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bukatyne:
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Biology 2.0 reloaded!

I meant deep in relationships bro.

suckprick:
The rich and successful people are busy thinking of ways to grow in every aspect of their life. Poor people mind and thoughts are clouded with big yansh, big breast and sex- sex - sex all the time (reason they born plenty). Now you know why they are poor.

This shows you are not close to being rich yourself. Both the Rich and the poor are always think of how to grow from their present conditions, the only difference is that, the rich, having attain some level of financial freedom, tend to have more opportunities and resources to navigate their ways into success, while lack of opportunities and resources may brings the poor to further failure. One thing is certain as far as Nigeria is concern, if you are not born into rich family, you can never become rich withiout encounter a life changing opportunity that you used to your advantage.


Rich men have more frequent casual sex than all poor men combine. The poor mostly don't have option but to sleep with their wives who can mistakenly get pregnant at anytime.

Unlike the poor, they have resources to take care of many girlfriends, including married women, and they don't go deep to the extent that you will get pregnant for them.

NwaAmaikpe:



Having been in the exact shoes of the deceased, it makes loads of sense to me but I can not relate to this.

The most trying time in a man's life are the first few weeks after his woman has just had a baby, with the kuntus all slushy and no where to slot in one's ogbunigwe, masturbation becomes the only way out.

A few wives are considerate to give their husbands a period of grace wherein they can shag anyone outside, but the wicked ones without any consicence act like they do not know that the second reason God created man is to ejaculate.

As an avid advocate of masturbation, I know there's nothing more upsetting than getting interrupted when almost at the point of no return while masturbating, but that in itself is still not enough to kill yourself about.

People like us whose women allow us shag them a few hours after childbirth don't know what God has done for us.

Masturbation is mostly caused by lack of access to frequent sex. If you are accustomed with real frequent sex, the urge to masturbate will disappear even if you don't have sex for 2 months. You will see it as unworthy exercise, your mind would be so conditioning in such a way that only a woman body could arose you. Infact, you won't even get erection or interest in a woman that is not sexullly appeal to you.

press9jatv:
Timi of Ede land never respect the office he occupied. He’s nuisance here

Kingship is not by age but prestige associated with the throne.

Culturally, it is very wrong for a king to bow down for another king to whom is not traditionally paying homage.

ibechris:
It affected my dad is now blaming him.
Oga take ur useless emotion away from here.

This is the same mentality that has thwarted ur mental state from reasoning properly.

Keep off my TL.

Ordinarily, I would've ignored you but I think you are still a young guy who is still trying to find his feets in life. Nothing will make sense to you now, until you get to that stage. This is not about being emotional, I was only telling you about real life situations. What you read in the books are some people experiences in their society or environment, which might be totally different to yours and the way your society works. I've read so many books including rich dad you mentioned, but later realised that alot of circumstances do change things along the journey of life. Life or let me say living is dynamic and not static, it is not what you totally measure by another people experiences or direction.

Like if your children Need 2 millions naira for school fees, and your suppose passive income fail you at that moment, will you go and borrow money with interest or start begging on the streets just because you don't want to spend from your active income?

Life doesn't work that way, so appreciate your dad and make him happy with little you can. This is Nigeria where over 80% don't have passive income, so if you say spending his active income to sponsor you was a mistake/affected him, will you be happy if he gladly spent it on himself and allow you to become nuisance in society today?

ibechris:
This is why I keep saying that,it is easier to make money but very hard to maintain it to last ur existence.

Aside health issues that can cripple ur wealth.

Don't ever use money from ur business to train ur children. Don't use ur salary or pension to train ur children never.


Use passive income to this and honestly,u won't blame
yourself for this.

Many people have actually become poor today because they failed to use other income source to drive their growth.

My dad was affected by the same thing .

Read this up on nairametrix
Rich dad,poor dad same dad.

Easier said than done, when you start having your own children and solely depends on salary or proceed from business, don't train them and be waiting for special money to do so. Instead of you to appreciate your dad and work hard to assist the old man, you are here blaming him for not ignoring you totally and solely improve himself.

As long as you chose to have children in life, the best thing you can do to yourself is to train them with whatever you can afford. If you fail to do so, you will never enjoy your old age, that wealth you think could be useful to you at old age could be a course as a result of irresponsible children that can do anything to eliminate or bring you down to take over.

advanceDNA:
Oga..i have been in different situations in life.. and I did not becos of that exploit anybody

If it's about food and basic need..the op won't complain ..these girls will tell u they are poor but ask for money for 200k wig...thats not being in need....thats just exploitation

Wetin you dey talk sef? We dey talk about those poverty striking girls that truly need help, you dey talk about empty headed slay Queen who demand 200k to by wig.

Baba rest, is like you don't read my previous posts or relies to other guys that quote me.

easytig:
If you meet her in abject poverty,you better leave her,let her marinate in her poverty ,or else she will drag the man into poverty too with unending billings, poverty is a contagious disease.never help who doesn't want to help herself

Let her papa and mama set her up bro,pls learn to play your cards safely.[/b]

Exactly, it is much more better not to date such girl than to be complaining of her billing. Although there are some useless girls who are living above their means and have make it their right to bill men but some are very decent, hardworking and genuinely need help.

And no, she can't drag you to poverty if you don't do more than your capacity. Contrary to your assumption, poverty is not a contagious disease if you know what you are doing.

If you ever meet such a girl, the best is to marry her and put her in a family business that would be bringing incomes. Don't call the business hers, until she manage it well and become the mother of your children.

advanceDNA:
Poverty doesn't make u put tension on others when u know they don't have plenty to throw around..

..it's being inconsiderate, wicked and unkind that makes u do so.....

May you not be in that situation, that is when you know that you can even seek help from your enemies. Poverty is one evil thing that should not befall a living soul. Women are very smart creature, before a girl ask you for something, he must have studies you and be sure you can afford it or have a channel to get it for her.

Like I said, the best bet is to stay away from such girl if you cant be of help to them. As someone you are dating or sleeping with, there is no way you will see her in a worse situation and not offer to help her if you can.

Badmashiii:
Wrong. You can hardly be the only man giving any the lady attention. If it's not offline,then the thousands of simps online will never fail to display their thirst.

Among the simpz,the girls can figure out one or two they shall be billing occasionally.

This is how ladies build up their billing list.

Things are not always what we think they are, some girls don't do double dating no matter the situation. Trust me, there are some ladies who genuinely needs help, they won't force you or bill you, they will genuinely ask for a favour, and you will see their situation by yourself.

advanceDNA:
Baba forget that gist ...nor dey create justification for exploitation.....weda a girl is poor a rich ...a girl who cares about u won't make u uncomfortable..
.this guy clearly doesn't have it yet the babe is exploiting him and stressing him...

Some are battling with serious poverty and genuinely need help, that is my point here.

The only favour you can do yourself is to stay away from such girl because they will definitely ask.

easytig:
If she can't fix basic things in her life ,she has no business in a relationship, relationship is all about sacrifice and support from both parties,if not had I known will be the last comment of a fool

Lolz, it amaze me how some of you reason, If you check well, men are the ones running after these broke girls and not the other way round. There is no logic in running after a broke girl and complaing she is demanding. Women will always demand, even your wife of 20 years, it is in their nature to do so as long as they don't have the means to do so themselves. You can only say she doesn't love or care about you if she earn well and still demanding as broke girls.

You know she is broke, you know she can't fend for herself, yet you chose to date her and start pounding the innocent girl with nothing to show for it. Naturally, men don't like their women to suffer no matter the circumstances, it so unfortunate some of you will come here to claim otherwise.

My point is that, some ladies are genuinely being battling with abject poverty, the ones that won't do a hookup will surely ask from their boyfriends. The best you can do for such a girl is to set her up if you know that the relationship is 99% heading to marriage.
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advanceDNA:
She doesn't love u....women don't make who they really care about uncomfortable ....

Btw...why the fvck will God give u money just to bankroll a woman exploiting you financially?

U better change ur prayer point

Some came from poor homes and genuinely need money or helper, if such girl know you have, she will ask for it. It doesn't mean she don't love you, she just don't have money to fix basic things in her life.

ThugCheetah:
Please this just happened to me, someone sent me some money and called me that it was a mistake.. what’s your advice?

Report to your bank before you send him back the money.

In my own case, it was one of my customers who mistakenly make 50k into my account, she called two days later, and i refunded the money only for my account to be debited a week later. I went to the bank, and was later told that someone brought court order and reported the issue. I called this woman, only for her to be telling me that her son did so before she called me for a refund. She later went to the bank to settle it but took us about 2 weeks before the issue was rectified.

The second one also mistakenly make 75k to my account but it was during Christmas break, I had to follow her home and made the video with her children all testify to it before I transfer it back to her.

SmartPolician:
Sowore needs to get into government. He cannot keep criticising the government all the time. He has so much to offer this country. He should've contested in the last guber election in Ondo State.

He is not mature enough to play politics, Sowore is better off as union or organisation leader.

gabazin080:
I have been married for 10 years and we have 3 wonderful kids. She took a well paying but stressful job recently and her sex drive has reduced drastically. We now have sex like just 4 times in a month.

She doesn't ask and if i ask it is always excuse of fatigue.

She doesn't cheat, i am 100% sure of that.
She even told me she wont mind if i find another girl to satisfy my urge.

I am not the type that can cheat too.
So I am worried on what could cause this change. Someone told me it could be an infection

Maybe I am not suppose to tell you this because you seem like someone that is drunk in love or probably not smart enough, but I will because I hate seeing innocent men suffering in their marriage.

Psychologically, no able body woman on earth will tell her husband to find another girl to satisfy his sexual urge if she is not using it to justify her infidelity nature in her conscious mind. Women are very smart creature, they don't take responsibility for their action, your wife has nothing to blame on you should you start suspecting her of cheating, so she has to come up with a bait for you to have another girl.

You are no more a desirable person to her, you are nothing to her anymore, reason she is not afraid to lose you. If you like, disregard this post, but the possibility that your wife is cheating is 90%.

erniewhez:
cheating is common with married men than married woman, but in dating its common with girls.

100% truth, in my own observation, 10% of married women will cheat at any given opportunity, while 99% of men will cheat at given opportunity.

lailo:
I'm already weeping for you in advance
Suicide mission

I don't even know how to describe him, maybe the guy too is from dysfunctional home because a single man with right upbringing will never thought of dating a woman of 3 kids, let alone marry her.

That woman too is very wicked and highly a self centered. A sensible or selfless woman will simply find someone who is also a single father or elderly man that just want to have someone to talk and not single guy who just want to start his own family.

BonPatrick:
Good evening guys please there is a new tenant I let in and she is beautiful and I am in love with her and want to woo her in a week time, is it wrong to date her?

I will advise you not to, except you are single looking for a wife. Even at that you will most likely stop collecting a rent from her, which I think is more beneficial to your finance than a mere sex you get from her. You will most likely spend more dating her than someone from outside. You will most likely be element of ridiculous if other tenants get to know your relationship with her.

It is also feel like taking advantage of her, and if she rejects the offer, you may be living in captivity in your own house because any step you take to correct her wrong doing in compound will look like winch hunt to her.

This is what you should do, be nice to her, entice her with something she might like, if she is really interested, she will bring her body to you free of charge in your apartment withiout attaching dating term to it.

iwaeda:
Buy small cow early 2000.

There were still small cows of 50k around 2013

Even in 2019, there were still medium size cows around 120k, and the big size ones around 200k.

HelpfulBro:
Yes I think so, because it was first jock itch

But what is the reason for the little boils around

The little boils could be caused by heat, but if it bring out pus, then could be infections.

From the picture, that is not a disease but pealing of soft skin around your groin.

Avoid wearing tight boxer or walk in the sun to avoid sweating. Sleep naked in the night and don't use sponge to scrub the place again. It will dry up and vanish within 5 days.

Validated:
Stop day-dreaming, not possible, otherwise I will start exporting Dangote gasoline to US/Canada for $1 (N1650) per litre

This is another terrible being among Nigerians.

So if petrol is sell for #500/per litre, you will start exporting it to the US/CANADA to create artificial scarcity that could eventually lead to price increment for your people at home?

Many of us are terrible than the leaders we thought were bad.

Factcheck0001:
are u for real?

Omo many Nigerians are lazy thinkers with slave mentality ooo

He should get house of 300k, foodstuff of 250k n b looking for job

Whereas someone with 500k already have a POS shop where he also sells phone accessories n he's making a minimum of 7k per day

Nawah for some people ooo

Have 1 million n still look for job

The advise was solely base on what he proposed. He said " pending the time he would find a new job", that statement indicates that he did not think toward your direction but pay job to earn a living.

Besides, not everyone is endow for self employment, some can't manage a business, not because they are lazy, but because they are comfortable working for others and get paid.

And don't be quick to called people lazy thinkers just because they may not think the same way you do. Nothing is certain in life, even the so called business you are so much proud of today can reduce to nothing in a blink of eyes tomorrow, so never dismiss or underestimate other people efforts just because they don't follow your way.

donslmnstvn:
Relocating won't stop the pains and depression state you are in now. What you need is therapy. Seek for a qualified counsellor to help you out

Relocation stop alot of things including a psychological trauma. The mind process it as a new beginning, which significantly boost the state of mind.

Rockzy1:
I'm thinking of relocating to another state within Nigera and start a new life with 1million naira?

The major reason for relocating is that something happened to me and i want to move on from the pains, depression etc. I've tried to move on but it's not working.

If you are single, you have more than enough to relocate to any state in Nigeria.

Just get a cheap room selfcoin around 300k total package, use 100k to move your things to the new state, and another 250k to stockpile food stuffs( that will last you for about 2 months). Hold the remaining change for emergency until you get a new job.

Samantha125:
1. We hate unannounced visitors with passion.

2. People think we're boring, when we can be a lot fun when we're with the people we're close to.

3. Socializing is another challenge.

4. We like giving people the impression that we're dumb, when we're a lot more smarter than they think.

5. We talk less and listen more.

6. Sometimes we would just look at you and argue with you with our thoughts without saying a single word.

7. There are also times where we just want to be alone, not because we're upset, but because we just feel like it.

8. We're sensitive to noise.

9. We can be more active online than in real life.

10. We're lovers and not haters.

Majority of introvert are talkative, just that they only do that with people that close to them. Your no.2, say it all.

Introvert don't intentionally gives people the impression that they are dumb, people often see them as ones due to their reserved personality, and it pains them alot.

Every introvert wish they are not.

ibrocool:
The boy is truly a village boy who has been trained on how to survive in the forest. If a city boy is in this situation, he might not survive this

Surprisingly, he may also survive it. Never underestimate the power of survival instincts in humans. Children can do everything adult is capable of doing if left alone.

Love800:
You are saying that they should be nothing like governors. Am i correct?

Absolutely yes, local governments should be directly under regional government or Federal government.

End state now before they before they send the country back to 19th century.

Allocation giving to the states are waste, give this directly to the local governments and see tremendous developments within a year.

States are a waste of resources, it should be completely scrapped.

zanshi:
At least i am not trying to gum body with perceived rich people just to latch on their finances as a bambiala. I would rather offer value in exchange.

Lolz, look at the way you twisted the answer.

Since the rich should not be associate with the poor according to your analogy, why should the rich be associate with you even though you are not after their finance?

And according to your write up, rich and poor people has nothing in common, and the later is mostly fill with envy and jealousy, so what value are you saying you will exchange with rich people as a poor man?