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The Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretlylooking For In A Woman by BLAND1(m): 10:04am On Apr 21, 2013 |
What makes the perfect girlfriend or wife material? Is she the girl next door with gorgeous good looks and an impressive bosom? Well, not exactly. Contrary to what you might think, most guys aren't looking for a supermodel. They're just looking for their perfect match: A woman who's down-to-earth, sweet and sensitive to his needs... Here are ten attractive traits that every man keeps in mind when deciding if the woman sitting across the dinner table from him at that first date would be a good girlfriend and wife material. 1. Confidence Take it from the guys, nothing is sexier than a woman who's comfortable in her own skin. If you're guilty of meekly asking lines like: "Does this skirt make my thighs look fat?" ... stop asking. If you're constantly needing his reassurance that you're beautiful, he may start asking questions himself. 2. Intelligence Acting like a bimbo loses it's novelty to men after high school. What men want in a girlfriend is a woman who can stand as his equal. So be the smart, savvy woman you are! To him, it's a total turn-on. 3. Unmaterialistic Yes, he wants to be your knight in shining armor. And yes, he wants to treat you like the princess you are... but that doesn't give you license to act like one. Allow him the luxury of treating you with romantic dinners and surprise baubles without having to demand them of him. He'll be relieved that he doesn't have to try so hard and surprisingly, this will inspire him to rise to the occasion when he doesn't have to dedicate his whole paycheck to lavish tokens of his love for you. 4. Spontaneity One of the first things to go in a relationship is the spontaneity. You get stuck in your Friday night dinner dates and you lose that spark you had when you first started dating each other. Don't lose it! Men love a woman who can do things spur-of- the-moment. 5. Laid-Back What's one of the best things you can do for your relationship with him? Relax. Just relax. When you come home from a long, hard day at work and see those dishes piling up in the sink, we know you have the urge to lash out at him. Instead, try to let it go for the night. No man likes a nag and every man likes a woman who can let her hair down and doesn't sweat the small stuff. A relationship is solid when you're able to relax with each other. 6. Playfulness Guys like a girl who laugh at their jokes, but isn't mindless and isn't always serious about everything. Just as we mentioned that men like a woman who can forgo nagging him about the dishes, they like a woman who can joke about the dishes too. Biting remarks and snappy comebacks are just the witty repartee to keep the spark between you in your relationship. And hey, isn't laughter the best aphrodisiac? 7. Sensuality We've already mentioned before that it's not all about your looks (albeit, that's a good motivator for some men) — it's more about an air of sexiness and confidence that will draw his eyes to you when you enter the room. Embrace your femininity. 8. Honesty If he can't trust you — how can he ever see you as his girlfriend ... and eventual spouse? Keep things open and honest in your relationship. A little white lie over flirty texts with an old guy friend from college can spiral out of control very quickly into a full-blown fight ... and breakup. 9. Independence Dating a driven, passionate woman? So hot. Babysitting a stage five clinger? Not so much. No man wants a girlfriend they have to reassuringly text, call or visit every five minutes. Learn to give your guy his space — or he may break up with you to get it. 10. Supportive As clichéd as it is, some men want to be caretakers... but even the strongest of men want a soft place to fall. He wants to know that you'll support him and stand by him in his life choices, whether it's changing careers or moving to a new city. Show your support in small gestures with a quick "I love you" text when he heads off for his morning commute and listen to him after a hard day's work. Be supportive — but not suffocating. The last thing you want is to remind him too much of his mother.http://nigeria-gist..com/2013/04/the-top-10-qualities-men-are-secretly.html?m=1 |
Re: The Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretlylooking For In A Woman by Darlenebabe: 10:18am On Apr 21, 2013 |
character, gud cook, matured minds, calm, industrous, good sense of reasoning, accomodating, decent in all ramificatn, n above all God fearing. 1 Like |
Re: The Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretlylooking For In A Woman by Nobody: 11:19am On Apr 21, 2013 |
I don't like lists but I think this list makes sense. |
Re: The Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretlylooking For In A Woman by AmyMarins(f): 6:39pm On Apr 21, 2013 |
Am adding the 11th one(permit me, pls); (11) Gud sex; i no of sum guys dat married their wives, cos of †ђξ fact dat she "rides" well! |
Re: The Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretlylooking For In A Woman by Nobody: 11:52pm On Apr 21, 2013 |
Amy Mar'ins: so ma'am do u posess the 11th quality? Cos i like ladies who keep it real and can make me ride all night long |
Re: The Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretlylooking For In A Woman by Nobody: 12:53am On Apr 22, 2013 |
NL n list ehnnn.. Next list. Should be 10 steps at granting Amnesty n Presidential Pardon |
Re: The Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretlylooking For In A Woman by Nobody: 5:52am On Apr 22, 2013 |
I'm secretly looking for a man that can't make a woman pregnant so I can have hosea gear or ma'a nonu or dwayne johnson as my sperm donor |
Re: The Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretlylooking For In A Woman by Nobody: 6:53am On Apr 22, 2013 |
Amy Mar'ins:Are u serious |
Re: The Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretlylooking For In A Woman by Nobody: 7:02am On Apr 22, 2013 |
smh |
Re: The Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretlylooking For In A Woman by AmyMarins(f): 8:04am On Apr 23, 2013 |
sexkillz: smh Shift! |
Re: The Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretlylooking For In A Woman by AmyMarins(f): 8:21am On Apr 23, 2013 |
Joavid: Are u serious Very! @pleats, i no of 8guys who told me so. But pls, dnt tell me u r really surprised!!! My dear, live a gud life, posses a sweet heart(not of pretence), be nice to †ђξ people dat makes him hapi(family n friends alike),cook well(MOST men luv fud), learn to listen n always tell him ♓☺w u feel(gud or bad), calmly(its actually hard to be calm if he kips doing wat hurts u), HAVE A LIFE OUTSIDE HIM and agree he also has a life(@least b4 he met u) and above all, ALWAYS talk to God(cos weda u possess better qualities dan †ђξ above, if a man does not want u, he does not!) @op, hope u dnt mind? |
Re: The Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretlylooking For In A Woman by jmoore(m): 8:50am On Apr 23, 2013 |
Not every man looks for those because all men are not the same. |
Re: The Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretlylooking For In A Woman by greedie1(f): 9:14am On Apr 23, 2013 |
here we go again... |
Re: The Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretlylooking For In A Woman by AmyMarins(f): 10:13am On Apr 23, 2013 |
jmoore: Not every man looks for those because all men are not the same.[b][/b] (cos weda u possess better qualities dan †ђξ above, if a man does not want u, he does not!).
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Re: The Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretlylooking For In A Woman by Bosschris(m): 12:58pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
Amy martins u damn right!..dats 1 of ma reasons am actually still wit ma present g.f because she rides well...am planing on gettin married 2 her because of dat reason n ah want 2 taste her witout a condom..i hav other reason i wanna marr her sha..n dats 1 of dem..n slipin wit ha doesn't affect ma love 4 her..buy it make me feel dat she is damn good in every aspect even on d bed..so it nourishes our love..she isn't on nairaland n ah hope she wont c dis if ah post it..sha anyway its well.. |
Re: The Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretlylooking For In A Woman by 50calibre(m): 1:04pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
How about a woman who isn't a feminist? That sh*t is annoying. |
Re: The Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretlylooking For In A Woman by 50calibre(m): 1:09pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
mondi_cheeks: I'm secretly looking for a man that can't make a woman pregnant so I can have hosea gear or ma'a nonu or dwayne johnson as my sperm donor Really? It's obvious you love buffed up rugby guys. |
Re: The Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretlylooking For In A Woman by AmyMarins(f): 2:17pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
Boss chris: Amy martins u damn right!..dats 1 of ma reasons am actually still wit ma present g.f because she rides well...am planing on gettin married 2 her because of dat reason n ah want 2 taste her witout a condom..i hav other reason i wanna marr her sha..n dats 1 of dem..n slipin wit ha doesn't affect ma love 4 her..buy it make me feel dat she is damn good in every aspect even on d bed..so it nourishes our love..she isn't on nairaland n ah hope she wont c dis if ah post it..sha anyway its well.. I'd say "congrats" to u! As long as she makes u hapi on almost 60% ground, den go! And also make sure u guys ve compartibility o! Ɣε̲̣̣̣̥§, i no i said sex is important, butt never fail to undastand dat sex, witout friendship,love n trust is "service" o! |
Re: The Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretlylooking For In A Woman by AmyMarins(f): 2:21pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
50calibre: How about a woman who isn't a feminist? That sh*t is annoying. Then i'll say "its a pity"! |
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