Honestly speaking, i don't think she should give up the game of volley ball because of her boyfriend. The guy is just being selfish. He has his interest to protect which is understandable, but then he should consider his girl friend's interest and love for volleyball before taking any decision, afterall she took up the game because of him.

And for crying out loud, the guy is on IT, industrial attachment i believe, he's still young and what assurance does the girl have that they will get married at the end of the day?

In my own opinion, the girl should go ahead and enjoy her game of volleyball, if she ends up getting married to her boyfriend, fine and if not, she will still not loose anything. On the other hand, if she gives up volleyball for her boyfriend's sake and ends up not marrying him, she will definitely regret her decision to stop volleyball just to please him.

She should weigh her options and take the right decision.

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Hey nairalanders, Wassup?

Well am trying to help my friend whose boyfriend i think is insecure bout something she loves so dearly. Her lovely and nice boyfriend who is out for his IT from school at his leaving to keep herself occupied she getting involved in playing volleyball. With so much joy she calls him and tells him about her new found love for volleyball, but he gets upset about it and complains that he doesn't like it because volleyball player jump a lot and she's a lady.

Really he doesn't like the whole jumping thing

. What do you think?

My guy dey think o see as e code am

When him go volley ball court ask am wetin him dey look

Your friend should understand with him, like you said it is a matter of insecurity. He really loves the girl, and probably would be someone that dots on her. Now he is not in school to guide her movement / associations, he is scared.
He has left her a sheep in the world where you have wolfs in sheep's clothing

Tell her to keep calling him, and reassuring him about her love for him also

u guy seems not to understand his point, he is trying to help keep what he likes in shape. from the jumping the breast is likely to sag because she is stressing the breast by making it dangle up and down

well the jumpin' thing would make her tits jump all the tym, and he's either (1) Scared the tits might depreciate or (2) sum1 with a more better rhyme would take her away from him.

Ma advice to her is: Dont Jump again, lol

there is nothin better than doin what you love. i don't know why guys get easily insecured over such trivial issues, it makes me sick cos they won't permit otherwise.tell your friend that she gets to live life just once, so she should make the most of it.

he's lucky his girlfriend love sports, he should better leave the girl to leave her life if he's not serious