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s.ohiemi:
Me?!?! Please oh! No church is controlin ma lyf,am not a deeper lyfian!

it is either there fools to be banned by church not to watch telly or it is an excuse becoz they cant afford one

as for porn well they tell what you want to hear what happens in their bedrooms no one knows

SA Goddess:
This is not about me or you ZIM so I will let it slide!

yes i know

am only dealing with your reasoning or crushing your points

to be treated like a lady you must act like a lady

in this case all ma trying to get is, if the lady is all clear or she took part in making him explode dont get me wrong i aint defending the nigga but i just want to hear what happened or what was said before he explode


with such infor then we either say the guy is just a nut or all are to blame

SA Goddess:
You must be a bully too or a man with a low self esteem, what does embarrassing someone in public do for you? I can hear you are one of them (those that throw tamtrums in public because "she provoked me" Nonsense! mxmmmmm!

you are daft too

1 you are running to defend someone who only told you what she wants you to hear

2 why provoke someone still expect them to act your way ---- how daft--- if you are smart like the way you want to be believe then  she shouldnt provoke, then we can determine that the boyfriend is a nut  becoz he throw tantrums from nowwhere but dont cry foul after someone responds to your slap


3 with your reasoing it is ok for a lady to provoke but bad for man to respond whatever way eg scolding

s.ohiemi:
@zim drill d church won't allow u,its lyk an unspoken law among the members and if u don,t comply u will b scornd and b treatd as sum1 not among them,but odawise it's a very gud church

does the church run your house ?

all those people you in chruch they Bleep like crazy but you wouldnt know becoz they dont talk about it

the question is why would you let da church control what you do in da house worse the bedroom ?

s.ohiemi:
Haba i believe d poster juhz cos of ONE REASON.Both r deeper lyf members,now lemme educate u guys about deeper lyf.u r not allowed to watch t.v,wear earrings(for gurls) wear trouser(gurls) wear lace wear shorts(males) not to even talk about watchin po'r.n.o 4get this is true stuff

not allowed by who ?

and why would someone detect to someone's house or a couples's house they should run their house alone with their own rules

Kelvinj:
exactly its disrespect lol, he should learn so gently man's attitude. well no matter what she does i think he shouldn't do that at all

why should he ? he also a human who get out burst out of anger etc we dont what the guy goes through we only heard a half baked story

the rest is everyone assumptions thats the reason i said you must atleast gave us 3 cases and we analyse it

SA Goddess:
Even if she had provoked him, it still does not make it ok for him to scold her in public, embarassing her like that, What happened to talking about issues as adults as opposed to yelling at the other grown up like a child, hell, even 3 year olds hate being shouted at!

dont be daft like her

if she doesnt want embrassment why would she provoke him

its a two way dear under your (EVEN IF SHE HAD PROVOKED HIM) dont provoke then he wont embrass her ---simple as that

in other words you are saying she can provoke him and he must remain a gentelman, thats bull crap dear never create a sitaution and expect people to react the way that suits you

herzy:
help, my guy displays his anger towards me in public places and end up apologizing to me indoor, i have expressed my feelings towards this attitude several times but he kept promising to turn new leaf but he didn't . he even yells at me in eateries and other places and people there focus their attention on us, it was like hell because i have never felt so ashamed all my life,though all these does not change the fact that he loves me and he is also caring and can do just anything for me but are these enough?. now he wants to marry me, although i love him. can you endure this kind of attitude forever coz marriage is a life contract?

your story is half baked dear

no human scolds you out of the blue there is always something in your writting you never gave us evem 2 or 3 example of a scanario e.g words said before he scolds you etc


it is quite obvious that he did scolds you over certain things or issue let hear those things and we will judge fairly and give advise according to what happened

lovemoi2:
Dint know DEPPER LIFE MEMBERS are allowed 2 watch P.ORN.

DONT BE DAFT LIKE THE PERSON WHO STARTED THE THREAD

who is supposed to allow them to watch porn ?

they aint supposed to be controlled they contro their own life ?

my question is, allowed by who ?

beneokam:
hello house good morng all as we start a new working week,well a g8 romantic wedding of myfemale cousin over the weekend.Both are virgins hubby and wiffy and are deeper life members,i love dem and respect dem for that,men afta the wedding up till dis morning there is a problem going on with them,both cant bleep as dem neva do am b4,so my female cousing been calling mum and she is been direcyed on how to do it on fone,some blue films have been boght for them so that they will learn and knw how to do the thing,its a real funny scenario.I mean being a virgin is coool but when both parties are men i wonder whoz gonna teach,well as of now its a good news that now i heard they have succeded in doin it but the girl is complaing she aint making the noise being done in the movies,i cant stop laughing as my mamas fone keep ringing

rubbish it is in our DNA to Bleep

they know how to Bleep the only thing he must want to know is how not make it painfull

Ms. Potato:
A guy promises to marry a girl and A guy asks a girl to marry him are two completely different matters.

If a guy promises to marry a girl, it means he would mary her one day just that he needs to be ready and well prepared and it will take some time

If A guy asks a girl to marry him that means he is ready and well prepared to marry her and by than, perhaps the go down on one knee will exist.

Personally I believe it meant that way

well said there is nothing more to explain

Engr.ben:
MY FIANCEE IS A MANAGER IS ACCESS BANK, P.H
WHEN HE ADVISED ME NOT TO VISIT HIM ON MY MENSEZ PERIOD, I SUSPECTED HIM BUT CANT BE SURE
NOW I ASK, DOES MENSEZ AFFECT MEN OR WHAT
BUT I NEVA ASKED HIM WHY I SHOULD NOT VISIT BUT FRIENDS TELL ME THAT MENSEX PERIOD AFFECTS JUJU/CHARM
PLZ HELP ME

back to your story

well it is very cleat dear from what you said it seems like you live apart and visiting him is gold i.e the company and sex

he wont have sex when pop around while you are on periods so it is better you dont pop around it will hurt miss sexually i.e you are there and he cant have it becoz of your periods . from a man's point of you it hurts especially when you have been missing it and then you are told that i am on my periods

Engr.ben:
ME. POTATO, I REALLY NEED TO HEAR FROM UNSEEN FRIENDS THAT CANT DECEIVE ME IST THEN I WILL DEFINITELY ASK HIM IN NO DISTANT TIME,
THANKZ Y'ALL
@ ROKIATU, HE WILL DEFINITELY FIND OUT

what got his work position got to do with your periods ?

your story is about periods we dont need to know of what he does for a living

show off i guess

frankcj:
I AM INTERESTED IN THIS VEHICHLE VOLVO S60 OR S40.

HOW RELIABLE BOTH VEHICLE AND AVAILABILITY OF PARTS AND COST.

ALSO MAINTENANCE COST EFFECTIVE.

volvo are very reliable

your profile say you are in london so i dont see the need to ask for availability of parts as for cost there are average

i drive an s40 auto CD model full leather interior and air condition mileage on the clock 130 000miles but she still droves like new

guys i am zimbabwean i got a scenario i want to give to you analyse but it wont make sense if i give it you raw straight from a zimbabwean way of paying bride price

tell me what you are charged and the reason to the charges then i will try to put my scenario into nigerian way of bride charging

I.CHINONYE:
HOW LOVE ALMOST KILL ME

B4 i start telling my story let me start by introducing my self,am I.i.chinonyerem, my name may sound as a cutiee name but certainly am a guy in my late twenties,
As much has been said about me lets go straight to my story,i met a gurl in my 3rd year while at the university of Nigeria Nsukka when she just got admitted,for me it waz my dream gurl,some1 i want to spend rest of my life with,each day i pray asking god to fulfil dat bloved dream,she is ADA E##BO,we dated more dan 5yers an i tauth we both share the dream of togetherness cuse we both discus more about d numba of kids we wud ve,d structure we wud put in place,ow we wud make our marriage nt just 1of d best but d envy of all n so on,days come n go,month,year d same,we worked n plan 2geder,i leave all this years planing 2suite her into my calendar n probably nt planing 4 d imaginable,i love ADA s no new word n GOD 4give me if i say i loved her more dan him,dont der me even if i say i can kill 4her if it will make her hapy,financially ,clothing,phones, feeding,skul fees, accommodation,to talk is d least but i dnt care cuse i waz donig it 4my self an will even do more if am a rich kid,i kept all this secret 2my self to prevent friends n family 4rm discouraging me but few of my friends that knew wat waz hapening kick against it cuse am not 4rm a rich home to b her father while in skul bt i dnt care. I got most of my money i spent on her 4rm my mum shares she entrusted me 2manage 4her n my skul fees which i did nt pay bt used it on her, several times i ve futh my friend who know of this cuse he haz decided 2stand on my way.Trouble started when d nigeria stock exchange wz in a mess my shares fell n wit fears it will fall more i had 2sell all 2invest in forex which i lost all my money to it at that time she came calling 4mone 2pay her final yr skul fees n my brother my sister God knos i dnt ve mone 2help at dat time,i try ed everything i cud do 2get mone but noting worked that waz how i saw my love leaving to anoda man i waz lata told s a importer xporter,she caled me all sort of names 4dat but those i cud remenba vividly re am a poor boy,not d rite man 4him n dat she used me an dumped me,i cryed to her ,beged her,even her friends n family bt noting came out of it,during that time i was a living corpse,i cud nt eat drink nor sleep,fainted so many times woke up as if its a dream bt that dream till today i doupt if its real.4more dan 1yr she left i cudnt still find my feet,i waz nt dying cuse of d money i put in her bt d love that wz leaving my life,i cant say this story all but i ask GOD today which made it close to 2yrs since she left me wat re my o fence,why will i b paid with rott n pain, i tell u all may b am still dreaming cuse i cant belive some1 that once told me i love u n will spen d rest of my life wit u behaving as if we neva new b4.my feet today re still tied wit shock an dis_beleve, what re my ofence again i ask GOD THIS WAS THE REASON I ONCE ASKED A QUESTION HERE IN NAIRA LAND DOES LOVE MATA IN A RELATIONSHIP WHEN MONEY IS THERE
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-520037.64.html

sorry for da heart break

but your writting was pain to read you should have it put it in paragraphs it takes times to read

daylae:
That was uncalled-for. U should just pass,instead of the insult on the poster.

@op everyone suffers rejection at any point in time. That shouldn't make him not to go for his disires.

i dont respond to make people happy

i respond to air what i think

whoever doesnt like my view then well unlucky you thats your problem

henry UN:
My friend is alway afraid of asking a lady out or he has never been on a date. before, pls he need your advise? he thinks he will be a losser if a lady say no to him.

you are daft like your friend do really need advise from us on possible matter like that

Rizah:
I am sick enough that dying anytime would not be a surprise. Well, it’s too painful to admit but I already accepted my fate, after a long battles with God for I have questioned my faith on Him.

I am currently in a very loving and committed relationship with a Nigerian guy. Though we are in a long distance relationship, we both managed to keep and overcome the obstacles. We are both working and preparing ourselves (emotionally & financially) for the future and plan to get married in two years time. Sadly, I know it will no longer happen.

My guy doesn’t know that I am sick and I don’t have any plan and even the courage to tell him. I love this guy so much and I don’t want to hurt him.

I have been a frequent follower of NL and it's quite a relief that I was able to share this. I would appreciate very much to have your views and thoughts on this situation.

by not telling him you hurting him just tell him you never know  he might give your last better days

Emy4u:
I hv met a quite numba of gal for a relationship in skul, ph, facebook, etc but none has turned out 2 be successful. Dey always betray d trust i hv on dem. Just messed up my virginity in d name of love. Pls where can i find real love i mean a true friend?

correct me if i got it wrong

you meet them for a date right ? how do they cheat on you when only met for date

as for your virginity do you really think a woman was going inspect you to see if you are still a virgin

bethangel:
It just baffles me how we have so many older guys still single nowadays, what exactly were they waiting for?, the next generation of ladies?
Lately, 80% of guys who hit on younger ladies are older than 39-40 sometimes even 50 (and they're still single,i'm not counting the separated or divorced ones)
Back in the days, young guys get married early, at least the much older generation are a few examples.

Now,this is just my opinion, i may be wrong.

society had much influence i.e to be called a man you had be married now dont care much they go to colleges and unis(taking most time the early lifes) to have qualifications that will give a better future

Vic2k3:
Zim Drill not really. Jxt to say that given shes an undergrad(and usually @ school) it is apparent that they do make out in her absence.

i know what she meant but there was no to tell us about her studies she should have just said she is not always home

Vic2k3:
^^ thats to emphasize that she is seldomly @ home.

so does it mean that undergraduates are not always home ?

geoger:
Thanks for your advises, really I don't if he has been lying to me how could I know, but recently I found that he is indeed lying to to me, last night we were watching a television show, SO YOU THINK YOU CAN DANCE on( MBC 4) a man was dancing so I went inside the kitchen, so when I came out he has finished dancing so I ask my husband if they gave the man ticket to Vegas? he said no but at the end of the show they mentioned the man's name as one of the people that is going to Vegas, before that I ask him if he drank tea before going to bed he said no but he did,after we finished our dinner i went bed I sleep very early because am pregnant, we have been married for 5 years now and we have two children, when I was sleeping our baby girl came in with a cup on her hand so I taught it was water but when I woke up in the mid night i found out it was tea, so i ask him if he drank tea he said no.I don't know why he said know I have never fought him when he eat.He make all the money in the house he buys everything in the house but why is he acting this way? lying for a little thing. we write what the family should be doing every day he remove the ones I wrote, but the one he write about praying everyday he find it so difficult to do, I will ask him up to 6 times to come and pray sometimes he pray or he will not.I am trying to work on my marriage and I want us to do it together but my husband don't listen to me.rather he will fight with me.We have been fighting for years trying to know each other the more but for some months now we I have been much happier then ever, except last night when I found out he lied to me twice at the same time who know how long he has been lying to me or is he just forming a new bad habit?

if you have been fighting for years how did you manage to stop fighting have sex resulting in you getting pregnant

from the way you have narrated your issues it seems like you are the nagging one you ask silly question and you look for a fight in those silly question you end making a big story

iz2much:
I am an undergraduate and married. My husband hardly gives me attention because of a 14-year-old girl. He lied to me that he only wanted to help her, but I caught him making love to her in the same compound where we live. I saw them in the girl‘s room. He was almost speechless and ever since, life has been anything but peaceful at home. Anytime I complain, he doesn‘t listen. Yet I do everything possible o make him happy and I have prayed to God to take control. One night he woke me up and declared that he had stopped sleeping with her, but I knew it wasn‘t true. Now, he wants my love. What do I do?


http://www.punchontheweb.com/Articl.aspx?theartic=Art201010023234067

what does your education qualification got to do with your story

queeneve:
Imma need you TWO to get a room, I think I just vomitted!

why would suggest a room

and what made you vomit

gattusoft:
Virginity is not dignity but lack of opportunity

you missed hitting one ?

AqRiUs Age:
When she asks you for money what do you think she needs it for? Do you think she really needs it (as in, is it necessary) or does she ask, get t, and then spend it on unnecessary things? If she does, then you two need to talk about being fnancially respnonsible. If yyou two wil vbe making a life together in the future,, then its not too early to start learning how not to waste money and how to save some.It isnt easy being a student though so she truly may be needing the financial help. If her family is "well to do" as you said, then maybe instead f turning to you, she could consider turning to her mom. It seems to me like you two need to have a good talk about your concern

even if she needs it she doesnt have to ask all the time, the boyfriend is not there to cover all her problems, roughly she needs to ask for things worth asking for and sometimes you need to find a solution with the boyfriend being asked to chip in

omega25red:
yea through the phone

poor him

bolof2000:
been in serious relationship for about a year with this girl, bt since when i started work, she is always bringing up an idea to get cash more cash, though she does that stylishly. I am not against giving my gf money, bt just thinking, why all the time, plux we are in a distance relationship

are you hitting da pum; pum; by any chance ?

ZIM DRILL:
what kind of advise does he want from you as if you are dating the girl, he should make up his mind becoz he is the only one who knows how he feels towards the girl

REALITY101:
Buhahahaha @ grammar. Op I will be brb im just choking right right now tear of laughter ROTFLMAO, Ok I understand it's keyboard error

if i had said it people were going to pick a fight with me becoz i am zimbabwean they would feel offend becoz i would be correcting their fellow man