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Family › Re: Why I Won't Date Another 'male Feminist' by yetseyi(f): 5:30pm On Oct 21, 2015

Shymm3x:
The alpha male doesn't do compromise when it comes to his ordained status and the privileges that come with it. You either take it or leave it lol.

Most chics covet alpha males hence you chics always leaning guys they perceive as "alpha", thus exhibiting their vulnerabilities and they want someone who can take charge and be in control at all times. Even the ones with beta males always covet that alpha figure and that's why they cheat lol.

Initiation is also divine and either of the two parties can always initiate it as long as it is mutual.

*Rolls eyes* what of gamma male lool. I don't think we will agree on this alpha male issue so I will let it drop for now but that doesn't mean I wont bring it up some other time.

Hmm fair enough

Family › Re: This Is My Dilemma Help Me Choose. by yetseyi(f): 1:36pm On Oct 21, 2015

The OP truly loves his wife.

Family › Re: Any Landlord In The House? Please Advice by yetseyi(f): 3:49pm On Oct 20, 2015

HeartRobber:
Thanks, bro

Normally, when I call to remind him, he will not pick the call, and if I use another number to reach him, he will tell me that he don't have any money to give me now, that anytime he gets the money he will send it to me. I'm so angry right now as am typing.

The truth is that I don't need him anymore, I want my property back.

How will I get my property back? Any idea?

I am a sis

He may truly have some financial challenges but evading someone you owe is a no no for me. I would have thought he would call to explain instead of avoiding your number. Whatever the case you need your property.

It really is not fair losing more than a year rent.

You can get your rent first then after some time you can give him quit notice.

You could serve a quit notice but he will be entitled to use some months before he leaves (3 or 6). I don't know if this is applica ble only in Lagos and there still is no possibility he will leave.

You can sue but he can decide not to show up at court and he will still be living on your property while the case lasts.

You can use a bit of force (I dont support this at all) but this is naija and it works perfectly.

Was there no paperwork or a form of agreement he signed as at the time he paid.

Family › Re: Why I Won't Date Another 'male Feminist' by yetseyi(f): 3:28pm On Oct 20, 2015

Shymm3x:
Lol. My definition isn't odd - it's more of a picture that will Mona Lisa look like fake art. Even Picasso wouldn't be able paint a picture better than that.

Alpha male is just a real man who understands the need to always be in-charge as the authority - without antagonising the female, albeit he'll never compromise. The man every woman openly/secretly desire.

Obviously, reciprocating a nice gesture, such as a good massage, is divine.

lool

Did you say never compromise? Everybody has to compromise at one point or the other especially in relationships. So an alpha male NEVER compromises, an alpha male is much more worse than I thought.

ohooo so its divine to reciprocate but its not divine to initiate the massage.

Family › Re: Any Landlord In The House? Please Advice by yetseyi(f): 2:40pm On Oct 20, 2015

Heartrobber He said he will pay when he comes back, Is he out of town?

Does he delay payment normally or is this the first time.

There are a lot of things that can be involved but I am surprised you have to keep calling to remind him, he should be the one calling, apologising and informing you when it will be ready.

One year is a long time. Some tenants do have real challenges and some can be very nasty they can afford but wont pay until you take harsh measures.

Family › Re: Why I Won't Date Another 'male Feminist' by yetseyi(f): 1:50pm On Oct 20, 2015

Shymm3x:
Nice you're oblivious to the concept. It's basically just some babble started by disgruntled white women who were tired of white men selling them into slavery during the medieval times. And it metamorphosed into the art of blaming men for everything wrong with the world. A devilish concept virtuous women ought to stay away from.

Yes, it's against those sentences.

Your definition seems odd though. Just don't let the true feminists have your head.

You skipped the alpha male part.

About your answer I think it depends, there are people who are not feminist that do not care for some of those things you listed.

Wait, did you say massage his back everyday, does she get massaged too?

Family › Re: Why I Won't Date Another 'male Feminist' by yetseyi(f): 12:58pm On Oct 20, 2015

Shymm3x:
Don't tell me you're a feminist, Yetty.

Ijebus don't roll like that. Our women are highly educated and empowered career women...but they still know how to cater to their husbands. They pander to him, cook for him, wash his clothes, and massage his back daily after work. And they're great mums. That's what Ijebu women do.

loool, If I tell you I understand what true feminism is I am lying. There are just too many definitions of feminism to choose from even if one wants to be.

Same way I do not understand the alpha male you keep talking about.

It was an interesting piece anyway , I smiled all through.

I wont comment on your last three sentences else we derail this thread.
Is true feminism against those sentences?

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Family › Re: You Can't Be Smarter Than Your Mother. by yetseyi(f): 11:07am On Oct 20, 2015

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Family › Re: Why I Won't Date Another 'male Feminist' by yetseyi(f): 11:04am On Oct 20, 2015

Loool
"fem-pinion" grin

Family › Re: End of story. by yetseyi(f): 11:04am On Oct 19, 2015

The OP has settled with his lady.

I just wonder why some people cant give ladies benefit of doubt, are ladies that bad?

Na waa

Family › Re: Tips On Saving Your Drowning Marriage As A Woman by yetseyi(f): 10:58am On Oct 18, 2015*

I really do not see any difference in the OP's post and most advices given to women whose marriage is in distress.

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Romance › Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Crazy About Big Butts? by yetseyi(f): 10:36am On Oct 18, 2015

SirShymexx:
I won't deactivate this time - I'll just stop posting.

I'm good...and you.

Okay

I am very good too.

cheesy

Romance › Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Crazy About Big Butts? by yetseyi(f): 2:02pm On Oct 17, 2015

SirShymexx:
I'm coming to look for you cos word on the street is that you have got a big batty.

You ehn your case is something else, I know you.will camp on any thread that has to do with "big batty".

Is it not better to just leave and comeback instead of deactivating and reactivating?
How are you bro?

Romance › Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Crazy About Big Butts? by yetseyi(f): 12:27pm On Oct 17, 2015

SirShymexx:
But I might be gone till November soon.

where are you going?

Family › Re: End of story. by yetseyi(f): 9:02am On Oct 17, 2015*

scantee:
Omg u deserve 6 digits alert, nice observation.

hehehe Abeg let me send my account number cheesy

. I am serious oh

scantee:
Well from all indictions and evidence i have now i presume she is innocent, her mum spoke to me few hours ago and gave me comprehensive explanation of all that happened, she informed the mum about the guy staying in her apartment and the mum happens to know the guy and his family very well, she is actually 4yrs older than the guy,[/b] i learnt her gf friend the guyz elder sis was the one who housed my gal through out her 100L in sch b4 she graduated, my gal knowing surely that i would never support her accommodating a guy tried to pay her gf back her good gesture 2wards her by handling it codedly because she don't know how to tell her gf NO, also i was made to understand that she only slept with the guy jst 4 one night i.e the first day he came, her mum instructed her twins sister to join them the following day till the guy left, since her sis is in the same school but in different hostel.[b]

I am vexing for you. She just tried to avoid you vexing unnecesarily, and what she avoided happened anyway She's decent and she comes from a decent family (going by what you wrote here)[/quote]

scantee:
On the second occasion i believe she is innocent, network was actual bad that day, and she refusing to pick my call was jst to enable me calm down because i can be [/b]hypersenstive @times and when i am, the best option then is to lie low, because if am angry and ur busy justifying ur action i might get mad[b].

@ bolded thank God you know this but honestly I hope you do not give yourself HBP unnecesarily considering you wont be at home for a lot of time with the kind of Job you do. You need to cool down bro you do not need it.

There are times she will be busy and unable to pick your calls when you are at work for genuine reasons will you vex and swim back home to know what she is doing, you need to trust her completely or else HBP angry

its just the truth.

Trust is very essential

scantee:
Thanx Dear i believe she is still the gal i know.[b][/b] Her best gf who has been crushing on me have tried many ways to set her up jst to have evidence to nail her b4 me, bt she never fall for her plans. [b][/b]The gal has confided in me every damm thing i needed to know, believe me i am @ fault, i accused her wrongly, though she gave the room for my suspicion. She has cried her heart out since a.m reading some crazy comments here.

Since your girl is reading this thread please run away from such friend, na wa ooo. Thank God you know you were at fault sha and please try to work on yourself especially on trust issues, you will need it. Lool at crying heart out, is it not nairalanders who believe all girls are cheats, their matter no suprise me again joor. sad

All is well that ends well

Crackhaus

Family › Re: End of story. by yetseyi(f): 5:40pm On Oct 16, 2015

crackhaus:
Your post @bold, is actually the one filled with speculations and probabilities...are you a lawyer?

His post isn't speculation - someone actually slept in the girl's room along with her, someone not related to her... This is not speculation but actuality.
What you should be trying to analyse is the possibility/imposibility that ABSOLUTELY nothing happened between them.

And this is where common sense kicks in...
If you were in his shoes, what will you be thinking?

lool I am not a lawyer but I am not just a one-way thinking person, I look at all the possibilities grin

. If she was with a lover She wont even pick that call. She should have informed him that a brother is coming but that doesn't mean he wont still think as he is thinking anyway. ( I do not support people squatting with the opposite sex she shouldn't have done that at all)

Wait what if this male Post UTME guy is a 16 or 17 year old who she sees as her younger brother by virtue of the fact that he is her friends younger brother. I may not be sure but from what he has been saying about the lady I do not think anything happened. If I am in his shoes I would be thinking what he is thinking but with a bit of balance. He says people vouch for this Lady, not even one negative report at all that is a good signal, waywardness is not that difficult to hide, some one somewhere will see you.

He has no proof at all, If post-UME did not hold during that period then that would have been the deal breaker for me but the way I see it she is still innocent, she goofed a bit which I might accept but nothing to nail her yet.

Patience is a virtue and scantee needs it and if she is truly cheating time will tell.

He seems to be a good guy and he has a good Lady.

@ Scantee I think you need to talk to her, long discussion and explain what you are thinking and note her responses. I just hope you have not been policing her too much in the past. Based on your write up I honestly do not think she is cheating.

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Family › Re: End of story. by yetseyi(f): 2:25pm On Oct 16, 2015

Scantee, This Lady MAY not be cheating you really do not have any proof, She may be wrong to have housed a male admission seeker, she could easily have taken him to a male friend's room or she stays with her girlfriends while he stays in her room. From all what you have said she seems to be a good girl though since you say almost everyone is vouching for her.

If you are going to break up please have concrete evidence, I believe you should have people around her school that could help you investigate, If she is really cheating she cant hide for long its only a matter of time.

Have you considered that she may not have told you about the guy staying for post-UME because she doesn't want you to think this way. Have you considered that she may have been unable to pick your calls at that point. Have you also thought that what if the owner of the windows phone you talked about was just another male classmate/ visitor and she just didnt want you to know to avoid this same scenerio happening.
The message she sent you that if she was with a guy she wouldn't pick your call is right , a lot of smart ladies wouldn't and then she would make up an excuse for you later on which you will buy .
You actually confirmed that there was post-UME during that period so you cannot rule out the possibility of some one staying with her for exam. Network can also go haywire at any point in time so you saying she faked bad network may also be wrong.

I am just trying to make you see that you really do not have anything to hold on to it just speculation.

From your post it seems this is the first time such is happening, You have every right to be suspicious though, I would if I were in your shoes but you just can't conclude.

You talk very highly of this Lady (That is quite rare on nairaland, where a sizeable number of guys think all ladies are whores) So I think you should try to know what really happened. Be very sure there is something going on because if at the end of the day you break up and it is as she said the tables will turn it may will now be a case of her saying you do not trust her, you are insecure etc etc because she too will have had some doubts about your faithfulness at one point or the other (who wouldn't with what we hear about oil workers).

You should put all wedding plans on hold for now and make sure you sort this out. If it is true then you do not need that kind of wife with the kind of Job you have (HBP).

If you are the praying type I will advise you pray too: Spiritual sensitivity plus street smartness is the key to relationship matters.

I pray you make the right decision.

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Family › Re: Video - Newly Wed Begging For Money To Pay Wedding Venue by yetseyi(f): 9:29am On Oct 16, 2015

loool,

Family › Re: Sexualization Of Children: Parents Have Lost It In Parenting by yetseyi(f): 9:12pm On Oct 07, 2015

One of the best posts I have seen here, I agree completely with the OP. There is a reason why children are called children.

Its the fault of the parents (sometimes), a lot of parents make children grow faster than their age because of what they are exposed too dressing, Music videos, movies etc.

I was impressed when I visited a family friend and a lot of their DSTV chanels were passworded. I asked and their mother said its because of the children and since they are the ones watching TV most times it was the proper thing to do. Those children watch what is deemed appropriate for them.

There's a reason why videos are classified into different categories. You see a 6year old child watching a movie rated 18, PG13 etc. You see a 4 year old watching MTV later they ask where she is getting all those dance moves from.

You see small girls and one begins to wonder. Children who look childish now feel inferior because they feel their mates are looking or acting bigger than them.

Some schools are not even helping matters. We really need to get back to the basics.

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Family › Re: My Elder Brother And Sister In The 80s And 2014 by yetseyi(f): 7:36am On Oct 07, 2015

What is wrong with the skirt?
I don't see anything wrong with it

OP the child picture looks cute I like your brother's shorts cheesy

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Travel › Re: Tex Trex by yetseyi(f): 10:43pm On Oct 06, 2015

texanomaly:
Thank you yetseyi. Just aches and pains so far. Going to Doctor today.

Okay, Thank God its not much.

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Travel › Re: Tex Trex by yetseyi(f): 7:54am On Oct 06, 2015

so sorry tex, Hope no injuries?

Family › Re: Help! He Snores by yetseyi(f): 1:46pm On Sep 29, 2015

[quote author=egbedore post=38495771]This is not a pillow controlled snoring as he doesn't use pillow yet he snores like a chain saw![/quote

Chain saw ke loool. I know of a four year old who snores so loud. We had to tell his mum to take him for medical check. It was not funny we were hearing his snores in our rooms from where he and his mum slept.

Family › Re: Guys, Can You Get Married To A Lady From A Broken Home?(separated Or Divorced). by yetseyi(f): 4:27pm On Sep 28, 2015

Shymm3x:
Lol. Now you are making me feel old - I'm forever young. But don't worry I have got ya back like the Verizon man.

Just call my name, I'll be there *MJ's voice*

okay(not that I will get into trouble)

Family › Re: Guys, Can You Get Married To A Lady From A Broken Home?(separated Or Divorced). by yetseyi(f): 3:35pm On Sep 28, 2015

[quote author=Shymm3x post=38465564]Lol. My mum used to say that a lot - I guess that's why she loves me.

I can see a pattern here...are you trying to be my small mum, Auntie Yetty? lipsrsealed

[/quote

small mum ke? From all indications you are the elder bro. So you will defend me from any e-bully wink

Family › Re: Guys, Can You Get Married To A Lady From A Broken Home?(separated Or Divorced). by yetseyi(f): 2:49pm On Sep 28, 2015

Shymm3x:
Loool. I'm just persuasive...shyte, if I don't trouble you, who will, Auntie Yetty?

Now you are no longer a bit troublesome, you are troublesome grin

Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by yetseyi(f): 9:16am On Sep 28, 2015

Na wa this thread has gone through different phases ooo.

Fried plantain is that a house rat or small bush rat

Family › Re: Guys, Can You Get Married To A Lady From A Broken Home?(separated Or Divorced). by yetseyi(f): 8:52am On Sep 28, 2015

Shymm3x:
Yes, you're right, yetty.

You are a bit troublesome tongue

Culture › Re: Ijebuland's Ojude Oba Festival 2015 (pictures) by yetseyi(f): 8:53pm On Sep 27, 2015

Mintayo:

Family › Re: Guys, Can You Get Married To A Lady From A Broken Home?(separated Or Divorced). by yetseyi(f): 8:39pm On Sep 27, 2015

Shymm3x:
True. She'll never visit this forum, anyway.

She's proper Oyinbo and apart from Afrobeats, she doesn't mess with anything naij like that.

But you're right tho.

At least you acknowledged I am right

Family › Re: Guys, Can You Get Married To A Lady From A Broken Home?(separated Or Divorced). by yetseyi(f): 8:29pm On Sep 27, 2015

Shymm3x:
Lol. I know some Yetunde (your namesake) that's arguably one of the most beautiful girls that I've ever seen and her batty is her crazy as well. And her dad is Ijebu. Wanna see her pic?

I saw it there, hence I avoided it. FP is too much attention sometimes

I dont think she will want her pic on a public forum or what do you think?

FP is always too much wahala.

Family › Re: Guys, Can You Get Married To A Lady From A Broken Home?(separated Or Divorced). by yetseyi(f): 7:22pm On Sep 27, 2015

Shymm3x:
Lool.

Yetseyi is shy.

Is Yetseyi = Yetty + Seyi = Yetunde + Seyi ?

iwo lo mo

Shymm3x:
Lool.

Yetseyi is shy.

Is Yetseyi = Yetty + Seyi = Yetunde + Seyi ?

iwo lo mo

Just saw that the thread made FP

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