queensmith: It does depend, if your partner minds. If not you do need to respect his/her privacy. A phone is a private thing and some appreciate having things to themselves.
That being said if you have nothing to hide you won't be bothered, but going through your partners phone knowing he/she has a problem with it is wrong and disrespectful. It shows you have no regards for his/her privacy, which he/she is definitely entitled to. Just because you are the partner doesn't mean you can have unrestricted access to his/her life. He is entitled to not want to privy you to certain things. D

bjcole: no wonder marriages are collapsing these days, because we just refuse to leave and cleave to our spouse. lots of spouses are even envisaging seperation, hence they wont let some info so it wont haunt them later. I usually traveled in company of my pastor, whenever he is driving, he gives his phone to me to attend to his calls & messages, I ve really learnt from that. I dnt get worried if i forget my phone @ home, whether she wil read or not, i was before until i did away with all the rubbish then,

bjcole: I m surprised @ lots of comment here, we should get it into our heads that, there are no private issues as far as u married, be it personal, business or profession. No right thinking spouse expects you to divulged all your day to day activities to him/her unless it concerns him/her or how many you treated or diagnosed with Stds, but if that information comes inform of text, its not private anymore. your spouse should have unrestricted access to you & your information.

Ujujoan: Do you consider it dis-respectful if your wife/hubby/GF/BF/Fiancee/Fiance reads your new SMS before passing it on to you

jennykadry: @uju

What is the difference between washing your body with just soap and washing your body with sponge?

free2ryhme:

y wud she read it in the first place? it is my phone and my messages .. I don't think there is an issue here at all... I believe it is disrespectful

Ujujoan:

Ok . . . I've heard!

Next you'll say it's an Igbo people practice.

free2ryhme:


See what i mean by shallows minds .!!!! What has igbo people got to do with the response

jennykadry: @uju

What is the difference between washing your body with just soap and washing your body with sponge?

Ujujoan:

That's your solution to everything na . . . "It's and igbo mentality"

When you are ready to discuss things constructively without reference to a particular tribe, you can come back and talk!

free2ryhme:

make i use question answer question. can you wash your body with sponge alone?

jennykadry:

It would take a smart person to decode that post of mine. Try again, you haven't gotten there yet.

jennykadry:

It would take a smart person to decode that post of mine. Try again, you haven't gotten there yet.

free2ryhme:

I never intended to answer your question rather i was addressing it from the perspective of incomplete information based on on what you wrote

Ujujoan:

Try not to talk about things you know nothing about . . . It helps!

jennykadry: ^^ explain what? The reason why I answered your question with a question was because you sarcastically tried to prove a point. You did not necessarily Ask that question cos you cared to know, you were trying to send a message across. I am not a child uju. Go ask your dentist how non visible bacteria's easily store in your toothbrushes even after rinsing. There is a difference between sliding your tongue into someone's mouth and actually using a brush to remove debris from your teeth/gum

Abeg I am going back to continue a night time seminar

jennykadry: ^^ explain what? The reason why I answered your question with a question was because you sarcastically tried to prove a point. You did not necessarily Ask that question cos you cared to know, you were trying to send a message across. I am not a child uju. Go ask your dentist how non visible bacteria's easily store in your toothbrushes even after rinsing. There is a difference between sliding your tongue into someone's mouth and actually using a brush to remove debris from your teeth/gum

Abeg I am going back to continue a night time seminar

jennykadry: Same way Some people wear protection before sex . It does not stop them from having s3x , it just reduces their risks of contracting something. So 'course bacteria could be passed during French kissing.

Sharing toothbrushes could be a quick route to gum infection. It is not just healthy. People use their brin to brush their Teeth and most times the gun not planned though gets a good brush in the process.

afam4eva:
Do couples use protection normally?

jennykadry: Same way Some people wear protection before sex . It does not stop them from having s3x , it just reduces their risks of contracting something. So 'course bacteria could be passed during French kissing.

Sharing toothbrushes could be a quick route to gum infection. It is not just healthy. People use their brin to brush their Teeth and most times the gun not planned though gets a good brush in the process.

afam4eva:
Do couples use protection normally?

Ujujoan:

Some people react to other forms of contraception and some men are just not comfortable with withdrawing.

So yes, some couple use protection!

jennykadry: Uju ,ignore some attention seekers