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Family / Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by ZIMDRILL(m): 4:36pm On May 18, 2023 |
Octopusssy: lets say he talks like that to his mother does it change the behaviour of the mother in law? Whether he said it nicely or not it would just backfire on him The mother in law should know better, does her own mother in laws visits her daily? Lets not be biased and also protected bad habits from elders |
Family / Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by ZIMDRILL(m): 4:25pm On May 18, 2023 |
victorVIC1: when say accordingly, you mean according to how she visits? are you crazy |
Family / Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by ZIMDRILL(m): 2:27pm On May 18, 2023 |
Octopusssy: he might be but mother in law is also bad she should know better 1 Like 1 Share |
Family / Re: Explain This Thing To Me by ZIMDRILL(m): 2:16pm On May 18, 2023 |
bukatyne: i think you missed the main point with most women whether religious or not their are advised to pray or their husbands while on on men, it usually its those already going to church I think the reason most men are not advised to pray and fast its becoz by nature and culture/tradition we are taught to be hand on, on the problem that waiting for god to change your sitaution Men we approach problems from physcial point of viewing doing the work with our hands, thats the reason you find that some men end up hitting their wives, when he is overwhelmed by questions, the only answer is tranfered to physicall hitting the woman |
Family / Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by ZIMDRILL(m): 11:55am On May 18, 2023 |
MumEmdy: good question on how he notices her frequent visits but let me put a scenario he does a 9-5 job so he get home around 6 and he is Hot and wants a quicky if mother in law is around it has to be delayed to bed time, i would be pissed if mother in law is there neary everyday Or eg she is always there every week, may be hubby wants to spend more time in bed etc 1 Like |
Family / Re: Life Humbled Many Parents Who Thought Their Children Were Better Than Others by ZIMDRILL(m): 11:22am On May 18, 2023 |
Stephen2324: the problem with many parents is they provide their kids with material things that their own parent didnt provide for them and in that they forget to teach or pass on information that their parents failed to pass Therefore their kids will likely to do the same mistakes like their parents and important teachings were never passed on So teach your kids important things that your parents failed teach you 3 Likes |
Family / Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by ZIMDRILL(m): 12:26am On May 18, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1: 1 abandon ? you are crazy then why did you allow her to marry that person ? 2 if you feel that you need to check on her everyday it means you didnt teach well in picking the right partner for herself 7 Likes |
Family / Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by ZIMDRILL(m): 9:44pm On May 17, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1: fair enough thats you some people dont like it |
Family / Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by ZIMDRILL(m): 9:36pm On May 17, 2023 |
Jovialjune1: Look at this either way whether he talked nicely or not 99% most people would say he is wrong, like in this case most people are saying its wrong not to let in laws visit, so even he had said nicely he wouldnt win for me most people are focusing on the wrong direct aka how the guy said it, the main issue here is the mother in law everyday visit, she should know better 2 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by ZIMDRILL(m): 9:30pm On May 17, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1: him can explain further but remember he said she visits nearly everyday she wouldnt quit checking up on her daughter virtually every day or atleast every other day |
Family / Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by ZIMDRILL(m): 8:48pm On May 17, 2023 |
Jovialjune1: there is nothing to use brains for here lets notr try to protect bad behaviour irregardless how he talked to his mother in law, who should be more matured here ? the mother in law should know better to stay away from the new married the same applies to my mom, if my mum is regular visiting me my wife will feel abit of an outsider or she being regulary monitored mother in law should respect the marriage by letting them free 2 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by ZIMDRILL(m): 8:30pm On May 17, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1: remember its not about your and your exprience its about him, he has noticed regular visits and he is not happy about them 1 Like |
Family / Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by ZIMDRILL(m): 8:28pm On May 17, 2023 |
Jovialjune1: you are missing the point the fact that the guy noticed the regular visits and talked to her it means to him that he is not happy, simple so yes mother in law is stopping him to enjoy his wife 3 Likes |
Family / Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by ZIMDRILL(m): 8:08pm On May 17, 2023 |
Jovialjune1: lets not try to do the reverse thing lets focus on the issue at hand was the mother in law correct? let me enjoy my wife 3 Likes |
Family / Re: What I Did To My Mother-in-law by ZIMDRILL(m): 8:05pm On May 17, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1: i beg to differ New married people should left alone to find their own feet, in doing things and understanding each other, understanding each based on their character and behaviour not based on what you were taught. Every man and woman differ it is important to understand each other not based on what parents says but based on what you see and do to each other Have you ever noticed that the 1st of years of marriage is power struggle, the guy want wife to cook like his mother and the wife wants hubby to behave like her father hence usaully its power struggle indirect Parents should visit once in while 9 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by ZIMDRILL(m): 10:04pm On May 15, 2023 |
abbey621: i agree with you on action and consequences the problem with most africans, we dont explain in details, therefore our kids dont understand their own action eg a child sometimes is not allowed to explain his/her action becoz s/he is not allowed to explain him/her regardless his/her point of view is useless untill us parent let out children explain i their own reasoning we will never understand how they think and u will able to guide them based on their individual thinking unfortunately most african cultures doesnt allow children to explain themselves regardless whether they make sense or not the most common phrase used by children o the western is " why" therlir asking for your reason/s the ideak is |
Family / Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by ZIMDRILL(m): 9:34pm On May 15, 2023 |
mabea: i dont know which part you read but start from when she comes back after two days and take the child to the hospitail Remember am also i know the system inlive in the UK when the father was interviewed he denied strucking the child, but then how does he explain the bruises when he was the adult in the house |
Family / Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by ZIMDRILL(m): 7:41pm On May 15, 2023 |
eddynaira125: it doesnt work like that here what i mean is this, if the child reports thats it, who ever did the act is in trouble with authority In this case the mum had to explain the bruises at the hospital, most likely she failed to explain the bruise at the hospital here kids are protected any bruise that takes a child to hospital u are i trouble 10 Likes |
Family / Re: Rise In Divorce Among Nigerian Couples After Relocating To UK by ZIMDRILL(m): 7:03pm On May 15, 2023 |
godliman: thats the power men dont want but men havr been doing that for years and no one moans about it 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Group Of Divorced Nigerian Women Celebrate Initiation Of New Members (Pix) by ZIMDRILL(m): 6:53pm On May 15, 2023 |
torqque7: thats the otherside but lets also not forget that the other side we have women to really need that divorce as the hubbys were not good in any form Unfortunately for some society and religion divorced is shun apon, while most women die in their hands of their hubbys either physical violent or being pass on HIV and die 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Group Of Divorced Nigerian Women Celebrate Initiation Of New Members (Pix) by ZIMDRILL(m): 6:51pm On May 15, 2023 |
ComeToJesus: why would call them useless, its called each to their own they understand each other's journey nothinh wronh with that the same with widows they can have their own members club becoz they understand each other loss |
Family / Re: Rise In Divorce Among Nigerian Couples After Relocating To UK by ZIMDRILL(m): 6:27pm On May 15, 2023 |
t2luv1: Every woman is shaped by her environment aka her society, if you do research you will find why those women are like that. The women in every society act and behave according to their environment as an outersider its easy to pick negatives but the most important aspect of the puzzle is trying to understand the history behind such and circumstances which made them who they are For example why most nigerians girls about while why south african girls have kids even at young age |
Family / Re: Rise In Divorce Among Nigerian Couples After Relocating To UK by ZIMDRILL(m): 12:11am On May 15, 2023 |
wonder233: i agree on the 1st part economic empowerment but disagree on disregards him to me its change of balance of power most women will disregard him becoz he was was the same while in nigeria or africa In zimbabwe we say " its all good when a leopard drag other animal through the mud, but when other animals drag it, it cries over spoiling its beautiful spots" in simple terms most men who cry being disregarded are just facing what they used to do to those wives. where did she learn it from ? from him back home the question is where did those women learn that behaviour from ? the answer is from their husbands 16 Likes 3 Shares |
Family / Re: Married And Clubbing by ZIMDRILL(m): 11:29pm On May 11, 2023 |
justli: i striked the nerve |
Family / Re: I Have Impregnated Another Girl Against The One I Love. What Should I Do Now? by ZIMDRILL(m): 3:32pm On May 11, 2023 |
micxwell: nigga pliz this is social interaction not interview go and teach primary kids |
Family / Re: Married And Clubbing by ZIMDRILL(m): 6:46am On May 11, 2023 |
justli: i guess each time your father went clubbing was cheating on your mum or each time you go clubbing you are cheating on wife |
Family / Re: Married And Clubbing by ZIMDRILL(m): 5:58am On May 11, 2023 |
Most men who are anti clubbing with wives are 1 afraid that the wife will do like what they do 2 it reflects on types of places they go 3 No knowledge of better and nice clubs to take a woman in simple terms you can not take a woman to KFC or Mcdonalds for a romantic dinner , its the same going clubbing with wife, get to no nice clubs thats civilised for couples 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Married And Clubbing by ZIMDRILL(m): 1:19am On May 11, 2023 |
bigiyaro: my point was and is, we shouldnt point everyone with same brush becoz of general assumption wide wide nigerians are also known for fraud, but does it mean we can find honest nigerian people around the world and nigeria ? |
Travel / Re: Disadvantages Of Living Abroad Or Obodo Oyinbo by ZIMDRILL(m): 11:46pm On May 10, 2023 |
Oyomesiile: has dangote stopped selling his products becoz of level of proverty? He is actually building new factories based on projection he sees in those poverty people Are people stopping going to school becoz their are not jobs ? |
Travel / Re: Disadvantages Of Living Abroad Or Obodo Oyinbo by ZIMDRILL(m): 11:34pm On May 10, 2023 |
syntekelite: he doesnt own a house, he is newbee in US he crying over property tax, if u read again he said he is paying property tax when he is not owning the house, the guy doesnt understand the western system of property tax here in UK its called council tax, when youe own the house or not u pay it, what differs only if you are a tenant and the property is registered to renting out, the sitting tenant will pay the council tax in their own name than the landlords, then some landlord the tax would be included on yout rent if he owns the house, he wouldnt be crying over property tax as his mortagage was higher than that So this guy is ranting allover property tax and child support 1 Like |
Family / Re: Married And Clubbing by ZIMDRILL(m): 10:07pm On May 10, 2023 |
bigiyaro: and in churches you still thieves, cheaters and those who abort the problem with most africans, we find clubing as bad black becoz we have never been to a good club and we think every club is the same, 1 Like |
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