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Calling Ur Married EX On Phone: Right Or Wrong?. by jhydebaba(m): 11:10pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
As many would argue that it is wrong for u to call ur EX especially when they are married, I'm still of the opinion that u need to keep contact with ur EX afterall u guys once enjoyed life together and should not stop communicating just because something happened and u can no longer become man and wife. I never won the argument but I want to present a case for further argument. I dated this girl back then, we had a very good time together, permit me to say that we were best of friend. I use to go to her parent's house, her father became a friend and also her sibling. Due to the fact that I was uncertain about the future and I was not ready to walk her down the aisle being a final year student then (a mistake I regret up till this moment). I kept a lil bit distance from her, went for NYSC and reduced the calls. She got fed up and accidentally got pregnant for a guy (though she considered abortion *that's a story for another day*). She gave birth to the child and also married the guy. We never lost contact though, but when all these church fanatics I work with told me in a heated argument that it is not right for me to call my ex, I stopped calling. I ran into her father today and the father was like she was rushed to the hospital yesterday cuz she collapsed due to a brief illness. I now asked myself, what does the father expect me to do? Why did he tell me about the daughter's sickness and all that baring in mind that I am an ex and the daughter is legally married? Now, is it justified if I call her phone to ask after her health or I should just stick to the belief that it is wrong to call an ex no matter the situation? |
Re: Calling Ur Married EX On Phone: Right Or Wrong?. by Nobody: 2:14am On Apr 09, 2013 |
It is not wring to call her, but it is wrong to start to chop the thing again. |
Re: Calling Ur Married EX On Phone: Right Or Wrong?. by jhydebaba(m): 1:16pm On May 02, 2013 |
tpacalipse: It is not wring to call her, but it is wrong to start to chop the thing again. |
Re: Calling Ur Married EX On Phone: Right Or Wrong?. by firetrap(m): 2:03pm On May 02, 2013 |
its wrong on so many levels |
Re: Calling Ur Married EX On Phone: Right Or Wrong?. by Nobody: 3:51pm On May 02, 2013 |
I wanted to say WRONG! but I changed my mind..u can but once in a blue moon |
Re: Calling Ur Married EX On Phone: Right Or Wrong?. by Nobody: 3:54pm On May 02, 2013 |
My married ex bf do call me but I hardly pick his calls....even if I do,I talk as if am busy or in a hurry to drop and ....He is married so I believe his chapter in my life is CLOSED!!! |
Re: Calling Ur Married EX On Phone: Right Or Wrong?. by jhydebaba(m): 11:25am On May 03, 2013 |
lynpetra: My married ex bf do call me but I hardly pick his calls....even if I do,I talk as if am busy or in a hurry to drop and ....He is married so I believe his chapter in my life is CLOSED!!!not in extreme cases even? |
Re: Calling Ur Married EX On Phone: Right Or Wrong?. by Nobody: 6:47am On May 05, 2013 |
I rather send a prayer message than call. |
Re: Calling Ur Married EX On Phone: Right Or Wrong?. by 190: 6:56am On May 05, 2013 |
I cannot categorically say one thing now and my OGA at the top Would say another thing That's why I'm keeping quiet especially when the said girl is nigerian |
Re: Calling Ur Married EX On Phone: Right Or Wrong?. by jhydebaba(m): 1:24pm On May 05, 2013 |
190 n Nigerian girls: inseparable twins |
Re: Calling Ur Married EX On Phone: Right Or Wrong?. by MrsChima(f): 1:31pm On May 05, 2013 |
I am still friends with guys I have dated but I do not call them unless it is to get information but I prefer email. Communicate with your mate about what you are doing that way she or he can be assured you are not hiding anything. |
Re: Calling Ur Married EX On Phone: Right Or Wrong?. by aniiii(f): 3:51pm On May 05, 2013 |
Very right! |
Re: Calling Ur Married EX On Phone: Right Or Wrong?. by 190: 3:53pm On May 05, 2013 |
jhydebaba: 190 n Nigerian girls: inseparable twins |
Re: Calling Ur Married EX On Phone: Right Or Wrong?. by jhydebaba(m): 10:07am On May 06, 2013 |
aniiii: Very right!Are u married How does ur husband feels when u talk with ur ex(s) on phone |
Re: Calling Ur Married EX On Phone: Right Or Wrong?. by Nobody: 12:44pm On May 06, 2013 |
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Re: Calling Ur Married EX On Phone: Right Or Wrong?. by ayoremilekun: 11:57am On Jun 30, 2015 |
if u do not have feelings for her anymore u can call her. u have to be sure she doesn't too. |
Re: Calling Ur Married EX On Phone: Right Or Wrong?. by jhydebaba(m): 12:00pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
ayoremilekun: Well said, but how do you prove this |
Re: Calling Ur Married EX On Phone: Right Or Wrong?. by amajato: 1:08pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
Na old fire wood dey catch fire pass o. So be careful |
Re: Calling Ur Married EX On Phone: Right Or Wrong?. by pharah(f): 1:12pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
U can call 2 check on her but make sure u more careful so u dnt fall bck inlove wit her |
Re: Calling Ur Married EX On Phone: Right Or Wrong?. by grad2012(f): 4:05pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
Very very wrong |
Re: Calling Ur Married EX On Phone: Right Or Wrong?. by rexycul4(f): 4:09pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
right, but it should not be a habit |
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