Atreides: @1one,you think my needs are numerous? You've not jammed real gold-diggers yet,girls who'll expect you to buy them phones,buy them cars,buy plots of land and build houses for them,take them abroad and give them huge shopping allowances etc. What's so wrong in expecting my bf to credit my phone every now and then? Or to buy me gifts when i know i'll prolly appreciate a good book just as much as some jewelry? Or if we go out on a date,say to see a movie,do you expect me to pay for my ticket? I don't need much from a bf,but i will expect more from a husband. What will i do for him? Apart from sex,i'll cook for him,make sure his clothes are washed,clean up after him and keep house. Feminism aside,that's my work as a wife,and i will gladly do it. If i truly love him then doing them won't even be a big deal-it will be just one more way i show my love for him. If he truly loves me then he will WANT to provide for me. He won't see those things as a chore but as a privilege. Taking care of me financially will be just another way to show his love for me. Me expecting those things from him doesn't make me a gold-digger any more than him expecting certain things from me makes him a slave-driver. It goes both ways.
you are confused dear my would a boyfriends take care of your needs and wants are you disabled that you cant do it yourself ? there is a difference between taking care of you and giving and buying presents
taking care means you relie on the person and buy and giving means you dont relie on him but s/he buys things for you as presents or treating you
then as for husband well things change once married it is nolonger his money but our money and him (traditionally) provide food aka money on the table then the two of you work out the budget that last till you get paid or till you get more, so it is nolonger his duty to prove but the two of you to bring in something on the table or one bring in and the other one does the budgeting eg if there is extra money you or him can use it to take each other for dinner
sometime dont expect things when you know that the budget cant afford or it is not his/her nature to do such things eg i.e buying flowers or treating you if the money is there you cant you treat your self
sbm4real: Gents, I use HP laptop with vista OS. It came with a trial norton anti virus. After the norton expired,I tried to install trend micro but it failed installation and when I try to re-install it,it says I should delete uninstall earlier version (which failed installation). If I try to unistall,it doesn't complete the process.
Recently,I installed avast and now I bought kaspersky but it won't install. I have uninstalled the avast successfully.
The kaspersky software says norton and trend micro are running and I should uninstall them.
I went to uninstall but norton and trend micro are not in my list of programs.
I need to protect my system with an antivirus preferably kaspersky.
Kindly advise way forward.
Thanks andd regards
you can do it this way first delete any shortcut of norton on the desktop and then go to MY COMPUTER ---- PROGRAMS FILES-- and delete norton from there then restart your pc
if it doesnt work you have to do it with REGEDIT this is a bit more advanced first i would want to know how good you are at pcs and how much you know
slovely: Hello Folks, I need your technical assistance. My Microsoft office word is not working fine. It refused to open. My intention is to remove it from my computer and re-install a new one. BUT I tried to remove the Microsoft office via CONTROL PANEL but it doesn't work. Can I have your advice on alternative to do this or how to correct this anomaly.
Thanks
explain the CONTROL PANEL on its own it doesnt do anything
the right way CONTROL PANEL ---- PROGRAMS & FEATURES --- then select the program you want to unstall
freezze: I met her in 2007 and we have been very happy together but all of a sudden she changed because her parents wont allow her mary anyone from the east i have tried to make her stay for 2 years but it seems her parent would win. Am from delta but osun state born and bred, while she is from ekiti lagos born. Now her parents says no to ibo. What do i do. People say if she is for me she would come back. She is coming to say good bye tomoro' am very much confused as she made me to realize that whats the sense behind keeping a relationship that wont lead any where. my heart is very heavy.
jennykadry: Don't mind him, it's the bosoms and sex that is blowing his mind.
When it comes to mother and son/daughter issue I am always very careful. I have a mother and wouldn't want her to have a DIL even before the wedding is going to bring on problems for her, I have a MIL and I tell you that having a wonderful relationship with your MIL is the best thing that can ever happen to any woman especially if the woman accepted her son's wife whole heartedly.
When I was in Nigeria, there was a day I was calling my husband fone, it was switched off for more than one hour,I tried his sisters (cos they went out together for one meeting like dat and I did not go with them cos i did not feel like going) and it was switched off, I rang up his mum she told me she hasn't seen him , told me to hang up that she will try him with her fone, she called me back and told me it was switched off , me naaa fear don catch me na so I run go my MIL's house, we were togeda when he called me, I told him to meet me at his mother's, when he got there with his sister ,after greeting mama na so mama begin give my husband lecture
. . . . . . . . "why did you switch off your fone? do you know that you are in Nigeria and your wife was so worried that she had to come here after trying to call you for hours, even me when I am in church I put my fone on vibration because anything can happen at any time and if your fone is switched off how can they contact you?" then turned to her daughter . . . . . . " You have kids and you switched off your fone(as if woman with kids no dey switch off fone again) what if something God forbid happened to them how would we have contacted you too. In fact both of you are bent on giving me High blood pressure but let me tell you now it won't work"
Gawd I can never forget that day
you acted like a kid
he went out with his sister why ring the mother ring the sisters and besides you never mentioned that his time to come back was way our due if it had happened like that then you would have panicked like in your story
he went for a meeting in meeting fones are off and beside some meeting take long
Atreides: As for me,the only reasonable grounds for divorce are Infidelity and Abuse,whether it's physical/emotional/whatever,as long as my life/the lives of my children are in danger.
bayleaf: I sometimes wonder, what makes marriages crash. Are marriages not for better for worse? so what could possibly make a man/woman decide he/she has had enough and want to leave?
besides the abuse infidelity etc
people just change am sure you aint the same person you where 20 ago, the change make many things drift apart to the extend that you no longer compatible
barazana: MY LADIES,PLEASE HELP ME ON THIS ISSUE,IS SOMETHING I HAVE NEVER HEARD BEFORE.DAT your BOYFRIEND WILL INSIST U LIST OUT ALL THE GIFTS YOU HAVE EVER GIVEN HIM SINCE YOU STARTED DATING IN COMPARISON TO WAT HE HAS GIVEN YOU,MEANWHILE HE HAS BEEN CLAIMIN A BELIEVER OF NOT QUANTIFYIN LOVE WITH MATERIAL THINGS.I DONT KNO IF MY ANGER AT THIS IS WARRANTED?!BUT IS DIS RITE?
feeling guilty that the out come would be against you
as much as it sound silly the odds on most women to win this one is nil
oraclefemi: My fellow nairalanders please my car transponder has stopped working , it got soaked in water so please i need help. The car key opens the car doors and the ignition but wont start the car without the transponder , please i need help because i have been immobilised and cant get around plssssss anyone with information or direct help so please help me out. The car is a toyota avalon xl 2001 model pls i am practically begging for help.THANK YOU
so you only had one key ?
if that was the only key you are into trouble, the transponder sends a signal to rig around the ignition barrel then the signal is sent to the immobiliser ECU and verified which then let the car starts
roughly you need a new trasponder or new immoboliser mostly the car dealer does it
baani: my pips can someone plz help mi solve dis situation, im posting dis again cos i still hv it unsolved, will really appreciate,
there is a hp g6000 laptop with me, right now it does not power/turn on wit either battery or its adapter. weneva i press the power button it just flashes lights and nothing else (wont come on)
when it flashes light do you hear the harddrive running ? and which OS is on the pc
after it flashes lights wait 3o sec and press the cap lock --- see if it lights up
Coolabbie: When u say without your approval,were u expecting her 2 write a formal letter telling u of her trip,so dat u can rubber stamp your consent? poor girl
kay-money: [size=15pt]This is what I saw in my mail [/size]
Flag this message Hello From Miss JulietSunday, 9 January, 2011 21:32 From: This sender is DomainKeys verified"Juliet Kuma" <juju4kuma@att.net>Add sender to Contacts To: undisclosed-recipients Hello Dear, I am Miss Juliet, i was browsing on the internet for a Good Friend and i saw your email id and I decided to contact you and see if we can get along and i wish to be your friend and if you don't mind, please you can reply so that i can tell you everything about me and shear my picture with you thank you for your understanding and please take care. Yours' dear, Miss Juliet.
kingboy: A friend's Toyota sienna just wont move on the highway, the suv was later towed to his mechanic workshop,they later told him the gear is bad. my question now is how do you know that the gear is about to have a problem(my friend said the ATF was well gauge)what then could have gone wrong that the user need to put into consideration.
infor missing
type of transmission, did it crank when trying to start, or it would start but wont engage in gear
wellmax: I met this lady back at the university, we became good friends. One thing led to another and we became lovers. Immediately after my youth service she introduced me to her families and I was accepted. She wanted marriage this year. I love her would want to marry her, but not this year. We had this argument and discussion for a long time until something else came up.
I had always known based on my health experiences and a test I did way back in secondary school that I have blood group AA, but recently I did another one and realize that I am AS, same blood group as my girl friend.
The problem now is, can AS and AS go ahead with marriage plans? If not, how do I tell her, won’t she conclude that this is just my way of avoiding marrying her this year as she wanted? What if she agrees to wait till next year, and ignores the blood group issue to marry me, what are the risks.
Please NLanders advise me on waht to do.
i have never heard of AS blood group i have googled to sure nothing come out
harakiri: When was the Audi R8 made? Is that not a recent addition to the Audi family and the super-car community? Even the BMW M6 will dust that R8 any day, anytime.BMW is for real driving enthusiasts.Like me rephrase your illustration :
Mercedes = Comfortable driving experience Porsche = Mind blowing driving experience BMW = Pleasurable and reassuring driving experience Audi = High end tech on wheels
Ferrari,Lamborghini,Bugatti,Pagani Zonda and other super-car makers have been in the game and have carved a niche for themselves. The rest are meeting up even Asians are joining the super-car level. . .you need to see what infinity and Lexus have out on the streets (cars worth hundreds of thousands of $$$$$$).
kabukabu50: BMW's are for posers, they don't even make a real supercar.A supercar with prestige and performance. Porsche=Carerra GT Ferrari=458 Italia Lamborghini=Murceilago/Reventon Bugatti=Veyron Audi=R8
Mercedes=SLS BMW=0
you cant say BMW has zero you aint serious though am not a fun of BMW but the M SERIES are good M3 and M5
owowalapo: Ok this thread is just lame as hell to be honest with y'all. If y'all are gonna post photos about benzes; anybody can go online and copy & paste, what I'd like to see are photos of benzes in Naija, for real!!!! Whats the point of you taking a photo of a benz in someone's driveway abroad, you, I and every person can tell its not in NAIJA - abeg show me correct benzes with LAGOS license plate!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Romance › Re: Why Are Some Men So Quick To Label Women Gold-diggers? Does Love Mean Poverty/suffering? by ZIMDRILL(m): 4:18pm On Jan 15, 2011
