1920MaMa: [size=14pt]there are other ways she can dress and still look good. it mustn't be provocative. before you know it, he'd want them to watch p0rn together. that man no be deeper life born again. i think he only feigned born-againsm just to get her.[/size]

Ivynwa: All these shackling of people wt mgbeke dress code in the name of religion yet na some of those sisters sabi dribble man into their net pass. One of them chased my brother to a pt my cousin angrily
asked her to stop, another one had the effrontery to boldfacedly tell my brother 'Don't u know that it's u that i've been waiting for?' Poster pls ask ur gfriend sister mary whether she prefers that her husband watches her bum short or the holy blessed bum of sister Angelina. Hehehe

lola.luv:
Why can't she dress more sexily? It ain't rocket science that men are visual and this is her husband we're talking about, so it's not a sin she's commiting with her boyfriend!

I know a deeper life sister who was very reserved. But the fiance really discussed all these issues with her before marriage and she was game to the ideas and they are doing ok.

agabaI23: Op this your choice of handle sef.

Ok, your husband ia having issues with his faith and needs some help.

His requests means that those who wear such on the street are appealing to him. Those people were there before he married you, but he seems to have realised they exist. Has he been watching home video more lately. Watch closely you will notice there is a general change in him. He needs help.

1920MaMa: [size=14pt]if i were to be in his wife's shoes, i won't! that man is not a true deeper life member, cos we all know how they dress. asking his wife to dress provocatively at home will mean living in deceit cos she'll always be on her toes so no visitor sees her wearing such. moreover, why dress like a whoar at home and look holy holy outside? who are you deceiving?[/size]

الملكي فوق الله:

Men are Visual?.....

As If Women are not Mentally,Emotionally,and Physically Stimulated by a Visual Image of Something.

You got to love Nairaland.

..."Humans" Are Visual.

smartg :
Woman, your husband is backsliding, and he needs prayer.

smartg :
Woman, your husband is backsliding, and he needs prayer.

smartg :
Woman, your husband is backsliding, and he needs prayer.

Bludeville: My friend came to me, she is a deeper life lady and she is married to a deeper life man. Recently he called her and told her that he wanted her to become more Sexy for him, to perm her hair,wear earrings and wear more appealing clothes like knee length skirts and even bum shorts when they are alone at home. She's confused. So my deeper life sisters, is it okay to dress like this when your husband asks you to, or would you not do so and risk losing your husband. Because she said she's confused.

mudistr: The woman has a right to say no, afterall she did not bargain for this. In fact she suppose report the man to her pastor

mudistr: The woman has a right to say no, afterall she did not bargain for this. In fact she suppose report the man to her pastor

jmoore: why should a wife tie wrapper when she and her husband are alone?

hrmkz: Dat husband will definately end up in the street no matter wat d wife wear!

c.fours:


I hope so. because the behavior seems hypocritical.

ifyeky:

Gbam! I dnt knw y some peeps seems to b so naïve abt luking sexy for ur hubby. Seriously, if she is nt ready to luk sexy for d hubby, den he might b ready to luk outside coz dats wat he like. If he shud ask d wife to dress sexy @home for him alone, I tink dere is notin wrong wid dat afta all d r husband and wife

ARES: Now I see why marriages fail. A man is battling temptation, and asks his wife to help him, by looking better and ppl here are saying trash? So when ur "holy" husband asks u to slim down and look sexy, he didn't see u fat before he married u.
My girl asked me once to hit the gym, the next day I had muscles all over. Ppl grow up. Marriage is btw the husband and wife, not husband, wife, pastors or ppl's opinion. So ladies, if u are tempted by a 6 pack dude, come home and tell ur hubby to get some

ARES: Now I see why marriages fail. A man is battling temptation, and asks his wife to help him, by looking better and ppl here are saying trash? So when ur "holy" husband asks u to slim down and look sexy, he didn't see u fat before he married u.
My girl asked me once to hit the gym, the next day I had muscles all over. Ppl grow up. Marriage is btw the husband and wife, not husband, wife, pastors or ppl's opinion. So ladies, if u are tempted by a 6 pack dude, come home and tell ur hubby to get some

davidylan: This thread is pure comedy

الملكي فوق الله:

Smh

Nigerians+Religion=Comedy

smartg :
Woman, your husband is backsliding, and he needs prayer.

My first tot exactly. he wasnt like this before, why the sudden change in personality. he needs serious prayers