Flirting is one of the most interesting weapons of a lady. Females usually use flirting to initiate communication with a guy and show that she is interested in him. However, flirting may go wrong if not done the right way. The following are eight flirting mistakes every lady should avoid;

1. Don’t play hard-to-get:
Playing games or playing hard-to-get don’t work in this part of the world. Our ladies still don’t get it. It may work here and there, but guys with any level of self-
respect will quit chasing a girl who plays games. If you are interested in a guy, show him you are interested or he will move on. Shikena

2. Don’t touch too much:
Touch less. Don’t be too clingy. Guys don’t usually like women who are too clingy. You can hold a guys arm or rub his hair but don’t let it be too often or too
prolonged. It could irritate or annoy him.

3. Don’t talk too much:
Let your mouth do less talking and let your eyes do more of them. This doesn’t mean that your eyes should be gazing or that you look confrontational. You should simply master the art of body language and let your eyes do a bit more communication. This keeps him guessing.

4. Don’t Be Monosyllabic:
Talking less doesn’t mean you should get monosyllabic. Some ladies are bad at communicating either on or off social networks. The conversation style is usually the same. How are you? Fine. How is school? Fine. What are you up to? Nothing. You look beautiful. Thanks. Can we go out on saturday? ok. Come on. This is so boring. Even if you are a natural phlegmatic, you should initiate conversation and try to sustain them.

5. Mind the effing words:
You want to be mindful of what you say and how you say them. Although your intention is to flirt with the guy, coming out with strong words may let him think of you suspiciously. Making a lot of sexual jokes might make him feel that you might be just after sex, except of course the reason you are flirting is to have sex.

6. Don’t dress to kill:
I have seen Nigerian chics who are almost naked in their quest to dress to kill. The flipside of this is that while the guy may keep his eyes on you for a while. He probably wouldn’t feel comfortable walking beside you because of what people might think of him (you already look like a prostitute). You can adorn yourself with those hot, sexy outfits, however cover up a bit. It keeps them guessing.

7. Don’t be a hermit:
Avoid staying alone with him all the time. While you may want to spend a large portion of your private time with. Suggest public places where you can do naughty things such as whispering in his ears and still feel safe.

8. Mrs. Nice girl:
I am not suggesting that you shouldn’t be nice to a gentleman, however, don’t overdo it. Be yourself even if you like the guy too much. Being too nice may make him feel that you are pretending. Don’t be disrespectful.

http://naijapose.com/how-not-to-flirt-with-a-naija-man/

Girls especially naija girls are guilty of number 4...smh for them anyways...@op nice one and hope they learn from this

Why is ds ur write up 4 naija men alone? I think cos it's not valid.

......... Nairaland is viewed allover d world if u must know!

Why is ds ur write up applicable 2 naija men alone? I think it's cos it is not valid.

......... Nairaland is viewed allover d world if u must know n wat is good 4 a nigerian is good 4 non nigerians too!

OP, What course code is this 4 naija ladies? I need to enrol someone.

I'm only guilty of Number 1 though. But that's in the past. Lol. Nice writeup

larrymoore: OP, What course code is this 4 naija ladies? I need to enrol someone.

Chicology 101. Lol

I like this.

larrymoore: OP, What course code is this 4 naija ladies? I need to enrol someone.

course code: chicology 302
course title: chicology error

190-the-clown:
and most importantly NIGERIAN GIRLS

Never you ask, I repeat NEVER YOU ASK - Nigerian men for money

if hunger dey kill you- stay the HUNGER DIE inside!!

Na advice i give una ooh!!

best thread so far cos its concerning NIGERIAN GIRLS

I feel u my broda.
Gurls have lost their way when it comes to material things...and the shocking thing is "both old and young ladies are chasing money these days"
My advice for women: when you finish wrecking all d men you meet, that one u plan to marry - God will bring a woman to wreck him in Jesus Name.
So no dey feel say u sharp!
Una too wicked!!!

michaelbiz:

I feel u my broda.
Gurls have lost their way when it comes to material things...and the shocking thing is "both old and young ladies are chasing money these days"
My advice for women: when you finish wrecking all d men you meet, that one u plan to marry - God will bring a woman to wreck him in Jesus Name.
So no dey feel say u sharp!
Una too wicked!!!

Very good points u've got here,buh u shudn't limit it to Naija men nah...this applies to almost every man from any nation

My advice for women: when you finish wrecking all d men you meet,that one u plan to marry - God will bring a woman to wreck him in Jesus Name.
So no dey feel say u sharp!  
Una too wicked!!!


Bros you don vex no be small, I no know if na curse abi na prayer!

michaelbiz:

I feel u my broda.
Gurls have lost their way when it comes to material things...and the shocking thing is "both old and young ladies are chasing money these days"
My advice for women: when you finish wrecking all d men you meet, that one u plan to marry - God will bring a woman to wreck him in Jesus Name.
So no dey feel say u sharp!
Una too wicked!!!

This is serious something o. #sweating

i've met alot of numb 1 especially one who even pretented until i gave up not knowing she was dying in silence! In the end she said she was willing to do anything for me if i had asked....
its ok not to be too cheap, but you shud know there is a limit.

ben4ever: i've met alot of numb 1 especially one who even pretented until i gave up not knowing she was dying in silence! In the end she said she was willing to do anything for me if i had asked....
its ok not to be too cheap, but you shud know there is a limit.

true talk. the hard to get thing is a feature of young ladies. they outgrow it as they get older.