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krandelly:
i am big hot n very shapy. Enough human resources in d right places. Many guys r tripiing for me. I av a nice shape- im not fat or obessed. I am also pretty

Help my bf tnkz i am gonna blow up with time
but he still stickz wt me n makes som coments dt make me uncomfortable

does he love me? N how can i make him love n want me more ds way?
Any ideas on wat i shd do
Help cos of God

did he found like that or you gained weight during the relationship

kITA TITA:
Guys should be careful when putting ladies on reserve. You could end up paying PENSION. Pension is when an ex has need for cash and decides to ask an old flame who may not say no because the separation was mutual.

look both sides

here is guy would be saying am hitting my old flame i.e it aint gona last long then the woman would say be saying i need money if play nice with my old flame i will get it

both are using each other

tosyne007:
quite true but do ladies dump?

not in all cases. there are some u won't want to go back to. better watch it.

yes they do especially when they think they have found someone better than you

remember by nature we (men) it is in our genes to absorb rejection and women dont have the genes to absort rejection they go mental some how

Madukaele:
What do u think?

dont be daft

give us the clue on what she doing that she think she is going as a favour

kITA TITA:
Guys don't dump ladies, they simply two time till the lady drifts.

you can say that again if you dump you wont hit the p$$$y again

better let her drift and when you are on drought then give her a holla hit it again if you can sweet take her

Clayton:
Who are the best girls in Africa romance wise? Cameroonian,Ghanaian,Senegalese,Togolese,Nigerian,South African ? Which one

no nationlity is better than the other it is up to individuals to make it romantic according to the other partner's point of view

a walk along the beach at full moon might be romantic to you but your friend would prefare a candle light dinner by the fire place

aminalib:
hmm u assume i am nigerian

guess you aint which nationality are you

aminalib:
zim, come on chill man my best friend is zim and yes i figured it meant something in SHONA, however i just asked are zima the only ones, why u being defensive

it is quite clear that i asked becoz i thought i might be zim word only

why

zim and nigeria got no links of commons words

zim would have common words in zambia, malawi, languages

aminalib:
Are zims the only ones that say ANODA, ummm nope

did i say that ?

i asked a simple question why being defensive as if i said something bad towards you

ANODA means want in zimbabwe shona language

does it mean the same thing in your langauge

Blezo2u:
Can u date hermophrodite? Believe me I have come in contact with one.

if you are really straight you wouldnt ask such question

i guess you might be bi or gay

centD:
The reason why i dont talk to most girls is because most girls hav corrupt minds.when you talk to them they start thinkin anoda thing,when you make them your friends they think you want to ride on them.
Now i decided to be on my own,they say i am too pompous.i am not pompous bt i want to avoid misundertanding.

are you a zimbabwean

meetvic:
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can someone help with a reliable hospital tha I can get rid of my girl friends pregnancy

first

you should have gone to a hospital to get an implant then have your condomless se.x

aminalib:
are you the owner of NL, if not, then who cares, there are some new people on this site, that might find an old thread interesting and decide to respond, why don't you start making new threads to "keep things fresh and new"

nope dear i aint the owner dear

would you want to watch the same movie everyday ? or talk of the same subject everyday

as for new thread people are but within minutes you find an old thread back on top while new one are pushed down as there are old when they aint

Navi613:
But this isn't about interpreting how you see
yourself as but about your measurements by
others according to your friends.

Now, let's suppose that you're surrounded by alcohol
fishes, who do nothing else but swim in these alcohol
pools. You don't drink at all but you hang out with them.
When they're in the alcohol pool, you're on the edge of
the pool, keeping them accompany. You spend most of
your time with them despite your differences.

Everybody in the neighborhood sees you and your
alcohol friends together. Now, you go for a job interview
and after the job interview, which by the way has gone
excellent, one of the office employees walks up to the
job interviewer and tells them about your alcoholism.
And about the people that you hang around with.
They call you the next day and tell you "I'm sorry
but the place went for someone else"

that what society does

guilty by association

though peole should judge by what you are as individual with your skills

queeneve:
(laughing out loud and crying)

he should have thought my harder

well normally i start thinking from where some people think they have done their best

jennykadry:
Why not confront her in a polite and calm manner. Just let her know that you know whats going on and would like to let her know that if she continues then your relationship with her will come to an end. Be very polite, smile and after that act as if nthg happened but watch your back.

Tell her off politely when u two r alone

recipe for disaster what if she becomes diffensive by saying actaully her man made the move etc

Pennywise:
@OP,
Psychologists believe when pple tell you stories abt events in involving themselves, they usually do so in a manner that tend to present them in good light.

Somehow I feel your bf who thinks this white girl is 'crazy' may actually be tripping over her. He may have made a move on her that she rejected and he is now trying to create a berth b/w both couples so that the truth never comes out. One way of knowing is getting close to the whitegirl and being her friend.

do you use the same theory on your mum when she says she was a virgin when she married your father ?

aminalib:
this is a long story, however i need opinions. I can be very blunt and confrontational so i am trying to turn a new leaf.

my boyfriend and I always hang out with one of his good friend who is 35 years old. Recently the friend started dating this white girl, who is out of control meaning she smokes, drinks and even admitted to taking crack once , since it is not my place to talk to my boyfriend's friend, i always ask my bf why his friend is with this girl and why he doesnt leave her, anyways the friend moves in with this white chic, we go over there on sundays to have dinner and play video games, now the first time i met the white girl i knew she was into my bf by the way she was staring at him(and he is handsome), some sundays i can go there and sometimes i decide to stay home, this sunday he went by himself, he comes home and makes a statement that the white girl is crazy and she is not my friend

, i ask him what he means and he says nothing, so NOW 2 months later he tells me that the day he went there, it was just the three of them and the friend had stepped out to go to store, he says he was on the couch playing video game when all of the sudden the white gir jumps on his laps and plants a kiss on his lips, he says he pushed her off and she was like " dont act like you do not want me" he said he declined her and told her if she doesnt stop he will tell his friend and me, she begs him not to tell either of us

, so i am now mad at him for not telling me earlier and still letting me go over to this girls house and giving her rides, not knowing that she has tried to sleep with him, he states because he knows i will kick down the girls door and that he doesnt want to disrespect his friend and hurt his friend, so my question is what should i do, should i go confront that chic or let it be,

if you confront you would acting like a b.itch

you man had it under control  so i dont see your problem

stop going there and eventaully the white girl will figure out that your boyfriend told you what happened the other time

johndoe200:
I ran into an acquaintance I hadn't seen for some years and we got talking. I asked him if he is married now and he said no. When I asked why
he said that he can not "trust anything that bleeds for 5 days and doesn't die". He maintains that this is fundamentally unnatural.

When I thought about what he said, I saw his point. Anything that bleeds for 5 days should normally die of blood loss.

Guys, what do you think?

really ?

you should have reasoned my deeper


thats the same thing that made see the world you are seeing today

thats the same thing that made your daddy marry your mum (not love only) but kitten power

thats the same thing that would make your father almost kill someone if he hears that some nigga is tapping your mum

thats the same thing that can makes a man leave his family and start his own family

i love this section it brings out humour in people, poor reasoning, views from different tribes, cultures etc

but there is one thing which makes it dull & boring sometimes, people dig up old threads

eg https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-374266.0.html thats december last year

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-259856.0.html that april this year

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-403381.0.html that feb this year

do we have to repeat recyling old threads ?

, if you missed it just let it go lets have something new, deal with current ones or read old ones but dont commen, t once you do you bring it up on top again and to some of us it is the same thread i saw 2or 3 days ago and most people are done with it


well thats my suggestion

Navi613:
They say a person is measured by the quality of their friends.

Can you simply look at my friends and determine what sort of person I am? And if so, care to explain, pls?

i disagree

myself i keep friends according to what click on hence i got different friends from all social class

some people even ask how do you manage that guy becoz some people cant stand him etc

Ibo-made:
Although ones armpit does not need to be as smooth as a new born baby's bottom but all the same for a babe to go around with bush armpit is wrong. She must be too Lazy to shave

wrong to who ? you or her

thats the way she likes it and thats her body she does what she wants with it

slap1:
Pls I don't mean to start a war, ABEG UNA! But I've noticed that some girls (women) leave the hairs in their armpit to grow as wild as a GRA, Games Reserve Area. I've unfortunately seen a some like that. Please is there a reason for it? Is it now fashionable or sezxy?

they aint your woman why bother for the reason

Inked_Nerd:
Poster, try it first with your sisters then come back and report to us

charity begins at home

skyfaze:
Mehn, to be sincere, it was really painful to me oo

get used and move on

remember it is either you or her unfortunately it is you

Bim4u:
@ Sim i can now understand your mentality about this it's becos u're from the very bush part of Africa.
Even your president treat u like animals so i can understand where u got that behaviour from,my apology for trying to correct u for good manners.
Who born monkey banana.
Did u just learn the word nigga.
Instead of u to pick the good from the bad.
U prefer to pick the bad ones.
Keep going on nigga.If u think calling someone a nigga is like an insult then u need to learn n study things properly.
Since is a faceless forum n respect can only be given to those due,definitely U're not one of them n only illiterate behaves n write the way u do.
Saying illiterate doesn't necessary mean u didn't go to school but people with low mindset n trash speaking people.
Keep writing the bit of English u can write n from your writing it definitely shows how u talk as well.
Bush man.

wake up nigga

the world is never fair people say what they like if you get offend deal with it and it is your fcuken problem

i cant air view that only agrees and makes you happy --- nope nigga----- if i do i will end up being a puppet to everyone becoz i have to please them of which i wont be myself

wake wake

Sagamite:
What generalisation?

I said most!!!

Most Nigerian girls are rude in comparison to Southie and Eastie Africans. Pure and simple.

It is a fact, it might hurt but it still remains a fact.

British black girls are also RUDE!

It is so bad, my closests friends don't date black for about a decade now. SO BAAAAAAAD that black girls even step to them and they ignore/say no.

Most Nigerian and Black British women have issues with their hard to get displays.

from my history i would say

nigerians/ jamaicans &  black british (jamaica descent & nigerian descent ), genes wise are the same hence am not surprised with their attitudes

most slaves came from west african, so more or less the same people

tpiah:
i see where the fatal attraction is coming from then.

they have so much in common with the nigerian men in question.

they bring out their [the guys' ] female side.

you nailed it

stillwater:
So calm and collected. Me likey. Anyway I'm so happy a Zimbabwean is aware that a Nigerian man usually uses money to woo women, so when they call Nigerian girls golddiggers, we all know whose fault it is.

i mentioned that long back nigerian women are a product of their environment, i.e it is their men who made them that way

[/quote][quote author=stillwater link=topic=403381.msg6880905#msg6880905 date=1286295267]Cool . Anyway do Zimbabwean women love Zimbabwean guys? Because they come here and make it seem their guys are errr. . .'ordinary', if a Nigerian dude does as much as say hi to them. Not trying to be insultive.

you aint insulting you just asked a question

so i will respond

on more than average nigerian and zimbabwean we are worlds apart but from both sides we find people crossing over


most zim girls go for nigerians guys becoz they splash money on them and most of these girls are crazy material girls or those who are lazy to work only need to be looked after by man  then a few who date nigerian guys becoz they have been dissapointed by zim guys hence they try something new

stillwater:
Are you from zimbabwe?

yes i am