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Tink_sh:
There is a huge difference! A boyfriend i am getting to know day by day and there is no life commitment made. Either of you can walk away and what if you and bf break up?? A husband is someone i am committed to for the rest of my life and would have no secrets.So i would not have a problem. Hope that explains it.

A boyfriend is a husband-to-be, except maybe you are keeping him for other purposes. And what you do/are in a relationship, is a prototype of what you'll do/wil be in marriage except also maybe you are not being yourself and just pretending/fake. So, if you find it difficult to give it to him now, there is very high likelihood that you won't want to. . .when you are both married.

Tink_sh:
A husband, absolutely! I'd have no secrets from my husband and marriage is for sharing, but a boyfriend, absolutely NOT!

Wat is the difference between husband and boyfriend in the issue of disclosing your fb password. If you find it difficult to give him now, you can't give him when you are married.

NO, I can't change my religion because of my gf. We just have to both be christians.

Sagamite:
Are you them before you know what they want in a man? What if they are all attracted to the same kind of man?

Or you have a problem with women liking intelligence and confidence for some reason?

Nah! Not at all. Don't know why but i just feel they are being unreal (merely copying eachother). . .thatz wat av got problems with.

What is it, with y'all copying each other?! Listing the SAME order of preference.

Thank goodness, you are no longer a kid. Phew!

CILondon:
Who cares whether you care or not!

Move on right along to a topic that you do care about. We won't miss you. ByeBye.

Who cares! Of wat use is it opening a thread about someone regretting to be black, maybe itz cos you haven't heard of people wishing they had been animals. So, who still cares to talk about people who are psychologically derailed except maybe. . .

Who cares!

It is NOT right by me. . .except it is an engagement or wedding ring.

@poster; It can be both ways, that is: She cheating on you or NOT cheating on you. I'll advice that you shld both live together, moreso that you both just got married. And if that can't be instantly possible, u can hire a detective or (maybe one of ur family living around to monitor her)

It is her DUTY to make you trust her. . .and if she fails on her part to make you TRUST her, then you have to REALLY be suspicious.

I think the reasons why doctors are not sued in Nigeria is because most nigerians are ignorant of their rights and the legal system. And fortunately also,the Nigerian Medical Association effectively support and protect doctors in the case of a serious medicolegal issue.

Glasgow Coma Scale of 4, lol.

tboy1:
He's self-centred & Stingy
Try talking 2 him about it & if he doesnt change or he's still ignoring you, den d ball is in your court
You either stay wit him or Leave

Why do people 'manage' in relationships. They put one leg in and one leg out. Every man has his flaws, and that is his: (i.e being frugal), forget abt him changing cos he can't (no man is purr~fect). If u don't like him for who he is,then leave him. It z either u continue dating him or leave him; love him or hate him, and stop complaining abt him being thrifty.

Wat source/link is needed for such stories. Even media houses are tired of spewing such newz, cos it is STALE.

Ebonyeyes:
What is it with all these "ABCD" questions

Too simple and straight-forward for my liking,also, lol

@Ted Bundy; Are u truly 63yrs old, i doubt that,cos u just showed an act of a 3yr old kid. And who tells u google has every info, even Wiki is more complete, u dumb.a.s.s cartoon character.

You don't have a boyfriend, stop deceiving yourself. With regards to your post abt how to know if he really loves u, ANSWER: He alwayz wants to see u.

You don't have a boyfriend, stop deceiving yourself. Abt ur question how to know if he really loves u, ANSWER: He alwayz wants to see u.

With these arguments and happenings around the world; it shows the end-time is near. Predictions from the Bible, predictions of Nostradamus concerning World War II, III, Mayan's calendar (written way before christ) ending in 2012 and arguments/viewpoints on this thread all seem to suggest that. Maybe the next point of call for human life is Mars

omega25red:
so either  you dumped a chick after she had an abortion of your baby or you are just trying to let us know that you are a medical student or doctor. which one

NO, am not the poster of the topic, u shld re-direct ur question to the poster.

@POSTER: You got that article from David D'angelo -DOUBLE YOUR DATING- book. I av got the book also, not bad,though. But in the real life, there is much more to know about women.

D&C: Dilatation & Currettage. Only medical students/doctors can effectively understand that term. In a layman's language; it means ABORTION.

I dislike moody gals with passion.

hahahaha, hard to get palava. Well, it z wrong to play hard i think, cos u might not know how much 'hard to get playing threshold' the guy can endure and end up losing him. A guy can get his gf without stress and love her till 'happily ever after'.

Enough said. Time to sleep, it is getting too dark, itz freaking me out. **Lights Out**

@MAMA GEE: With ur second set of pics of the guy, I realize how thuggish and un-gentlemanly he looks, much comparable to nigerian PASUMA. I can also see he has some MAKE-UP on his face, Pasuma is even better looking with his neck chain on and without make-up,

No nairaland babe compares with SHAKIRA, not to talk of BEYONCE.

jenibayo:

Hmm, wat z the teeth-showing and wink all abt?  

Princek12:
jenibayo, you really look like a hotcake

Yeah, hot indeed, lmao.

@honeric: Number of posts on nairaland does not signify a member is new or old. U shld av checked out my join date maybe frm the admin b4 u made that erroneous comment. Am outta here. . .

LOL mama gee. I av not come across a white nigerian b4 except for maybe Freeze of CoolFM and Osaze Odemwingie, and these Nigerian guyz are not bad looking compared to the guy in the pic.