i think i had a very original way for breaking up with him: he was calling me on skype, but he was with his friends and i felt like he didn't care about me. so i typed "do you want me to break up with you in front of your friends?" and he didn't say anything, didn't type anything, nothing. so i just went to take a piece of paper and i wrote "i'm done with you". he look at it, took a few seconds to read it and then hung up, went on invisible mode and told me "bye forever"

miss-sweety86:
i think i had a very original way for breaking up with him: he was calling me on skype, but he was with his friends and i felt like he didn't care about me. so i typed "do you want me to break up with you in front of your friends?" and he didn't say anything, didn't type anything, nothing. so i just went to take a piece of paper and i wrote "i'm done with you". he look at it, took a few seconds to read it and then hung up, went on invisible mode and told me "bye forever"

good riddance to bad rubbish... !! thankGod u are now free from his love grip.

My dear,I thought Nigerians were stubborn...apparently,I thought wrong.I never see this your type before oh!!kilode??
You opened a thread some months back about this same boyfriend and his committment issues asking for our advice,we all told you to break up with him because he wasn't serious with you,yet you persisted..I think you aborted for him,he had 2 phones in Nigeria,a girl picked ur calls bla bla bla..Very soon,u'll ask sexkillz to delete this thread,like you did for the previous one.

Anyways,I don't have any advice for you..like I said,"it's only the stubborn fly that will follow the corpse into the grave"..That boy is bad for you,run and don't look back.

dohyn: Very soon,u'll ask sexkillz to delete this thread,like you did for the previous one.

It's my right to ask the moderators to delete my thread if I want. I asked to remove the previous one as I decided to gave him another chance and didn't want that he might see that website one day. So asking to delete as an act of damage control.

But now, if you read what I just said, I broke up with him, and that's really for good, so I don't care that he might see that one day!

I know this is an old thread but may I ask you met this guy, please.

Curious!! I met him in a nightclub in Malaysia!

miss-sweety86:
Curious!! I met him in a nightclub in Malaysia!

okay.. I think I have commented on one of post about this same guy before.... wow. Hope you have moved on now. And have found some else?

yes

[quote
author=miss-sweety86]ok, so that's why you keep sending me messages?
i've no clue how to get in touch with other members :-S
yes, my bf claims to love me but he hardly reply to my SMS, has never
sent me a singe SMS, calls me on average not even once in a month, pick
up his calls sometimes (when it's not a girl and then later he tells me
it's his sister). For a guy who is waiting for me to get married and
wants me to be serious, he's surely acting really strange![/quote] Have u thrown him away yet? ushould if u havn't done that by now. He's not worth keeping.

Vanneni: Have u thrown him away yet? ushould if u havn't done that by now. He's not worth keeping.

yes, i have broken up with him, no need to quote everything i said.

miss-sweety86:


yes, i have broken up with him, no need to quote everything i said.

I know but that was what caught my attention then and I decided to quote it. I didn't read through the whole post to know if you had broken up with him. I'm truly glad for you.8-)

OP, I remember almost not believing u becos of d way u clinged on dis guy.

Anyway, hi 5... We are now doing great. Good riddance to bad rubbish!

well, i think when you are far from home, in a country very different from yours, far from your family and friends, then the people who get close to you have much more importance than the people you could have met back home.... and with that guy we had a very complicated relationship.... i would really like to talk to him and understand why he acted like that (sweet words and promises but no action) but i don't think i could get back with him. i need someone who has strong plans for his life, not just travelling, going to club, having a music studio and hanging out with artists.

miss-sweety86:
well, i think when you are far from home, in a country very different from yours, far from your family and friends, then the people who get close to you have much more importance than the people you could have met back home.... and with that guy we had a very complicated relationship.... i would really like to talk to him and understand why he acted like that (sweet words and promises but no action) but i don't think i could get back with him. i need someone who has strong plans for his life, not just travelling, going to club, having a music studio and hanging out with artists.

Yeah.. that is true... but if you found him what will you do?

what do you mean?

You will hold him with guarded hands and wouldn't him go... na.

Anyway, you seem more like a very nice lady, very rare to come by. The best is that you know what you want and even better.

It was nice knowing you finally let that guy go because in the first thread which you wrote, I , as well as other Nigerians, tried to make you see thing brightly. You were just clinching on love.

I am glad you didn't fall his trap and much better is the fact that you came here to ask questions.

I know, I'm a very stubborn person and even if I seek advice from other people, most of the time I don't follow them. Maybe he was just playing with me, maybe he had another girlfriend, maybe it was the distance, or I don't know. I would like to know why he acted like that because he was sticking to me even if difficult times when I did things he didn't approve. I wanna know just for my own sake. If he was playing with me it's better that I know rather than keeping only sweet memories because I thought he was a nice guy. But that doesn't mean I would want to get back with him.

miss-sweety86:
I know, I'm a very stubborn person and even if I seek advice from other people, most of the time I don't follow them. Maybe he was just playing with me, maybe he had another girlfriend, maybe it was the distance, or I don't know. I would like to know why he acted like that because he was sticking to me even if difficult times when I did things he didn't approve. I wanna know just for my own sake. If he was playing with me it's better that I know rather than keeping only sweet memories because I thought he was a nice guy. But that doesn't mean I would want to get back with him.

there is still a small chance that he was a nice guy....

sometimes a person character and behavior doesn't always equal his intention....


who knows? maybe he was just protecting you.

yes, you're right.

miss-sweety86:
yes, you're right.

Wow what a story !!! Hope u are finally set free now ?