₦airaland Forum

ajog1:
Nah, just an ordeal can stay in a kid's mind. As a parent(especially father), on a rare occasion, try and apologise to your kids for the wrong you did, that they may still remember. Your ego may not permit you to get the feedback from asking them that 'if there's anything wrong I have done based on what I taught you' question.

Lolz, are you married with kids?

Because I don't understand you anymore. You discipline your children out of love to laid a good foundation for them and not out of mere wickedness. Every kid grown up to understand the importance of discipline by their parents, especially when they start seeing the result of that discipline in their lives or when they start having kids too.

The only evil you can do to your kids that may make them not to easily forgive you is by not giving them enough care and education when they truly know you can. Another one is imposition of a particular thing on them, when they've mature enough to know what is good for them.

Only an evil child or bastard would grown up to revenge a mere discipline on their parents.

ajog1:
Nah, you're wrong on this. They are certain experiences that never leave the minds of kids, especially domestic abuse

That is when it perpetual or unusually continues for long

You are wrong, kids don't keep malice, their brains are not mature enough to process and digest informations to arrive at logical conclusion. Kids can lie, can be bitter sometimes, can act on what their parents told them but can never keep malice or being revengeful except they are kept under perpetual abuse.

This particular one is probably being treated with disdain by his mum upto to the time he became a full grown adult.

KnowledgePower7:
That will be considered breaking the freedom of religion act in our constitution.

Christians have no business with Sharia law
Sharia law is only for Muslims

So what is the fuss about??

Southwest must have Sharia, it's a MUST
Because of the population of Muslims in SW is no longer on a minority level.

The SW Muslims have increased significantly in the region. Sharia Law is here to stay.

Let me just assume you are catching cruise, otherwise, I would've said you are just an illiterate battling with primitive mentality. Is this how your mates in other countries are developing their lands?

I don't even expect any well rational thinking individual to be duscussing sharial law in 21st century. Even those that brought this religion to you has already move on to a greater extent in order to build modern Liberal societies.

RaySimran:
You recognizes him as the Head of Islamic supreme council...

You waits for his pronouncement before you undertook any religious obligation...


He now feels you're not getting enough..


That you should actually be kept holy and avoid having your issues resolve by "infidels"...


Why are you now attacking him?
Someone who cares for you?

Make it make sense...

People recognise cultural value than religions values in any given society. Sultan should've known the basic tenets of Yoruba culture/society before supporting such an idea.

Sharia law in SW is a recipe for disaster, no educated person will allow or follow such law here. People are just too Liberal to allow that to happen. They can't operate for 6 months before all the alfas and those involves get killed by even the fellow Muslims. They will eventually cause chaos and serious civil disturbance if government allow that nonsense.

Mercy442:
I'm in my finals ,so I just have this first and second semester left,is there any possibility I can still write a 22

Don't mind those telling you cannot get it, 6' Bs and 2 As from your final 2 semesters is enough for you to achieve 2.5 cgpa.

Who the hell is still prosecuting someone like Sowore that sees joys in attending court case.

That is a pure waste of time.

travelzcruix:
That street will definitely be a haunted street. Man wicked sha. I wonder why it took long for police undercover agents to burst such a place. Our small bar for hood, Olokpa the visit every weekend. According to them, they are doing their job.

They will kill mostly the people that come to lodge there, especially travellers from another states. So it will be very difficult for security agents to know what is going on there withiout being alert of the incidence.

Most hotels are very dangerous to lodge in now.

adaperry25:
Thank you all for your advice. It meant a lot to me.

I prayed over everything and decided to chat my babe up since we have not spoken for 3 days. I did that for 2 reasons:

1. To maintain communication and let her know we aren't enemies

2. To know her mindset and that of her family.

Babe was trying to gaslight me that I'm the cause of everything and I broke her heart and hopes. That I disrespected her mom by arguing on the phone and hanging up. She refused to digest the contents of the argument even when I made her to understand she lied to me and she should make up with her dad's family.

She said she's not begging me to marry her and her family has the right to do the TM anywhere they choose.

I decided to keep mute to avoid escalating the issue.

The wedding plans is finally TERMINATED.

You did what every mature man would've done by asking about her dad relatives, but at the same time, you have no business mending into their affair as family.

Since the purpose of you to have Traditional marriage in the village is for your own people to attend too, you don't have any business with them but to stick to your plan. Whoever they bring forth as father inlaw should be OK by you.

And this my advise to you; be careful of a family headed by a woman who doesn't want to associate with her inlaws in such an important occassion like wedding. She was probably the one caused havoc between her late husband and his family. She is a bitter woman, who was probably the centre of controversy between her late husband and his family. She is a kind of woman that probably don't tolerate any family members around her husband. The implication is that, her daughter will do the same to you 100%.

essentialone:
Never beg money from someone younger than you, no matter what. It is shameful.

Lolz, this one still dey comfortable with many options left.

Just pray you don't find yourself in such situation.

SultanYoung:
What does Javis do?

We are on the brink of losing the ability to train top-tier professionals like Doctors, Dentists, Nuclear Engineers, and Architects. Instead, we might end up with a workforce of mediocrity, where the principle of 'garbage in, garbage out' prevails.

I disagree with you sir, entertainers has their roles to play in society too. Society can't function withiout diversification of life and jobs related aspects.

All citizens can't be Doctors, Engineers or Architects, we needs entertainers too to balance the functionality of the society as it can't function properly withiout them.

Even in more complex or rigid societies like old Greeks or Sparta, entertainment gathered more people than any other sector of social life. So, it is quite understandable that society give them alot of attention than other sectors. Even the professionals you mentioned above can't function well withiout entertainers, they are equally important to society just like any other professional.

Xisnin:
His lawyers must be incompetent.

There is no evidence that a murder took place other than the fact that they conceal
the death after the fact.
The autopsy was inconclusive.

It also doesn't make sense to convict a suspect of murder when they were never present
in the murder scene unless it can be proven they gave instruction for the murder which
the prosecution failed to prove.

I suspect the court being influenced by public sentiments.

No murder weapon or method, suspect not present in murder scene and no concrete motive
and still the court went ahead to convict.

Covering up a death should not attract death sentence.

It is time to change the lawyers.

Lolz, you think all the people around him are daft or can't think like you?

To sentence a man as wealthy and strong as Adedoyin to death, they must have seen undeniable physical evidences against him.

tiswell:
Irresponsible this and that yen yen yen

What do you really understand by being irresponsible?

So two consenting adults making out is now termed irresponsible.

What actually made a man irresponsible is the fact that he is morally bankrupt. Being consented to something doesn't mean you are doing the right thing. Will you be happy if your beloves wife spread her legs for another man in the name of two consenting adults?


It is morally wrong and unlawful to be sleeping with another man's wife that is still marry to him. Since a man cannot be happy seeing someone else sleeping with his wife, then why would he find pleasure in doing the same thing? What value do a man see in a woman who is betraying his fellow man? What would a man gain in destroying another man's home or marriage by sleeping with his wife?

The danger associated with it is much more greater than what you will enjoy from it. Some men won't even say anything, they will just codedly eliminate you and sent the wife packing.

Leo588:
If you look clearly you will see that the couple are not a match in social status. Something was definitely wrong somewhere, as there is no smoke without fire. Meanwhile, the Husband don buy market wey go hunt um till he leaves this world.

There are certain problems the devil lure you into and you wish it was a dream, there you will keep thanking God. This is it kind

See another unreasonable man, they are not match in social status as if you were there when they got married. A man will sacrifice everything for her wife to looks presentable, only for the likes of men like you to start deceiving her that she is not in the same level with someone who pay her dowries and probably brought her out of poverty.

It is your kind that sleep with other people's wives.

hohafrank:
Although not supporting the evil committed or holding brief for him, don't you think that men go through tough times trying to meet family demands, especially family of 8 persons in this case,will make the man look aged and famished.
However the pictures of the woman may be the ones taken years back while that of the man's is the one at the time of arrest?

You get time for those inexperience kids opening their mouths anyhow.

If you check both of them pictures before wedding, you will realise that she got that beauty because of her husband endless provision of comfort for her and her kids. Family oriented men hardly take care of themselves but their wives and children. That is why irresponsible men live longer than men that shows love and care to their families.

It is so unfortunate that this set of adulterous women will still cheat their husbands with these irresponsible men they refuse to marry. Only an irresponsible man with no integrity will be sleeping with another person wife.

Ceenachi:
The husband should be stoned to death by the youth of that area. It's not a police issue

Never pray to be in that shoes, seeing your wife sleeping with another man is most deadly blow to a man psychology. Not every man can handle that situation wisely, and no matter how strong you think you are, you can commit grave error at that particular moment.

While I blame the man for killing her, I blame his wife the most. Cheating by a woman is unacceptable by any standard, it is a serious breach of trust and foolery of one partner. No man will intentionally share his wife with another man, it is much more better to divorce him than sleeping with another man under his roof.

helinues:
Good reforms and policies

Good reforms and policies on paper but can't really be successful in a chronic corrupt system we are operating in Nigeria. The hardship is unbearable among the masses, and what is the point of absorbing a whole nation into severe poverty when all that seem to be the proceeds of that pains still end up in the pocket of greedy politicians. For instance, ever since the removal of fuel subsidy and floating of naira, governors have been receiving huge allocations from its proceed with nothing to show for it. Ministries and government agencies are not left out, but what can we say about their achievements today. What has government done to cut down the cost of governance? What sacrifices have they made to lead by example? Must it be the only masses that should suffer for this necessary but unworkable government policies?

The best gift the old man can give to this country is to return us back to regionalism. He is the only politician alive that can do it, if we lose this chances through Tinubu, Nigeria may remain unworkable until another civil war that will decide our fates break out.

Let return to regionalism or just central government and 774 local governments. States must be totally abolish for Nigeria to move forward.

Trump should have order all US embassy and national carriers not to give visa or allow pregnant women into USA instead of all this unconstitutional declaration that will attract series of criticisms and courts orders.

ObosiLandlord:
I didn't say you say so. I'm just telling you that some people claimed he will be impeached. Fubara will rule Rivers state till 2031.

You people over estimate the power of a governor. Governors are only powerful when they control the ruling party or majority of stake holders in their states. No Governor can get party ticket withiout being on the good book of the same party. Governors are always the Alpha and Omega of his party in the state, but usually powerless if he can't control at least 60% of his party members. Incumbent Governor don't allow party primary, and once that is chosen to determine his fate, just know he is not in charge and 90% sure he may lose.

Ambode lost for the same reason, even if you join another party to contest, where will you see people that can command Thounsands votes to mobilise for you. Obaseki won through PDP because, the party has great structure and people who can command thousands votes for him.

If I were Fubara, I will simply join the APC.

I don't think USA under Trump will have time for that.

Trump has never hide his disdain to America big brother foreign policy, it is just a matter of time that he would cut off all the benefits developing countries are enjoying through USA benevolence practice.

It is only logical for smart leaders from developing countries to align with new blocs that will offer mutual benefits with obvious path to economic cooperations. It is much more better to have big economy like Russia,China and India on-board than 100% dealing with Trump leading USA government that have vows to only focus on internal policies. Asides that, we still have England and other EU countries we can deal with, that mean we still have 4 out of 5 UN veto power and other non permanent UN security Council members on our side.

Enskynelson:
Should it be "among 5k people" you said or among 5k people with previous bow legs?

I meant one among 5000 people, that says, almost all bow legs children become straight at adults. Severe bow legs adults should be one among 200,000 people.

You can start observing yourself.

Enskynelson:
How about the adults we are with bow legs?

They are almost inexistence in numbers as you may not see any adult with obvious bow legs among 5,000 people.

Absolutely yes(100%).

I have seen many like that, infact non of bow legs children I knew during my childhood still have it today.

Godfullsam:
What criteria will they use to share the monthly allocation to the various local governments?

Equally because local governments creation are mostly based on many factors, including the size and population of a state. Reason states do not have equal numbers of local governments.

Dogalmighty17:
But seriously what does Annie even do? See how another woman put her in her place.

Your husband was one of the first people who enjoyed the monetary boom that has entered the nigerian music industry. You didn't think of going to movie academy to improve your self or anything. With the brand name your husband has, a well scripted show could have sold out. Funke Akindele really can't be said to be the best at what she does but she has been consistent at it so she gets results.

It is a thing of shame that the wife of 2face can be asked what she does and she can't even provide an answer. No be to dey waka for hotel upandan dey fight your husband because say him snap with female fans.

If you say Funke Akindele is not really the best in what she do, I wonder who you will qualify as best in the same category.

As for Annie, it is not a must she does what anyone like, some women after marriage prefer to stay low key to perfect their homes. She might prefer to follow another path, which is not visible to the public in order to have a blessed home or marriage. Tell me how many celebrities you know that drag celebrity status with their husbands and still remain blissfully married today. Life is all about choice and our happiness should be at the top of the ladder. It is quite wrong to blame or shame someone for not doing what you like or expect them to do.

louken:
Importance of money can never be overemphasized. Forget what they told you about love. Get enough money and spend it generously on your family and you will have all the love you want

And if a female later come to this forum that she can't marry a broke man, nearly all men here would be calling her various derogation names.

Can we now say that women are smarter than us or what, because many men will hardly believe you, until they get married and become stranded.

Jennyclay:
Why would he have 4 kids when he knows he’s broke and poor

Gone are those when people born as many as possible.

Take care of your wife and have just 1 or 2 kids that you can cater for without stress. Simple!!

Why are you judging him withiout knowing his actual story? What if the man was very rich but lose his wealth along the journey of life?

Besides, you think 1 or 2 kids and wife, making family of 3 or 4 is not stressful in this economy?

Married woman registered on dating site?

You can be rich and be stingy or merciless to the poor but being evil could quickly lead you to an early grave.

Don't toy that path please, pray to be rich and be humble instead.

Modernity is the reason for rate of divorce in Nigeria and Africa at large. It is High time we go back to old way that the parents/relatives would be the ones to find spouse for their children (especially the first one).

Alot of men don't have the wisdom to marry a good woman, imagine a full grown man coming to social media and proudly saying he wanted to wife a known cheater/unfaithful woman.