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Roshe:
@ zim drill
for u too have sent dz comment shws hw silly u r. can't u just neglect d topic if u've got notn reasonable to say?

still you are a fool

i respond to any thread i want

who gets offended with what i say thats his/her fcukeb problem like you

i dont have to say things that are reasonable to you

Roshe:
NLs, kindly suggest a nice gift i can get for my babe. bn a yl i've seen her cz i work outside d town she stays & wana spark our love up. will be seeing her in 2weeks tym.

fool

you know her better than us that makes it easy to know what she likes and doesnt

wake up

does your relationship run on text messeges

Godson007:
I wldnt know if this is the new trend among our naija ladies b'cos they are traditionaly known 4 their lying abilities. During my NYSC programme 08 batch B', i met many ladies(mostly crossriverians &akwa-ibomites)that said they were despoiled and they often come up with a sorrowful story dat if u get too emotional wit,u might miss your flight, D one dat annoyed me most was a gal i was abt getin down wit last wk who told me she was a VIRGIN, after confirmin her status via due proces, her story changd, she said "i was despoiled bt u are d 1st persn 2 legitimately sleep wit me. I understand dat there arent no V's in naija xcept in primary schools &am sure most guys are done dreamin of virgins, but y are dis ladies now using despoil as an alibi? I tire o,

you put them under pressure by looking for a virgin hence they lie

my theory the older the number of age the less the chances of getting a virgin


what are the chances of finding a 30 year old virgin

i think people who look for such grouping aint sure of who they are what are they inside and out

it is straight forward no elaboration

if it was from facebook where people say it is complicated then i would give a second thought to your question

jaguar_09:
Hello House, Please your constructive suggestions would help ease my mind now as I am in a state of confusion. I want to give my lady a wonderful birthday celebration next weekend. I just need one great place to have a wow experience with her. I am wishing for a place of brilliance, splendid atmosphere and serenity. With every scene of it a lovely one, I just won back her love, trust and affection after we fell apart because of some issue of relationship so I want to distinguish myself from any intruder who may be trying, we have dated for 6years now.

You can suggest a wonderful gift to back up the kind of atmosphere your suggestion would create.

you are the answer to your question

you know her better than us i.e what the like from food cloths and places all you need is to think hard you will find the answers in her than


dont take her to a place than you will never take her again i.e a place that makes her think you got a fat pocket when you dont

Tink_sh:
Im pretty sure thats what i was saying

you didnt

i think you thought you said it but you didnt

Tink_sh:
Both is responsible in wrecking a home. But there will always be people who will sleep with a married man/woman. So the married one needs to keep themselves controlled cos they will never run out of willing people to mess with.

yes both responsible but there is one who has outmost responsible to wreck his/her home   the married one

remember on more than average the married has more loose his/her family

Tink_sh:
Ummmm Mr ZIM DRILL, i think you may have clicked on the wrong quote.

it is just answer what i asked

Tink_sh:
I dont get it at all. I think its a weakness in some guys that need to learn self control. When i am in love no other guy can interest me. I only want and desire my love. Many marriages of my uncles and other family i know that has been married 50years or even 25 yrs have never cheated cos they are true men. Not looking for an excuse. They love, adore, cherish, etc the woman they married forever. Maybe its cos some cultures get married cos its expected and not for the right reasons. What about the wives who dress in the full burka, their husbands still desire them cos they know when they get home what they have going on under.

who WRECKS a home/marriage

the one who goes out of home/marriage to cheat or the 3rd person is involved with the one who goes out home/marriage to cheat

queeneve:
Homewrecker is a person who lives outside the home or placed outside of the home who comes in and wreck the home, WITH INTENTION of destroying,

Cheater is a person who cheats with the homewrecker or a person that may not know he is a cheater,

Zimdrill,

They are in the same group, NO MATTER who doing what, BOTH ARE BAD,

yes both are bad

the cheating one wrecks his/her own home or marriage ---- is it not rocket science

dear thats a defination from fools you dont see the wrong on their cheating partners blame everything on the 3rd person

how can someone come a wreck your marriage while you standby ?

wh o let the 3rd person come in ?

the cheating one is the one who wrecks it

you should commited to each other

queeneve:
No, I did not moved from the topic,


The topic specifically SAID married men SO NOW WE TALKING ABOUT WOMEN NOW? I was told to follow the TOPIC that what I am doing now don't get TWISTED because the POSTER SAID MARRIED MEN,

Now if these men ARE MARRIED AND CHEATING, they are whores, NOW IF these women who are sleeping with these MARRIED MEN and they KNOW THEY ARE MARRIED, we call them HOMEWRECKERS,

If these women DOES NOT KNOW that these men are married THAT A BIG DIFFERENCE,

When we finish dissecting, slicing, mincing, marinating, THESE MARRIED MEN KNOW THEY ARE MARRIED and should keep their dikk in their pants, and be faithful, or be single,

why are they called HOMEWRECKERS when in my point of view the one cheats in his/her marriage is the HOMEWRECKER s/he WRECKES his/her own marriage by failing to commit to his partner

queeneve:
I was hoping you said some chit like that,

LovePeddler (hôr, hr)
n.
1. A love-peddler.
2. A person considered sexually promiscuous.
3. A person considered as having compromised principles for personal gain.
intr.v. whored, whor·ing, whores
1. To associate or have sexual relations with love-peddlers or a love-peddler.
2. To accept payment in exchange for sexual relations.
3. To compromise one's principles for personal gain.

There is nothing GENDER SPECIFIC about the definition,

you are trying to move away from the question




since you are a woman we thought you are only bashing man only with the word


since those man dont sleep among themselves but with women what are the woman called

queeneve:
Men who cheats are whores,

It not that complicated,

men dont cheat on you with another man they cheat with another woman

so what are those woman called

Kelvinj:
lol thats true but sometimes just encourage her if she's not doin it how u want it

yes you have to

but you need to be diplomatic

sometimes you should let her dress what she think makes her feel sexy than what you think your self

bocajj:
Me and my girlfriend are in d same choir in church. But our musical director is aware of our rlationship. Me,my girl n our md was driving home one faithfull saturday evenin aftr rehearsal,we drop my girlfriend @ her house. on our way my musical director startd tellin me dat he knws bout my affair wit my girl,bt it's ok he said, He evn warned me nt to brk her hrt cos she's lik a daughter 2him. I was nt suprised cos i knw he'll get 2knw som day. immediately i snt a txt 2her statin MD IS AWARE OF OUR AFFAIRS. Only 4her 2 start shoutin @ me dat y did i tel him(MD) she didn't giv m d chance 2 xplain. Since den she's rfused talkin 2 me n pik my cals. PLS PIPS HW DO I HANDLD DIS SITUATION?

i think she is embrassed that now the director now knows is fcking her remember some people in churches want to be seen holy now the director knows and he can think of anything that can happen to dating people sex etc

picture this have you ever thought that your pastor fcks his wife like you do, all those positions etc he does them too, you dont think of it becoz all you see on him is simple holy person becoz you judge him by the way he preaches and the position he has in church

this girl wants to been seen as holy the director but the director knew it i guess he saw it from looks and the way they handle each other

let her cool down then talk to her after she cools

Ikedonn:
@Kelvinj
I am talking from experience.I know exactly what am talking about.

black girls aint better we all came with our own problems

on average if your are to marry a black girl most likely she will be from country with common culture tradition etc but as for white thats a mountain to climb but it depends with individuals, culture and tradition is totally different you need to work alot on these things for your marriage to work

Kelvinj:
Well every married man is always tempted but your ability 2 resist is the man in u. But all the same as a married man make sure u make your wife dress pretty and try out new stuffs with her and it always be fun althru and never a dull moment

it is not the man who has to make your but herself with out my input as long money is there to buy the cloth

it not the woman (by nature) that brings foods on the table it is the man and he doesnt need to be reminded it is his duty without even being told

so the woman should try to be sexy & charming like before i married her the same goes to us men we also should be in good shape (not pot bellies from bbq)

Kelvinj:
@ikedonn
so what makes u think them black girls are better?
@poster
Guy this is just unfair, just cos u got what u wanted outta her now u wanna bounce? U didn't think abt this 7yrs ago. Guys like u are the once that tarnish our image out there, why be with her when u know u wont want her forever? Be human and resonable dude,

love cant be forced

if he doesnt want he should leave 7 years is nothing when compared to happiness what the point of being in an unhappy marriage

these ones are better you can see the body curves

nothing sex in this dress

Paha:
Sometime ago i was annouyed seeing a friend of mine(married man)making love n do move with different calibre of babes.I advised him that what he is doing is wrong as a married man,that he should stop it.He just laughed and said,Mr man(me)when u reach there,u will know why and probably do what i m doing now,and may even do more than me.Thats the only thing he said and left.Now,i m married like him,i now realize that after some time you stayed together with your wife,at a point,there will be a time when even if your wife is standing unclothed before before you,you will not be moved.You wont feel the urge,your rod will not even shake.Ironically,when you see other women/ladies even on the road,you will be moved,feeling the urge,your rod will be vibrating,melting inside your pant,etc,to the extent that you may begin to nurse the ambition of going to them more than the wife you kept in your house.It will only take you as a man to make up your mind that no matter what happens,no matter the urge,etc,that you will never fall.That you will never compromise your faith and sin against God.My question is:Do you(men)observe such?,can it be over staying together with your wife(seeing her everyday) or what is the cause?.,For women,do you women also feel such to their man---,not being moved,but when you see another man you will be melting inside?

besides the usual fights in the house married woman seem to relax in taking care of her body and getting sexy cloths then the man misses that body that dressing

remember african are told to dress as married woman that dressing sometines turns you off

most guys

give money becoz they want the woman to depend on him once she depends on him she will eventually think that she cant live without him

as for the man, by then he has you under control if he says jump you jump all you see is money on him and you dont want to loose that flow of money

OCCULTIST:
She must have known you and your family deeply to call you uncle.

In Things Fall Apart,obierika told Okonkwo THAT BOY CALLS YOU FATHER,DO NOT LAY A HAND INTO HIS DEATH,he refuse and the rest we know what happened to him. SO why must you sleep with a girl that calls you Uncle?

it means you look old you aint old for her

you just look old you need to work out your out side appearence

nwadelta:
i got to europe 7 years ago. got married to a white woman and we been married for 5 years. and now i can't stand the sight of her,i waz really crazy about white women untill i got to nigeria 3 months ago and when i got back to europe i can't stand the sight of white ladies anymore. i really dont want to stay with this woman anymore but when i think of the way she helped me in the past i feel so bad to take a divorce. i am so unhappy in this marriage and dont know what to do. i really want a live my life with a black girl. but the youroba girl i really want does not want me. i am so depressed.

i guess you married the big white trush for papers

personally i wouldnt