k2039: Open relationships just doesnt make minimum sense to me,yeah why not just play around.

phineboy1pimple:


In essence, U can't handle ur partner wit sum1 else rite?

Patdedon: It is discontentment or greed in another form. Predominant in the female folks. I've had some of it, it's fun somehow but not for really matured people.

vivian chinaza: An open relationship is definitely not for me.

MRbrownJAY: many people are clueless about the pleasures of an open r/ship, so let me educate you all on the matter:
- FIRST and foremost, you should understand that being in an open r/ship does NOT mean that you both should go out and fukc as many people as you want, but simply that you guys are open minded enough to understand that you cant please your partner fully, and therefore you let them fully indulge in what they desire in life. yes, you can be in a r/ship with such person, as whatever "extra" they have is nothing but some spice in their lives, and nothingmore.!

Billyonaire: Let me say this in English: Whoever approves that his lover, sleeps with another man for any 'satisfaction' is NOT a real man. If you can allow another man fvck your lady or wife, you are less than a man. Fullstop!

DECOtech: what if its in sex?

vivian chinaza: An open relationship is definitely not for me.

Mrs.Chima:


I don't engage in open relationships otherwise I wouldn't have gotten married. I am heavily into clean health and body.

phineboy1pimple:


Are U sure U can handle it?... Its nt about finding sum1 who'll b willing to agree 2 such a relationship bt U accepting d terms...

Can any sane naija man continue in a relationship knwn fully well that he's nt d only 1 nackn his FINEASSCHICK?... Hmnnnn...

Kemaona: What do u expect from a generation of Animals? Almost every thrash is accepted. What about 'OPEN MARRIAGE'? Disgusting!

MRbrownJAY:

but of course......... because the real man is the one who isnt satisfied by his wife BUT GLADLY FUKCS HIS SECRETARY/SUGARBABY/MAID, while letting his miserable wife handle her miserable se.xual self by praying for better days. what a bunch of hypocrites you lot are. but then again, what do you expect?!

as i said earlier and REPEAT: if two people are not sexually satisfied and decide to have an open r/ship then LET THEM DO SO, as they surely aint complaining or hurting anyone.

Mrs.Chima:


I don't engage in open relationships otherwise I wouldn't have gotten married. I am heavily into clean health and body.

ballabriggs:

This Mrs Chima your shakara too much sef.
Dey there dey form closed relationship while your husband Chima dey sample every in an open relationship.
Na you go loose.

Billyonaire: I like your courage in propagating this 'civilized' s3xism. But does it occur to you that, you are actually propagating 'legalization of cheating' ? If Open Relationship is acceptable, why not polygamy and polyandry not legalized too. I guess there is confusion in your camp. You are proposing what is happening in the goat and dogs Kingdom to humans. How nice will it be for you to get home after a hectic day from work and your wife is not home, only for her to return tired and saying; "I went to fvck Mr. Richard, I really needed it". Its shameful.

Billyonaire: Dont do that. Its offensive and personal.

MRbrownJAY:

bro, first of all, i am just saying that if anyone is not satisfied they SHOULDNT cheat, they should instead talk to their partner so that they can resolve the matter together. if they CANT then let that person go and seek solace wherever they may find it WITH THE FULL KNOWLEDGE/BLESSING OF THEIR PARTNER (knowing that their partner can do the same).....thats way different than cheating which in my eyes is WRONG WRONG WRONG!

people should solve their marital issues the best they see fit....having an open r/ship is just one way available to open minded couples (and definitely WAY BETTER than cheating). being selfish and cheating in order to solve YOUR OWN issues, while leaving your partner to continue suffering in hers is not only wrong but a DISGRACE TO MARRIAGE.

what is very shameful is a husband coming back from work, saying that he had a hectic day, while he actually just came back from fukcing his secretary. remember, it is all about HONESTY, therefore if you fully well know that A) your wife is lacking B) you CANNOT provide her with what she require/desire, then wherever she gets her satisfaction wont be as bad as you think. you just have to get your head out of your egotistic mentality, which is clearly in the way of your COMMON SENSE.

sanb: It’s a total No No for me. It’s either you’re in the relationship solely or you’re out...there’s nothing like an open relationship in my book. It’s just disrespectful as far as I’m concerned....

ballabriggs:

Kpele O, Mr Offensive and Personal.

I give you the average naija mans life you say offensive and personal, na you know O.

Billyonaire: How many Nigerian men do you know ?

Billyonaire: You are now moderate. I love it that you have watered down your opinion. But I cant imagine a relationship that a couple accept to have different sex partners outside union 'knowingly'. I am for spicing up things by going on vacations, watching porns, even life porns, strip clubs etc. But 'knowingly' banging other people, sounds like the beginning of the end of the union.

AyaSammy: To your question, i will say prayer is a very essential and a right tool in such case where the flame of love in your marriage goes off.

What is not right can never be right besides the fact that u offend yourself, u also offend God with an open relationship stuff. No Man/Woman loves to share who he/she truly loves.

ballabriggs:

This Mrs Chima your shakara too much sef.

Dey there dey form closed relationship while your husband Chima dey sample every in an open relationship.

Na you go loose.

MRbrownJAY:

the reason why most have s.ex is to get se.xual satisfaction. if you have s.ex with someone and CANNOT get the satisfaction that you require/desire then there is a big problem here, as we all know that sex is VERY important in any union.....unless of course you DONT care if you partner is satisfied or not.



yet most "sane" 9ja men are happily sharing THEIR body with their secretaries, sugarbabies, maid etc?! come on now, stop the selfish talks!

MRbrownJAY:

when people in biblical times were having concubines/mistresses and what not to the tunes of 700, you are here talking of end of times because a man and a woman decide to have an open r/ship? animal indeed..... NONSENSE!

agoha_vivi: Open relationship is nothing but self-deceit.