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Family › Re: Thanks TeHN by yetseyi(f): 2:39pm On Sep 23, 2015

Congratulations, this baby will like sucking, see his mouth so cute cheesy

Thank God.

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Post Entry Level/Industrial Trainee Jobs Here For Those Without Experience by yetseyi(f): 10:39am On Sep 23, 2015*

eremy:
Job: Quality Assurance Officer @ Zamburg Engineering Consult Group

Location: Lagos

Requirements
A degree/HND in Microbiology, Biochemistry, Laboratory Science or any other related course of study
Attention to detail
Communication skills - verbal and written
Data collection, management and analysis

Closing Date21st Oct

Send curriculum vitae and resumes to: careers@zamburgengineering.com.ng using position applied for as subject

Hello eremy since cv and resume are slightly different and they are asking for both kindly advise as a CV reviewer on what to send exactly or is it an error.

Family › Re: Serious Issue: What Do You Think? by yetseyi(f): 5:25am On Sep 23, 2015

prettigurl16, why not mention the country and city you live there might be a Nigerian on NL there who is also looking for a Nigerian wife. You never can tell.

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Family › Re: Is It Mandatory To Pierce The Ear Lobes Of A Newborn Girl? by yetseyi(f): 9:09pm On Sep 22, 2015

whitemosquito:
I've come to realize that we do a lot of things in this country with the 'norm', no specific reason, no logic behind it, just Cos everyone else is doing it. Makes no sense to me.

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Family › Re: Is It Mandatory To Pierce The Ear Lobes Of A Newborn Girl? by yetseyi(f): 1:25pm On Sep 22, 2015

No its not compulsory,you can decide not to pierce. I dont think I will pierce my baby's ear.

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Properties › Re: New Dimension To Nigerian Architecture (construction Of 4 Bedroom Twin Duplex) by yetseyi(f): 8:18am On Sep 21, 2015

Mr skimanski, Very nice work, just viewed the thread from the beginning and I love the osapa twin duplex u completed. Its so so beautiful and that kitchen is ermm my dream kitchen.

I love seeing people doing their jobs with perfection.

I have to work hard ooo. grin

and make some good money. To patronize people like you no be beans ooo.

I just had to appreciate your work sir.

Christianity Etc › Re: The Christian Chatbox ( sticky) by yetseyi(f): 11:59am On Sep 20, 2015

ATMC:
#roll call for those that went to church today. ONLY. Answer if you did.

yes

Christianity Etc › Re: The Christian Chatbox ( sticky) by yetseyi(f): 11:52am On Sep 20, 2015

ihedinobi2:
Yeah, there are many names for it. I think the proper name is "nocturnal tumescence". 'Morning glory' is one euphemism. Another is "morning wood". Etc.

Whenever you can talk about it, press him about his daughter. Whatever the cost to you, that little girl is worth it. Don't abandon her to the rápist lady.

Yakari? What's that, biko?

Okay ooo, funny colloquial names though.

Alright.

loool sorry it was a typo I meant Yankari.

Christianity Etc › Re: The Christian Chatbox ( sticky) by yetseyi(f): 7:04am On Sep 19, 2015

ATMC:
@yetseyi Anger is different from bitterness and unforgiveness.
Anger is an emotion that one should master. If you master anger by mastering it's usual cause then you can 'channel' it properly.
There is no how you can avoid anger, this is because it is a feature of humaneness. If you try to surpress anger, it turns inward and becomes depression.

So, it is very okay to be angry even very angry but then just learn to act proportionately. By this I mean, if you are angry with me for instance for not saying sorry when I offended you, do something you know will relieve the anger without causing you pain. For some people, acting proportionately maybe going to God in prayer, while others may choose to give the person his own medicine to take. None of these is superior. This is because, if one goes to God in prayer and asks God to fight for him or her, he is not better than he who fought head on.

Hmm I concur.

Christianity Etc › Re: The Christian Chatbox ( sticky) by yetseyi(f): 7:03am On Sep 19, 2015

SalC:
*sighs a sigh of relief* Now I can rest in peace How are you and yours dear?

I and mine are good kiss

She is a she kiss

Christianity Etc › Re: The Christian Chatbox ( sticky) by yetseyi(f): 6:37am On Sep 19, 2015

Yes I got it.

Theres a point at which anger stops being a
healthy emotion and becomes a driving force. Like
a drug you need larger and larger doses. Once that
happens you move even further from forgiveness,
because without anger you have no energy at all.

Its what drives hate groups and extremists.

Without bitterness they have no reason to exist

If you take bigotry from the racist, revenge from the
zealot and chauvinism from the sexist,whats left?

Bear with each other and forgive as the Lord has
forgiven you

Bitterness is fatal it kills your soul

Forgiveness is for yourself not for the other
person.

Christianity Etc › Re: The Christian Chatbox ( sticky) by yetseyi(f): 6:32am On Sep 19, 2015

ATMC:
Anger is good when you act proportionately.

Define proportionately? When does anger stop being a healthy emotion and becoming a driving force?

I will go and dig out a small article I once posted here about anger.

Christianity Etc › Re: The Christian Chatbox ( sticky) by yetseyi(f): 6:09am On Sep 19, 2015

ATMC good morning, I dont know the drug oooo. Yeaah I am an early riser.

Well the christain perspective to this whole matter for me is how the guy can just forgive and move on. All the people involved are christains.

Anger is not a healthy emotion, unforgiveness can block ones blessings, you pin the person down in your heart you yourself dont get blessed. He's at the stage of rage. In this case its not even easy to say forgive but as Christian that should be what we should do
(Its quite easy to say that to do anyway)

The simple truth is I would not have posted this in any other thread.

Well yeah still a Christain chatbox.

Morning

ATMC if I catch you ehn

Christianity Etc › Re: The Christian Chatbox ( sticky) by yetseyi(f): 5:59am On Sep 19, 2015

ihedinobi2:
Lol. "Morning glory" is the colloquial name for it. That's part of the trouble with our generation. We have lost a healthy sense of respect for things like sex. There's a reason that old timers spoke of all things relating to sex using metaphors and proverbs.

I agree. You can leave off talking about the kid for now. As for healing, I truly don't see what you can do. I think it is up to him to leave it in the past and move on with his life.

Yes, it was rapè. That was what I was saying.

Loool okay all is well, Wanted to be sure thats what you meant by morning glory, Never actually heard that colloquial name before

Talk ke? I have not even been able to bring up the matter after I was unblocked. I just hope time will heal things, I believe he will accept the baby. She's so beautiful.

How far about Yakari?

Christianity Etc › Re: The Christian Chatbox ( sticky) by yetseyi(f): 9:25pm On Sep 18, 2015

ATMC:
If I were the guy I will soooo marry her. She will practically choose to live in purgatory over my house. Short-sighted shallow thinker she is.

Very shallow, I wonder what will push a lady to do that. I honestly had to look at my friend again and was trying to figure what exactly may have pushed her.

For a lady that fine abeg she has self esteem issues. You gave the guy green light he ignored you and then decided to drug him Na wa ooo. I am still trying to understand what she was thinking.

Christianity Etc › Re: The Christian Chatbox ( sticky) by yetseyi(f): 9:19pm On Sep 18, 2015

Reyginus:
Lol. I just dey pity the guy. If I were him I will accept the baby but on no account will I marry her. No matter what anyone says. That's for my sanity.

Honestly I pity him too. I am just hoping he accepts the baby anyway his parents have accepted the baby.

Christianity Etc › Re: The Christian Chatbox ( sticky) by yetseyi(f): 8:48pm On Sep 18, 2015

ATMC:
That's a long sad story. #exhales **starts laughing **

, very sad indeed

Reyginus:
Eleyi Gidi Gan

It is ga gaan

Christianity Etc › Re: The Christian Chatbox ( sticky) by yetseyi(f): 8:37pm On Sep 18, 2015

ihedinobi2:
Wow. That's quite a story.

Yes, it's possible. Drugs can knock you out and your sexual functions don't need you to be conscious to work. You know about "morning glory"? If a guy can be put into deep enough sleep you could get sex out of him without his conscious consent.

The guy should think about the kid though.

ohooo so a Lady can help herself to it if she can get him unconscious thats very unfair its rape now is it not?
Ewo tun ni morning glory? Early morning erect.n is early morning erect.n

The guy doesn't want to hear anything about the baby at all. I think I am more concerned about his bitterness for now any ideas for healing?

I am of the opinion that any talk about the girl or baby should stop at least till the end of the year. Mentioning them seems to add salt to injury.

And the baby is so beautiful

kiss

ihedinobi2:
Wow. That's quite a story.

Yes, it's possible. Drugs can knock you out and your sexual functions don't need you to be conscious to work. You know about "morning glory"? If a guy can be put into deep enough sleep you could get sex out of him without his conscious consent.

The guy should think about the kid though.

Christianity Etc › Re: The Christian Chatbox ( sticky) by yetseyi(f): 6:13pm On Sep 18, 2015

ihedinobi2:
Permissiveness is the keyword here. When people get away with one thing they tend to wonder what else they can get away with. If the problem was just about sexûal need brothels and prostítutes would do. Permissiveness leads to perversion. In a permissive time and place, having sèx with someone soon gets boring and people start pushing the envelope indulging in twisted fantasies including but not limited to the rapè of minors.

Was your friend a little boy when that happened? Did she drug him or overpower him somehow?

hmmm you may be right

Little boy ke. I am talking of someone in his 20's I dont know his exact age but should not be less than 25

Okay here goes the story. I will try not to give too much details for some reasons.

I received a call from my mum some months back telling me that my friends mum told her that a girl drugged her son and slept with him and that she is pregnant. I couldn't believe it, I even though it was a lie, how is it possible for a drugged man to have s.ex with a lady. I even asked some of my colleagues if it was possible ( I was not home at the time) they all laughed about it and said it was almost impossible. I shrugged off the matter and just felt maybe it was planned by them. I changed my opinion a few weeks ago.

I came back home around July and i was able to hear the full details of what transpired. The story was she liked the bobo ( Fine boy). He was serving in a school where she was on her Teaching practice and had been giving green light to the guy which he totally ignored. So one day like that She invited him over to her room to come do something (note that the secondary school, Her own school, her rented apartment and My friends parents house are all in the same axis) He went and she offered him juice which he drank and that was the last he remembered till he woke up and realized what happened and he ran home late at night and he even got reprimanded by his parents for coming home that late which was unusual of him.

Some months later kasala burst, The girl was pregnant and I guess she tried telling him and the guy said lailai yabbed the babe said all sorts that shes a prostitute etc etc. Somehow her mother was able to get his mum working place and she was told and from what I gathered The mum said my children don't lie I will ask him when I get home, She got home asked him and he reminded her of that day he came home very late and told his mum that he was drugged.

The mother invited the girl and she actually admitted that she did drug him that she loved him and had been trying to get his attention but the guy was not even looking at her side at all. And she kept on saying she loved him bla bla bla. Anyway drugged or no drugged the parents said no problem they accepted responsibility and were even persuading my friend to marry to girl or something in that line sha. He said never that a lady that can go to that extent can even kill someone that he can not when the pressure became much he told them that if they force him he would marry her but make her life very miserable.

I didnt really take the matter that serious not until the mum told us that the baby has arrived and the naming would be done in their house. Now I went , it was just a small parlor stuff and somehow myself and the mum got talking about the matter and she was telling me that my friend doesnt want to listen to anybody on that issue that he has blocked everybody from watsap even his sis too because she told him about the news of the baby and that I should talk to him that he is my friend and he k sees me as a good girl maybe I will be able to convince him to
just congratulate the girl ( Note : he never picked her calls, blocked her from watsap etc etc).

Na so I go pass my boundary oooo, I actually did as if I had not heard about the whole incident all this while because he didn't mention it and he was not even around anyway. So I chatted him up if he was coming home that weekend anyway I brought up the topic and he was like how did i hear blabla bla I just told him I understand all what happened and i think its unfair but theres an innocent baby in the center of all this and he should just congratulate the girl on safe delivery. He said its not his and that sebi thats what she wants, thats her problem he was not even aware that the parents named the baby, he laughed and said they are on their own ooo, said a lot of other things. i cant post screen shot of our conversation here.

All I could deduce was a guy that was hurt and is still hurt, Maybe he was a virgin who knows because the way he spoke to me that day he had never done that before . He ended up blocking me for some hours and then unblocked later.

I still could not believe a guy can be "raped" without some sort of overpowering so i asked a male friend of mine and he said its posssible for a guy to be unconscious and well the lady helps herself and then there can actually be expulsion because the male organ has a "mind of its own" ( whatever that means).

Now my own take: This girl is fine by most standards and my friend seems to be a fine boy too and for whatever reason he didnt find her attractive even when she was showing him the green light because obviously he had a higher standard ( not necessarily in beauty ) possibly in morals but the girl surprised me sha. I was observant enough during the naming to know that truly the story is as it is but why what was she hoping to achieve.

From all indications she did what she was accused off and she admitted it and the most annoying part is that shes still claiming to love him. What sort of love is that huh

This kain mata taya pesin ooo. Its the kind of story one hears and does not believe. I was thinking about the issue and was suprised the parents were like he should just continue with the girl since it has happened.

cry

How can this person even overcome because thats what I am concerned about, he is very very bitter maybe even at the level of rage sad

cc mintayo

Christianity Etc › Re: The Christian Chatbox ( sticky) by yetseyi(f): 5:19pm On Sep 18, 2015

ihedinobi2:
Permissiveness is the keyword here. When people get away with one thing they tend to wonder what else they can get away with. If the problem was just about sexûal need brothels and prostítutes would do. Permissiveness leads to perversion. In a permissive time and place, having sèx with someone soon gets boring and people start pushing the envelope indulging in twisted fantasies including but not limited to the rapè of minors.

Was your friend a little boy when that happened? Did she drug him or overpower him somehow?

hmmm you may be right

Little boy ke. I am talking of someone in his 20's I dont know his exact age but should not be less than 25

Okay here goes the story. I will try not to give too much details for some reasons.

I received a call from my mum early this some months back telling me that my friends mum told her that a girl drugged her son and slept with him and that she is pregnant. I couldn't believe it, I even though it was a lie how is it possible for a drugged man to have s.ex with a lady. I even asked some of my colleagues if it was possible ( I was not home at the time) they all laughed about it and said it was almost impossible. I shrugged off the matter and just felt maybe it was planned by them. I changed my opinion a few weeks ago.

I came back home around July and i was able to hear the full details of what transpired, The story was she liked the bobo ( Fine boy). He was serving in a school where she was on her Teaching practice and had been giving green light to the guy which he totally ignored. So one day like that She invited him over to her room to come do something (note that the secondary school, Her own school, her rented apartment and My friends parents house are all in the same axis) He went and she offered him juice which he drank and that was the last he remembered till he woke up and realized what happened and he ran home late at night and he even got reprimanded by his parents for coming home that late which was unusual of him.

Some months later kasala burst, The babe was pregnant and I guess she tried telling him and the guy said lailai yabbed the babe said all sorts that shes a prostitute etc etc. Somehow her mother was able to get his mum working place and she was told and from what I gathered The mum said my children don't lie i will ask him when I get home, She got home asked him and he reminded her of that day he came home very late and told his mum that he was drugged.

The mother invited the girl and she actually admitted that she did drug him that she loved him and had been trying to get his attention but the guy was not even looking at her side at all. And she kept on saying she loved him bla bla bla. Anyway drugged or no drugged the parents said no problem they accepted responsibility and were even persuading my friend to marry to girl or something in that line sha. He said never that a lady that can go to that extent can even kill someone that he can not when the pressure became much he told them that if they force him he would marry her but make her life very miserable.

I didnt really take the matter that serious not until the mum told us that the baby has arrived and the naming would be done in their house. Now I went , it was just a small parlor stuff and somehow myself and the mum got talking about the matter and she was telling me that my friend doesnt want to listen to anybody on that issue that he has blocked everybody from watsap even his sis too because she told him about the news of the baby and that I should talk to him that he is my friend and he k sees me as a good girl maybe I will be able to convince him to
just congratulate the girl ( Note : he never picked her calls, blocked her from watsap etc etc).

Na so I go pass my boundary oooo, I actually did as if I had not heard about the whole incident all this while because he didn't mention it and he was not even around anyway. So I chatted him up if he was coming home that weekend anyway I brought up the topic and he was like how did i hear blabla bla I just told him I understand all what happened and i think its unfair but theres an innocent baby in the center of all this and he should just congratulate the girl on safe delivery. He said its not his and that sebi thats what she wants, thats her problem he was not even aware that the parents named the baby, he laughed and said they are on their own ooo, said a lot of other things. i cant post screen shot of our conversation here.

All I could deduce was a guy that was hurt and is still hurt, Maybe he was a virgin who knows because the way he spoke to me that day he had never done that before . He ended up blocking me for some hours and then unblocked later.

I still could not believe a guy can be "raped" without some sort of overpowering so i asked a male friend of mine and he said its posssible for a guy to be unconscious and well the lady helps herself and then there can actually be expulsion because the male organ has a "mind of its own" ( whatever that means).

Now my own take: This girl is fine by all standards and my friend seems to be a fine boy too and for whatever reason he didnt find her attractive even when she wz showing him the green light coz obviously he had a higher standard ( not necessarily in beauty ) possibly in morals but the girl suprised me sha. I was observant enough during the naming to know that truly the story is as it is but why what was she hoping to achieve.

From all indications she did what she was accused off and she admitted it and the most annoying part is that shes still claiming to love him. What sort of love is that.

This kain mata taya pesin ooo. Its the kind of story one hears and does not believe. I was thinking about the issue and was suprised the parents were like he should just continue with the girl since it has happened.

cry

How can this person even overcome because thats what I am concerned about, he is very very bitter maybe rage sad

cc mintayo

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Family › Re: I My Wrong by yetseyi(f): 11:14am On Sep 18, 2015

Very wrong.

Christianity Etc › Re: The Christian Chatbox ( sticky) by yetseyi(f): 10:05am On Sep 18, 2015

An0nimus:
Politics section is on whole different level. I visited that place once during the elections and had a headache but I love family section insults and all, it's saner than most sections IMO.

If you want to laugh visit any football club thread in Sports section when they lose a match. Those guys are cray

I wont be surprised about sports section even offline the way guys take club football matters serious is very alarming. People that dont know you exist. Sports is meant to be enjoyed and if your team loses that should be the end but all this people are on a very different level.

Christianity Etc › Re: The Christian Chatbox ( sticky) by yetseyi(f): 9:00am On Sep 18, 2015

An0nimus:
lol on recessive genes. The insults I see on NL are beyond me. it's here I see poetic insults, like some one will be insulting some one else and you just sit down and marvel at the beauty and the ingenuity of the words

Loool ooo poetic Insults chai , I am laughing so hard now. I see that a lot in the family section and I feel disappointed because some of these people have supposedly been married for years. I have given up on politics section for a very long time.

Family › Re: Alligator Killed Inside Our Compound This Evening by yetseyi(f): 8:25am On Sep 18, 2015

cupid4ig:
wow so big

Yes

I think it became so big by eating their chickens, they also ate the Lizard
.

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Christianity Etc › Re: The Christian Chatbox ( sticky) by yetseyi(f): 6:00am On Sep 18, 2015

ATMC:
@yetseyi what movie did the 66 ur old see I think rape is an act that proceeds from a warped mind.

hmmm i feel so tooo just trying to look at the possible causes

Christianity Etc › Re: The Christian Chatbox ( sticky) by yetseyi(f): 5:59am On Sep 18, 2015

ihedinobi2:
Yes, it is very possible. Sexual tension is a very real thing. And we live in perhaps the most permissive times since at least the time of the Greek Empire. These two things add up to rather wild sexual behavior.

Yes, you are right about living in the most permissive times since the Greek empire. So unnecessary arousal can lead to tension which may be doused by just grabbing an innocent person but if thats the case why are there brothels prostitutes etc etc. (I am an advocate of NSBM I am not encouraging patronage of prostitutes) but thinking logically one would assume that would be an easy way out and besides I hear it costs almost nothing to have consensual sex.

Is it that they are warped mentally, If its oyibo now I may understand(I am not a racist or supporter of racism) because of behavioral issues depression etc etc.

I think the genesis of my questions started when a close friend of mine (A guy) was raped by a Lady. I will post the story later in the day because I just keep wondering what she was thinking. And of course she admitted it and gave the flimsiest of excuses She loved/love him . An innocent baby is in between now and the matter is a big one, very big .My friend is hurt seriously hurt. And to think they were not dating sef.

Christianity Etc › Re: The Christian Chatbox ( sticky) by yetseyi(f): 9:07pm On Sep 17, 2015

An0nimus:
The internet helps people be whatever they want, no limitations. To some it helps them fully express themselves. for example, some of the Warriors on NL are very quiet people in real life

hmmm but If someone is so nice offline and displays a nasty attitude online I would easily conclude that He/She has some recessive genes of nastiness that is just looking for the right platform to express itself without being judged for it but then I find it disturbing that people say a lot of nasty stuff online (Though I know some nairalanderscan test the patience of a saint)

Christianity Etc › Re: The Christian Chatbox ( sticky) by yetseyi(f): 9:02pm On Sep 17, 2015

ihedinobi2:
Seyi, long time. Happy new everything. Sorry I was away. I couldn't quite be here for a while. How have you been? What discussion have you brought us today?

Lool at happy new everything. Yeeah I couldnt be here for a long while tooo. I have been good oooo.

Incase you misses my previous post, here is the matter open for discussion .[/quote]Now that it seems the crew is back
I have this question, and this seems to be the
safest place to ask/ post it on nairaland, maybe its
because i feel more at home here

Now we have an alarming high number of rape
cases ( thats even the ones we hear of)
Some people have held this argument that the way
ladies dress nowadays is a contributing factor,
others are of the opinion that even if a lady walk
Unclad it is not an excuse.

I am of the opinion that theres no excuse whatsoever for rape I mean none at all but recently I have been thinking, Is it possible that some of these cases are possibly a secondary effect of 'seeing a half clad lady, movie or whatever it is and then look for a sort of "scapegoat" to cure that arousal. Is there any possibility at all because I cant seem to understand why a 66year old would rape a minor.

I await your responses[/quote]

Christianity Etc › Re: The Christian Chatbox ( sticky) by yetseyi(f): 8:53pm On Sep 17, 2015

An0nimus:
Nne 'her' is still in future tense, doesn't hurt to observe at least

Since we all here lemme ask a question. ..how's your Christian life at the moment?

A. Heavenly
B. Glorious
C. Growing stronger
D. 'I go to church on Sundays'
E. 'We thank the Lord'

I go first...

E

C leaning towards B of recent

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Christianity Etc › Re: The Christian Chatbox ( sticky) by yetseyi(f): 8:14pm On Sep 17, 2015

An0nimus:
hehe NL is NL. Real life is a totally different ball game.

Really So some peeps have online and real personalities ? What happened to being accountable for what you say ( I believe whatever one types can be equated to saying it)

I am of the opinion that your online life should be a reflection of your person , If not totally but at least partially nooow.

Family › Re: Alligator Killed Inside Our Compound This Evening by yetseyi(f): 5:46pm On Sep 17, 2015

Family › Re: Alligator Killed Inside Our Compound This Evening by yetseyi(f): 5:42pm On Sep 17, 2015

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