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HBG I m still vexing ahan. U jst show once in a while. And you did not even greet me personally even after telling u indirectly that I missed you.

Thats not fair jooor

hello everyone

I believe HBG knows what is right or wrong.
That is why she is not comfortable with the relationship and it shows to a resonable extent that she still knows what is expected of her as a daughter of the kingdom.

I ve read logicboy and a man frm mars contribution and all I can say is you dont have any problem with it coz that may not be the standard by which you live. HBG knows that there's a required standard and I believe thats why she is bothered.

striktlymi: Yeah, probably! But I have this feeling that the dude is being rejected because he aint Christian. If my hunch is correct then I think it is wrong.

so is anything wrong if he's rejected for marriage on the ground of not being a xtian?

HumbledbYGrace: See your reaction too that's what kept ringing in my head till Tuesday....I want to break it off in a respectable way, any ideas on how to go on about it

Respectable way hmmm, The guy may get hurt.
May be you should tell him the reason why you want to break up. Just tel him you have not been at peace with yourself and that you cannot marry an atheist. Honestly it sounds very harsh because he will be like so u did not know I was an atheist before abi. Just try to tell him in the mildest way possible because there is no easy way to say it

Good morning everybody
Today is Christmas party/carol where i teach.
we would be singing A king is born by Don Moen and Silent Night

aManFromMars:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iFJeaAq5Mv4

Epic Xmas split.

A Man from Mars Is that thing real . Its nice


Merry Christmas everybody ( Its not to early)

HBG I am vexing. U dont come here again why nooow. *frowns*

With regards 2 ur post. Let day break I m coming back.

I think everything has been explained now UJ

jennykadry: Excuse me madam say what? Me I was just minding my own business jejely before CC posted pictures up there. What have I done now is it my fault that CC decided to post the pictures of "hoodlessess"?

Please don't act like you don't like yekini, have you ever turned down a well hydrated off the market stand at attention yekini before? Look at her acting like she wouldn't turn down a nice nsala with snapper fish soup for a sniff of that "ogi" that presents itself at the tip of a yekini after a solid round of WAZOBIA

A grumpy yekini a.k.a weapon of mass destruction leads to a peace-less household. We cannot afford to have a disorganized home so for peace to reign, you gotta worship the yekini you sleep with

Haa Madam JK Please ooo. I am still single. Please don't start teaching us all these things now. Its too vivid a description.

I have been following this thread right from the first post but the set of sentences above ehn leaves me speechless ooo


May I also say thanks to the OP of this thread and the entire family section crew (CC,EFE,great god,OgaNash,my friend Ihe etc etc) for their input. You may not know but people are reading quietly and learning( If not for madam JK I may not have even commented self)

Good evening everyone.

[quote author=uj_sizzle]And there can't be a compromise? What if he's ok with letting you practise your faith? And he's fine with the kids choosing whatever side they want?
I mean it's not like a union is impossible, is it?

Someone like Muskeeto will make a decent spouse, won't he?[/quote]Not impossible but very dangerous coz there are no guarantees.

[quote author=uj_sizzle]Ihe, we're advised to marry our spiritual brethren, but that doesn't mean a marriage outside it won't work right?


Christianity suddenly feels too restrictive in a not so good way.[/quote]hmm
A marriage outside it may work but is that what God want for us as his children. why settle for something less when you can actually have the best. Its during trying times that these things come up. If you have the same stand you can go through the storm together.

Why marry some one you cant pray with

Why marry someone that can not teach your children in the way of the lord

Why marry some one that would drop you in church every Sunday and turn back

There are a lot of why''s involved



I understand that even when you marry a believer there may be no guarantees that things would be as smooth but at least you are on the same side. Sometimes the husband may change and be a believer but there are no guarantees. I believe it a risk, a very dangerous one

POPE II: I don't know you , I mean I don't know if you are strong enough to that, you know he can promise you that he will after the marriage, then doesn't what will you do ? Divorce is a sin , you are going to b stuck with a non Christian . That's why he must embrace Christianity before the marriage

However this does not guaranty that he is going to b a good /practicing Christian, that's why I think it is better to marry someone who was born into it or embraced it without knowing u .

A lot of guys "'follow"' girls to church just to pretend that they are christains after marriage wahala will start, and because the man has authority over you whether he is a believer or not you will have to do what he says. If he says no going to church it stands oooo and the reason why he would say this is because he is not aligned with you spiritually.

I feel Ihedinobi has really explained the matter

[quote author=uj_sizzle]What if he can be pulled to God?[/quote]Oohhk are u re saying you want to pull him to your faith?
If yes most times this method doesnt work oooo, coz its the holy spirit that convicts.

[quote author=uj_sizzle]Why?[/quote]Like Pope said He will derail you from God.
But I personally dont suscribe to falling in love with an unbeliever(If one can help it) because it could be dangerous when emotions are involved.

I believe you should know what he terms as his "God" because whatever governs him will be what governs you and that will be the standard of the home . Can two walk together except they agree.

Mintayo: When did you get the invite? I applied for the same inspector thing too.

Early dis morning.
How u dey?

u3fine: Its like this batch is for Executive Officer cader, I applied for Inspector but my details is not uploaded yet. My inlaw that applied for Executive cader have been invited.

I think I applied for one of the inspectors position ( the one that requires BSc anyfield) and I got the invite

@caller tunes thanks. Some 1 in Ife bought the card 4 me ysterday and when he asked he said they said I have 2 be quick with the supporting docs and everything should arrive before 31st dec. I have student copy transcript I'll submit d@ 1st till d transcript is ready but my school has internal crises. Thanks once again. I'll fill it asap and by monday I'll submit. God bless

ARareGem: Hello, Yestseyi. Kilode? You disappeared. Se wa alright? Reply in English o.

Nothing ooo sis
I am very alright jare
ATMC made me dissapear jooor



@ATMC blanket that has leg nd hand ke?

dagr8: lol...thanks...it was on Friday o

I didn't say i will post na, i said I will give, which implies you will have to wait till i come to Lasgidi so i give in person

How have you been?

You are welcome

If I send something via post is it no longer 'giving'?
So its now in person okay oo I have heared.

I am very good Jare and you?
Where have you been

BTW I always assumed u were in Lasgidi but since we did nt finish the 'lets know our selves better game'

dagr8: lol...thanks...it was on Friday o

I didn't say i will post na, i said I will give, which implies you will have to wait till i come to Lasgidi so i give in person

How have you been?

You are welcome

If I send something via post is it no longer 'giving'?
So its now in person okay oo I have heared.

I am very good Jare and you?
Where have you been

About the mtn aeroplane.
Someone shared a testimony in a popular pentecostal during a national program that she won it. Well she said she thought it wz a scam.
Now I dunno if she wz given the aeroplane or the cash equivalent

pls @ all I need receipe for this soup. I dunno its name but its okra + ugwu leaves that is used. thanks

@all please can I still buy the form and can I send student copy of transcipts coz my former sch seems their Nasu is on strike. Pls I would appreciate a quick response. I intend paying today and its biochemistry Msc thanks

Hello everyone
I have seen different arguements about sister Linda's testimony especially here on NL.

Firstly, this is not the first testimony about hell. There have been other testifiers even before her. Although I think hers and d@ of Evangelist Amure's went viral. I still remember a testimony like 10years ago that talked about all these things.

Just early last year during NYSC I wz in a pentecostal church in Ibadan for a prayer meeting( a very small church) and there wz a warning for a very popular MOG during a word of prophecy by a member and it wz specifically said d@ the mssge shd be passed 2 him. When sister linda mentioned the person again I wz not surprised, In fact after d prayer meeting @ Ibadan then I wz challlenged If this powerful MOG is found wanting what about I d@ have been practising mushroom xtianity.
christainity is a personal race The GO, reverend, priest bishop also wants 2 make heaven as well as every christain.

The fact still remains I dont see anything different with wat she has said and wat has been said in times past. I ve heared it over and over again that jeweries, attachment and sinful and seductive dressing can lead to hell.
Many churches talk about it.


We've heared testimonies of people that were once in d occult and later gave their life to christ talk about these things. We've also heared of how malice, unforgiveness, talking something d@ doesnt belong to u can lead u 2 hell. Is there anytin different from all what she said. May be its because she mentioned churches thats why people are aggrieved, and I also feel the isssue of make up, jeweries and attachement, trousers is another contention.

Honestly I attend a church wia dey dnt allow those things but I wz nt jst convinced d@ my small pin up earring is an issue despite d fact d@ I told U I ve heared of all these testimonies. Until I wz finally convicted I did nt drop them.


I still remember what some 1 posted on the jewelries can take you 2 hell thread. She said her brother said when travelling 2 europe thru the desert, their leader told dem to remove all forms of jeweries on dem coz dose tins attract spirits, and sum1 did not remove her bracelet, when the sand storm came the thing swallowed her and they saw only d bracelet on the floor.

I want to say that God's word is sure and true and like the rich man's and Lazarus story even if I send some 1 from the grave they still will not believe.

Narrow is the way. It is better to live a holy life ,dress like a child of God, drop all forms of jeweries/attachmnent/makeup and make heaven than to miss that place because of ordinary earring or seductive dressing or lies or unforgiveness.

happy birthday dagr8
long life nd prosperity.
*blows kisses* No wonder I had the urge to open the thread.

ermmm I just remembered u said u were going to post d real version of my bday present *grins*

fear of pedestrian bridges
And Im nt scared of heights jst pedestrian bridges. I m always scared while using the bridge.

@simi_lolu1 Pls send d Sam Adeyemi's 'real money' mssge 2 me. yetseyi24k@gmail.com
God bless

@OP I m so sorry about the break up. Try to ammend things with her.

idnoble135: Morning ma'am. How was your night?

very good. Morning everybody. Its a beautiful day

kulyie: well,i understand but you should realise that just as our faces are different,the way people reason too is different. not every lady will think like that and if she has innate insecurity or is beginning to feel inferior,she can easily succumb not minding her background.
Infact,some roomates or course mates will tell her if you cant wear this type of cloth or do this type of hair or use this kind of cloth,you cannot hang out with us because you will be embarassing us and we dont want people to think we are the same with you because your dress looks so cheap

okay

kulyie: I want to believe a 25 year old is not a 13,17 or 19 that doesnt know her left from her right.why dont you give her a little sum of money to start up any buisness of her choice and she should sell her phone to add to the money she has been given.

By the way youre talking like this because youre a man.do you know the enourmous pressure ladies of her age face to be among.they are doing brazillian hair,you did not do with them,they are doing peruvian hair,you didnt do with them,they are doing human hair,you didnt do with them,they are using galaxy tab,you didnt use with them.the other girls will look at you as cheap,razz,local and unsophisticated.she is just being like any regular lady


i remember when i was in the uni too,i will spend all my pocket money to buy clothes just to prove to my course mates,friends etc that i am a big girl up to the extent that i wont have money to eat.its normal.when shes out of school,she wont see all that as a priority.as for advising her,just tell her in a gentle manner that i know its none of my buisness wherever you get the money to do indian hair,lace wig or buy expensive phones but make sure you dont get yourself in school runz because of xyz.ill ather you work to get it and if you know you want to do big girl,you want to buy the latest gadget,call me,ill add to whatever you have

thats what my mom did to me too.when i was in school she begged me to keep away from runz,if you need money,come home,ill give you and if i dont have at that time,ill send it into your account.its like you dont know the temptation these ladies face in school.your roomates will tell you,you know you are comming from a humble background yet you are forming good girl,you better follow that guy,its not as if they write it on the fore head that i just had sex with him.you see them with flashy,expensive everything and you will be wondering what does this good girl, go to fellowship,etc has to offer me.be real,i am just telling you what goes on in the heads of girls in a typical undergraduate setting,pressures etc.then from there you will know how to talk to her calmly

I really dont agreee with the bolded. If your parents cant afford to give you money that covers all that, You should make do with whatever they give you. Her parents are in the village struggling to survive like the OP said and she's living beyond watever they give her which is not good at all. She should not succumb to peer pressure.
The lady is 25 I even expect her to know better also considering the back ground she is coming from.

Pastor Olu T: The word of God confirms our experiences, and not the other way round our experiences confirming the word, for this is where many get it all wrong. This is because the word is authentic, reliable and sure, it keeps us in check that we might not stray, and anything contrary to what was afore written is false and not from God!

And we have the prophetic word confirmed, which you do well to heed as a light that shine in a dark place, until the day dawns and the morning star rises in your hearts; knowing this first, that no prophecy of scripture is of any private interpretation. For prophecy never came by the will of man, but holy men of God spoke as they were moved by the Holy Spirit.

2Peter 1:19-21

Stay blessed and remain rapturable

pastor OLU T this scripture just reminded me of a book I read by Gbile Akanni. i cant remember the title though

hello everyboooddyyy

ID noble I see you

I feel enough has been said on the issue of the trinity.
Is there a book of enoch
any way it is well