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My Letter To All "LoveStruck" Nairalanders by NessaFresh(f): 8:18pm On Mar 11, 2013
Everynow and later you see "supposed" letters to bloggers, facebook pages and even as threads here on Nairaland and I can't help but wonder!
It is not that to share problems about your relationships is bad but most of us take it a little too far, obsessing about love, sex etc when there are relevant things to do with our lives.Like 190 the clown said, "it seems all Naija guys are now cry cry babies."
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I see guys spending weeks, months trying to make a girl happy. I see girls waiting endlessly for there guys to call. Is that all your life is about? For your lover to validate you? Or to make a relationship work?.
Instead why not focus on yourself - working on your goals, learning something, being a more positive person and helping others. That would boost your self esteem far more than any lover could. Next time that or girl treats you badly, say Thank You. Say "Thank You for reminding me that I need to make myself the focus of my life, not you"

Yours Naughtily,
Nessafresh

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Re: My Letter To All "LoveStruck" Nairalanders by 190theclown: 8:21pm On Mar 11, 2013
Like 190 the clown said, "it seems all Naija guys are now cry cry babies."


grin grin grin grin grin

I love this girl grin grin grin
Re: My Letter To All "LoveStruck" Nairalanders by Nobody: 8:23pm On Mar 11, 2013
190-the-clown:



grin grin grin grin grin

I love this girl grin grin grin

I saw what u wrote abt me dis morning
I gotta whoop ur a** angry angry

@op, correct talk!

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Re: My Letter To All "LoveStruck" Nairalanders by KINGwax(m): 8:39pm On Mar 11, 2013
Nansense

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Re: My Letter To All "LoveStruck" Nairalanders by dopeJemi: 9:05pm On Mar 11, 2013




True TaLk
Re: My Letter To All "LoveStruck" Nairalanders by FXKing2012(m): 9:08pm On Mar 11, 2013
KINGwax: Nansense
I'm equally still searching for the sense.
Re: My Letter To All "LoveStruck" Nairalanders by NessaFresh(f): 9:08pm On Mar 11, 2013
dopeJemi:



True TaLk
Haha yeah hun! So better stop chasin all d ladies on NL oo lol
Re: My Letter To All "LoveStruck" Nairalanders by NessaFresh(f): 9:09pm On Mar 11, 2013
190-the-clown:



grin grin grin grin grin

I love this girl grin grin grin

Lol thanks if dat na compliment....oya back to the matter..stop chasing girls around!
Re: My Letter To All "LoveStruck" Nairalanders by dopeJemi: 9:13pm On Mar 11, 2013
NessaFresh:
Haha yeah hun! So better stop chasin all d ladies on NL oo lol

Lol! Me z a Good boy oh shocked


Dey r d ones chasing me embarassed
Re: My Letter To All "LoveStruck" Nairalanders by 190theclown: 9:26pm On Mar 11, 2013
alutacontinua:

I saw what u wrote abt me dis morning
I gotta whoop ur a** angry angry

@op, correct talk!


am innocent! angry
Re: My Letter To All "LoveStruck" Nairalanders by 190theclown: 9:27pm On Mar 11, 2013
NessaFresh:

Lol thanks if dat na compliment....oya back to the matter..stop chasing girls around!


why undecided
Re: My Letter To All "LoveStruck" Nairalanders by NessaFresh(f): 9:37pm On Mar 11, 2013
190-the-clown:



why undecided
Focus for ur future
Re: My Letter To All "LoveStruck" Nairalanders by NessaFresh(f): 9:39pm On Mar 11, 2013
dopeJemi:

Lol! Me z a Good boy oh shocked


Dey r d ones chasing me embarassed

Lwkm make I hear...na so u don fine or get money reach?

Btw
Just saw ur buffday thread for me...am so guilty n sorry for not saying thanks....thanks a lot sweeteyes.....I feel like kissing u right now
Re: My Letter To All "LoveStruck" Nairalanders by Nobody: 9:41pm On Mar 11, 2013
The OP undermines the potency of a dude that has been so pu{ss}y whipped, to an extent he has lost touch of reality.

Its now like a deity.undecided

Btw, nice profile pic. wink
Re: My Letter To All "LoveStruck" Nairalanders by dopeJemi: 9:42pm On Mar 11, 2013
NessaFresh:

Lwkm make I hear...na so u don fine or get money reach?

Lol! U no know.. NairaLand's hotcake


Let's focus on our future 2geda wink
Re: My Letter To All "LoveStruck" Nairalanders by NessaFresh(f): 9:43pm On Mar 11, 2013
Legit1: The OP undermines the potency of a dude that has been so pu{ss}y whipped, to an extent he has lost touch of reality.

Its now like a deity.undecided

Btw, nice profile pic. wink

Lol thans hun
Re: My Letter To All "LoveStruck" Nairalanders by NessaFresh(f): 9:44pm On Mar 11, 2013
dopeJemi:

Lol! U no know.. NairaLand's hotcake


Let's focus on our future 2geda wink
Just modified ma last post Re Read....
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U wanna have a future with a Bis..exual?
Re: My Letter To All "LoveStruck" Nairalanders by dopeJemi: 9:45pm On Mar 11, 2013
NessaFresh:



Btw
Just saw ur buffday thread for me...am so guilty n sorry for not saying thanks....thanks a lot sweeteyes.....I feel like kissing u right now


No quaLms.. U r weLcum wink
Re: My Letter To All "LoveStruck" Nairalanders by dopeJemi: 9:47pm On Mar 11, 2013
NessaFresh:
Just modified ma last post Re Read....
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U wanna have a future with a Bis..exual?

Who cares? smiley


With Me in ur life u won't av feelings 4 chicks
Re: My Letter To All "LoveStruck" Nairalanders by NessaFresh(f): 10:11pm On Mar 11, 2013
dopeJemi:

Who cares? smiley


With Me in ur life u won't av feelings 4 chicks

Haha....let's face the topic for now oo...abeg we can think of the future later....u know say ur mouth de sugarcoated, I fit no know when I go accept now
Re: My Letter To All "LoveStruck" Nairalanders by 190theclown: 10:12pm On Mar 11, 2013
NessaFresh:
Focus for ur future


come into my future and make it focused wink
Re: My Letter To All "LoveStruck" Nairalanders by dopeJemi: 10:14pm On Mar 11, 2013
NessaFresh:

Haha....let's face the topic for now oo...abeg we can think of the future later....u know say ur mouth de sugarcoated, I fit no know when I go accept now

Okay oh! We go meet again 4 another Love thread wink
Re: My Letter To All "LoveStruck" Nairalanders by NessaFresh(f): 10:17pm On Mar 11, 2013
190-the-clown:



come into my future and make it focused wink

Haha must there be the opposite sex before u get focused?
Re: My Letter To All "LoveStruck" Nairalanders by NessaFresh(f): 10:18pm On Mar 11, 2013
dopeJemi:

Okay oh! We go meet again 4 another Love thread wink

Eyaah ..u just made me feel bad for postponing..no vex for me ooo..u know ur ma sugarbanana
Re: My Letter To All "LoveStruck" Nairalanders by 190theclown: 10:23pm On Mar 11, 2013
NessaFresh:

Haha must there be the opposite sex before u get focused?

You wont understand, NA BEG I DEY
please come into my life and make it focused
I wont chase girls anymore embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed
Re: My Letter To All "LoveStruck" Nairalanders by dopeJemi: 10:27pm On Mar 11, 2013
NessaFresh:

Eyaah ..u just made me feel bad for postponing..no vex for me ooo..u know ur ma sugarbanana

I no fit vex 4 u na.. U mah tomato jos wink don't feeL bad, its okay smiley
Re: My Letter To All "LoveStruck" Nairalanders by 190theclown: 10:39pm On Mar 11, 2013
dopejemi stop following me to drag this chick undecided
Re: My Letter To All "LoveStruck" Nairalanders by dopeJemi: 10:44pm On Mar 11, 2013
190-the-clown:
dopejemi stop following me to drag this chick undecided

Why I go drag wetin be my own


Oboy! I don run Leave u oh
Re: My Letter To All "LoveStruck" Nairalanders by ikekings(m): 10:52pm On Mar 11, 2013
NessaFresh: Instead why not focus on yourself - working on your goals, learning something, being a more positive person and helping others. That would boost your self esteem far more than any lover could.
Nice!! Well said.. I love it...

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