Romance › Re: Should Religion Interfere In Love And Romance? by ZIMDRILL(m): 6:19pm On Jan 21, 2011 |
MRbrownJAY: nonsense!!!! men and women should be in their VALENTINE mood everyday of they year rather than 1 day a year so i say to hell with 14th of feb, if anyone needs this phoney love day to show their appreciation to their loved ones. i always say that why should i be reminded by a date on the calendar and besides nothing is special when everyone is doing it on the same day |
Computers › Re: Post Your Computer (PC) Troubles Here. by ZIMDRILL(m): 4:31pm On Jan 21, 2011 |
ReLaTE: dell inspiron 1526 amd dual core,vista home premium wt hdd of 160 and 2gb of ram. ok when you power it up does the power light remain on after the fan kicks in ? and also the wireless light does it light up and harddrive does it flashes ? try this hook it up to external monitor just to verify if the problem aint with the monitor |
Romance › Re: Guys Who Still Carry Bags, Open Doors For Der Girls: Are Fools?true Or False? by ZIMDRILL(m): 4:07pm On Jan 21, 2011 |
drakegurl: 'Guys who still carry bags, open doors, tell their girl that she's beautiful, and show respect are real men! True or False!'
How true do you think the above statement is? Or do girl consider such men fools,houseboys or should men do it on some conditions. Let me know your views! dont be confused by these movies even whites them self they dont do it everyday they do it on special occations eg valentine dinner, first few dates, anniversaries etc |
Romance › Re: Should He Still Pay? by ZIMDRILL(m): 3:55pm On Jan 21, 2011 |
there is a problem is the house
the money is theirs as family but if the money that was borrowed from was meant for house hold things then husband should give it back
kids dont eat the car even them a car is liability if i aint going to ring back that money, remember it needs petrol to run thats more money coming out
unless the car is going to bring in money by doing business |
Romance › Re: Do Attractive Guys/girls Have Platonic Friends Of The Opposite Gender? by ZIMDRILL(m): 11:43am On Jan 21, 2011 |
PTBNaija: I know this question has been asked many times before, but does it really happen?
I'm not asking if it is possible, almost anything under the sun is possible. But what I want to know is how many of you actually see this in real life?
Are women with attractive male friends or men with attractive female friends always looking for something more? whats the point to have such a friendship when attracted to her, without asking her out some nigga will come and have its cool when you are not attracted to her |
Computers › Re: Post Your Computer (PC) Troubles Here. by ZIMDRILL(m): 11:36am On Jan 21, 2011 |
ReLaTE: @zim Pls i hv a serious problem wt my laptop that it couldnt start again bt d fan wl b on after starting d system just that d system screen wl stil remain blank. It started when my system was displaying a blue screen and wld shut down,ths happened 4 several times and d cause of d blue screen was my modem whch normaly brings out d blue screen afta plugging it in. Hw cn i bring bk my screen to normal again. Thnks hoping to hear frm u nw because my first post was nt responded to. which OS do you have on your pc and what make and model is it |
Family › Re: Your Mother And Junior Sister Beating Up Your Wife. by ZIMDRILL(m): 7:57pm On Jan 20, 2011 |
the problem with us africans is this
1 we have kids a security for old age we dont save money for old age
2 parents think they did you a favour by bringing up sending you to school that aint a favour you had me and thats your responsibility, you had a choice to have kids or not
3 Once married parents forget that you also want something good for your family .i.e providing the best you can
4 they also forget that i need my own independence like they are from their own parents |
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Romance › Re: The More Independent A Woman Becomes, The More Difficult It Is To Find A Husband by ZIMDRILL(m): 5:52pm On Jan 20, 2011 |
Mrs, Chima: The original topic to this thread is THE MORE INDEPENDENT A WOMAN BECOMES, THE MORE DIFFICULT IT IS TO FIND A HUSBAND.
This applies that a woman can't be independent and have a husband. That is why I said what I said. I am independent, have my own career, and married. The statement the poster claimed is invalid because independent has nothing to do with CAREER or MONEY. It is an adjective describing who the person is. The definition of independent is classified as not depending on another for x, y , and z.
Some people say that you can't be independent in a marriage. Bullshit. Both people are out making the money and taking care of things outside the home then come together to take care of things inside the home. The dependent will be a person who totally depend on the well being from the head. A woman making sure that she is able to provide for herself before settling down is wise and there is no promise that the man she married will support her.
Women get caught up with thinking a man will protect, provide, and profess to them for the rest of their natural life and realize they are left with nothing but bad memories and come stained panties.
An elderly lady depended on her husband for 40 years and he decided that he wanted a younger woman. He filed for divorce and a year later they gotten divorced. She is now in the government run nursing home being mistreated because she didn't have any insurance nor savings. She depended on them TOTALLY and she is suffering. the difference is this some women marry to get away from her poor family or to upgrade herself socially or financially --- this one are the one sometimes called GOLD DIGGERS they need someone to work for them while they sit around doing nothing or are traditional they think its a man's job only to bring in food on the table or to look after her then some marry becoz they want a partner to share life or whatever she has in her life ---- in this case the husband knows your career or whatever and he knows that thats what made/makes you who you are and will support you in anyway, which might be called being INDEPENDENT |
Romance › Re: I Need Advice by ZIMDRILL(m): 5:40pm On Jan 20, 2011 |
some nigerians with tribelism |
Romance › Re: Why Do Some Christian Girls Date Muslim Guys, And Muslim Girls Dont Do Vice Versa? by ZIMDRILL(m): 5:34pm On Jan 20, 2011 |
emmboy: I'm not trying to arise any religious fray up in here, i am just expressing what i feel, so directing the question only to the christian sistas. I school and live here in d north and i see how d muslim girls keep themselves very well and d christian guys would be d last set of pple to date them on earth. On the other hand, d christian girls date muslims guys without feeling anything. Now this is d point; my muslims friends jokingly tell me that they can have nothing to do with our girls in d future cos of their indecency and cheap attitude that they can only marry their fellow mallos cos they are d kept wife materials. So i wonder why some xtian girls dont think twice b4 doing this. Note: i mean here in d north and i am sending the question only to whom it may concern. Thanks. its a man's world we impose the rules and break them but we dont like women breaking them |
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Computers › Re: Post Your Computer (PC) Troubles Here. by ZIMDRILL(m): 4:42pm On Jan 20, 2011 |
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Romance › Re: The More Independent A Woman Becomes, The More Difficult It Is To Find A Husband by ZIMDRILL(m): 1:35pm On Jan 20, 2011 |
Greggj: look at the days of our fathers and grandfathers when women where submissive and compare how long marriage lasted then and now. for all you ladies claiming 'miss independent' you're truly gona be 'independently alone' till you die that one should be a thread on its own many married for status and stayed because society looked down on divorced or single ladies of above what was marrying age the society was based on no woman shall leave alone if she is of marrying age no woman shall gather wealth on her own etc |
Romance › Re: The More Independent A Woman Becomes, The More Difficult It Is To Find A Husband by ZIMDRILL(m): 12:32pm On Jan 20, 2011 |
MBG4Real: Do you believe this: "As a woman, the more independent you become, the more difficult it is for you to find a husband or (true and lasting relationship). It is better for you as a women to settle down before pursuing career. Unless you do not care about marriage"
Men have upper hand in sexual economy It's not a new theory: As women progress in educational and professional opportunities, their odds of finding a committed man appear to go down. Women in their 40s and 50s have long heard this, but new research finds it's true for women just entering adulthood as well.
http://pagingdrgupta.blogs.cnn.com/2011/01/18/men-have-upper-hand-in-sexual-economy/?npt=NP1 the problem is only there attitude i alway ssay how men are top guns at work and got loaded pockets but are humble when it comes to dating and there women in zimbabwe we say "a mad person just picked a whistle " these women are the mad person blowing the whistle like there is no tomorrow if you are independent and humble you attract guys, those who are intimidated kick them self out from the race to have you so you dont need to worry about them |
Nairaland General › Re: x by ZIMDRILL(m): 12:21pm On Jan 20, 2011 |
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Family › Re: Wife Sleeps On Same Bed With A Pal, can I trust her? by ZIMDRILL(m): 3:12am On Jan 20, 2011 |
macjive01: Met some guy man at the bar and got this story off him.
My mate came to stay for a week and ended up staying for nearly a year. My wife shared his bed as he didn't like to sleep alone. I'm 41, she's 38. We Ve been happily married for 20 years but lately it feels like we re drifting apart. This friend came to stay when his wife threw him out. My wife moved into d spare room with him when he couldn't get to sleep alone, but I trust her completely and I know nothing happened between them. Now he's moved out but he still comes to visit and flirts with my wife. I don't want to blow my own trumpet but I get the kids up, take them to school, do all the housework and cook all the meals. It's not that I mind, it's just it all seems a little unfair. I haven't had sex in six months. I Ve now become close to a woman at work. We talk all the time and I am beginning to hv feeling for her. I'm thinking abt leaving but can't walk out on my kids.
What do I do? script from a nollywood movie!!! watch out for part 2 |
Computers › Re: Post Your Computer (PC) Troubles Here. by ZIMDRILL(m): 1:44am On Jan 20, 2011 |
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Computers › Re: Post Your Computer (PC) Troubles Here. by ZIMDRILL(m): 12:47am On Jan 20, 2011 |
baani: hi i got anoda probs again ooooo, a gateway laptop was brought to me. the problem is tht the owner gave it to someone to help install an antivirus but the person fiddled wit her login password. pls can someone help me wit how i can either remove the password completely or change it to the owners desired choice
ps:i would also like to thx y'all 4 helpin mi in evry issue that i bring to the forum which OS is that it always adviced to have 2 admin accounts i.e one which by default when you install windows, and the other one, you create yourself the one you create would be your account and the windows one would for administrative purpose eg getting into cases like the one you have y http://www.online-tech-tips.com/windows-7/forgot-lost-administrator-password-windows-7/http://pubs.logicalexpressions.com/pub0009/lpmarticle.asp?id=305 |
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Family › Re: My Toast by ZIMDRILL(m): 8:37pm On Jan 19, 2011 |
Dereformer: I WILL GET MARRIED IN 6 WEEKS TIME. I WANT A SENTENCE OR PHRASE OR CLAUSE THAT BEST DESCRIBE MY LOVE FOR MY WOMAN. THIS WILL BE PRINTED ON MY WEDDING CARD AS TOAST. PLEASE LET THE REAL LOVE LANGUAGES FLOW.
IF YOURS IS SELECTED, YOU WIN MTN RECHARGE OF N1,500.00 ONLY. THANKS you are stupid you mean you dont know how you feel about her or what she means to you ? or you want help in how to put the words in a fine touching way |
Romance › Re: When You're On A Break Is It Ok To Sleep With Someone Else? by ZIMDRILL(m): 8:24pm On Jan 19, 2011 |
a break means uncommitted to whatever work/thing you where doing or supposed to be doing
thats the reason why your boss cant count the lauch/tea break has part of the production time
the same when you have an annual leave your are on a break
i think when one decide to have a break ask the person if s/he means his/her own defination of break or the actually meaning of having a break |
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Show the Brother some Love afterwords  it only works with woman of your mind set she can give her old number or hers but with one wrong number in the middle same with email wrong spell it for you and instead of yahoo she might say hotmail,co.uk or com |
Computers › Re: Post Your Computer (PC) Troubles Here. by ZIMDRILL(m): 12:58pm On Jan 19, 2011 |
emynem05: @zimdrill can u or any one help me on dis i had a woking dv5 hp pav and a non pwering dv6 hp pav. Both of demm hav same OS (win7). I wanted to retrieve som datas frm d dv6 so i removed its HDD and put it in woking dv5 so i can boot it & get som files since i hav no external jack. Wen i switched it on it refused to boot further afta d HP screen. I removed it and put bak d HDD of the dv5 it also did refuse to boot afta d HP screen . I hav done HDD test on both HDD and dey passed infact i hav checked both of dem on anoda laptop they did both very well both wen i return dem to d dv5, afta displayn hp it will just stay blank until wenever.hav tried formatin it on d dv5 it wont c d cd drive to boot from. Wen i run HDD and Ram test both wil pass wat shuld i do nxt. Realy need to fix dis lappy. i think you crisss crossed the HDD check the connecting pins if are all straight up |
Family › Re: How Many Bastards Do We Have In 9ja by ZIMDRILL(m): 1:34am On Jan 19, 2011 |
plappville: Is this socalled DNA test perfect? Sometimes these tests can read another thing. There is a woman, she is a friends neighbour. She did Hiv test and the result came out positive. Her Hubby was dead scared, the woman said no it's impossible, the Hubby went and do the test his result was negetive, then the clicnic asked the woman to come for anther test after 3 months, she went and she was negetive. The clicnic were shocked and said it's the first time they had this error, the woman's Hubby pressed charges for damages. What am I talking about? Error could happen in a case like this. DNA test is faulty free this is what it does it matches with father, if it doesnt match they match the children themself if they do then 1 problems solved the kids are from one father, then they will ask for another sample from the father if it doesnt matchs then they aint his kids for real DNA test can prove that you are from the same father even when the father's DNA sample is not there ? |
Family › Re: Why Is The First Night Of Marriage So Special For Women by ZIMDRILL(m): 1:27am On Jan 19, 2011 |
koko_oro: Why do women and men alike go gaga about their first night. Really, is there anything special about this? remember that night was the day you would first sleep together |