₦airaland Forum

BurntinUSA:
I chattted with a Nigerian woman for years before finally going to meet her. She was everything I wanted. Affectionate, sweet, sexual. I asked her to marry me. It took years to get her here with me madly in love with her. I married her. Now she wont kiss me and tells me it is her culture. Won't cuddle with me and seldom does anything with me. I had more sex in the week I was there than the year we have been married. Unfortunately I am still madly in love with her, but feel so betrayed and unloved.

wasnt she looking for papers ? just to eliminate few things

xhosachoc:
http://www.zimdiaspora.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=3815:zimbabwean-woman-arrested-for-spreading-hiv-in-canada&catid=38:travel-tips&Itemid=18

it only found in zim people?

for me everyone is a suspect of hiv until proven innocent by tests

queeneve:
Maybe she was going to ask you to use condom because she doesnt want to get pregnant at the time, you know health reasons, not right timing, or she taking medicines that she can't have sexual intercourse but to please you she get the condoms,

I mean it could be many reasons, now if you suspect she cheating then uhmmmmm

would you use the same reasoning

if you see your husband get into a room with lady by a brothel buiding


would say am pregnant and may be he doesnt watch put pressure on me while doing it

oluwafemi113:
my good country people A.I.D is real
take note.
Must of dis girls 4m other country we like to sale it cheap 4 we naija guyz.
Abeg use C.D or make u hold body ooo

we aint talking of AIDS just zim booty

start your aids thread

wazzza:
Why is it
dat,wen eva u
check girl's profile on facebook,majority of
dem are single or in a relationship with the
guy not spcified. Are they all liers?

why you would bother it is not yours account or girlfriend's

it is their account they organise and put they like not what you like

peroxide:
We (men) dress to impress. No, actually nearly everything that men in their youth tend to do, they do to impress the opposite gender. I don’t really care whether you run around unclothed or whatever, in protest. You and I know that even when we try to stand out among our peers, the ultimate target is the woman.

Now that we have that sorted out, how do you, as a man, know what the woman finds attractive? Who better to tell us how to impress the woman than the woman herself?

say i dress to impress not men

you dress to impress with those nigerian long pointed shoes

D-sense:
Well, i can say u hit some points here but,Still not all men do that or exibit such mentality.I'm quitely different nd above all this crap u just accused men of nd i believe at this same time that there lot of guys in da house here who can neva do such things .Just put it in yah mind that not all nd not even the majority.

the other thing is papers

one who has papers can do alot if s/he is wise up stairs

the illegals are in a tight spot they can mavoure alot the fear of being caught people tend to campare people but they dont know the difference in these people


eg 1 is asylum seeker

2 a student nurse

3 one on working permit

these people are being compared and are put in the same brand though these people are far apart in terms of income brand

those might say the asylum is is lazy he doesnt want to work etc

IgboGirl:
Why have Nigerian men become so lazy with no jobs or career leaving all the responsibilities on their women? It's a trend now for Nigerian men abroad to go back home and marry a wife, take her oversea and force her to be a nurse so she can be the sole bread winner of the house while the man does nothing. Funny part is that the so called lazy men wouldn't wanna help in house chores, they still have the mentality that it is a woman's duty. They expect their successful women to come back home after hard day at work to cook and clean for them. And heaven forbids the woman brags about her success to her man or refuses to perform her so called wife duties, she pays for it with her life. There has been stories about Nigerian men killing their wives and most of these women are nurses!

So many anti Nigerian women threads on here so it's time for anti Nigerian men thread! Bunch of you men are lazy bums with egos larger than an elephant and nothing to show for it. Just cos the women choose to remain silent doesn't mean they have nothing against you. I am done keeping quiet! Any man on here that says crap about Nigerian women will get even more crap said about Nigerian men from yours truly.

they aint lazy

here is my view this happened to lots of zimbabweans

a wave of women came to uk as qualified nurse got nursing jobs then husband followed if he was a just general manager in zim then the chances of starting from a low paid job industrial it doesnt pay much compared to nursing

if the husband was abusing wife back the wife would take sort of revenge she brings more money on the table hence she now changes husband and husband feels the pressure to find better jobs hell break loose wife tell people than he is lazy  he doesnt want to find a better job etc

roymary:
Son, at this point, i have no idea what you are talking about. Have a good life,

the truth hurts

like it does me that zimbabwe has been taken back in time but i can take in any defeat than can be compared for this period

trying to find variables for me to say zimbabwe is on top eg we campare zimbabwe and nigerian then i would say take off the revenue from oil becoz zimbabwe doesnt have

roymary:
You can as well set a priority for your sorry life using Google! it might help. FYI, i did not open any of those links because not even Google will feed my brains, things i already know!!!

I know you are hurting over something and i guess i know what it is but thats your problem.

Every country has its flaws! If you have ever walked on USA Soil, you might have a better view towards life generally. There are ghettos and slum-like places in America.

According to your Google and Wikipedia, By 2005, the purchasing power of the average Zimbabwean had dropped to the same levels in real terms as 1953. Honestly, i feel your pain.

Personally, i have evaluated the flaws in Nigeria, South Africa and Zimbabwe, and i could tell you authoritatively, Nigeria has lil to worry about. Zimbabwe should be more scared!

I don't wish for this but if the white folks are separated from the blacks in SA, then, SA defects will be made more glaring, Nigeria is not hiding behind any White folks glory,

One man has been ruling Zimbabwe for the past 23 years!!! You need to get rid of your shame before developing the gut to face others,
Sorry, but you are Pathetic! Or maybe, i'm wrong. You might be some young dude that knows nothing concrete about life.

poor you trying to find excuses


too proud to swallow the truth

it is  like me trying to defend zimbabwe when it is on its knees

you all sound daft you take your pride too far than you all end looking daft

give me your facts to dispute those links

your are not number on a fair and square basic why bring up the taking of whites

america should take away all british descends from GDP of their country in order to be compared with you

roymary:
@ZIM DRILL,

I honestly don't have to argue with you because even in Africa, Nigeria and Zimbabwe are no mates, we are not in the same class! You might wanna have such argument with Congo, Ivory coast, Senegal, Botswana and many more.
If you can't have a conversation without cursing, then we have nothing to talk about personally.
I am not Daft! I am an internetwork Specialist, a professional Network designer. May i know what you do for a living other than having self-pity and bad-mouthing Nigeria?

man you are daft you dont want to accept the truth

are those facts against nigeria or you are to proud not swallow the truth

what i do for living got nothing to do with facts that are free to find i only need to google to find the facts

roymary:
Hellooooooooooooo, Abeg abeg abeg, Which level The only factor that makes South Africa to look Okay is the fact that you are mixed with the white folks, Nigerians are successful!!! We are not illiterates and i really do not blame you all. I blame the bad rulers that got greedy and allow Princes and Princesses of this Great Nation Nigeria to scatter all over the world looking for a better life when we have abundance in our land.

But the good news is this, We are still more successful in the diaspora. There are over 2000 Nigerian World class medical doctors in America. We have many top class medical doctors even in South Africa, We have the highest number of Cisco CCIE Holders in Africa. No point making this list!!!

If only we could get rid of the bad eggs in our government, We won't have to deal with your Xenophobic attitudes!

dont be daft having them holding certificates doesnt mean anything most are overseas trained your country can only claim his/her nigerian nationality only the rest it is from the countries they did training

are these people crazy

http://www.worldsrichestcountries.com/

check the GDP gor nigeria http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nigeria

then for SA http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/South_Africa

Mygoldie:
Yea i know you deserve to know the whole story, but it is a long story .don't know where to start from.

how can your love for someone expire? this world is a miserable place.

the first years of relationship are half lie why becoz we try to be perfect so we dont see the nasty bits

as time go by people really became themselves and start to see other side that was hide away from you

those things can drove not love him/her

Sagamite:
It is what they are fed at home by the moronic press and some internal moronic pride that is blocking the objectivity side of their brain.

Mygoldie:
NOT TO LIKE SOMEONE YOUR MARRIED TO??
IS IT POSSIBLE TO LOVE SOMEONE ELSE??
I REALLY WANNA KNOW.THIS IS A BURNING ISSUE.
CHEERS!!

love has an expiry date dear unfortunately only time can tell

queeneve:
Right SMS,

Most of the time the partners or spouses don't mean no harm and we sometimes don't know what will tick a person off,

Zimdrill,

I would have been upset if my husband said it maliciously, if he was just kidding and it only happen once I wouldnt be tripping,

i think everyone who is faithful and committed to a relationship would be pissed, on your side you would be telling yourself that there is nothing you are ashamed of to tell people that s/he is boyfriend

then him/her introduces you as friend you start to question yourself am being taken for a ride, do this people know the other person who might have been introduced as the girlfriend/boyfriend

Sagamite:
Let Nigerians be deluding themselves and not face facts.

they confuse themselves they think being allover the world it means is being african gaint

it all means something is wrong you are searching for better life

am asking you back

how would you feel ?

it only needs to reverse the roles to find out how would feel then with that answer we find the reason why the guy got pissed

how would feel if you are faith & committed and your call each other boyfriend and girlfriend then if there are people around you are now call him/her a friend

Sagamite:
Who do you think is the true Giant of Africa? Nigeria?

I laugh.

South Africa is facts says so

even the general standards of people

http://www.worldsrichestcountries.com/

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nigeria

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/South_Africa

Idowuogbo:
i dont tink so , he happy wiv wot hes working wiv thanks
pls stop d videos are killing me , i cant stop laffin can we do pics alone pls

being with you doesnt mean he cant admire over other women

there are killing you how ? are admiring those booty?

this is how SA ladies do it, there is a mixing of Congo ladies though


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TLv4I7WYS0I&feature=related

Idowuogbo:
^ i actually bothered to watch d link , d music has got great rythym but mehn is it a 1990 music video , y are dey dressed like dat even d guy had windscreens on his face dat na specks hehehehehe.no offence o

this one will make your man get an erection if he is into booty


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BgwkwRNePFw&feature=related

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r80zlZcr5D8

Idowuogbo:
afraid u sey no haha i laff in swahili , your words are not covincing try harder , he wants to see an backside of a Zimbo , not a Nigerian bazunga
so deliver and stop bin pest to mine

@sa goddess
yes our genes mixes properly hehe , dats y its clear sunshine dere

poor you

you need convincing i dont have to dear

it about being confident with what you have

SA Goddess:
Not mixed race hun but for some reason we are light-skinned down here. . . . . . .something in the air maybe

ha ha thats true thought

Idowuogbo:
put wetin am i a zimbo , abeg oo fine your bestest to enlighten him joor

@jaybee
we all no how it is , in our town all it takes is Rosee and evrytin is all Kapish .Kabloose

why bother when i havent seen yours what are afraid of

Idowuogbo:
^oga zim drill , is da d bestest u can do , chei dat yansh wey look like kate moss 1 kobo
how u tek no it dey over worry dier bele , some of dem na champagne u go buy wey dem go think sey na ticket to paradise open leg str8 ;Dsame here man , i tot it was couture o , but i must admit so of dem are wow , u have to ask if dey are mixed race

he never asked for the best


put yours and lets compare with that one

jamace:
Can we have a pix to that regard?

there you go

Ms. Potato:
yes you may be right but I am in no need of financial support naaa


yes I have told him that and he told me that he cannot help it. You know, the funny thing is I know all of his bank account and the password and he doesnt know mine He even applied for me a supplimentary credit card but up till this date, ive never use a cent. He just keeps going on about his responsibility and he being a man and bla bla. . . I dont quite get that till this date.



No Im not!



Are u that kinda guy?

no am not i have seen happen those women are trapped in that world they cant even think for themselves even simple things

my tips

dont look for wife look for a relationship if other things click then that relationship will upgrade itself

dont go far end to make the girl meet your list but look for things you like or love in her

jay bee:
What sort of things is she into?
Jewelries, phones, perfumes, chocolates et al

you see these are things am talking about

we ask him all those questions then we give him a clue

but if he is clever he doesnt need us all need is think about things she likes and he can make a decision on that

why does such people never call us to teach them which position to fuk their are girlfriends