babyosisi:

Maybe he now wants them to leave deeper

c.fours:


I hope so. because the behavior seems hypocritical.

c.fours:
I agree with those that say that he married her knowing her choice to be conservative.
why the sudden change?

a woman who is perming her hair, wearing earrings and bum shorts for her husband will become unhappy. She should be doing it mostly for herself. She is forced to change her identity and no doubt she will become bitter about it. Even if she changes, the change will not last and she will revert back to her true identity otherwise, she might fall into depression if she stays unhappy.

you can't force people to change for you. that's why you should open your eyes and marry someone who you are compatible with.
that guy is not a true deeper-life member. I mean perming your hair and piercing your ears for earrings is not something you can hide from others and say "bedroom only".

changing yourself for someone else will usually lead to disastrous consequences. you are no longer yourself but a fake. keeping up an appearance to satisfy someone else. that's selfish of the partner.

Mynd_44: I think y'all are being unfair here. The husband saw that she is conservative with her dressing before marrying her right? Whu decide to shift the goal post in the middle of the game?

This is part of her religious beliefs and I don't think she should be ready to displease her God to please a man's canal wants.

Note that I don't think wearing sexy things is bad oooo. I am just looking at it from her view which a lot of people should too.

He is her husband and so? She is still human.

And did someone say he might cheat if she does not? A man that will cheat will cheat no matter what the wife wears

Hunnydropps: I would absolutely start to dress more sexy for my husband. If you can't do things to please him, who will you please? Put those booty shorts on and show your husband that you are up to spicing up your marriage.

IZUKWU: Am not a deeper life member but i understand her dilema , i think her best alternative is to talk to her/their pastor

Hunnydropps: I would absolutely start to dress more sexy for my husband. If you can't do things to please him, who will you please? Put those booty shorts on and show your husband that you are up to spicing up your marriage.

Bludeville: My friend came to me, she is a deeper life lady and she is married to a deeper life man. Recently he called her and told her that he wanted her to become more Sexy for him, to perm her hair,wear earrings and wear more appealing clothes like knee length skirts and even bum shorts when they are alone at home. She's confused. So my deeper life sisters, is it okay to dress like this when your husband asks you to, or would you not do so and risk losing your husband. Because she said she's confused.

IZUKWU: Am not a deeper life member but i understand her dilema , i think her best alternative is to talk to her/their pastor

hrmkz: Dat husband will definately end up in the street no matter wat d wife wear!

Bludeville: My friend came to me, she is a deeper life lady and she is married to a deeper life man. Recently he called her and told her that he wanted her to become more Sexy for him, to perm her hair,wear earrings and wear more appealing clothes like knee length skirts and even bum shorts when they are alone at home. She's confused. So my deeper life sisters, is it okay to dress like this when your husband asks you to, or would you not do so and risk losing your husband. Because she said she's confused.

IZUKWU: Am not a deeper life member but i understand her dilema , i think her best alternative is to talk to her/their pastor

الملكي فوق الله: Ok go let her Talk to the Pastor and Watch she get on her knees and Praise his God

The Pastor has 6 Baby Mommas and 14 Hoez On the Side.

eriegua83: Husband is the HEAD of the house just as christ is the HEAD of the church. The church has its doctrine written by pastor,ur husband has stated one of his doctrines. Remember ur husband is the head of the house not PASTOR.

Hunnydropps: I would absolutely start to dress more sexy for my husband. If you can't do things to please him, who will you please? Put those booty shorts on and show your husband that you are up to spicing up your marriage.

Mynd_44: I think y'all are being unfair here. The husband saw that she is conservative with her dressing before marrying her right? Whu decide to shift the goal post in the middle of the game?

This is part of her religious beliefs and I don't think she should be ready to displease her God to please a man's canal wants.

Note that I don't think wearing sexy things is bad oooo. I am just looking at it from her view which a lot of people should too.

He is her husband and so? She is still human.

And did someone say he might cheat if she does not? A man that will cheat will cheat no matter what the wife wears

Mynd_44: I think y'all are being unfair here. The husband saw that she is conservative with her dressing before marrying her right? Whu decide to shift the goal post in the middle of the game?

This is part of her religious beliefs and I don't think she should be ready to displease her God to please a man's canal wants.

Note that I don't think wearing sexy things is bad oooo. I am just looking at it from her view which a lot of people should too.

He is her husband and so? She is still human.

And did someone say he might cheat if she does not? A man that will cheat will cheat no matter what the wife wears

الملكي فوق الله: If you "Think" about Killing Your Mother...

How is that Person any less crazy than a Man who actually "Kills" his Mother?

Either Way, your thoughts are who you are, One Just is more brave to act on his natural state than the other

This same logic applies to assessing Women.

These so called "sexxxual prudes" are some of the biggest mental "slutts" known to modern man

I don't care how many layers of clothes you wear...when "mentally" you still fantasize about being Gang Rapped by 6 good looking muscular masked men on a subway at 4 am in the morning.

You are no different than the street walkers you all look down Upon

We all know, climax is achieved by mental stimulation...we all know nobody achieves Mentally Stimulating Climax on "Non" Naughty Thoughts.

Therefor, You all Sin

Silly Religious Negros.

*Looks at Watch*...

I should be getting banned from the Romance Section Shortly

UNIQUEWELL:


I respect your view but at the same time I do not concur to it. If you want to rule by the fact that the man saw her that way before marriage, excuse me, NOW THEY ARE MARRIED. He sees to the welfare of the home and the health of the marriage. He is not telling her to dress out that way but for him at home alone. At all cost he wants to feel the love at home, he knows the wife has got it and in order not to fall for temptations outside, he decided to demand for it at home. I don't think that's too much for the husband to ask for nor for the religious wife to give out.

If he's caught cheating outside, you would blame him not knowing that his desire to reignite love in his home was overshadowed by religion! She had better save her home and do as the husband has honestly asked for. Who no like better thing?

If na me, I go put on the bumshort, wait while he returns from work, welcome him with lovely flowers, take off his shirt, make him sit down for dinner, feed him, off to the couch and sit on the laps! Here we Go!!! They Are Husband and Wife! No Be Sin, its LOVE