₦airaland Forum

REALITY101:
SHUT UP daft asz. I rather be NIGERIAN all the way. Why do ya'all envy Nigerians?

the truth hurts dear

no southern african ever envy nigerians may be your brother the cameroons

you are loud as if you are born from the same mum and as if you where born in pub that you ahve to loud for someone to hear

MOBO444:
^^^ Please the news is all over London how weak all you Southern African men are, so shameful of you lots.

the news you only hear ?

in other words you are saying your women are crap hence you cross the line to southern woman

any way your woman are flat screens

REALITY101:
Ride on dude, it's your life live it. in as much as your still searching for job that's cool but you must not depend on your partner for financial aspect cuz to me that sucks.

you can say that again

some woman try to set standards for a man when herself is just a church mouse

who really wants to be nigerian

1 you are too loud

2 that horiible accent

may be cameronians might try to be nigerian

is unemployed girl in arelationship, good or bad

right to who ?

if it is not right to you, you wouldnt impregnate her

what are Msc ?

andas  for scotland and england well these are the two main kingdoms that makse UK hence UNITED KINGDOM i.e scotland, england, wales and northern ireland

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_Kingdom

pc guru:
mehn @zim_drill omo dey invite boys for this kinda party,

i will do you love some southern african boooty?

tialundra:
well as a Zim Lady i hve decided to come up wth this poll. the battle btwn Nigerian (men,) and Zimbabwean (men)its all talk on tha streets wit my galz who really cant wait to see who is scooping the prize and tops the POLL.rating shld be based on tha ff: physical attraction, romance, sex appeal,body physique,respect,loving,sex , commitment ,culture etc i think a lot shld be taken into consideration.u knw what i have dated both the Naija and tha Zimbo so i really knw what im talkin about and definately who i wld BRING home to show my MOM!

we are worlds apart just like the two countries are on the map

Mr-Cork:
whattt?? Zimbabwe men? are they even human??

They are usualy skinny alchohilick with pot belly (no oofeinse)

ha ha ha

omega25red:
poster her virginity is not important in this issue, whats important is the fact that she cheated on you. virginity or not she cheated on you handle that

how did you conlude that she cheated

we got infor missing

1 he said it was temporary

2 who between the two called it temporary

3 did she lose the virginity during the temporary period

gabriel4u:
A girl u met at a virgin status and u went into a 'temporary' relationship with her.
Along the line u really care and [b]love [/b]her and u both agree to married.
After some years u started your relationship, she loss her virginity to another guy, if u eventually discover, what would u do?
Mind u, she is sorry for what she deed and still saying 'i love u'.

how long was the temporary relationship?

did she loose a her virginity during the so called temporary ?

who calls it temporary you and her ?

if you cant make a decision on something simple like that then you will never be able to make decision on a relationship

afrobaby:
I am a typical yoruba lady to the core, one that appreciates her culture and traditions and always tell people that I can never marry someone from another tribe, but now I have a different view. I remember vividly when my brother introduced his fiancee(now they are married) to my family, lo and behold, she is from rivers state, my mum was like, what, what happens to all the beautiful yoruba babes in your medical college, your nysc location , your work place, blah blah blah, I only told her to let them be cos what matters is the happiness they will both have in the marriage but deep down in me, I would have prefered him marrying a yoruba lady

But alas, I have a very different view now, am in love with a man from Edo state, say it in a more precise way, am engaged to him, we are already making plans for the formal introduction, now I understand what it means to be in LOVE. I have forgotten all my bragging and sweet mouths that I can never date someone from another tribe, now I see that LOVE has nothing to do with tribe, it has everything to do with the personality. Ones' tribe happens to be one of those things we can't choose, and so it has nothing to do with our personality.

I am just writing this to encourage as many people that has that archaic mentality of NO INTERTRIBAL RELATIONSHIP that it is because you are not in Love yet, when you find love, u forget every other trivial issues.
LOVE CONQUERS ALL THINGS!!!!!!!! KEEP LOVING , AND GET LOVE, LO L

i am a zimbabwean i came here to learn abit about nigerians culture and traditions etc
am confused when you say you are engaged but you went on to say " we are already making plans for the formal introduction"

is that formal introductions are done before the engagement, on the engagement day the very emmidate family from both sides are already familiar with with the two of you

what you are doing is wrong you know it from your heart hence you are seeking advice

both you and the husband are wrong you aint a home wrecker becoz you never had one the husband is a home wrecker he is wrecking his home

as for you, you are just a slut you got no boundries

so what more do you want ?

Tink_sh:
'con men emotionally'?? What a cop out! If you dont want to do it then dont do it but dont use the same old excuse that a woman conned you. Please, you are smarter than that!

it is not an excuse but saying what i feel is a con why becoz

1 same say it is good for bonding why do i need childbirth to bond with my wife

2 same say it make you appreciate your woman, nothing special about that  thats how create us a woman shall give birth simple and i dont need child birth to appreciate her

but remember i aint against it am against the silly reason given for me to be there


if i reallly love my wife i dont need to be given reason to be there and she doesnt have to tell me all those crap reasons

xxcarolxx:
You guy's will never get it unless you enter the delivery room. Both you and your wife get to celebrate that special moment together in watching your son or daughter entering the world, Yes i know we bond with our babies but to watch them been born is something else,

no dear i wont becoz you want to force what to felt as woman, on us man its obvious we never agree

and besides your man will never say the opposite during that time

listen to what we feel and think towards the subject dont tell us what think we should feel

remember the thread is about what think and feel as men so dont make us agree with you, it is about getting what we feel and think with out any pleases of the female gender

xxcarolxx:
It's about the life you created and watching the baby been born, You don't have to stand at the end of the bed watching, you can stay at the top, believe me your bond starts there,

spare us the bond thing

you can bond with anything

why talk of the bond as if a childbirth is the only thing which makes people bond

its all nature dear you feel the bond becoz you carried it for 9months dear that how GOD created woman, when you give birth you already have the bond becoz of the 9 months,  then for a man he then starts to create the bond with child and you especially if he loves very much

personally i wouldnt want to see the actaully birth

i might be up her upper body talking to her than watching my p$$y being torn apart by the baby's head that will put me off se,x  

worse if i would start to feel much difference of tightness durinf se.x

xxcarolxx:
To see your son or daughter been brought into the world is the best thing you will ever witness, It's something you guy's should witness,

you are a woman we expect that from you becoz you are the who has been caring the baby

Tink_sh:
Fair enough but i do think men are a little weak to let the woman go through it without her husband support, just my opinion but.

we are not weak dear thats how nature is supposed to be whether am there or not you would still feel the pain

like i said you con man emotionaly thats why you use such statement

with reasoning it is more like saying a since a woman is married to a soldier she should go to war with him

Inked_Nerd:
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Hey Tink_sh, wanna hear something funny? My grandmother delivered my aunt by herself. No doctor, no husband--All on her own. Wither her own two hands.



[font=Lucida Sans Unicode]I wouldn't mind.

becoz you are a woman you wouldnt know what goes in the man's head

this is reverse of a man telling you to go through abortion

but he doesnt know what is going  through your head

Specialist900:
seconded.
will it be more than wishing that both the baby and the mother sail through the delivery process.

Tink_sh:
well he was there to put it in so why not coming out! Its normal here. The guy is always with the woman, by her side, helping here through. I think its important, helps them to bond together from the start.

am not against it but i think man are being conned emotionaly to be there in the devilery room

you might think it will make people bond but it up to an individual to bond whether through a rough time or not

Inked_Nerd:
there are men that do that

i know

i want to hear your view would you want your man to watch your p$$$y bursting giving birth

xxcarolxx:
You mean to say 9ja guys don't go into the delivery room They wait outside,

you want them to be in the delivery room by her side watching the baby coming out

e-mail:
What goes on in the mind of a man when his wife is in the delivery room? My elder sis very recently delivered her first issue and almost immediately another woman delievered her first child. My sis husband was not there at the time of the delievery but the other woman's husband was.

I noticed the man couldn't control himself as he pace up and down the passage and when the child finally came, he took his time inspecting the newborn as if to be sure the child was truely his. This is what I think anyway, what do men generally think?

your profile says your are a man tell us what you think yourself