₦airaland Forum

Reasonable4me:
Anything that suits your narrative and makes you feel well. I just pray one day we'll wake up and people who think in such manner would be no more.

Keep accepting that we are divided okay? It's all good. But I say this with every fiber in me, you are a progenitor of that division and hate too.

Add this to the cruise

I see Reasonable in your profile but it seems it otherwise. Nobody needs to tell me that we are divided, we all have eyes and ears. we all know what is going on in Nigeria.
so alaye no carry your bad energy near my side, if you get pics post, if you no get pics carry your divided shit go another side.

Reasonable4me:
The division in this country is very massive.

I hope you satisfy your craving and may God help you compete with members of your family for achievements and mockery with much vawulence.

Oya say Amen

One thing i learnt on Nairaland is; No matter how they preach one Nigeria to you, the truth is we are divided along our ethnic line. but the thread is just to see beautiful pics of Cities in Southwest and southeast.
People also say there is no place in Southwest apart from Lagos that is more beautiful than any southeastern city, so lets engage and see. no be war na, it just for cruise

Omoluabi's please post pictures of beautiful places in Southwest. My Igbo brothers too should provide pictures of beautiful cities in Southeast.
Let's see the region that houses the most beautiful cities between southwest and southeast.
Note: Vawulence is allowed. You can also post pictures of slums present in both region.

Zorn:
I really don't know what you mean by igbos dragging territorial boundaries with yoruba's , to even make matters worse you said igbos didn't sale land for you when you wanted to buy land in Igbo land which I can categorically say it's a fat lie. Talking about igbos building hate for them selves , can tell you that igbos were never loved by you or any of your kin , I can make exception for a few . Here is my question about igbos dragging boundary with Yoruba's . How and where did the igbos drag land with the yoruba's? What do you mean by you're accommodating igbos in Yoruba land , are igbos in Lagos or any other western states living rent free ? Do you even understand that they have as much right as you do to stay anywhere in Nigeria ? Saying you're accommodating the igbos alone it's hate . Contrary to the your believe that yoruba's are not in Igbo land or don't have properties , their are thousands of your people in Igbo land and nobody ever mentioned that they were being accommodated in their country. Sometimes I wonder what the average Igbo man in the west go through on daily with the level of hate shown towards on here. The funny part is that the people violating your territorial integrity is not getting the kind of backlash the igbos are getting for just busting the IGR of your states

You talk as if you are not smart. Have you ever seen any Yoruba man in the East, claiming Anambra or Imo as a no man's land. The Hausas also help in developing Lagos but they do not claim territorial power.
I believe it because you don't reside in Lagos because those Igbo in Lagos believe Lagos is not a yoruba state because it is for all of us. That was how territorial battle started in Plateau, now the indigenous peopls are living in fear on their land.
i have neva seen a Yoruba argue in other state, we are always friendly with our host, respect them as the rightful owners of the land and i believe everyone shud respect us in our lands too

obynzo:
Una no get conscience honestly. Because of the bread crumbs they give you to launder someone's image you are talking like this. This was the same thing you said about Buhari and look at where we are as a country, now all of a sudden you have selective amnesia and you are now Marketing another sick man. you are using Biden as an example forgetting that Americans are unhappy with his leadership he has not been forgiven for the shoddy handling of the Afghan withdrawal and the economy is not faring well either gas prices were going through the roof even before the Russia-Ukraine war. So bros watch the kind of comparisons you make.

That's a lie, American citizens are happy of their withdrawal in Afghanistan, because it is just a complete waste of their resources even Trump was going to pull the soldiers out, he was the one that started the move.
crumbs or not, You can't necessarily compare Tinubu to Obi when it comes to governance and their is no assurance of good governance form all the candidates, we are all just gambling.
If we are sincere with ourselves, everyone knows that Peter Obi does not have any Knowledge on national politics, no geopolitical influence, no connections, not a technocrat but i know that he his not as bad as other politicians.
Do you know how wide, Tinibu and Atiku political web is, if not for their serial corruption and how Buhari performed, Peter obi wouldn't even be in the same sentence with Tinubu because Tinubu as produced politicians greater and better than Peter Obi in governance.
If you like, Label me as someone that is been paid but we all know the truth, if we want good governance we shouldn't consider age, we should be interested in their cognitive, intellectual and governing ability. And as i have said before, is not your hand or your leg that will make you a good president, it is your brain and the group of intellectual cabinets that you have.

boldtruthalways:
You are a disgrace for asking Nigerians to vote a man his hand is shaking everywhere as President. Do you like suffering so much? Are you not tired of hardship and destruction of Nigeria by these evil politician's? Wake up.

Wahala for Nigerians. Leadership is not by age abeg and his hands are shaking does not mean he can't perform as president. We need his brains not his shaking leg or feet.
I understand that many are tired of PDP and Apc but you can't use shaking hands to conclude that he will be a bad president.
i watch Biden rant on different occassions sometimes he even forget his subject of contemplation. he almost fell from the staircase and with all this he his the president of the biggest country in the world. The people of America only need is intellectual and cognitive abilities

The people of South Eastern part of Nigeria are intellectual and business oriented individuals. Despite their smartness and brilliance, theg appear to be behind when it comes to politics. For the past 22yrs, they have been sidelined by other regions in Nigeria especially the North and the south western part.
Political parties have also refused to allow the Igbo tribe to be their flag bearers in presidential elections. which makes us wonder why are they been sidelined? what exactly have they done wrong? How can they tackle this problem? Are they still suffering from the aftermath of the civil wars? These questions pesters our mid with long and lasting answers. i hope this article provides the answers to these questions.
1. Hate
The Igbo people are generally good people with good heart but the civil war messed up their lives. After the civil war, they became so cold towards other tribe and they have refuse to let of go of their past.
It is very obvious that the country is not going to split and there won't be any Biafran nation, so i guess it is in their best interest to let go of any hatred they have for other tribe.
They should allow the past be the past and plan for their future. I also notice their hatred for some individuals especially politician from Southwest and Northeast and i have to say it isn't an ideal option to hate on anyone because there are no good politician in Nigeria.
They have to know that you can advertise your preferred choice without abusing another region. They are also fond of demarketing other candidates by lying and saying bad things about them, even going as far as wishing them death, these things contribute to the problem they are facing now.
There are ways to demarket Tinubu and Atiku without cursing, You just have to look for their flaws and make people see the reason why their candidate is the best chance for any change in Nigeria's fortune.
2. Blaming others for their misfortune
This is very true especially with what have seen on Nairaland. Igbo tribe blame others for their mistakes.
From blaming the Yoruba people for betraying south in 2015 to blaming Tinubu for bringing Buhari and Fulani for insecurities.
we have to admit that all of us are respensible for the problems, we are facing now... We have to take responsibility and find a common ground for effective change.
Tinubu endorsing Buhari is a gamble that didn't pay off and some of us voted for him because we believed he could fight corruption not because Tinubu endorsed him and is not as if we are sure that Goodluck would have performed well also.
From the recently conducted presidential primaries, Igbo blame Apc and PDP for not zoning the presidential ticket to their region but they refuse to blame their politicians that couldn't step down or support Obi in PDP. you can see how many Yoruba elders comdemn Osibanjo actions and how may of them stepped down for Tinubu.
The same goes for Atiku, the Northerners supported him because they felt like he his one of them and i have to say before any region supports another region, they have to see that 70% of your tribe's biggest politicians are backing you.
It is disheartening to know that above 200 delegates from southeast was present in PDP primaries but only 20 or so voted their fellow brothers(Anyim). There was Akpabio stepping down for Tinubu when his brother Umahi was contesting and Kalu supporting Lawan when his brothers was contesting.
i believe, Igbo politicians can do more in helping their fellow tribesmen attain greater heights in politics, Just like many northerners supported Atiku and southerners supported Tinubu.
3. Not trying to build bridges
Sadly, most Nigerians don't trust the Igbo tribe because of their hate towards them. The hatred as strained the peaceful relationship between Southeast and other region.
I believe they need to start building bridges with other tribes so they can achieve their presidential goals.
I also believe they are been ignored, which is not right but they shouldn't blame other regions because their politicians have refused to do put their house in order.
Their is no poitical party that we hand over it ticket to someone who doesn't have any chance of winning the election.

oyatainer:
You lied, Guardiola used Clichy, Sagana, Zabaleta, Kompany and Otamendi in his first season. He won ten straight matches but they dropped along the way. Even Kompany and Otamendi were used to win two premier league.

Guardiola met a winning team how? Did Mourinho not meet winning team in his second spell at Chelsea?

Tell me how else you want the board to back him after he went for players with no potential.

Who demanded for Matic, Pogba, Lukaku, Fred, Sanchez, Bailey, Linderlof and others. How much do you expect United to spend again for a coach that was just sacked and exhibited the same archaic pattern?

Even Guardiola that u claimed changed everything didn't get more than that. He used Silva, Otamendi, De Brune, Sterling, Kompany, Fernadinho for years before he released them.

Take it or leave it, Man United backed Mourinho until his pattern of play could no longer convince the board and the legends. Had it been United kept on competing as he was spending, Mourinho will still be there till now. Imagine United in 9th on the log more than half of the season.

You seems to be forgetting something. Mourinho won the league with Chelsea in his second stint. Was sacked bcus Hazard and some key players never turned up for him because of the lady doctor incidence.
Mourinho never wanted Fred, you can read about the transfer and as for Pogba, we all know the story unless you are not a football fan. The board signed Pogba, not that Mourinho was against him but there was nothing he would have done and Pogba was ontop of the world then.
Man United is a shitty team when it comes to recruiting players and they don't give the manager complete control over the affairs of the team. Reasons why Gaurdiola and Klopp succeed is because they have the complete control of their squad without external influences like former players, board or ex-managers.
Gaurdiola can discard any player without consequence. He may decide today that he want to sell de bruyne and the board will back him for it. Man United coaches after Ferguson never had that kind of liberty. They are constantly in the media, criticism here and there, they talk about style of play all the time. so it really hard to succeed under these type of condition.
Gaurdiola rejected Man United bcus he knows the danger. if not Man United is as rich as Man City and even bigger why didn't he take the job but he knew he won't have complete control. Imagine if it Man United that Gaurdiola lost the final and semi final in the Champions League due to his overthinking, the media would have fried him.
Mourinho taking up that united job was a big mistake and i know that he knows it now. He his an arrogant person who can't allow them dictate for him and to even clear things up, it is only in Man United that Mourinho signed useless players. Throughout his career, he never really signed big players except from Man United and all of them flopped so this is to tell you that Man United is their own problem not coach. Why did you think Ten Hag negotiated a good deal bcus he now understand better and i can tell you, if Mourinho or former coaches were to return to Man United they will negotiate better terms and overall control of their affairs to.

anonymous1759:
Goan eat your piece of bread in piece . I don’t hate America all I want is a balanced world .
When Africa will be ready to liberate herself from poverty and corruption that’s when you’ll know the true pioneers of corruption that’s when you’ll know anything that’s NON western is Evil. Carry on to wallow in your slave mentality.

I have seen people blame America for their backward mentality, how is it America's fault that you have an incompetent president. if we trade in our currencies, how do u suggest we do exchange and international transaction. Like the guy you quoted America is a blessing to the whole world. I know perfectly well that most people that hate America are muslim and i can't wrap my heads around why you hate them thatt much.
The world need someone who can stand as a judge or at least a country that can checkmate other power if not one day one country in Europe or Asia will just wake up and annexed Nigeria without repercussions.
Am not saying America is a saint oh, they are evil too but you have to know that to stay as the world power you have to do some inhuman stuff bcus even Dangote to stay as the richest black man, monopolize Nigerian market and doing so destroyed many business.

RolexOfGeneva:
What is a tweet?
A tweet is an entry posted on micro blogging service, Twitter.
Tweeting is the act of posting an entry on TWITTER, not Facebook, not 2go, not Snapchat, not Instagram.
Stop defending ignorantly because of 30k stipend.

Nairalanders self.
you defined Tweet, then fail to acknowledge the fact that Twit is actually an English word. Tweet no dey dictionary before self, it was after the invention of Twitter that it came into existence.
Also Twitter was coined from the word twit which means to banter with humour. so it is safe to say we Twit on all social media platform.
The only thing that isn't sure is if Tinubu meant Tweeting or Twitting. Since both words are pronounced the same, no one can conclude maybe it is a Grammatical blunder.
So we just assume he said Twit instead of tweet since that is the only word that fits into his statement.
Please guys let not turn this one to another Tribal stuff or political banter. This is just an educative stuff bcus not many people knew the word Twit existed even i had to make research before concluding

Realguyman1:
I nor understand this one wey u come dey bring easterners come my mention o. I nor be Igbo person, neither do I have any relative from east or any relative even living in the east. So u guys should stop all this tribal hatred and focus on we all as Nigerians. because if Tinubu becomes president today, he will not only be the president of Lagos or South western Nigeria, but the entire Nigeria. So all Nigerians have their right to say what dey think about him. I nor come know where easterners come follow come enter the matter. Tinubu can become the president of Nigeria, which I don't care(because I'm not a supporter of any Nigeria politicians except only the late Yaradua). But saying he is the one behind what Lagos is today, is a big lie. And for the calabar u make mention of; calabar is one of the most beautiful cities in Nigeria today, thanks to it being the capital then, even though calabar was not opportune to meet modern development like Lagos.

Thanks for your mature comment and pls am not a tribalistic person and i don't like Tinubu at all but i feel like my Ibo brothers just hate someone so much, they even go extra miles to pull him down. it a bit unfair to me as a human and also a father.
Please try and read about Tinubu administration as the Governor of Lagos state, after Pa Jakande laid the foundation, Tinubu set the groundwork going despite the challenges he faced from Obasanjo. i will employ you to read about Tinubu's legacy in Lagos.
If you mention Lagos without acknowledging Tinubu's work then you are hating because he tried even as a political godfather, his candidates have so far tried their best.
Calabar is very beautiful but it wasn't bcus of it's capital status, it is because of the location, Urban lifestyle and the Tourist attraction. even before the capital status, Calabar was one of the finest and some of their past governors also tried their best na only this latest governor be scam. So let give honour to whom honour is due, at least seen 1990, Lagos is not the capital and we can all see that if not for over crowding and Tinubu stupid gangs(Agberos) Lagos has truly improved.

Realguyman1:
Though I have nothing against Tinubu or anyone who want to contest for the presidential sit o(because I don't like any Nigeria politicians except only Yaradua), but u guys should stop saying Tinubu is behind what Lagos is today. Lagos was then former capital of Nigeria for so many years that even welcome the first and second Republic of Nigeria. Just like Abuja of today, most of the things u see in Lagos Island and it mainland environs today, was done by then federal government who occupied then Lagos Ireland and it mainland environs. So u guys should stop saying Tinubu is behind what Lagos is today, because if na Tinubu make Lagos wetin e be today, then places like Ojota down to Ikorodu area, Mile 2 to Ojo area, Ajegunle, Bariga, Badagery and other dirty environs in Lagos mainland for also dey like Lagos Island.

Ibo people really hate any other people progress as far as it isn't your state. Tinubu is one of the past governor of Lagos and set the groundwork for the developmental phase of Lagos. irrespective of how bad of an individual he his, he should be praised for that.
pls stop saying Lagos is a capital and all those shit, Calabar was once a capital too and we haven't seen mych improvement. Lagos was a commercial city, before and after becoming a capital. nobody disputes the fact that becoming the capital helped Lagos in improving but we also have to give credit to past and present Lagos governors for stealing with conscience aand trying to put up something for the public. The continuity in Lagosis great. This Nairaland is full of East people who hate progress, you people need to embrace good things so it will come to you, u don't need to hate all the time bcus it won't help you grow

bakar007:
Let me tell you something you refused to see , yes because of sentiments we don't to see reasons why the Palestinians do what they do , can you be in enslavement and be Quiet?
It wasn't the Muslims that killed the Jews over time in history but rather Christians when they ran from Europe back to the middle east , infact the Palestinians accepted them with open arms until the west(Brits) set the pace for conflicts. No one would naturally accept anyone buying land from them to then pronounced an independent country from that territory.

Good that has happened which led to the war and Isreal got more and more territories from it. The UN settled these issue with a two state solution yet Isreal refused to implement because they little by little hope to faze out Palestine leaving just Gaza , bro that's pure evil even the west that's been backing Isreal can no longer do cause their mind is no longer at peace with what Isreal has been doing over time.

Am a Christian ,I won't deceive myself , as clearly this isn't about religion ,it a superior power trying to colonise and faze out the weak. The Jews doesn't recognise Christ in any way so why should I fool myself to support their course over religious sentiments Same Isreal is backing azerbaijan( Muslim country) against armenias ( Christian country) when both did similar actions . Yet we have Iran supporting Armenia over Azerbaijan ,bro the middle is about influence ,power and politics not about religion.
Let's put these into perspective and speak the truth for ones.

Nice piece of information but what you have to understand is that according to history there was no recognized Palestine state, they had no currency nor map or capital. The place was a British mandate state and the Palestinian there where settlers who settled there. After the holocaust, the Jews where badly treated and fled throughout Europe, then Germany and US proposed tha land as a place of settlements for the displaced Jews who where stripped of their home by Christians, Pagans and most importantly Germany.
What i want you to know is that the land was not Palestinian nor Jews, it was a British mandate state won during the war so they have to stop deceiving themselves, i read from history books and to be fair i even tried to read from other Arab news outlet apart from Wikipedia but i never saw any where Palestine was mentioned as a recognized country. i only saw Jordan.

GooodHardDick:
Comrade.

They must be high on drugs. Ignore them. That's exactly how people who haven't been out of Nigeria reason. Nigeria can't even be compared to Accra, let alone a whole Johannesburg

Why do you people just hate any progress made in Nigeria. Even Ghanaian will be hoping they have a state like Lagos. most of the slum in Lagos are caused by overcrowding and street market (Hustle). Lagos is on the right track as far as am concern, they are trying to enlarge the roads, create other transport means but most of you just abuse.
London, LA, Johannesburg and other big cities has been existing before Lagos and most does not even host this type of population so lets appreciate the effort of Lagos govt.
imagine comparing Lagos to Ghana or Abidjan, even Ghanaian knows Lagos is a big hub and they will love to have Lagos as their own. i repeat lets appreciate what we have and pray we get to the status of London, Dubai and co very soon.
futhermore, i see many mention Agege down to Fagba and Obawole please i need to correct this rubbish impression. Agege down to Obawole is no more a slum but a moderate town with hope of investments

tegrianonigltd:
Beautiful??, abeg make them show iyana paja, obawole, coconut, ojora badia, Alakija, fagba, ajah, Sangotedo, awoyaya, ojodu,


Una Dey craze, like no be lagos I just commot from enter abroad back, Una Dey mad

Are u okay, Did u just mention Fagba and Obawole bcus that is where my family house is. Fagba is now developed and there is a proposed overhead bridge that will make it world class. Obawole too is now develop so many old house as been brought down and reconstructed. Also their his Kay-Farm estate with big people so the roads to the place from Fagba is now neat so Alaye calm down

Kajaard:
Boldfaced in RED: they are your brothers as well, Lol , You should be used to them by now, nothing you say will make them change their mindset. I hardly argue with folks here anymore because it's tiring.

Boldfaced in BLUE: that dude serving 3 life sentences in the US deserves it. I hope you know he committed the same crime in Japan before running away to the US where he did it again and got the 3 life sentences. These sickos never change.

Cheers

Maybe the person committed a more serious case nobody is perfect how i wish some of you where in my shoes and see how it is hard to deal with seduction. Anyways, Thanks for your concern, the problem as been solved quietly and it is not about changing anyone mindset, am not the type that won't acknowledge a wrong but i believe i couldn't predict if she like rough sex cus there are some girls that will tell you stop but they actually want you to continue when i saw her face i just let go without penetrating her but when we saw today she apologized and told me i was not a bad boy which means she wants me to continue but i stopped. So you see girls are delicate human being and to deal with them requires brain at least now i know better.
I believe this one happened because no girl have used this tactics for me before, most girls i have sex with is just based on our chats and the fact that they would love to have sex with me .

Jennyclay:
You hope to meet me one on one? For what? Do you want to rape me too?? unapologetic rapist!!!!

Listen to me carefully, what would make me meet a Slowpoke like you... You're going to jail, I will make sure I open a case.

I will make sure your family members sells all there properties they've ever worked for just to bail you out. I will make sure they're left with absolutely nothing.

GOD!! Men are disgusting!! I've taken note of your moniker already.

Aswear babe you get big problem oh. i just told you she acknowledged the fact that my feelings where played what more do you want me to do.
People like you are the ones that will later marry an abusive husband that will beat the hell out of you and u won't do nothing but you will be forming court of law in real life.
Am not happy with what happened and i believe as a guy who also as a female sister i shud solve the issue quietly which i did with the help of good people on the forum. What i don't understand is why you are attacking me from every angle, nobody is perfect and we make mistakes but the most important thing is to man up and correct it. inasmuch as i hate to admit it, she is also at fault and i am to be blamed too but u just keep talking about jail as if you have personal problem. if you are victim of rape am sorry for what you passed through but me am not a rapist and i appeal you let go of all the negativity in you so you can move forward in life.

Jennyclay:
Sir, he has corrected his terrible blunders already. I wished I quoted him so y'all would read what I was talking about.

If not for me, y'all won't be able to read and comprehend the rubbish he wrote up there earlier. Even @op knows.

Mind you, I'm not emphasizing on his blunder. I'm dragging him out because he's a potential rapist.

My GOD!! You people are just defending the rapist. Please Are you a rapist Sir?? Thank God the moderators has moved it from romance section to crime section.

I hope i can meet you one on one, you have so many negative vibes, i did not correct any thing i wrote there, i need advice and it is not an English class plus na you know which of ur family member be rapist, you have been on my case since without any credible advice. Thank God i did not allow what you said to define me, the girl came around and she begged me which i recorded she even said i wasn't normal to withstand all the seduction and am not truly a badboy she thinks i am, bcus she never believed someone who stopped at that junction.
mhen, Ladies are scam oh, she was ready to put me in that kind of situation just so i won't take her cheaply.

Sureboyy:
I hope you didn't admit to doing anything on WhatsApp cos some girls can be crazy...Also have you resolved the issue ??

What is the recent development??

Issue as been solved quietly. i have to say some Nairalander are smart people everything worked out fine and she even apologized which i recorded. Man gat get proof i no wan get money finish person come spoil my name.

Roseey0:
Did he object?
No.
Did she force him?
No.

Did she object when he tried to return the energy?
Yes.
Did he force her?
Yes.

Case closed

I don't know what you meant by did i object, Am sure many of you in my shoes would have done worst.

Hubeznigeria:
He didn't take her to the bedroom at first. This two are adults. While I fault the op for dragging her jeans trousers I still stand on my word that the lady should report and then prove he raped her. Op should get himself a good lawyer. What did she go to the OP's house to do in the first instance. I hate wickedness at all levels. Why didn't she shout to attract the attention of neighbors? If she claims op raped her, she is an adult, we want to see where the op hit her and wounded her before her claims can be admitted in court. She better go try something else

Never in my life will i hit a woman, i allready settled it and she apologized also for the seduction. she actually said she likes rough sex but was looking for a leverage so she won't just be a body count material to me
Thanks to all that gave me quality advice

heniford2:
everytime Dem dey sing love love, how Rich he is blabla no impact on society trendy daily life na so u wan take win award.oyibo dem tell u say dem no dey love nii wizkid can never be wizman

Nigerians are odd people. Drake and all other artist that won Grammy also sang love songs and they won. so please i don't think it is right for them to keep giving people award for singing about African struggles, climate evolution and all that. why do they have to aing about African political and socio cultural differences before they can win, Billie Ellish, Rodrigo and all other past European singers won with love songs too i mean.
Wizkid Essence as good lyrics so i can't just say it about the lyrics. The album as songs like Blessed and Smile as a lyrically balanced song so pls Grammy just love the woman thats all bcus Femi Kuti songs is also lyrically balanced with lot of instrument and all that.

Oturatetuala:
I always tell people, be careful of what u come on social media to say or type, bros you committed an offense and if it was in another country, u did be jail now and what makes me feel the security agency won't track u down. You are fool I swear.

Simply bcus it hasn't gotten to a Security people level and ifi dont act fast it will get to. i habe actually followed some advice here and solved the issue quietly. we jst finished chatting and she apologized but we meet tomorrow for conclusions.
Thanks for your worries

seanwilliam:
First and foremost, don’t make the mistake of begging and pouring out your emotions to her on chat/ whatsapp, it’s bait, don’t fall for it. She will use it as evidence against ..

Secondly you should have stopped at first try and you’ were very wrong dragging her Jeans. But then , most times it’s very hard to deduce if a girl wants to ask sex with you and it also very very hard to control yourself at that point since she made it seem like she wanted sex , she might lead you on and later claims you trying to rape her. So what do I do in this situation ?
First , I always tell them what I want from the start and I make sure I have the evidence on my WhatsApp no matter how Hot I am.
I am mature young man, I don’t need beating around the bush again when it comes with women pussy , if worst comes shove, I’ll order olosho or make I mastubate back to back .. I go tire and come to my sense .

Secondly , after I UnCloth her, caressing and smooching, I will try to stop and see if she will make more move on her own . Then finally after I fhuck her finish and I will treat her very right with good food and jokes. Then I will make sure I get feedback from her on WhatsApp o. E.g ,I’ll ask her that ‘ how did you see that babe, you nearly finished me o, , and stuff like that ..


And see ehn, if a woman comes visiting and she no gree me sex, I’ll enter shower , masturbate , come back and send her packing..

And if after couple of sex, I want to discharge her, I’ll capitalize on a particular mistake then call the relationship off..


What you should do now is , call her on phone or try every possible means to meet her ( don’t chat her) and follow yanabees advice. Try and establish relationship with her, tell her how much you’ve always wanted relationship with her but you don’t know what her response will be , use men tactics nah , and drop her when she’s attached ( by this , everyone would assume her to be your girlfriend)..


Attached is a chat of mine with a random girl who is bored in school and wants to come visiting ., I told her straight away, .i no get time for roborebe ..

Wow, This your style make sense aswear. Thanks i really appreciate

biggy00000:
Doris, thanks for seeing me.

Please could you have a sit( if she is still standing)
Basically I just want to apologize for all that happened the other day when you came around. I mistook you being over me as an indication that we both wanted more of the moment.
I have had a deep thought about the entire situation, I realized I was wrong about it all and I am deeply sorry for that.

You see R A P E?

Thanks sir

Iyaebe:
You are not even remorseful about your rape act gush. Jos is part of the places I grew up and I could get you arrested.You want to blackmail her into dating you? I pity her life.

I hope we could meet too to show you that am not scared of your arrest. Ladies like you are the problem she touched my dick, kissed me and all those seduction stuff is it not a sexual assault too or is it bcus am a guy.
Am just trying to do the right thing, am from a good home and i believe that is not a way to treat a lady no matter how she seduced me i should have tamed my urge, that is the main reason am trying to make up for my stupid act but you are just here talking about arrest and how am a rapist.

biggy00000:
Guy she is right

You put a part of you (finger) into her(penetration) without her consent -- you raped her.

You both talked sexually is not consent as she can say she said all that to de-escalate your action.

Solution

Invite her to a PUBLIC PLACE, apologize for all that happened at your place ( DO NOT MENTION THE WORD RAPE HENCE SHE HAS YOU ON RECORD CONFESSING TO RAPE)

keep on apologizing to the lady in question and avoid bringing up sexual discussion with her - sexual assault is still a crime.

Tame your third leg

The Lord be with you

Amen...Thanks

Iyaebe:
I think you should report yourself to the relevant authorities, I just can't imagine the emotional trauma the lady is going through all because of your wicked Randiness

Aunty calm down na you have not offered any credible solution since just faulting me. Am not justifying my decision, Nobody is perfect and i just called her she agreed to come over so we can discuss about me dating her.
Sorry to disappoint you, there is no need for me to report to any relevant authority and hope you also desist from seducing and emotional playing guys into having an affair bcus u look like one of those girl that enjoy doing it.

Help2020:
I don't support OP for trying to rape her. Rape is bad. But why taking the girl off the blame? She didn't only visit the guy at his home,she went as far as sitting on his lap,what kind of careless play is that?

There is no justification for what i did that is why i did not deny fingering her but she even told me use condom but i shud rememebrr that if i continue with it then it is a curse and am actually raping her so i stopped. I felt so stupid bcus i knew she wanted me to be in that situation and i just played into her hands. She wants the sex but she also want a relationship which she knows i can't afford considering what happened btw me and her friend in the past.

Adolfhitler001:
You people are not addressing the issue till he do it all again with someone that will ruin his life now or in the future,if he is accuse of rape with evidence involving student of same institution don't you think the school might expel him depression will now set in learn to advice people abeg no insult intended or imagine presidential candidate like atiku or bat been accuse of rape even without evidence it will cause damage to them this young man don't know where life will take him tomorrow let him don't ruin his own life abeg

Main reason why i want to settle it and i think she just wants me to date her i believe she is not pursuing any case but i want us to be in good terms bcus of the future make dem no do me wetin happen to Ronaldo and co

Help2020:
Well,she actually wanted sex but she wanted to play hard. But now,don't agree to the rspe allegation on WhatsApp o,that one fit be problem. But are you sure she didn't record everything when she was at your place?

No she didnt record anything and i did not reply the rape stuff

MightyHand:


Swallow your pride and play this last card to your advantage... Date her for maybe 4-5 months, to clear her mind off the current issue, bang her wella, spend on her to reset her brain, plus spent quality time with her (so that she wouldn't feel used), then find a FAULT to discharge her...

Thanks, i just called her now she promised to come over so we can talk abt the relationship stuff but i just have to be careful with her bcus it seems she is playing a dangerous game wit me and i don't have mind for all those kind of stuff