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Re: What Are The Reasons For High Level Of 30 Years+ Single Ladies In Nigeria? by YorubaOmoge: 1:38am On Mar 02, 2013 |
jaijay: Is it by force to marry in Nigeria? And y'all wonder why your marriages are failing. Keep forcing "already dead before it started" marriages on your daughters and sisters. Mtchewww #NigeriaWillForeverBe<<<=== |
Re: What Are The Reasons For High Level Of 30 Years+ Single Ladies In Nigeria? by coogar: 1:39am On Mar 02, 2013 |
NOIBMUUL: I'll like to pitch my tent with what an elderly man once told me; if a lady is above 30 with no husband or is not already in a serious relationship then she should check her behaviour. And also if a man isn't married or in a serious relationship at the same age, he should get serious. Unfortunately, these traits are easily recognisable from some of the comments here! times have changed - a lot of young men know when to marry but many can't even afford the cost these days. the economy and the number of years youths spend acquiring degrees are the factors pushing the the age to the early/mid 30s |
Re: What Are The Reasons For High Level Of 30 Years+ Single Ladies In Nigeria? by wirinet(m): 1:42am On Mar 02, 2013 |
luvmijeje: If u are above 30 and u still single pls don't settle for less.I know it is easier said than done but what is the use of getting married and u re unhappy. here is the scale of preference for ladies; 1. Happily Married with a loving caring, young and well to do husband. 2. Happily married with a not so loving, not so young and not so well to do husband. 3. Marrying a widower or a divorced man with children 4. Being a second wife to an already married but caring man. 5. Being a single mother with some support from the father. 6. Being a single mother without any support from the father. 7. Remaining childless and se.xless for the rest of your life. I am sure very few ladies would choose the last option if it foretold that they would not get the first 2 options. |
Re: What Are The Reasons For High Level Of 30 Years+ Single Ladies In Nigeria? by Nairarealman: 1:42am On Mar 02, 2013 |
Sagamite:Write .. Seun is yet to add voice tags loucy prick Mr know it all lmao |
Re: What Are The Reasons For High Level Of 30 Years+ Single Ladies In Nigeria? by Nairarealman: 1:43am On Mar 02, 2013 |
Sagamite: |
Re: What Are The Reasons For High Level Of 30 Years+ Single Ladies In Nigeria? by wirinet(m): 1:43am On Mar 02, 2013 |
luvmijeje: If u are above 30 and u still single pls don't settle for less.I know it is easier said than done but what is the use of getting married and u re unhappy. |
Re: What Are The Reasons For High Level Of 30 Years+ Single Ladies In Nigeria? by Sagamite(m): 1:44am On Mar 02, 2013 |
Nairarealman: Write .. Seun is yet to add voice tags loucy prick Mr know it all lmao Is this in Ijesha? |
Re: What Are The Reasons For High Level Of 30 Years+ Single Ladies In Nigeria? by Nairarealman: 1:44am On Mar 02, 2013 |
Sagamite:Write .. Seun is yet to add voice tags loucy prick Mr know it all lmao |
Re: What Are The Reasons For High Level Of 30 Years+ Single Ladies In Nigeria? by YorubaOmoge: 1:46am On Mar 02, 2013 |
Sagamite: |
Re: What Are The Reasons For High Level Of 30 Years+ Single Ladies In Nigeria? by Nobody: 1:46am On Mar 02, 2013 |
kandiikane:yeah I know but remember they all talked/started like you: I don't need to worry etc, we know how they ended. |
Re: What Are The Reasons For High Level Of 30 Years+ Single Ladies In Nigeria? by kandiikane(m): 1:49am On Mar 02, 2013 |
CAMEROONPRIDE: yeah I know but remember they all talked/started like you: I don't need to worry etc, we know how they ended. Yep, like yóu at 40 alone with an.al beads in azz every night. |
Re: What Are The Reasons For High Level Of 30 Years+ Single Ladies In Nigeria? by bomly(f): 1:50am On Mar 02, 2013 |
CAMEROONPRIDE Which thread be that, I don single pass nah abi you wan rewind me? |
Re: What Are The Reasons For High Level Of 30 Years+ Single Ladies In Nigeria? by Nobody: 1:52am On Mar 02, 2013 |
bomly: CAMEROONPRIDEhow old are u? |
Re: What Are The Reasons For High Level Of 30 Years+ Single Ladies In Nigeria? by Nairarealman: 1:52am On Mar 02, 2013 |
Sagamite:I know u one on one so go ahead playing chicken shit., no thanks to ur ND Certf (BUSTED |
Re: What Are The Reasons For High Level Of 30 Years+ Single Ladies In Nigeria? by bomly(f): 1:54am On Mar 02, 2013 |
I am old |
Re: What Are The Reasons For High Level Of 30 Years+ Single Ladies In Nigeria? by Nobody: 1:54am On Mar 02, 2013 |
Seriously if you want to get married do it early, na waaa ooo 30 ? To start pooping babies at 40? |
Re: What Are The Reasons For High Level Of 30 Years+ Single Ladies In Nigeria? by Nobody: 1:55am On Mar 02, 2013 |
bomly: I am 10 + 8what's the majority in Nigeria? |
Re: What Are The Reasons For High Level Of 30 Years+ Single Ladies In Nigeria? by bomly(f): 1:56am On Mar 02, 2013 |
Seriously if you want to get married do it early, na waaa ooo 30 ? To start pooping babies at 40? |
Re: What Are The Reasons For High Level Of 30 Years+ Single Ladies In Nigeria? by bomly(f): 1:59am On Mar 02, 2013 |
what's the majority in Nigeria? That's for that thread, If we export that matter come this thread nah yawa fit gas. Okay anyway I think we just got to look beyond the name and the act. |
Re: What Are The Reasons For High Level Of 30 Years+ Single Ladies In Nigeria? by Sagamite(m): 2:02am On Mar 02, 2013 |
Nairarealman: I know u one on one so go ahead playing chicken shit., no thanks to ur ND Certf (BUSTED English? You struggle with it? |
Re: What Are The Reasons For High Level Of 30 Years+ Single Ladies In Nigeria? by kandiikane(m): 2:02am On Mar 02, 2013 |
CAMEROONPRIDE: Seriously if you want to get married do it early, na waaa ooo 30 ? To start pooping babies at 40? Lmao, google it. |
Re: What Are The Reasons For High Level Of 30 Years+ Single Ladies In Nigeria? by Nobody: 2:02am On Mar 02, 2013 |
bomly:still waiting the answer ?? |
Re: What Are The Reasons For High Level Of 30 Years+ Single Ladies In Nigeria? by MOELLIOTT(f): 2:15am On Mar 02, 2013 |
No short way of saying it! It is not an issue peculiar to Nigeria. It is worldwide. I haven't read all the thread, but I read one that said something about family and home training. It is not exclusively so and more a misconception. There are now many many decent, well raised, "untouched" ladies who are still single. A few points to note - the population/demography is such that more women than men are born. Men are increasingly marrying much later in life, which implies more women are going to be left waiting. When the man in his early 30's finally decides to marry, he is likely to go for a woman in her mid to late 20's. This means he has passed or reached down, leaving an age band in between. Conversely, if a man were marrying in his mid 20's, he'll most likely marry someone only a few years younger. If he were marrying in his 30's, the scope he can chose from becomes wider - for some anything from 20-30 years - implying he has more women to pick from. For the woman, it means even "mathematically" the probabilities are stacked higher against her. For as long as more women are being born, and men delay marrying it would continue to remain a challenge. One mature matching website said for every man they have, they have over 10 women. Is there a general solution? Maybe not. Except the gender imbalance is redressed through more male/less female children being born. If that were to happen, it still takes a few decades for the new births to grow too. So realistically, not an immediate answer. But on an individual basis, one can seek to encourage young women to marry earlier than male counterparts, so they don't find the pool of men they can chose from is less in size. For the older ones who are still hopeful, be realistic and review your criteria. There is less and less to pick from. 5 Likes |
Re: What Are The Reasons For High Level Of 30 Years+ Single Ladies In Nigeria? by Nairarealman: 2:22am On Mar 02, 2013 |
Sagamite:Seriously son u need to grow up DANG |
Re: What Are The Reasons For High Level Of 30 Years+ Single Ladies In Nigeria? by dmcdad: 2:25am On Mar 02, 2013 |
sadeiyare: Why were women created in the first placeTo complement men... |
Re: What Are The Reasons For High Level Of 30 Years+ Single Ladies In Nigeria? by dmcdad: 2:25am On Mar 02, 2013 |
Mamacita007: Its this kind of post that make many women rush into the wrong marriage even when deres no love just to please people and to stop them from talking. Is not better to wait for the right person than to marry becos u're almost 30?You are right sist |
Re: What Are The Reasons For High Level Of 30 Years+ Single Ladies In Nigeria? by dmcdad: 2:27am On Mar 02, 2013 |
delkuf: U guys are failing to look at it from another angle. LUV is fading away. there is no true luv any moreYeah you are right... Thats worth taking cognizance of |
Re: What Are The Reasons For High Level Of 30 Years+ Single Ladies In Nigeria? by dmcdad: 2:31am On Mar 02, 2013 |
Charliemorgano: NAIJA LADIES IN CATEGORYChei!!! Men don finish this thread ooo |
Re: What Are The Reasons For High Level Of 30 Years+ Single Ladies In Nigeria? by Nairarealman: 2:44am On Mar 02, 2013 |
CAMEROONPRIDE: dude u don't need a wife to b happy. Your family and your friends are there for your happiness. Are you aware that men die earlier than women? Blame their wahala they too much. If you want to die old and enjoy the fruit of your work don't get married.I totally disagree with you tell me more to corroborate your take on marriage lolz |
Re: What Are The Reasons For High Level Of 30 Years+ Single Ladies In Nigeria? by Nobody: 2:49am On Mar 02, 2013 |
There is also early age marriage contribution. Without proper understanding of marriage many end up being impregnated and jump out of the relationship early with a child or more. If you look to most of their background they thought early marriage is always good. Another thing, blame the society on coercing people to get married. |
Re: What Are The Reasons For High Level Of 30 Years+ Single Ladies In Nigeria? by Nobody: 2:56am On Mar 02, 2013 |
bomly: When did being single at 30 become sin? or become a thing of immoral? Naija we don start again with our one sided mindset. There is sure possibility that some may not even want to get married or are trying to face other more important life issues, however this is seen I really think this is more an individual issue. Nope. It only becomes a sin when u're forty, ur eggs are frozen and none of ur age mates wants to marry u. This is when u cn now be a sugar mum and pay younger guys to "love" you. |
Re: What Are The Reasons For High Level Of 30 Years+ Single Ladies In Nigeria? by Nobody: 3:00am On Mar 02, 2013 |
Sagamite: Even Tiwa savage as pretty as she must have been when she was younger, age is beginning to tell on her face. I always new the babe was quite old despite the make up and hip dressing. It's not about the make up and dressing. There just exist a perceived awaresness that he lady in question is passing a prime stage. I can't explain it. |
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