Shollypopz: @ileobatojo: Nice reply! abiL sorry but I have to give her that!

Shollypopz:
MAD ALSO MEANS ANGRY IN SLANG WORLD!! ABIL MEANT ANGRY INSTEAD OF CRAZY!

Oh thank o you my NL teacher( you'll say I'm welcome okay?),

now I don't know the diff btw mad and crazy again !

Things my eyes will read for NL tonight! Chai emi re laye mi o...ashollypeperenpe!

abiL:

Sorry for what? I'm not getting graded for this

Yeah like duh?

jidegirl12:

Oh thank o you my NL teacher( you'll say I'm welcome okay?),

now I don't know the diff btw mad and crazy again !

Things my eyes will read for NL tonight! Chai emi re laye mi o...ashollypeperenpe!

Loool

What does the bolded words say in English?

It means ;

WTF !! like 50cent will say it ... you want a piece of me biatch?!!

abiL:

Loool

What does the bolded words say in English?

Go to bed man!

Another follow follow don emerge from her cocoon

For d 1st night, yes i agree, it was a rape case, but for her to continue for 4yrs more: 18,19,20,21, i think its more of enjoying d material gifts shes enjoying from d good-for-nothing uncle of hers, which is d reason for her not rejecting,=longthroat.

Or may i ask, why did she continue to allow d uncle to have his way until she meets this her new boyfriend?

jidegirl12: It means ;

WTF !! like 50cent will say it ... you want a piece of me biatch?!!

Go to bed man!

Oh okay.. I'll try and remember that, I might need to use it in the future lol

greatgod2012: For d 1st night, yes i agree, it was a rape case, but for her to continue for 4yrs more: 18,19,20,21, i think its more of enjoying d material gifts shes enjoying from d good-for-nothing uncle of hers, which is d reason for her not rejecting,=longthroat.

Or may i ask, why did she continue to allow d uncle to have his way until she meets this her new boyfriend?

As per your last paragraph the answer is yes ma.

Long throat indeed ...

abiL:

Oh okay.. I'll try and remember that, I might need to use it in the future lol

Honestly go to bed.. And I'll remember yours too..'jobless fockers'!

jidegirl12:

Oh thank o you my NL teacher( you'll say I'm welcome okay?),

now I don't know the diff btw mad and crazy again !

Things my eyes will read for NL tonight! Chai emi re laye mi o...ashollypeperenpe!

Lol @ emi re laye mi o.....Ur reply gave me the impression that u didn't, ma binu.

jidegirl12:

I feel what you mean however;

A faceless ordeal does not warrant anybody's madness here.... as long as nobody talks about my own family in a wrong way...then we can DEAL emm facelessly

abiL:

I know I don't, I'm just not the one to sit down and watch people thrash talk.

Oh she's a girl, now I know WHY she's mad

jidegirl12: It means ;

WTF !! like 50cent will say it ... you want a piece of me biatch?!!

I know my Yoruba is not good but haba, this post is completely wrong!!

jidegirl12:

Honestly go to bed.. And I'll remember yours too..'jobless fockers'!

I've got more from where that came from

Lol

abiL:

Sorry for what? I'm not getting graded for this

It's not about getting graded. Using ur lines for you was just a perfect reply @ that time.

I use sorry unnecessarily @times. I take it back!

Shollypopz:
I take it back!

Too late!

jidegirl12:

As per your last paragraph the answer is yes ma.

Long throat indeed ...

so then, thank u my sister, i wonder why some pple hare are positively advocating 4 dis lady, maybe, she forgot dt she cant eat her cake and have it.
I am 75% certain that when d op read all d posts on this thread, he will drop d relationship, then, d lady will look 4 another person to fill d gap or betterstill go back to her uncle for an avenue to get more material gifts again.

I pity all these innocent guys waddling like a duck about town looking for ms right honestly! I'm short of words seriously !

jidegirl12: Hidden post by sisikill , this thread is turning into what I don't like .

Lmao! Nah, Jide it's cool! It was that yeye PYGURU! That thing hates me ehn!!

Don't worry, the thread isn't into turning into anything.

We are all civilized ladies here.

abiL:


Notice I said "child" molesters. You need to be a certain age to qualify as a child. Okay!

Jheeze! What is your issue?

Were you abused as a kid?

Errrr. . . okay I may have spoken too soon about that civilized thing.

So Abil, going by you logic it is safe to say you were a molester, yes?

Ah! Doncha just love it when everything wraps up so neatly?

Shollypopz: @jidegirl12: LMAO! mad is a slang for angry!!

@Sisi Kill: pyguru must really hv a beef with you. Pele!

You see me so?

As if it is by force to date.

I thought we lived in an age where a gal can decide whether she wants to date a Bot or not. . .I guess I was wrong. Since I told this yeye thing to go spam itself, it has dojulemi. . .like wth?!!

I'm taking my case to Seun because I don't know what to do anymore.

Why will anyone be willingly involved with her family member? What will the OP do about the issue?

Okay @ sisikill , and who is py I just got worried when I didn't see your post thought you've been banned or something and presumed again maybe you're in bed.

Harsh it out with Seun I guess ...

jidegirl12: Okay @ sisikill , and who is py I just got worried when I didn't see your post thought you've been banned or something and presumed again maybe you're in bed.

Harsh it out with Seun I guess ...

Think spambot, computer program.

kai!!!

*yawns*
these guys actually debated this topic through the night (UTC)
even the heartbroken bf ran off to sleep

Whatever happens, this would teach the girl a hard lesson not to be naive even to trusting her man
even her family will turn against her for wanting to ruin her uncles marriage
yeah, and the uncle will go on with his life. After all this is Nigeria, -a man's world
I have seen this play out a 'thousand' times.

I know that if it were me, I'd confront the uncle. He (the uncle) has so much to loose
I'd also drill into the girls mind to find out what can be salvaged
I'd postpone the marriage plans while soughting out the psychological issues
I'd not tell my family

But we all have different capabilities, strengths and weaknesses
some fight better online than offline

@OP

I think your major concern is not that she was shagging someone
It is that she was shagging her uncle
who happens to be her blood relative

so you need to isolate the issues properly

Are you worried about the spiritual implications?
Is that what this is all about?

i smh for sone people's reply, u guys are asking y she didnt stop @ age 18-21, are u in her head? do u knw what she is going tru? what if her tell the OP is her way of speaking up? even if its late.
what did she gain by telling her husband to be? if u look at it well she has nothing to gain by telling the secret, to me i think she is indirectly crying for help.
it left for the OP to help her


just see as u pple are calling her slut etc, a real slut will keep her secret with her, and take it with her to her grave.

i blame d girl sha, she tot she could trust the Op and by telling him, thinking he would help her not knowing that she will end up being dumbed and labelled a slut.

Aafulenu: i smh for sone people's reply, u guys are asking y she didnt stop @ age 18-21, are u in her head? do u knw what she is going tru? what if her tell the OP is her way of speaking up? even if its late.
what did she gain by telling her husband to be? if u look at it well she has nothing to gain by telling the secret, to me i think she is indirectly crying for help.
it left for the OP to help her


just see as u pple are calling her slut etc, a real slut will keep her secret with her, and take it with her to her grave.

i blame d girl sha, she tot she could trust the Op and by telling him, thinking he would help her not knowing that she will end up being dumbed and labelled a slut.

You're a very sensible girl
may you live a thousand years

Sisi_Kill:
Oh! Oh! Can I get in on that? Please!!

Do you think we should include a coupon for therapy sessions? Dude must be so traumatized!!




Dude, please don't mind me. . .was just messing with you.

I would say let's hug it out but I don't want you thinking this is a play at vegeance. . .you know like I would pretend to hug you but as soon as you got close I'll stab you in the back with the largest butcher knife . . .so let's shake hands. Deal?

I'll pass on the hands shakig, lets just wave at each other from afar

Sisi_Kill:
Oh! Oh! Can I get in on that? Please!!

Do you think we should include a coupon for therapy sessions? Dude must be so traumatized!!




Dude, please don't mind me. . .was just messing with you.

I would say let's hug it out but I don't want you thinking this is a play at vegeance. . .you know like I would pretend to hug you but as soon as you got close I'll stab you in the back with the largest butcher knife . . .so let's shake hands. Deal?

I'll pass on the hands shakig, lets just wave at each other from afar

ileobatojo:

Coerced into having s.ex = r.ape. Please take a moment to research this in your spare time.

oops!
Forgive my wrong use of the word..
Been smoking some whatnots...
"Psychological manipulation" is what i'd like to call it...

Says who? So if someone snatches me, takes me into the bush, has sex with me against my will by threatening me or holding me down and I don't scream or fight back, that means I wasn't r.aped?

In all honesty,would you or would you not do anything to try to save yourself from the situation?
Would you just oblige and lie there like a dummy all through it?
Was a gun/knife the instrument of coercion?
Haba!

jidegirl12: I think this case is closed cos the OP has refused to talk since page1 judgement for the defendant NON GUILTY OF CHILD ABUSE and NON CONSENT SEX WITH HIS NIECE.

as it is now, i am a quagmire. I cn't believe this, SHE JUST TOLD ME THAT I SHOULD FORGET THE WEDDING PLANS BECAUSE I SAID I WANT TO TAKE UP THE CASE AGAINST HER UNCLE. Isnt dat enough sign to show that she is nt ready to quit seeing her uncle?

hsapien: as it is now, i am a quagmire. I cn't believe this, SHE JUST TOLD ME THAT I SHOULD FORGET THE WEDDING PLANS BECAUSE I SAID I WANT TO TAKE UP THE CASE AGAINST HER UNCLE. Isnt dat enough sign to show that she is nt ready to quit seeing her uncle?

It sure is a sign to show that she is in awe/embarrased or scared of this her uncle and or the act
It is also a convenient excuse for you to call off the relationship if you want to

Me, although its a past event. I go talk to the uncle. Man to man without anger.
I go even ask am question like small pikin: "So uncle, how will you like this case to be handled?" etc
I know say im go dey shake sef and avoid me and my wife after that


It's your call. I know what I'd do

cut her some slacks for Christ's sake.this is a case of sexual abuse.she is the victim here.I just can't imagine all the psychological hell she's been through.

This is tragic and shows why there is so much evil in us despite the fact that we always thumb our nose at western values

An incestuous relationship that lasted for four years in the presence of aunty, couysins and parents shows the lady had some complicity in it but the man should not be absolved

I dont know if it is a good idea to meet the uncle as his free p*sy diet is being taken away from him and he may not be happy. things can get heated and violent.

For me i have some q for hsapien before i say anything

1. hOW LONG have u giys been together and Have you had intimate relations with the girl
2. WHere does the girl leave now and is she a student or working
3. What is the extent of your feeling for this girl.. i mean if things dont go forward with her how will u feel