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Adakintroy:
Nice one lampard you have my respect even as a gunners. I know with the right players you will do great. Guardoila/klupp no get two head. It's mind over matter.

As for we gunners well I say we want the league.

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The positivity in your analysis is endearing indeed. I enjoyed it.

Super Frankie! Blues all day everyday day..

Yoighaman:
Nice post but this category of guys are learning fast from the Red pillers, that's the reason why they would remain scarce, don't blame them, the bad girls caused it.

Not bad.. afterall learning is a treasure that follows the owner. We learn everyday.

CaSttLe:
Why Ozo is Ozo and not what you want?



Vote Ozo

Sorry lav. Laycon is the man to beat.

Palema007:
Well it's the same with having no feelings for someone. It's selfish to be with someone in the hope of loving them later... What if you don't? If a lady can not reciprocate a guy's love, she should let him go, same goes with men.

Anyway to each his own

It's not the same thing and can never be. If a woman constantly feels disgusted by every man she's not attracted to, then she has a problem she needs to address.

Then it means I'm one in a million. I pride and rate myself as someone whose honesty is second to none. I used to work in Finance. Coupled with my competency, no wonder past employers have a special likeness for me.

Palema007:
My post you quoted was a response to a comment that accuse op of rejecting a guy that once loved her and I ask if her feelings does not matter. Ma, if you find a guy annoying only when you accept to deal with your feelings of disgust and get to know him will you be able to Love him. But if you don't, you can't be crucified for i. That's the point.

To be disgusted by someone is an entirely different serious case. Matter of fact, if you give even the tiniest bit of attention to someone who disgusts you, that's selfish. No need to lead someone on..to a relationship that's hopeless from the outset.

Palema007:
Lol... Yes I've seen this ideology countless time even from Men, but believe me it is the most selfish idea ever. For any relationship to work it takes mutual love, respect and kindness. When it is one sided it becomes a burden to the committed one.

I get your point and have infact lived it when I was younger. I know everything you've written cos I've been there. Yes, it would seem like a burden to be with someone you appear not to love but my dear, these sorts of things is just "mindset".

Your mind will delude you to think you can't love someone because they don't meet certain physical qualities you want in your man. But I'm telling you that you can, we all can so long as the personality is good. You can work on yourself to love someone.

Love itself isn't a feeling, it goes beyond physical attraction. Takes time to grow, Love is a decision. Focus on their strengths and how they love and are committed to you, you'll learn to love and respect them. A wise woman will respect that man that loves her. Respect is an immediate action, unlike love which grows with time.

Palema007:
Are you saying she should have been with someone she felt nothing for because he was in love and dying? Do people who give narratives like yours ever think of the "freedom to make a choice" when a woman is involved?

Now I see why most Men fall in the wrong hands! It is all about your feelings, the woman's feelings doesn't matter, sadly when you lots face the consequences of your ideologies, you come back here to rant and tag women names.

I beg to disagree. Nothing in this life is perfect, so is love. If a woman finds a good man who loves her.. that's all she needs. A good man who loves you will treat you right and will never cheat on you. He would place your needs above his. Loving him back is just a plus, not all that's required. If a woman is wise, she would respect that man with her life and learn to love him too. If she's waiting to find someone to love and who loves her in return, she may wait forever.

Even as you grow older, chances are that your priorities will change cos maturity will set in. By now you're thinking of having a responsible man who's financially stable cos love don't put food on the table. You're thinking about your kids (even though unborn) and how you want them to have a good life. You'd realise that getting a man with marriageable qualities is more important than your feelings.

If you have a man who loves you to the moon.
A man who would have done anything for you.
A proactive go-getter who sees nothing as a problem or challenge.
A man who's ambitious, hardworking and honest, with the highest standards of integrity.
A man who has a provider instinct.
A man who actions his promises.
A man who gives you open access to his phone and declared since you met that you were his wife...pls which kind of "loving him back'' are you looking for again?. Mind you, I've had such a man in the past so I'm not listing these qualities out of the blue.

If a woman is privileged to find this kind of rare specie of a man, she had better husband him. Respect him and love his family and most importantly, learn to love him. After all that's said and done, if you as a woman cannot love this type of God-sent-of-a-man, then you need to check yourself.

Yes. I miss what we would have become now. He was a good man. Still calls me his best friend. Sometimes teases me that I'm his first wife. Lol.

skinny419:
Hot potatoes ke.. oya post ur pix let confirm.

No need. Cos my point is, "I'm not hot".

majamajic:


I laugh when even Nigerians say Ghana is now the giant of Africa

Even most oyibos think Ghana is a state in Nigeria

Hahahahahaha

Sunnymatey:
Beautiful demon

Na wa o. If she's beautiful, then I'm hot potatoes.

C'mon..a sane man wouldn't utter such words, pastor or not. Ibieyome was def under the influence of drugs on that day.

Vyzz:




Tacha comes to mind...


Is either the nigga is real...


Or he wants to clout chase on her head...


Or he wants to chop what waya has been eating in exchange...

But this girl fyn die...

She is the fynness for the house comot sentiment

I fail to see how this girl is beautiful, I don't know why. Everyone keeps swearing by her beauty but honestly, I don't see it. In the picture posted above, she appears to be beautiful though..but on TV she isn't...(well to me). I prefer Lilo or even Nengi. I'd pass her over for Tacha and Ceece even.

Fake list. Social media things.

Zzor:
Dont do it ooo, never involve yourself in such without informing your parents,im very sure they are hiding more from you now till you are fully in. It will not pass Delta State,that state and fetish things are like 5$6.Tell us the state and tribe,dont be afraid of anybody here,its a faceless forum and if they insult you,i will reply them on your behalf

Lol you're very funny and you seem to be well informed.

Her husband is so handsome.

optimusprime2:
Hey I couldn't just ignore this post...
At first I wanted to be blunt and straight out savage in my response, but it ocured to me that your post was honest and sincere meaning you are not aware of certain realities that exist outside of Nigeria, especially outside African territory, so I decided to be very detailed in breaking down certain things for your understanding ...


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I hope you know this analysis of yours is worthy of being a headline topic on its own. It's so good that I screenshot and saved, just in case I need to educate someone in future.

royalfly:
I feel like insulting you but no need. When u marry do your own like that.

Omg..are you for real? Too funny..too savage... hahahaha. The satisfaction it gives me to know there are still good and real men out there.

SirMichael1:
I don't need anyone to condemn my wife, the mother of my kids. I just need insight on how to get her to do it.

You can't get her to do it. What's wrong with you men atimes? You think women only belong in the kitchen?

And who told you you don't have a choice on whether to host or not? Must you live a fake life for church?

When your wife got married to you, she may have signed up for a lifetime of cooking and cleaning for her family, yes, but never for the whole village.

Oga pls, contract the job to a caterer. If madam says she wouldn't do it, try to be empathetic towards her feelings.

Some men can be insensitive atimes esp entitled husbands..like really?

Laycon for the mulla. Lol.

lekki1444:
Jiji is nice ooo. Because the people will come to your house or meet you in a safe place of your choice and you will not be in an hostile environment. I bought my Generator and Car navigation system from Jiji and No problems at all. they are working perfectly and have been for close to one year now. Just do not agree to meet someone in a private place.always meet up at the parking lot of shoprite etc. But you cant beat GAME and KONGA and JUMIA for 100 percent safety and guarantee

Alright but I prefer dealing with companies to private individuals just to avoid sob stories. Trading in open markets is not worth the risk esp when you're acquiring assets. Btw, I was a regular in Alaba when I was in school. I'd go there to buy CDs lol.

lekki1444:
una get mind sha. i avoid all markets. i get my electronics from jumia or konga or jiji or GAME

Me too. But will never patronise Jiji.

T.H.E in its latest ranking placed the Lagos State University among World Universities ranked in the 501-600 bracket, second only to the University of Ibadan, which was ranked in the 401-500 bracket.

Other Nigerian universities, ranked are University of Lagos (601-800), Covenant University (801-1000), the University of Nigeria Nsukka (1000+) and Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-Ife (1001+).[/b]

https://www.vanguardngr.com/2020/09/times-higher-education-rank-ui-first-lasu-second-in-nigeria/

HigherEd:
UI resoundly beat Covenant University this year. That is sad!

CU management has explaining to do. How can a school 40% on strike be beating you like this.

And LASU is second after U. I in Nigeria.

Kelvin30286063:
It doesn't happen to me. I have never had a feeling of disdain and resentment towards my wife after sex. Infact I get to love her more. We cuddle and talk before I sleep off. Most times I sleep off, sometimes I go back to what I was doing before while she either fix food cuz she knows I'll be hungry when I wake up or she sleeps too. No disdain, not even close. I think the reason why most men feel this is because they don't actually love the person they are making love too. They probably mistake love for obsession or infatuation. Don't generalize. We don't all feel that way.

Do you have a stressful job? Pls be honest. I'm wondering... perhaps if you had a stressful job that drains you out, you'd doze right off to sleep immediately after sex or before she comes out of the bathroom.

joshteefied1:
I can literally sing all songs from sound of music, sister's act, and Sarafina.

These were movies for morals, ethics, and doing the right things. Messages were mostly about Freedom, Family, Love, Winning etc.


But its a different world today.

Anyway, my children will have a taste of what I had why growing up.

Yes. It's a privilege that must be passed on to them

angelfallz:
Wow. Why Hotel Rwanda, i don't think it's a kid friendly movie i haven't watched it, though i have heard about it)
The movies in your list that i have watched are:
Baby's day out
Problem Child 1 & 2
Sound of Music
Sisters Act(Its been really long, i only remember that Whoopi Goldberg was in it)

I also intend my kids to watch friendly cartoons like
Lion king
Anastasia

No it isn't, like Sometimes in April, but there are lessons to learn.

angelfallz:
Home Alone is my best Christmas film of all time. I always try to re-watch it every Christmas.

My kids will watch every movie I enjoyed watching while growing up.

Home Alone
Problem Child
Matilda
Baby's Day Out.
Honey, I blew up the kid
Honey I shrunk the kid
It takes two
Sound of Music
Sisters Act
Sarafina
Hotel Rwanda
Sometimes in April

Stallion93:
Bride price, i paid 800k plus for the kindred 500k that amounted to 1.3mila. E pain me wela but life goes on

Hahahaha igbo people. Yorubas don't tax like this. Some don't even accept bride price.