kemmyangel: Fine no one is above mistake, u made a mistake by allowing him in the first place, av witness a case like dat before that after a brother had sex with her younger sister, he will beat her say all manner of thing at night he will ask for it nd she will open up again, it got to a time she stoped giving him....nd her brother loved her more nd give the attention she needed than wen he was aving sex with her, u suld'nt have allow it to get to dis stake, anywa the deed is done...what next....i beg u in the name of God dont even think of aborting the baby, that is another sin on it own, u are yet to get out of a big sin u want to kill an innocent baby, u dont kn what the baby will become tomorw....my own advice for is, first ask for God to forgive u nd seek for is directions...then if u have a church u attend, go for cancelling dont be shy to tell it to ur pastor's wife, am very sure they wont encourage u to go for abbortion, they might take it up from there nd assist u...pls try this nd dont tell it to anyone again they mite lead u astray dearie........

Chanchit: You should have left before it got to this point, anyway, the best option is to terminate the seed, then move out of the house, cos it won't stop there.

Lilprocess: Dear readers, I’ve long nurtured this pain in my heart and I think it’s high time I let it out.
I am Damilola by name, in my early 20s. My parents died during the Christmas Day bombing by the outlawed Islamic sect, Boko Haram at St. Theresa’s Catholic Church, Madalla, Niger State last year.
Life became miserable for me since their sudden demise. I thought it was end of the world for me before one of my uncles who lives in the northern part of the country came to my ‘rescue.’
I moved into his house with him earlier this year and he promised to see me through in my academic pursuit. I never knew that was the beginning of my problems.
The whole thing started few months back when my uncle’s wife traveled overseas with the children for summer.
Since then, my uncle started acting funny. He’s been constantly demanding of sex from me. In fact, there was an occasion when he invited me to come and sleep in the bedroom with him but I refused. Howcould I have sex with my father’s younger brother? I asked he but he refused to pay attention.
Since then, I’ve been receiving a lot ofthreats from him; he even promised to send me back to the village if I don’t succumb.
Precisely in July, I allowed him ‘IN’ after much pressures and threats of beating and sending me back to the village.
Recently, I started feeling dizzy and I told him, he asked me to visit the hospital for a test and the doctor told me that I’m already 7 weeks pregnant.
I told my uncle about the development and he asked me to abort the pregnancy. I’m afraid I, I’ve not done such thing before and the worst of it is that his wife would return by month end. He threatened to throw me out of the house if I don’t terminate the baby.
Please advice me on what to do.

bmasz: I dont know if this gold circle adverts reached your side because it reached mine.

kemmyangel: Fine no one is above mistake, u made a mistake by allowing him in the first place, av witness a case like dat before that after a brother had sex with her younger sister, he will beat her say all manner of thing at night he will ask for it nd she will open up again, it got to a time she stoped giving him....nd her brother loved her more nd give the attention she needed than wen he was aving sex with her, u suld'nt have allow it to get to dis stake, anywa the deed is done...what next....i beg u in the name of God dont even think of aborting the baby, that is another sin on it own, u are yet to get out of a big sin u want to kill an innocent baby, u dont kn what the baby will become tomorw....my own advice for is, first ask for God to forgive u nd seek for is directions...then if u have a church u attend, go for cancelling dont be shy to tell it to ur pastor's wife, am very sure they wont encourage u to go for abbortion, they might take it up from there nd assist u...pls try this nd dont tell it to anyone again they mite lead u astray dearie........

Ranoscky:
Best advice so far!

Goldieluks: I don't know why some people are advising her to keep a pregnancy that was bore out of sin prior to inbreeding. She should abort the pregnancy and move on to get a better life, there's no need for her to keep a pregnancy that would always remind her of the pain and mental trauma she went through in the hands of her heartless uncle.

As much as some people might think am sounding harsh, I don't think God himself agrees with the idea of inbreeding.. God hates it. Therefore, we should stop painting it as if inbreeding is a good thing.

Maria-G:
God also does not like the idea of abortion......thats another mortal since upon herself. And the result? situation gets worse.

Maria-G:
God also does not like the idea of abortion......thats another mortal since upon herself. And the result? situation gets worse.

Goldieluks:

if she aborts the pregnancy and ask God for forgivesness, I don't think that would be a bad idea. Let's be realistic here, a lot of girls these days, aborts pregnancy by their bf without hesitation, so why keep a pregnancy from one's uncle?? The use of discretion springs to mind.

P.S am not in support of abortion, but in cases such as this, abortion seem to be the only way out, am afraid!

ITbomb:
I have to agree with Goldie on this , if she gives birth to that child , that child would be a constant reminder of the regret she will carry for life .
In my opinion , she should do what is expedient and start afresh. Make amends with God and look up to God as the Provider and not put all hope on any man , be he uncle or bf

Rooneyboy:
Oh boi how far u na ? Where have u been ? Its been a long while o ,so u still full ground for NL dey chase women about?

olaheavy: Like someone said: she is a lier - her name is not 'Damilola.' Yoruba don't refer to their towns and cities as villages - only the Igbos do that.

Goldieluks:

if she aborts the pregnancy and ask God for forgivesness, I don't think that would be a bad idea. Let's be realistic here, a lot of girls these days, aborts pregnancy by their bf without hesitation, so why keep a pregnancy from one's uncle??

Mynd_44: As evil as this sounds, get an abortion and move out of that house. You dont want to have a child who was concerted through incest

Maria-G:
am sure you know about the sin against the holyspirit....how are you so sure she will survive to ask God for forgivenes and dont forget God works in a mysterious way. She rather not do that. She has erred, she should seek Gods' face and leave the rest to him....who knows, she might have a miscarriage.

Kenistry:
My God (Jesus Christ) don't work in mysterious way. And only good tins comes frm Him. miscariges & co comes frm d devil, and if u r d devil, will u allow miscarige in dis case?