₦airaland Forum

dagr8: yes...bt what is wrong in coming into lagos just to taste of your wonderful meal

Mintayo: What? That i just finished a plate of pounded Yam?? Don't even know how i am gonna devour this ikokore now cus i just had to lie down...

dagr8: ^^^ make i bath...i dey come

dagr8: @Yetseyi ...where did u say is the address to that ur house

Mintayo: Whatsup with you? Have nt been seen you around,Merry Christmas.
Em...em...send something like this abeg...

Ihedinobi: Person wey de cook rice for me for dis Christmas miss road for Sahara o! I no resemble bird at all. This period I'm a full-fledged carnivore

aMFM, you de madt! I no fit to give up my contratenor o. Le impossicant!

Merry Christmas, Seyi Love. [/b]They've delivered the helo, abi? I'm coming for the mistletoe party tonight [b]

Reyginus: Lol. Let 'us' save your rice for you, yetseyi

idnoble135: Pls, lemme help you save your rice, send only meat instead...
P. S
Merry Christmas. God be with you.

netotse: lol...so people still do stuff like this? I think any lady that respects herself should insist that the bros comes to talk with his own mouth. Being a christian means you have freedom in Christ to be soooo much more, any body that uses Christianity as an excuse to slack is a learner...lol

Ihedinobi: Wahala de.

netotse: lol...so people still do stuff like this? I think any lady that respects herself should insist that the bros comes to talk with his own mouth. Being a christian means you have freedom in Christ to be soooo much more, any body that uses Christianity as an excuse to slack is a learner...lol

bluuu: geez im getting addicted to this thread.

question to all.as a xtian in a relationship (not engagement),is it wrong/sinful( xtian wise) to still go out/hangout with other suitors.if no,is it morally right/justified to do so

Ihedinobi:

The sort of people you asked about need to loosen up. And that's not easy. They are very conscious of temptation. They are also too self-conscious. I should know, I used to be one of the worst, even though women were always my weakness so I wasn't that shy with them. I just did my best to avoid approaching anyone I was attracted to.

As a girl though, if you're interested in one, you should get close and ease into him. Help him relax enough to come out and ask you out.

Ihedinobi: Because of ignorance.

Traditionally, the thinking about Christianity is that it is a mass of taboos, a large heap of "thou shalt not's". That turns men into mice and women into icicles. The instant that that myth is broken, Christian brothers find their tongue and Christian sisters their feminity.

Baby mama: Meanwhile you strung a Christian sister along for 6 solid years ,hinting marriage and never popping the question,wasting her time and making her lose out prospective suitors and in the end parting ways
Hmm
These brothers sef
Y u no marry am by fire

Ihedinobi: I agree. However, even when I felt worried about it, I kept working at it. My concern was that I didn't want to try and change her. But I believed that the fact that we loved each other would help us fit to each other.

We didn't break up because I was worried about our compatibility. At least, not to my knowledge. I just held back from proposing because of it, trying to decide whether it was really possible that we would eventually fit. We broke up because I couldn't take the emotional strain that something I still refer to as 'her games' put me through anymore. I was willing to take the risk and hope that we would grow into each other. But she couldn't stop playing with my heart. And I couldn't take guessing what she was doing and what she wanted anymore. I needed my mental energy to face the work of building my life.

Ihedinobi: The last time we were together, I very nearly proposed to her. She knew, because I mentioned it a bunch of times, that I wanted to marry her, but I never popped the question

PocketEconomist: Women in the house please answer... Do you really take our words for it? Or do you wave it aside. Do our words really get to you, console, and reassure you? Urgent answer please.

dagr8: .....

What doeth thou around dat environ at dis hour?

striktlymi: I don't support any pre-marital consideration that is strictly based on the Religion or Irreligion of an individual. I believe firmly that a lot of folks get it wrong when such consideration is put forth before anything else.


Actually a persons spiritual stand should be put forth before everyother thing for e.g I believe christain ladies @ a first glance should not date with 2 kinds of guys.; A married man and a guy who doeesnt have the same spiritual belief's as yours ( I m nt talking of denomination here, talking about some 1 who is far away from watever you believe in e.g someone who doesnt believe God exist)



The tendency is for the individual to make an error in judgement because instead of seeing the individual for what he or she is, we only see first that he or she is Christian. This can blind us to so many other things that matters, like the kind of person he or she is.



Now based on this above if a married guy is nice has all Good qualities I feel I need I can decide to ignore something as basic as the fact that he is married which is something I believe I should have run away from @ first contact

The question here is: if this Christian fellow turn out to become an Atheist after marriage, what next? Divorce? If this is the case then it means that we are married to what this individual claims to be instead of marrying the person for who he or she is.

Why would a true christain become an atheist??

Don't get me wrong here, it is great to marry someone who is a Christian, if and only if, both of you are right for each other,

I agree with the above

but it is not necessary that the person who is right for you must be a Christian.

^^I disagree

I have a pastor friend who got married last year. This friend got in touch some weeks ago and when I asked him about the wife, the first thing he said was: I AM GETTING A DIVORCE!!!

Is he getting a divorce coz he married a christain