whats the deal with playing volleyball along side with hating your girlfriend
jumping in a volleyball, thats just a sense of insecurity for the guy and besides the guy must have something else in mind that he never mentioned instead of hating on her girlfriend's new interest for volleyball.
the excuse is lame

come on quit that game, i thing juliet will quit volley ball for romeo anyday, if shakespear permits!!

I dont know the reason why. The guy shuld leave her gf alone to play volleyball. Well i think there may be other hidden reasons involved. Since he said her gf likes jumping up while playing volleyball, she is protecting other guys from viewing what her gf has under. When i was young boys like girls climbing trees so they could see what the girl has under her skirt, May b the bf feels d same way.

I agree FULLY with the boyfriend

why should the assets I have paid for be openly displayed like that because of ordinary volleyball?

The only volleyball she can play is the one where she is the only player indoors

Especially with all these yeye boys around looking for free show, I repeat, not on the assets I've paid for.

look at this trollop feeling on top of the Liberian dfollars that fill his wallet. Olodo.

@debo
did u say asset that you have paid for??

Hardly any issue here. Basically the guy must be extremely insecure. She had better not quit volleyball or next he'll be asking her not to leave the house without permission. First she needs to sit with him and let him realise how insecure he's being. If that fails she may seriously need to consider that she may be with the wrong person. Remember he is your boyfriend not your boss!

fe_mi:

@debo
did u say asset that you have paid for??

Yes I did, and I maintain my position, let the other men look for free assets to be staring at, mine have been taken off the market!

If she insists, then it must be volleyball played only with women in attendance, but with increased lesbianism in naija, even dat one fit cause problem

anyways, all you busybodies should leave the bros alone, man don pay for something una wan tell am how to display am. tafia peepul

All these Nigerian boys and their warped mentality

I agree with u jare Debosky

why I go gree my chic make hin dey do jumpology especially as na men dey coach dem

its adviceable for a woman or man to have a life outside their significant other.

@debosky,
did i hear you say asset [i]you [/i]paid for? I think the thread was "Boyfriend Doesn't Like Her New Found Love For Volleyball", and no where was it mentioned that it was husband, or am I mistaken? Do people pay "owo ori"(dowry), now as boyfriends? Omo, leave that alone, like one poster said "i ban every spirit of possessiveness" i say a big AMEN to that. She has her life to live and I bet she has the right to do what makes her happy. If volleyball is helping her and keeping her fit and out of trouble why not. Jumpology ko, bush people, have you not heard about different sporting wares for women? Please, its just a case of another typical man trying to be in charge. When are going women going to start doing/ allowed to do what makes them happy? Must we always be menpleasers, it doesn't mean they will in turn treat us right or please us o.
@poster,
ask your friend what really makes her happy; always wanting to please her boyfriend OR doing what she loves and enjoy doing. What ever she decides goodluck. But as for me i have to know the koko of the matter before i make my choice, because in all I am the subject matter, and i got to make my self happy.

Debo did the love bug bite you? Im sorry I swear volleyball was a sport. Get your mind out the gutter, its a sport nothing to do with breasts or bums,

I think the boyfriend is insecure

When I was in secondary school, I used to run 100m race for my school and I remember my boyfriend then never liked it cos what we wear is tight shorts to be comfortable. I didnt quit the game for him, I simply told him if he loves me that much, he should support me in what I do. Well, it didnt go down well with him.

Then, after secondary school, I started playing basketball. bad thing is, I was the only girl among the guys since there was no all-girl team. My boyfriend is a basket-baller, and we play together at the same court with the same guys, yet he strongly was against my playing basket-ball. This one too, didnt end well.

Why are they always against their girls doing sports?

As far as am concerned, sports is what has kept me sane and hot so far, if I quit sports, I will get really fat cos I eat alot of junk food.

@Topic
I dont see any reason why she should quit volleyball for him
Like someone said, if she gets fat, the so called sweet guy will not love her anymore
The only thing that is keeping her in shape is the game and he wants her to quit?

That is so lame!

_{WOW!! . . . . I see alot of " Insecurity" "Possesivity" Possesiveness" "Assets" being thrown around here.}

Might just follow thread for a lil while to see how it eventually turns out.

U guys dont understand.
the guy is jealous. Dont u know that when she jumps up, all those sweet sweet things under the skirt becomes exposed to spectators? this are properties that should be seen by the guy alone and not by the whole world. But let me ask. This guy must have been watching female volleyball and noticed that he is seeing a lot of free blue film when the lady jumps up. why does he not want other guys to watch blue film at his expense?

U guys dont understand.
the guy is jealous. Dont u know that when she jumps up, all those sweet sweet things under the skirt becomes exposed to spectators? this are properties that should be seen by the guy alone and not by the whole world. But let me ask. This guy must have been watching female volleyball and noticed that  he is seeing a lot of free blue film when the lady jumps up. why does he not want other guys to watch blue film at his expense?

The guy has a point. She jumps up n down? what happens to her breast? will they jump up n down with her?

Juts kidding. GO girl!!

Sending my warning everywhere!

A whole PLC was today[b] banned temporaril[/b]y by Seun and I (PLC) have not been a trouble maker but some people always come against me. Obviously, it became unbearable and I decided to go against them. However, PLC will continue to observe the decorum [/b]he has been known for a long time. Though, I'm not happy because I didn't carry out my threat, all the same I will let go because I'm a [b]born again Christian.

But Seun must warn these people Lady-T, D-reloaded, Jkpretty, Morenike09 and this woman wrapper called Pahtahkee etc. For sake of peace, let them avoid me seriously.

abeg, no hijack thread.

you can always start a new thread.

all the ppes you mentioned are ban veterans. get with the program.

as to your being a born again . . . na by your actions, not by what you say.

_{(abi you think we've forgotten your first posts about your front line seats in your oga's extracurricular office activities? )}

@all

what we should rather be asking is how old the poster and her boyfriend is ?

I sincerely hope they aint minors

My oga extra-curriculum activities? But he did what I narrated. Quite alright, I'm a born again Christian but those fucking ass always look for my trouble but I hope to remain calm these days.

PLC:

My oga extra-curriculum activities? But he did what I narrated. Quite alright, I'm a born again Christian but those fucking ass always look for my trouble but I hope to remain calm these days.

as a born agian, you are supposed to avert your eyes . no be get thee behind me satan as you dey call am - abi your eye nodey offend you as you dey look the film show?

na that kain language 'bonne' dey use / abi you done dey start 'backsliding' already?

The guy might know a few things about what happens with sportswomen.

I saw enough as a sportsman to empathise with the guy

@ LadyT

I am a man and I know what my brother is thinking, as a lady, she should not be displaying assets that are off the market simple!

na we know wetin we dey look so na we know the best way to prevent other people using our property for free show.

@ velmaN

no be boyfriend dey become husband? Ok maybe he hasn't paid 100%,
but at least downpayment don dey there, so he owns at least 70% of the goods

I insist my guy is right
unless she can play volley ball with Burqua and Hijab or with XXL boubou with baggy jeans underneath, no more volley anytin.

@debosky so all the volley ball players should be women who are not in relationships? i guess your woman will be expected to swim with agbada or not swim at all. besides is she playing the volley ball naked?

A woman dey in a relationship and she still dey play volleyball? What is this world coming to? What a wicked woman,having no regard whatsoever for her man.

She is there making male spectators dizzy while they are trying to monitor the bouncing assets and causing chaos for some trouser snakes,any surprise why the boyfriend is outraged?

there's something called a sports bra.
i watch volley ball, i really dont see any jingling or jiggling.
But i guess for pervs every little movement is magnified and sexualized.

spoilt:

there's something called a sports bra.
i watch volley ball, i really don't see any jingling or jiggling.
But i guess for pervs every little movement is magnified and sexualized.

that's simply because the majority of female volley ball players are mammarically challenged.

You don't see 'em jingling things?

Its not being a perv,do you walk around with a trouser snake?I thought so. . . .so you will never understand.

Besides,actual sportswomen tend to be flatchested.That is why The Thief never fulfilled her sporting ambitions._{sorry thief} The average girl,with sports or 'unsporting' bra,will usually cause problems for people whose duty is to monitor such assets(bosoms auditors)