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They want others to respect them, yet they won't fix their country to get a deserving respect from outside world.

eepeepook:
The last time we saw was seven years ago. She blocked all forms of contact after marrying someone else. Now, she’s been on my case for money for six months and counting. I’m thinking of borrowing money so I can knack her one last time. How do I go about this?

That was why she didn't marry you. You are not really mature enough and lacks self worth. It is fine If she is divorce and reconnect with you but using sex as criteria to lend a married woman money is a serious sign of low self esteem. Will you be happy if your wife ex do the same to her?

If you can't give her the money for free, please use it to sleep with hookup girl or street girl of your choice to have your integrity intact.

PP123:
Dead inside the room without smelling or defecating odour

Sorry to say you're a fool

Logic is limited to available information, that you'd never seen such doesn't mean it never happened or possible.

It has happened like that countless of time. The smell won't be strong enough once it is inside enclosed apartment. It has even happened in face me - I face you houses. People will actually perceive odors, but will feel it dead rats or just bad smell around.

Typing:
I have this particular Tenant who occupied one of my properties in Kaduna. This man has not been seen for over 7 years now. His phone number doesn't connect. He has not renewed his rent for 7 years.

He is the type of tenant that doesn't associate with people. He hardly receive guests when he was around. No family or friends to contact. I have waited for years with no news about his whereabouts. How do I recover my house from him? Where can I lodge such complains. Is it with Police or Court?

Go and collect court order and take it to the police station. You should be through with everything under a week, and you can't spend much using this process.

He might be in prison or dead, there is also a possibility he might be dead inside your apartment and no one knows since he don't talk to anyone around. Just follow the above step and open the the doors.

AMINDA:
You are the one who doesn't understand the politics of the North. I ask again, who are these northern elites that you claim are behind Tinubu and where were they during the tax reform Bill. The northern elders, governors and religious leaders came out clearly to tell the President that they were not in support of the bill until certain clauses were adjusted to their demands. Why couldn't the elites save Tinubu then?

Why should the North be obligated to have Tinubu continue till 2031 when they can either have a Northerner like Atiku succeed him now. Heads or tails, power will still return to the North, whether in 2027 or 2031. So, what's the motivation to wait for Tinubu to handover to his annointed successor? They have the numbers to take it now. Mind you, Elrufai is basically the last of the CPC bloc in the APC and he's being systematically chased out of the party. This is after Amaechi and Co of the new PDP bloc have been schemed out already. APC of today is just Lagos branch of the ACN with a few yes men from the North and some old PDP members ( Aregbesola, Fayemi, Amosun, Lai Mohammed, and other non-Lagos ACN all schemed out).

The issue on ground is quite complicated, both South and North need each other to produce a president. Any candidate from the North West after Buhari 8 years in power won't fly in Noth Central and entire south. Also, another candidate from the South won't sell in entire North because they can't afford to wait another 8 years after Tinubu.

Tinubu is a very smart politician you can ever imagine, he has already positioned himself to get big votes from North Central and entire South, which is enough for him to get re-elected. And there is no way his foot solders and Shetima won't bring at least 2.5 millions votes from entire North West and North East. You see that Lagos , they will ensure over 4 millions votes from that state alone. PH too won't give him less than 1.5m votes this time. The day I fear that man was the day he won APC primary against all odd including almighty Buhari.

As it stand today, all heavy weight politicians from the North knows clearly that we are practical stuck with Tinubu till 2031, all they are doing is just to make him do their bids in running the country.

Even those that have captured the entire structure of their states or Emperors in olden days can't say this to avoid disunity among their key players and electorates. There are things you don't say even if you had the key in your possession.

People hates arrogance, especially where you can't decide all alone.

Tranquillity360:
NYSC should be scrapped,it purpose to Force unity in Nigeria have been long defeated.






Nigeria is not one and can never be one.

But why are you all blaming the scheme instead of those involved in the fight?

As an educated person, hoodlums who has nothing to lose or do with their lives are the last persons you should engage in an arguments, let alone fighting. They usually respect you if you don't greet or talk to them.

The reason we keep losing money to the market is because, majority of investors or traders refuse to accept the fact that crypto market has changed its dynamism since 2022.

Never in history you will see bitcoin increase by more than 200% and see 98% alts decrease by the same margins or even more. The reality is that, market is no longer what it used to be, traders are now trading in descending order, which make bearish a no big issue to those that matter in crypto game.

If you must trade or invest in crypto, do so with money you can afford to lose.

AfricaDefender:
I am a 27 years old Bayelsan from Kolokuma/Opokuma LGA Ijaw by tribe
Having a 24 years old Bayelsan lady also Ijaw from Southern Ijaw LGA.
We have a 4 years old Daughter and 1 year old son.


I met this lady when I had nothing.
I was homeless but we were together.
She even slept and lived at front of people's shops with me saying she rather die by my side than let me go.
When her father sent her out of his house for my sake because she choose me instead of to take her life serious the way he wants and she pack to my room from their town and my father sent both of us packing because he doesn't like her either.


Along the line I hit jackpot due to some lawful deals that got my way and I became a millionaire.


Sometimes I fear that life is unpredictable and if anything should happen to me my brother's and sisters won't allow her touch my money since my youngest sister is my next of kin.
By then I never had a child so I'm thinking of changing all my account to her name as next of kin so that if anything happens to me since life is unpredictable I know that my children will not suffer.


Note: I didn't do any thing evil to get the money o.
And I didn't marry her lawfully but we just refuse to leave each other till she gave birth to two


What do you think?
I need advice please.

There is no need for that, just establish big business for her and let her grow with it. God forbit anything happens to you, even your bank will frustrate the hell out of her and still give peanuts at the end of the day. Asides that, in the process of getting your money from the bank, your family will get to know and still fight her to release the money to them.

The best you can do for her now is to set big business for her or better still, send significant amount to her bank account and monitor it by yourself. Once a woman has biological children with you, the most logical thing to do is to make her stand financially on her own. If anything happen to you or that marriage, at least your children won't suffer in the hands of another man.

Guest1988:
The bank is responsible for it, very irresponsible lots

Not the bank but someone next to her on the queue or bank security guy at ATM.

I once saw a card rejected by the ATM when I wanted to withdraw that evening. I called the security guy in the bank and gave it to him.

LibertyRep:
Mere political gymnastics. The promoters could only use state creation as a carrot to be dangled before their supporters for political gains.

It will amount to wishful thinking to think that more states will be created under a democratic setting like this.

Why do we even need more states, when some are almost unviable.

Scrap the states and let's run the country with the president and the LG Chairmen.

God bless you abundantly.

IpobAntidote:
Village idiot.
To the dumbest retar@ed zero IQ monkeys in NL supporting Trump, now you can see what he's all about.
This is all about race. The idiot is trying to get those that are not White out of the US but he ready to move White SA to the US .

All the mumus supporting Trump because of religion go regret am sooner or later.

Exactly, alot of people with low IQ did not even see that. Trump is a bloody racist, and he can't even hide it as a president.

I wonder how some morons think any country can't stand on it own withiout support of USA. By the time he finish his tenure, USA would've reduce to mere regional champion.

They know only Obi can give them popularity again, they just want to use his name to be relevant and cash out.

If I were him, I won't border myself because North will likely not going to vote another southerner who may want to spend 8 years in power. And this time, Tinubu won't allow him to get needed votes in the South like 2023, especially in Lagos. So he may not get half of what he got in 2023, he should not waste his money.

Kobojunkie:
1. Are you sure you are OK? What you are trying to tell me here is that after spending decades of my life battling a debilitating sleep disorder, you, whose experience comes from delusions, know better than I do about how dreaming works. What the heck is wrong with you people?

2. Stop bullsheet-ing and trying to derail already! Focus! We are speaking here of how physical harm is most likely caused by impact with something physical and not some dream about a dog bite created by your brain to keep you sleeping through the pain. How can you, without ruling out the possibility that the wound was physically afflicted on the body in question conclude it most be spiritual? No be brain damage be that?

3. More like you are bullsheet-inclined to me. Stop trying to change the topic with your ludicrous ideas. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Ok, I Don hear you o

Kobojunkie:
1. Install cameras in that person's house to check where the person goes when he/she is instead supposed to be in bed. Also, since the wound bleeds, it means that the cause of the bleeding also probably has traces of her blood on it. she can probably find it if she looks for it.

2. What leads you to believe the dream is what needs clarification in this case? She got a physical wound when she was instead supposed to be in bed meaning that it is likely that while she was sleeping, something was taken place to her physical body. If you have ever had the dream of going to pee in the bathroom only to find you have physically peed your bed, you would get a better understanding of how the dream machine does its thing.

3. I am afraid your problem goes beyond atheism because your obvious issue is that you have succeeded in deluding yourself into believing, against common sense, that whatever happens to your physical body has something to do with your dreams.

I am not sir, was once like you, thinking everything is all about our physical doing. A stage will come that you will experience a great spiritual manifestation that will put you wrong on your assumptions.

Besides, you need to stop reading some books for real and draw your findings personal encounters or those around you. That is the only where you can get true practical knowledge about univers and spiritual realms.

Let me try your intelligence quotient,

1. what is causation of body and soul?

2. What is right, and what is wrong?

3. Since there is nothing like spiritual realms, then who are those physical beings you dreamt about?

4. What is the thoughts process in biological humans?

5. Lastly, why do humans behaves in certain ways?

I am far from being a spiritual inclined person but that dream hypothesis draw my attention, and I have withness it first hand through dreams.

Kobojunkie:
Stop lying to us thinking you are smart by half. What do you mean by your dreams come true on many occasions?
If in a dream, I lost control of the car eventually crashing it somewhere weirdly, and then days later(reality now) I accidentally crashed my car into a car in front of me, is that to say my dream came true? (This happened to me and I fit smack anyone who claims it means my dream came true. ) 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

If in my dream I had a quarrel with my daughter about the clothes she plans to wear to a party and then days later I quarreled with my daughter instead about the color and tackiness of the car she plans to drive, that is my dream coming true?🤔

Much of what we see and experience in our dreams is sourced from our memories/experiences, thoughts, and emotion buckets. So, some of what we see in dreams may resemble some of what we experienced either in the past or in the future. This nonsense about dreams coming true is usually made up by folks who think it is OK to pretend only that aspect of the dream they have chosen to fixate on should matter. Go back through this thread here to find many examples of such foolishness! 🙄

Ok, what about a dream that someone find herself in a very tick forest and got bite by a wild Dog. She woke up and see the wound oozing out the blood. She live in a core city centre where you won't find bushes, let alone forest.

How would clarify such a dream? Was the person sleep walk upto 5000km from city center, enter the forest and got bite by a wild dog?

The only thing that prevented me from becoming athest is dream hypothesis, which I sometimes experienced personally. That alone make me understand that there is existence of spiritual realm, and by being spiritual in a particular religion, you can actually experience these supernatural influences.

tosinhtml:
Leave all this talk, some people are just pests. They will continue to ask & ask till you run out.

Then blocking is justify in this situation.

sunnymighty:
Reminds me of a junior colleague who left my former place of work before me. I later left too, when we were being owed salaries with no hope. I contacted him when things were so difficult for my family, he blocked me instantly on WhatsApp. Few years later the table turned, life dealt him a fatal blow, he contacted me with another number.........on the contrary I even assisted him and did not bother to remind him of how he maltreated me when I needed his help, but when begging was becoming habitual for him, I ignored, but did not block him make he no think say he don catch maga

Except he has done other good things for you before, you should have reminded him and block him as well. That kind of person will still do the same when they become rich again. How do you want him to learn if you can't reciprocate in the same measure to him.

How can you block someone because he ask you for help. If you say your hands are tight, that you couldn't offer help at that particular time, the person will understand but blocking him is a total lack of respect for the person. A person that don't help you today can still do something good for you tomorrow but blocking the person is totally out of it.

@op, how old are you? Because if you are adult with experience, you won't have any need to create a thread like this.

Women are naturally self centre, they love comforts, and often fight off anything that can take out of that comforts. It is all about protecting their empire and finance. You are their empire and ATM that other person should not have access to.

As a man, except her family members, you don't need to tell a women what you want to do for others.

Single guys wasted alot of money on frivolities withiout knowing.

Unlike singles, low income married men don't necessary buys expensive gifts for their wives, they don't spend to impress their partners, they hardly eat out like singles. Low income married men don't have savings, they eat usually from hand to month.

It is not easy to be a married man in the present economy. If you are a single guy on an average salary structure, and still often broke, then you need to check your spending habits.

Kobojunkie:
It's 2025, can we please stop believing this sheet! You are a human being and so the only thing your dreams can provide you with proof of is the fact that you have a mind and a consciousness!

The woman in the OP is most likely a sleepwalker who maybe tried to boil water or dipped her hand in something hot while sleeping.

But my own dream do come to pass in so many occasions, what do you say about that?

mariovito:
Guys this is very real and true, don't joke about it. I had similar experience.

I slept one night and had a dream that I owned a Pagani sports car.

Lo and behold, I woke up to see a car key in my hand and upon looking through the window I saw the very exact same car parked in front of my house.

While I wont still 100% believe her story but dreams are not just reflection of our daily activities, it reveal alot about future events.

Dream is the only reason that still make me to have strong believe in existence of spiritual realms.

owobokiri:
This one he is always hyping himself steadily these days..
I would have said it is as a result of guilty conscience, but dude does not look like someone with anything called "conscience" to start with...

Some people just want to use him to cause problem between him and present administration. Buhari is well loved my millions of Northerners, so any attempt by government to remind him of his abysmal performance will always counted as direct attack on Northerners.

Tinubu government should be smart enough to know this trick.

GboyegaD:
Rather than propose bills to move the nation forward starting from constitution ammendment, they are thinking of creating more states to add more criminals to power.

The creation of states worsened the economy compared to when we had just regions. It never brought the government closer to the people, it only created opportunity for more criminals.

These are the morons and criminals that are rulling us. Politics as it being practice in Nigeria is too Conservative and devilish, reason we can't have much sensible people in power.

Imagine calling for additional states when we should be looking for ways to eliminate the ones we have. State are the major reason for underdevelopment of this country, until we end states as arms of government, we will keep calling trillions upon trillions of naira as budge with absolute nothing to show for it.

It is much more better to have regional government, under which local government will be the next and final level of government or better still, Federal government and 774 local governments.

princeade86:
So no single European country? Or American country?

See his mouth like European or American countries.

Can we do or make the same sacrifice Europeans and Americans are making to build a modern society where majority of black people can risks their lives to enter?

If you give a black man all the money to build a Rome in his community, he would rather abscond with the money and take it to another man's beautiful land to spend alone. Coursed race!

Absolutely not, give them 5 million naira a month, they will still engage in corruption. An average Nigeria is too greedy to be satisfy, the moment he get that 5m, he will start looking at how to accumulate 20m.

The best way to curb corruption in Africa is to withdraw the power to acquire private property from individuals.

judewrites:
Financial pressure is indeed terrible, but why would a student with no dependant kill himself because of it?

These things aren't ordinary.

I am wondering too, it is much easier for a single man to cope with hardship than a married man. Maybe he was the kind of child that have been spoilt by his father before his demise. What should those children selling wires in traffic do, if you are fortunate to be in higher institution and still can't manage to push ahead for a better days.

Parents, no matter how rich you are, please train your children how to withstand the complex world we live in. Let your children know how to solve their problems by themselves from early stage in life.

If he can defeat a whole president in power, party chairman and other notable key players from the North to emerged as presidential candidate and eventually became a president, it is now that he has almighty federal power that you want to defeat him?

If they don't use PDP, and ignore governors, I wonder where the merger will get keg players to mobilizer voters for them. The people mentioning as possible presidential candidates are not even presentable to start with.

It is quite unfortunate that we may have practically stuck with Tinubu until 2031.

Kobojunkie:
1. This is what I hate the most about people who think it OK to boldly beat one's ignorant chest in arrogance. You are faced with evidence showing that children are not what you claim pure and innocent but equally capable of evil yet you continue to ramble on, for what reason or purpose abeg? 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

2. So good kids are only born by those you mentally classify as good, abi? 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

I think my previous post was very clear and straightforward.

A good kid can inherit it from both parents/grandparents/lineages and immediate environment.

An evil kid can also inherit it from both parents/grandparents/lineages and immediate environment.

Our genetics composition/lineages and immediate environments are the major determinant of our behavioural pattern.

My exact point is that, children are not capable of evil withiout being influenced by the two aforementioned factors. Their minds are pure, null and void from inception. They become whatever that is wrote on that plain mind later in life.

Go and do a little practical research about it (on your kids and those around you).

nedekid:
Same here, you must be under ikedc right?
I use 5k daily ie 22 units on band A ie if I manage it well.
I sorry for business owners right now. The Chinese guys in my office premises I once wrote about that opened a nylon making factory and poached all the workers in the neighbourhood, I hear just laid off half their workers. Hear their monthly electricity bill runs into 30m+.
The event center and mini hotel next door is contemplating shut down as their bill is about 7m.
Imagine a whole UCH Ibadan has not had electricity for 2 months because their bill is over 400m and rising.
Bros, very few business can operate with such high cost of power. Solar is not an option because the cost of setting up solar to run a 30 room hotel will be crazy, not to talk of changing all the ACs to inverter units.
This people are killing the economy gradually.

If you could spent 5k daily on electricity, don't you think is more logical for you to go for like 3kva Solar of around 2.5 millions naira and use just 5k to recharge your metre per month.

Kobojunkie:
One of the most infamous killers in Japan was a 14-year-old who viciously tortured his classmates eventually decapitating one of them. The internet is filled with stories of children who committed the most unspeakable of crimes against their peers, some against their own parents. But here you are pissing down our backs with tales of how children are incapable of malice, and not mature enough to process information or plan murders? 🙄🙄🙄🙄

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_youngest_killers

There are two things that constitutes behavioural pattern in a child;

1. Genetic composition.
2. What a child is expose to in it immediate environment.

A child mind is pure, null and void, it knows nothing other than what it expose to and innate attitude inherited generically. That says, whatever a child does are not independent out of what he inherited or expose to. Their minds are like plain papers, they do whatever you write there or they see from their immediate environments.

A child can't be evil withiout being born by evil parents or grandparents . He can't be evil withiout being expose to evil thought or items.

Peer pressure or poverty do affect a child later in life but his/her foundation before this stage will significantly limit the impact on him/her.