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Foreign Affairs › Re: Statements By Bill Clinton And Barack Obama About The Situation In The US by zoedew: 7:02am On Jan 26
YoungLionken:
Obama and his cronies should just STFU!!

A bloody riot erupted in Kenya (Obama's birthplace) some time ago, what statements or action did he take? He sponsored more chaotic divisions in Africa than anywhere else by ordering the strikes that killed Muammar Gadaffi, leading to more terror splinter cells terrorizing west Africa till this day. Campaigned against GEJ for refusing his gay law proposition, using Chibok girls. In fact, Obama dey craze! Carry go Donald Trump.!!
Obama as US President was a disaster. He messed up humanity values and mores that kept man sane!
Foreign Affairs › Re: Statements By Bill Clinton And Barack Obama About The Situation In The US by zoedew: 7:00am On Jan 26
naptu2:
Bill Clinton @BillClinton



https://x.com/i/status/2015562744993350135
Birds of the same feather conglomerate at close proximity.
Travel › Re: The Dark Side Of Living Abroad Nigerians Don’t Tell You by zoedew: 4:12pm On Jan 25
Sunnyshinylight:
The Dark Side Of Living Abroad Nigerians Don’t Tell You



Every day on Nairaland, Instagram and WhatsApp, we see pictures of Nigerians abroad living “soft life” — big jackets, snow selfies, fine streets, clean trains.

From Nigeria, it looks like once you japa, all your problems are solved.

But the truth?
There’s a dark side of living abroad many Nigerians don’t talk about — especially those already there.


Let’s be honest.


1. Loneliness Will Deal With You


In Nigeria, even if you’re broke, you have people. Neighbours, family, friends, noise, gist.
Abroad?

You can stay months without real human connection.
Everyone is busy. Everyone is tired. Everyone minds their business.


Many Nigerians abroad battle silent depression, but won’t say it because they don’t want people back home saying “you wanted to japa, now see you.”


2. You’ll Work Jobs You Never Imagined
That “abroad” dignity fades fast.
Doctors become caregivers.
Engineers wash dishes.
Graduates do night shifts nobody wants.


Nothing is wrong with honest work — but the mental shock is real, especially when you remember how people respected you back home.


3. Bills Will Humble You
Yes, currency is strong — but expenses are stronger.
Rent.
Tax.
Insurance.
Transport.
Utilities.
You may earn well, yet still be one emergency away from crisis.

That’s why some Nigerians abroad can’t send money home as often as people think.


4. Racism Is Real (Even If It’s Silent)
It’s not always shouting or insults.
Sometimes it’s:
being ignored
being over-policed
being treated like you don’t belong
working twice as hard to be seen as “normal”
You’ll constantly feel like you have to prove yourself.


5. No Family Safety Net
In Nigeria, if things scatter, you can manage:
stay with family
borrow food
get help
Abroad?
If you fall, you fall alone.
Miss rent = eviction.
Lose job = real trouble.
No uncle. No mummy’s friend. No village support.


6. Immigration Stress Can Break You
Waiting for:
papers
visas
renewals
approvals
Living in fear of one mistake ruining years of effort.
That stress is not a joke. Some Nigerians abroad are physically there but mentally exhausted.


7. You Can’t Easily “Come Back”
Once you japa, coming back empty-handed feels like failure — even if you’re tired.
So people endure misery in silence, just to maintain the image of success.


Final Truth
Living abroad is not bad, but it is not paradise.
Nigeria is hard.
Abroad is hard — just in a different way.
Anyone telling you japa will solve all your problems is not telling the full story.
Over to you, Nairalanders 👇

Would you still japa knowing all this?

Nigerians abroad, what’s the hardest part nobody warned you about?
Let’s talk — no packaging.
Life’s challenges found EVERYWHERE!
Politics › Re: Nigeria Treats Religious Violence As Attack On The State — NSA Nuhu Ribadu by zoedew: 4:03pm On Jan 25
Politics › Re: Beatrice Ekweremadu Returns To Nigeria Following UK Prison Release; Senator Husb by zoedew: 1:37am On Jan 25
IronCondemned:
I hope the young man who betrayed them is still in the UK.

This life sef....

Their only sin was what they did to save the life of their child. They had a deal with that young man to donate his kidney, he wasn't tricked into it, he would be rewarded accordingly, but he chose to betray them soon as he landed in the UK, claiming they wanted to harvest his organ.

Welcome back Madam.
You have not asked yourself why both criminals did not donate their own organs or that of their relatives. The young man was smarter than the wicked and exploitative criminal couple!
Politics › Re: Donna Duke Weds Tobe Rapu (photos) by zoedew: 2:49pm On Jan 24
Freshandfitpod:
With all her father money she still no fine, truly beauty cannot be bought. I know this marriage will not survive a year mark my words.
Freedom of speech does not admit of careless talk. The internet does not forget!!
Politics › Re: Governor Makinde Dragged To EFCC Over Alleged Fraud by zoedew: 8:47pm On Jan 23
Putindbutt:
https://www.legit.ng/nigeria/1693056-just-governor-makinde-dragged-efcc-details-emerge/
The day after his tenure is over he will report at Iyaganku. Only foolish civil servants will help him cook the books.
Celebrities › Re: THROWBACK: African Billionaire, Dr Aliko Dangote With Father In 1977 by zoedew: 8:16pm On Jan 23
In 1977 how many Nigerians not from the North could boast of this level of comfort?
Food › Re: The Hidden Danger Of Falling Food Prices In Nigeria by zoedew: 8:05pm On Jan 23
TechToyin:
Many people are happy that food prices are coming down. On the surface, it looks like good news. But there is a serious danger most people are not talking about.

Cheaper food is good for consumers, but not always good for farmers
While buyers enjoy relief, many farmers are selling at a loss.

Cost of farming is still very high
Fertilizer, diesel, transport, labour, and insecurity are still expensive. Prices fell, costs did not.

Farmers are losing capital
Most Nigerian farmers use money from the last harvest to fund the next season. Losses now mean no money later.

Many farmers may not plant next season
When farmers cannot afford seeds, fertilizer, or labour, they reduce production or quit entirely.

This leads to future food shortages
Less planting today means less food tomorrow, which will push prices up again.

Nigeria has no strong price support system
There are no effective minimum price guarantees or working buffer stock programs to protect farmers.

Poor storage forces distress sales
Because farmers can’t store food, they rush to sell during harvest when prices are lowest.

Middlemen and traders also suffer losses
Oversupply and weak demand affect the entire value chain, not just farmers.

Price instability scares investors away
Serious investors avoid agriculture when prices swing wildly from profit to loss.

Low prices today can mean hunger tomorrow
If farmers collapse, Nigeria will depend more on imports and face worse food inflation later.

Bottom line:
The problem is not high prices or low prices. The real problem is unstable prices.
If Nigeria does not protect farmers now, today’s cheap food will become tomorrow’s food crisis.
The government has to step in and buy back from farmers to stabilize prices.
Politics › Re: NBA Condemns Maina’s Appointment As Garki Branch Patron by zoedew:
Very few supposedly successful but wealthy Lawyers in Abuja can openly state how they make money. The Garki Branch would appear to be celebrating their ATM! Stinks 😷!
Politics › Re: Rivers: Court Adjourns Fubara’s Impeachment Challenge Indefinitely by zoedew: 4:50pm On Jan 23
Just watch a brilliant Lawyer handle the matter and both sides to the tussle will be left with their mouths open!
Politics › Re: We Are In A Society Where There Are No Consequences For Bad Behavior - Saraki by zoedew: 9:07am On Jan 23
iwaeda:
VIDEO: We Are In A Society Where There Are No Consequences For Bad Behavior - Saraki


True that! If there were you should be in jail for running down banks and sundry other matters!
Politics › Re: Supreme Court Dismisses Trial Of Major Al-mustapha In Kudirat Abiola’s Murder by zoedew: 3:05pm On Jan 22
Not a nice idea to work against God and raid the other room of a traditional ruler -bad consequences follow such conduct.
Politics › Re: Rigging Has Begun – Atiku Blasts Senate Over Electoral Act Amendments Delay by zoedew: 2:59pm On Jan 22
Crime › Re: Court Releases Anthony Joshua’s Driver On ₦5 Million Bail by zoedew: 11:22am On Jan 22
lagostrendboy:
https://eyesoflagos.com/2026/01/22/court-releases-anthony-joshua-driver-5m-bail/
Mission accomplished! By the way, see Ogboni Lawyer well identified for obvious reasons. The Lawyer no get shame sef! He is fully into the secret society stuff - belonging to the Reformed One (Blue Badge) and the Local and supposedly deadlier one (Red Badge). He is a double barrelled Ogboni!
Politics › Re: ‘Barking Dogs’, Ogun Governor Abiodun Slams Those Criticising Him Over Bad Roads by zoedew: 11:21am On Jan 22
Islie:
https://dailytrust.com/barking-dogs-ogun-gov-attacks-those-criticising-him-over-bad-roads/?noamp=available#google_vignette
I am inclined to think that it is a deliberate action on the part of OGSG aimed at keeping Ogun State residents within the State and reducing the tendency for them to do business in Lagos State that has the market population which drives business and economic growth sought after by all.
Travel › Re: Nigerian Man Reportedly Deported After Returning A Lost Wallet To Police by zoedew: 8:33am On Jan 22
Kingzjayzee:
An Abroad-based Nigerian man has been reportedly deported from Europe after returning a lost wallet to the police, an act of honesty that unexpectedly exposed his immigration status.

In a viral video shared on X (formerly Twitter) by AsakyGRN, the man recounted how the Nigerian found a lost wallet and decided to do the right thing by taking it to the police station.

However, when officers asked for his ID, he was unable to provide one.

It was later discovered that he was living in the country as an illegal immigrant, leading to his eventual deportation.

The story triggered emotional reactions online. One commentator wrote, “This world no balance. Person do good, na punishment follow.”

Another said, “[b]Law is law. The police did their jo[/b]b.” Others expressed sympathy, with one user saying, “He chose honesty over survival. That’s painful.”

The incident has once again highlighted the harsh realities of undocumented life abroad, where even good intentions can come with serious consequences.

Watch video below…




https://www.gistreel.com/abroad-based-nigerian-man-reportedly-deported-after-returning-a-lost-wallet-to-police
That is a society that lives by the Law and not sentiments!
Foreign Affairs › Re: When Europe Leads It Results In Chaos, Delay And Decline - Donald Trump by zoedew: 7:47am On Jan 22
RaySimran:
Donald J. Trump

@realDonald Trump



[url=Source:https://x.com/i/status/2013992403389100396]source[/url]
Truth well spoken! No European Country speaks with clarity, boldness and clarity. It’s not in their DNA! America usually saves the day for humanity! But for the fat boy the WW2 was certain to have ended differently!
Politics › Re: Pass Out Parade Of The NDA Course 4 Regular Cadets In 1971( Picture ) by zoedew: 11:47am On Jan 21
Racoon:
"Pass Out Parade of the NDA Course 4 Regular Cadets in 1971( Who Can You Identify?)."
Where is Officer Cadet Ogboma today? What has been his trajectory in Military Service?
Politics › Re: Diezani Alison-Madueke Appears In Court Over Alleged £100,000 Bribery Charges by zoedew: 2:10pm On Jan 20
OLAADEGBU:
SaharaReporters

The court appearance was part of early proceedings ahead of her full trial relating to allegations connected to her time in office.
Folks lack shame. They will meet God someday.
Health › Re: Nurse Attacked By Trans Paedophile Who She Called “Mr” Risks Being Sacked… by zoedew: 1:59pm On Jan 20
OLAADEGBU:
'Despite being the one placed at risk, I am the one being punished.'



https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15473997/Nurse-suspended-transgender-paedophile-Mr-dismissal.html?utm_sf_cserv_ref=627779147727679&utm_sf_post_ref=654229281&ito=social-facebook-uknews
Sodom and Gomorrah! Sodom and Gomorrah! That society is a mess! Yet folks here sell all they are worth to migrate to the messed up environment!!!
Politics › Re: 2027: I’m Better Prepared To Lead Nigeria Than Tinubu, Atiku, Obi — Pat Utomi by zoedew: 6:33am On Jan 20
ryloy:
2027: I’m Better Prepared to Lead Nigeria Than Tinubu, Atiku, Obi — Pat Utomi


https://reubenabati.com.ng/feature/2027-i-m-better-prepared-to-lead-nigeria-than-tinubu-atiku-obi-pat-utomi
Yes, from the ruins and wreckage of Volkswagen of Nigeria Limited!! You tried!!!
Politics › Re: Malami Finally Surrenders To DSS After Days Of Standoff At Kuje Prison by zoedew: 2:10am On Jan 20
FEGNO:
Nnamdi Kanu will be having ejaculations now.
Hon. Justice Omotoso finally got to be his nemesis. The deluded fellow thought he was with Hon. Justice Binta Nyako!! Now Kanu has his future set out for him. A steady flow of South-Eastern Royalty and VIPs visiting him should his life jail term a fleeting thing. He dribbled himself into a bind urged on by the deluded band of Lawyers in his legal team who argue blindly and upside down talking wal instead of Law.
Politics › Re: Spot On Article On Wike by zoedew: 1:49am On Jan 20
johannu:
If there's any person most Nigerians are waiting for his downfall, I think that person is Wike.
Hatred on its own is a consumption. Wike will triumph over them all. 2027 outcomes will lay all to rest.
Politics › Re: 'You Can't Teach Me' Rufai, Lawyer Clash During Interview On Rivers Politics by zoedew: 1:40am On Jan 20
Lifestylecom:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iX5cTc2M1Sc

Lawyer, Godspower Egbule has said Fubara’s impeachment proceedings must strictly follow constitutional provisions, warning that court intervention at an early stage would be premature.

Egbule said, “At this point, it would be too hasty for anybody to reach the court,” adding that, “The three arms of government are circumscribed by the provisions of the Constitution.”

“It would be ultra vires for the legislature to make moves that are outside the provisions of the Constitution. It would also be ultra vires by the judge and the court to make orders that are outside the provisions of the Constitution.”

He anchored his argument on Section 188 of the Constitution, describing the impeachment process as clearly defined and sequential. “Section 188 is clear. First, a third majority, a notice of impeachment, is given to the Speaker. The Speaker sends a notice of impeachment to the governor. After that, by a motion of a third majority, that motion is now adopted by the House of Assembly and sent to the Chief Judge to set up a seven-man panel,” he said.
Rufai is a cut-to-size gun meaning that he typically misfires and is grossly inaccurate. That way he is easier to conceal in the Arise TV Studio outside of which he has very little relevance not having been tutored at any Journalism Institute to be a Journalist. I guess he is enjoying his hobby.
Politics › Re: WEF: Shettima Arrives Switzerland, To Commission Nigeria House by zoedew: 9:22pm On Jan 19
Putindbutt:
https://businessday.ng/news/article/wef-shettima-arrives-switzerland-to-commission-nigeria-house/
Is stable electricity available in Nigeria? Is security better and improving on a daily basis? Is corruption met with the consequences it deserves? Hire lobbyists everywhere with all you have if you do not answer those three questions in the affirmative it is like fetching water into a basket -work done zero!
Car Talk › Re: I Regret Buying My Cybertruck For ₦300 Million — Nigerian Big Boy Laments(Video) by zoedew: 6:39pm On Jan 19
Truth is, it was not meant to be popular. It was meant to stand you out in the crowd.
Politics › Re: Nigeria’s Crisis: Worst Is Over, Says Gbenga Daniel by zoedew: 12:35pm On Jan 19
helinues:
Ogun East people, why would you people be supporting Either OGD or DA to represent your senatorial constituency in 2027?

Are there no better people from that zone
All the fellow could point at as an achievement is that he told no lie. He testifies for himself 🤣🤣🤣
Politics › Re: Obas Council: ‘We Are No More In Oyo Empire’, Tinubu’s Aide Tells Alaafin by zoedew: 10:19pm On Jan 18
Lanre1st:
Is Temitope Ajayi the Tinubu, don't you know PBAT they mentioned is just an adjective used to describe position of Temitope Ajayi. As I said you lack elementary knowledge.
I see your optics are jaundiced!
Politics › Re: FG Slams 3 Count Charges Against Mike Ozekhome by zoedew: 8:44pm On Jan 18
seunmsg:
In furtherance to the UK judgment, a criminal charge has been instituted against Mike Ozekhome in Suit No: FCT/HC/CR/010/2016 Between FRN v . Mike Ozekhome,SAN…


Source
This has been late in coming. The NBA has behave like it did not know about the Judgment. So also BOSAN. What country we live in and they expect the world to take Law Practice in Nigeria seriously. Little wonder, some foreign investors want to bring in their Lawyers with them as a precondition for investing in Nigeria.
Politics › Re: Obas Council: ‘We Are No More In Oyo Empire’, Tinubu’s Aide Tells Alaafin by zoedew: 8:36pm On Jan 18
RichBoy247:
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What is your population of Oyo compared to the population of Ibadan the largest city in Africa? Better go and sit down somewhere
Pride sure goes before a fall! I will sit down in ease and comfort but you will remain standing at attention while your mates are at ease all your disrespectful life except you turn a new leaf.

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