martyns303: If u dn't feel comfortable about this guys idea feel free 2 object, u have the right to your opinion but to say ''i wouldn't careless for Nigerian Women'' any mannered person will knw its an inappropriate statement. Its not like there ain't no intimacy workers in zimb.
you missing the point
i would love-vendor my fellow people get it
it would be easy if the girls are foreigners becoz i dont care much about them --- you get my drift
it is so funny you find my opinion very touch but you didnt feel the same for nigerian brother who pimping your sisters --- what a shame
tripleaa: need u guys to talk to me on dis, my gal was to attend her friends weddin outta town were we both reside.we both agreed she would b stayin wit anoda of her friends place who also stay in d town wia d weddin was to hold.afta a year nw i jst found she slept at her exes place who also reside in d town wia d weddin held.(she confirmed dis)wat d hell shld i do abt dis,
your pum pum was hit by the ex before you came then you came he hit it again
omega25red: it's healty if you both are really just friends and it's not some mind F@ck going on. Anyway do you think your next boyfriend would be happy to know that you are close friends with your ex?
i dont believe in that, people keep exs for reasons not just being friend like us guys we mostly keep exs for hitting it again or for personal gains eg if she sometimes help you when broke
When my husband first approached me I did not know he was Nigerian not that I have a preference of what type of man that I like, I do but I am not strictly picking but I have my standard, I spent time getting to know my husband while we were dating and when I found out he was Nigerian I was shocked because he looked like any other African-American people walking in America, and plus he is igbo,
As you know Igbo men have them noses, because few of my friends are igbo and they got them noses so that how I was able to tell they were Nigerians, my husband speak like an American mainly because his family is both American and Nigerians.
Although he is Nigerian-American, he practices the tradition of igbo culture so I was introduced to his family and they gave him approval, but BEFORE I EVEN said I would date my husband, I got to know his character by seeing how he interact the females in his family and his behavior with me in midst of other people.
I wasn't expecting to marry a Nigerian or an African because their are alot of good black men in America despite what the Media portrayed black men to be,
My husband and I was gelled, which is unique because we have two DIFFERENT cultures but we made it work, and I know Nigerian men HAVE BAD REPUTATION around the world, BUT I ALWAYS SAID, ONE NIGERIAN MAN DOES NOT REPRESENT ALL NIGERIAN MEN,
To sum it all up Zimdrill, I looked at all the GOOD QUALITIES MY HUSBAND had despite the fact he is NIgerian and it overweight the NEGATIVE QUALITIES,
No man is perfect and that what I tell the ladies, you will never meet the PERFECT MAN, but I married the RIGHT MAN FOR ME,
SORRY FOR THE RAMBLE, as you see I love my husband and enjoy sharing my love of him to others
D-sense: I would force her to wear Ring so that when guys see her they would know she's engagged though they ll still be after her but it won't be like when she's not wearing it.fo
should think harder
with or with a ring people will always make a move the ring doesnt stop anyone
it is her that can stop them
a wedding certificate on the whole can never stop you from bi.t.c.hing or the wedding ring
Shy-One: There are such things as "boyfriend snatchers" Your friend needs to move on,
I don't want someone that nobody else wants
And equally I am have never understood the behavior of weak men and women
When you don't stand for anything, you fall for everything
Tell your friend to think of it like this, had she married him, she would be one of many
I realize that dating and marriage are different levels of commitment
But practice starts during the dating phase and if he can' t be loyal in that phase, his lack of strength and stability will generally magnify in a marriage.
She should count her blessings.
explain who these people are snatched
who these people you force or a charm
and when do the victims realise that they have been snatched
rokiatu: oh hell there's nothing more romantic then a man who can cook. (I mean cook for real) beside no woman likes to cook all the time. Women like to be pampered sometimes too.
i dont see anything romantic about a man cooking maybe becoz i am a man
men are better cookers that woman 90/% of the chefs in the world are man
unfortunately the same people who see it as being romantic are the one who shut us off from the kitchen when we are young boys no man in the kitchen rollover 20- 30 years later it now romantic for him to cook
Brownteeth: Most men have this problem of desiring any lady they see who crosses their line of sight. A man may decide to stick with a certain lady today, but the next day another lady may appear to be more attractive and gorgeous than the girl he intends to settle down with. Beautiful girls are so many and located everywhere that making a choice has always been like; YES SHE IS THE ONE!!! NO IT IS THIS ONE!!! MEHN CHECK OUT THAT ONE!!! IN FACT I WILL HAVE ALL OF THEM!!!
Womanizing is something powered by greed to have all the beautiful women in the world and also to spice up life with variety of women. Its really hard to resist for those involved. For the men who have been successful in remaining faithful to their partner, please kindly give us the tips and steps which you adopted to enable you remain faithful to your lady.
we are all animals like the one in the bush we want to fuk what is attractive
the difference is this it is up to you as individual to control yourself animals in the bush do it to breed us we do it for pleasure
queeneve: A friend of mine just gotten proposed to, she accepted the proposal but not the ring. She is against jewerlies and think those such is a form of gods worship. The fiance is furious and said that she need to accept the ring because it tells the other guys that she is taken and about to be married. She refused the ring. He told her that if does not wear the ring he will not marry her. She is disrespecting his family rituals or whatever that mean.
I have noticed that her case isn't the only weird case I have heard, I have heard men say that women who are taken need to wear their engagement ring at all time. I wonder if it an entitlement for the men to order their fiancees to wear the engagement ring?
What is the real REASON, you guys want the woman to wear the engagement ring? I always said with or without the ring, the woman is still yours if you picked the right one,
What with the RING guys?
the the problem of doing a culture which is not yours
Beync: for me there is lack of genuine luv among bfs and gfs is even among the maried ones. take for eg: in the film "Obsession" Beyonce's husband wud hav save himself from the guilt of infidelity if only he had told his wife about the naughty woman in his office who was in his neck to hav him. thou he resisted the naughty woman but even wen the wif notice some wories in his face he cudnt let her no wat he is passin thru not till the naughty woman created a scene in which no wife wud believ her husband is innocent .
wat am sayin is the vital role of true communication in any relationshionship.
you dont need to tell your partner what you going through you should learn how to deal with it, telling your partner means roughly you aint able to handle the syhte