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Re: A Girl's Advice To Ladies Asking Guys For Things by born2boink(m): 6:27pm On Mar 09, 2013 |
If they don't beg, how are we going to take advantage of their pussy? 2 Likes |
Re: A Girl's Advice To Ladies Asking Guys For Things by YorubaOmoge: 6:28pm On Mar 09, 2013 |
fresh_dude: This post is all over the place. So this emotional/physical support is the exclusive preserve of women? Mankind would be doomed when women decide to withdraw these forms of support? Ok, I hear you. I think you're joking btw. Now this is funny. You assume that men are the only givers in a relation because of their financial support. My point is that your assumption is false. In a relationship, it aint only about finances. A good relationship needs balance; emotional, physical, and verbal support. In MOST African relationships, men provide the money and women provide the REST (emotional, physical, and verbal support). Calling women prostitute because they're at the financial receiving end makes no sense because men receive emotional/physical/verbal support payments for sex. My other point is that men men aren't the only ones looking for sex and they aren't the only ones getting sex. So technically, men are also prostitutes; they give sex for the support they get. Now if this is too hard to comprehend, that's too bad. Can't help you. |
Re: A Girl's Advice To Ladies Asking Guys For Things by Nobody: 6:28pm On Mar 09, 2013 |
Subomi-luv: Hey, I'm a nice guy - we can be friends, if you want... |
Re: A Girl's Advice To Ladies Asking Guys For Things by huninaija(f): 6:30pm On Mar 09, 2013 |
ItsModella: true talk... |
Re: A Girl's Advice To Ladies Asking Guys For Things by YorubaOmoge: 6:33pm On Mar 09, 2013 |
shymexx: You sure it aint the other way around? shymexx: First off, the dude is worth $250M, he's not a multi billionaire. POINT IS; He DIDN'T keep all of his money Oh I forgot, he also had to pay her $275k. |
Re: A Girl's Advice To Ladies Asking Guys For Things by huninaija(f): 6:38pm On Mar 09, 2013 |
I feel maami's pain, but why is she so pained? If the females out there wanna make a fool out of themselves then they should carry go jare... Why take boscopan for another females monthly flow.. Me I always say everything should be in proportion, if it becomes too much then you're either a beggar or a stark illiterate! Funny enough iv never been able to ask guys to buy me something as small as a pen, talk less of an iPad, can you imagine? even to ask my parents for money is a problem.. Women need to get their P's up and be the ones to baffle the guys in that aspect, when a guy takes me out I always make sure I have enough P's on me so he won't use that against me and start chatting chit! Gone are the days of my parents, beaches need to learn! Her accent changes are funny tho lmao 2 Likes |
Re: A Girl's Advice To Ladies Asking Guys For Things by Nobody: 6:39pm On Mar 09, 2013 |
1000 likes huni_naija: I feel maami's pain, but why is she so pained? If the females out there wanna make a fool out of themselves then they should carry go jare... 1 Like |
Re: A Girl's Advice To Ladies Asking Guys For Things by Nobody: 6:40pm On Mar 09, 2013 |
Yoruba_Omoge: Never that, it's just me and my way of doing things... I'm always on the move and you've to move with me, or get left behind.. First off, the dude is worth $250M, he's not a multi billionaire. My bad, I was going to say multi-millionaire... Do that maths: 250milli - 275k + 10(12 x 9) = _________ That's nothing to Deion's type of money - he gives more that to charity annually... |
Re: A Girl's Advice To Ladies Asking Guys For Things by adabeke12(f): 6:42pm On Mar 09, 2013 |
shymexx: Once a guy starts buying you things, that means you're prostitute.. Because you get paid for servicing his dyck in return... Wtf? |
Re: A Girl's Advice To Ladies Asking Guys For Things by Nobody: 6:42pm On Mar 09, 2013 |
huni_naija: I feel maami's pain, but why is she so pained? If the females out there wanna make a fool out of themselves then they should carry go jare... Hmmmmmmm Women, buy your own shyte.... You can't be singing feminism kumbaya yet you're needy and as broke as a church rat... Get your own shyte, and there's no "swag" in begging and being needy - if you're a prostitute, be real and stop faking the funk... |
Re: A Girl's Advice To Ladies Asking Guys For Things by YorubaOmoge: 6:43pm On Mar 09, 2013 |
shymexx: It matters not how much he departed with, it matters that he departed with some of his money. If it hadn't mattered, Deion wouldn't have ranted about it. He thought "it wasn't fair" lol Makes no damn sense. Who did he think was gonna pay to care for his children? Players, rethink your game. |
Re: A Girl's Advice To Ladies Asking Guys For Things by YorubaOmoge: 6:45pm On Mar 09, 2013 |
shymexx: Not every woman is a feminist loser, infact, many could care less. Wanting single standard in our society does not make one a feminist. Yes, women start buying your own "shyte". Men start using your right hand. |
Re: A Girl's Advice To Ladies Asking Guys For Things by Nobody: 6:45pm On Mar 09, 2013 |
adabeke12: True story!!! One married men should be allowed spend their women on their wives... All these tacky and ratchet chicken heads need to get a job and fix up - cut your coat according to your size and stop buying weaves you can't afford... Women just lust after a lifestyle they can't afford - if you ain't about that life, stick to what you know... Get afro or do African cornrows or something... |
Re: A Girl's Advice To Ladies Asking Guys For Things by Nobody: 6:48pm On Mar 09, 2013 |
Yoruba_Omoge: And you think that meagre amount he parted with affected him, or will fund the expensive lifestyle his ex-wife is now used to Win win situation for my nyggah Deion Sanders aka primetime a la I did it for my momma... Pilar lost!! |
Re: A Girl's Advice To Ladies Asking Guys For Things by freecocoa(f): 6:51pm On Mar 09, 2013 |
Don't you just love NL? Every woman is now suddenly an island that does everything by herself without asking for any help whatsoever from her man, okay o. This thread is funny sha, oh well me I've asked my man to help out with things I couldn't do by myself before and I've also helped him out with stuffs too. He's my friend and confidante and should be able to help me out in my moments of need, shikenan. |
Re: A Girl's Advice To Ladies Asking Guys For Things by Nobody: 6:52pm On Mar 09, 2013 |
Yoruba_Omoge: Most modern-day women are feminists no matter which part of the ideology you wish to align with... If you pride yourself in wanting equality between men and women, then you have to be able to practice that equality in relationships as well - you just can't eat your cake and have it - that's a big NO NO... Heck, women get jobs quicker than most men in the messed up economy we've today - you lot should be the ones spending on guys... But hey, Brazilian hair and high heels stay mopping up your life savings.. |
Re: A Girl's Advice To Ladies Asking Guys For Things by Slankey: 6:54pm On Mar 09, 2013 |
Damn!!! She's got such a authority and great audacity. Tell them babe... They need to hear from someone from the same gender...xx |
Re: A Girl's Advice To Ladies Asking Guys For Things by Nobody: 6:54pm On Mar 09, 2013 |
Good for you. But keep in mind what the topic is about. Do u ask for ur bf to buy u breakfast n bags If u do then thats ur ish but there are a few woman who dnt do that. utote author=freecocoa]Don't you just love NL? Every woman is now suddenly an island that does everything by herself without asking for any help whatsoever from her man, okay o. This thread is funny sha, oh well me I've asked my man to help out with things I couldn't do by myself before and I've also helped him out with stuffs too. He's my friend and confidante and should be able to help me out in my moments of need, shikenan.[/quote] |
Re: A Girl's Advice To Ladies Asking Guys For Things by YorubaOmoge: 6:55pm On Mar 09, 2013 |
shymexx: Like I said, it was a lose for him because he didnt want to depart with that money. It's not the amount that matters; it's the result of the game. He lost. . . . some of his money. |
Re: A Girl's Advice To Ladies Asking Guys For Things by adabeke12(f): 6:59pm On Mar 09, 2013 |
Realest123: Thks |
Re: A Girl's Advice To Ladies Asking Guys For Things by Nobody: 7:02pm On Mar 09, 2013 |
Yoruba_Omoge: At end of the day, he didn't directly pay her a dime - he's only paying for child support.... Deion Sanders was a great "player" on the football field(the greatest cornerback ever IMO) - and also a great "player" in the real world... |
Re: A Girl's Advice To Ladies Asking Guys For Things by adabeke12(f): 7:05pm On Mar 09, 2013 |
shymexx: Then how old r u? |
Re: A Girl's Advice To Ladies Asking Guys For Things by freecocoa(f): 7:06pm On Mar 09, 2013 |
@Subomi-luv, I've never asked him to buy me a bag but if I see a bag I love so much and can't afford it at that moment and I'm sure he has the money to spare, I'll ask him to buy it for me or even ask him to lend me money to buy it. |
Re: A Girl's Advice To Ladies Asking Guys For Things by adabeke12(f): 7:06pm On Mar 09, 2013 |
adaobi123: Lmao. Chai shymexx oh |
Re: A Girl's Advice To Ladies Asking Guys For Things by YorubaOmoge: 7:08pm On Mar 09, 2013 |
shymexx: I'm not even going to argue that bolded because most men often misconstrue a hard-working independent woman with a feminist lol. In today's world where men can't afford to care for themselves, it's every woman for herself. Survival instincts, not feminist instincts. No matter how you look at it, nature obligates men to provide the resources, regardless of a woman's ability to provide her own resource. It brings a sense of responsibility, self-respect, and dignity for a man that can provide for his household. Unbalancing that terrain will cause mental imbalance. Every man wants a woman to lean on him, to entrust him with her wellbeing, to feel responsible for her needs. And in return, women provide positive reinforcement. It doesn't mean women should stop providing for themselves or that men should stop providing for women |
Re: A Girl's Advice To Ladies Asking Guys For Things by adabeke12(f): 7:08pm On Mar 09, 2013 |
shymexx: Not all men think like that |
Re: A Girl's Advice To Ladies Asking Guys For Things by Nobody: 7:09pm On Mar 09, 2013 |
ok i hear freecocoa: @Subomi-luv, I've never asked him to buy me a bag but if I see a bag I love so much and can't afford it at that moment and I'm sure he has the money to spare, I'll ask him to buy it for me or even ask him to lend me money to buy it. |
Re: A Girl's Advice To Ladies Asking Guys For Things by huninaija(f): 7:09pm On Mar 09, 2013 |
shymexx: Ehen what is your post trying to imply? Ain't that what I said tho? However if the guy feels foolish enough to spend and give to the girl like its no tomorrow, he's the beggar and the real s.l.u.t I just laugh at such guys they've got no self-worth and their self-worth tends to be in how much P's they've got... Fools lmaooo I remember vividly this guy I went to uni with, his mother used to work along side Tinubu in his Governorship days, this young goon got money and when I say he's got money I mean it, he would bring a different car to uni every week, guy was balling for real! he's got a pent up in Imperial Wharf and those places for like 3 milli, he bought it cash down, his mother's got a same pent around the block, this guy was a real s.l.u.t and we all know the girls he would bring back home to service him after uni When he tried that chit on me, I showed him the blaaady door, who the hell is he? He wanted to take me on a trip to naija, tickets paid for and club class, I had to cuss the guy out before he got the point, you can't buy me because you've got the doe I know my self - worth.. We're still friends tho and talk every now and then but boy did he get the message after like almost a year of trying it on me!! Now how many ladies would be willing to turn him down? Not many! |
Re: A Girl's Advice To Ladies Asking Guys For Things by YorubaOmoge: 7:11pm On Mar 09, 2013 |
shymexx: Exactly whose acct do you think the money will go to? Magic fairy? I know somebody payin' child support for one of his kids His baby momma's car and crib is bigger than he is You will see him on TV Any Given Sunday Win the Superbowl and drive off in a Hyundai |
Re: A Girl's Advice To Ladies Asking Guys For Things by Nobody: 7:16pm On Mar 09, 2013 |
adabeke12: I'm 45 - why?? Got 3 decades worth of experience and expertise... |
Re: A Girl's Advice To Ladies Asking Guys For Things by Nobody: 7:16pm On Mar 09, 2013 |
adabeke12: Oh well, I know there are loads of manginas out there... |
Re: A Girl's Advice To Ladies Asking Guys For Things by Nobody: 7:19pm On Mar 09, 2013 |
Yoruba_Omoge: No matter how you look at it, nature also obligates men to be superior to women - so why're women fighting for equality I'm not against equality, however, it goes both ways... Feminism is kind of broad and vague - women empowerment is also an aspect of feminism... |
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