babymamas out there are proudly displaying their BM status without giving a fukc what you religious hypocrites think..... go ask Linda Ikeji or Genevieve!



DELUDED NONSENSE #4
nobody should give a fukc what deluded total strangers think of you.... if you are ok with being a babymama, and fully understand what it entails, then so be it!



FINAL DELUDED NONSENSE
becoming a desperate person because they are babymamas?!?!?! BWAAAAAAAAh what type of nonsense wont we read on NL from religious people trying to shove down your throat "their" way of living and/or views?!?!?!

I dont think you understand the contents of this write up.

1. Only tiny percentage of men will settle for single mothers irrespective of how beautiful or morally sounded they are. This eventually made their choice limited.

2. Children needs the present of both mother and father for their psychological wellbeing. Absent of one does not help in development of a child ( especially under the age of 10).

3. Since the society is built on social and family settings, she may feel less of herself for her inability to sustain or preserve this society settings.

4. No matter how strong a single mother thought she is, she will definitely experience a serious stigmatization. She will live among people that will include lovely couples, virtuous women, young couples etc. Besides, she can never be a good example or role model to single girls since society gives more value to marriage institution.

5. The stigmatization, low self esteem, limited choice etc, could actually leed to desperation the moment she find someone who accepted all her flaws.

Born2winKingOG:
I saw 300 plus in my wife account balance yesterday night, this is the same account I saw ending of last year it was empty (4k)


yes I do give her money, cash especially to stuck up the house with foods and drinks...she doesn't work currently.

how come 300k just appeared on her bank account and am not aware about it.



how did she get it?

who gave it to her?

she travelled during the festive period, hope it's not what am suspecting.

please how best can I handle this situation?


lalasticlala

Are you afraid of your wife or what? Cant you simply ask her where she get money?

This your post is only necessary after you must have asked her and she gave you one stupid excuse.

Though non of them is good for Nigeria at this moment(if there is better alternative) but I will prefer Tinubu over Jonathan. Tinubu legacy is what Lagos is still enjoying today. He know how to work with best team and can set a good path for meaningful development.

Nigeria of today is quite different from Nigeria of pre- 2015 administrations. Only a charismatic powerful leader will do better and re-unite the country after this present administration. Tinubu can do better in this aspect than any other candidate, he will never be a push over, and will definitely deal with emergency of cabal and the issue of insecurity withiout fear of ethnic sentiments.

All leaders were once servants, just continue to be a very good assistant wherever you found yourself, one day, your good work will automatically give you an edge over others in the eyes of the kings.

Mind you, there are some things you need to change before you become a leader, otherwise you may not last in your position like former president Goodluck Jonathan. Self confidence and positivism are very essential in the life of anyone inspiring to be a leader.

Truvelisback:
Whether u like it or not, men will definitely stare at ur wife, especially if she is beautiful or has big bum bum. By the way the story goes, i don't the story is real. Why? No sensible neighbour would keep knocking at ur door looking for ur wife, knowing fully well that u are married and that u are at home, except u as the man, u aren't at home or around b4 such could happen.

It is real life story, the woman that came to tell my wife live in the same compound with them. The husband is always away from home due to the nature of his job, and sometime he stay at home to rest withiout letting anyone knows. I think the major problem is the time he used to come knocking. The hour her husband suppose to be at work.

Kobojunkie:
Rather than bully the wife, i would explain to her that I am not comfortable with the neighbor and then leave it at that. A woman is also a capable adult quite able to manage her relationships on her own. Where she needs help from a third-party or even her husband, she knows to ask and only then can she should a husband step in to intercede on her behalf - never before.

What this man did here was disrespect his wife each time he took to bullying her regarding her relationship with the creepy neighbor, thinking his manhood bestows on him alone the right to respect in the relationship.

Let me just assume you are still single or just trying to be unnecessarily civil.

As a married man, you must try as much as possible to protect your home and your wife. Women heart/mind are very flexible, and at the same time extremely subjected to change where you least expected. Let me tell you this, being persistently nice and caring is one of the best trick men use to have their way with married women especially those whose their husbands always busy with work.

Since he had once subtly warned him but refused to stop, I think it responsibility of his wife to follow his instruction by ignore or give him straight face whenever he come again. The husband grievance is quite right and understandable because she has more power to stop him since she is the one always at home.

Kobojunkie:
And you figure that by him bullying and fighting his wife, he can stop that from happening?

Baba, what will you do if you are the husband.

Beremx:
Is the husband of the woman afraid to confront the other man and ask him why he’s seductively being attracted to his wife?
Is the neighbor heavily muscular?
What manner of fear fear is that?

I think they claimed he has done that but not on serious confrontation manner, yet the man wont stop and the wife too dont follow his instruction of ignoring him or give straight face whenever he comes knocking.

The husband point is, maybe that is how he normally come to meet his wife when he is not at home.

Kobojunkie:
And?

Finish the story... the man asked his wife and the wife did what?

Already finished the story, the husband was fighting his wife for encouraging him by giving him a welcoming attitude after he has warned her he is not comfortable seeing them getting close.

It happened between this lovely young couple living in my street. Honestly, I always admiring them whenever I see them together, cant just believe they are fighting.

According to the eyes witness, the husband has been warning his wife against one particular married man living in the same compound who was always in the habit of knocking their door for unnecessary or petty thing( petty thing like woman to woman stuff that he could send his wife), but the woman wont listen. The husband claimed he has caught the said co- tenant starring at his wife bumbum or looking at her seductively several time, and he is not comfortable letting such a person get close to his wife for whatever reason.

According to him, despite warning his wife to ignore or keep straight face whenever he comes knocking, she was still welcoming him with smile. This morning again, the man came knocking for one useless excuse, but this time, the manner in which he did it surprised the husband who was at the living room. He said, he did not call his wife by her Child name as usual but knock silently and pressing door handle to force entry.

The fight broke out when the husband demanded his wife tell him the relationship between her and the married co-tenant or see his other side.

The husband is a very busy type, in which the married co-tenant know of, and his wife works from home.

What will you do if you find yourself in such situation.

James4358:
Am barely three years into marraige, the least reason i got married to my wife was for making babies.
My wife is going through a family planning method, but my mum and inlaws wont let us drink water.
It is grand children this & grand children that'. Even my own mum i always thought was learned & invoke with 21st century lifestyle has been in the fore front of disturbing our lives.
My wife is barely 26 and pursuing her master's programme to a conclusion & i've been busy traveling & attending various courses to gain speedy promotion & hit the peak of my para-millitary job. Where else would i get the time to start baby-sitting, which i know is a full time job.
Am not just the type to let a house maid take up the responsibility of training my children, this i know has negative effects & may some day backfire.
My mum have even gone ahead to tag this the handi_work of witchcraft. My elder brother has 3kids already, why the cry after my own.
This women wont just let us live our lives in peace!

Except you and your wife has medical or financial issue bordering you, having your children at young age is much more beneficial to you than later in life.

Women, between 20yrs to 32yrs. Men between 28yrs to 40yrs.

Why asking a kid what he would do with money in the first place. Why not simply take your money and probabaly buy him an ice cream for not stressing you much before he remember to show you the money.

@op, the best thing to do is to send her back to her family. A girl that stoled as much as 200k can do anything unimaginable in future.