carr96: tell her to tell that to her father!!
I despise gurls that aren't independent,.....must a guy "spend" everytime? I find ladies like dat quite irritating!. Work hard!! A guy shld only be an added advantage/blessing!

That's hw a certain chic ws pleading wit me to beg her bf to forgive her cos easter ws fast approaching and she had no cash to go to the saloon! Disgusting!

carr96: tell her to tell that to her father!!
I despise gurls that aren't independent,.....must a guy "spend" everytime? I find ladies like dat quite irritating!. Work hard!! A guy shld only be an added advantage/blessing!

That's hw a certain chic ws pleading wit me to beg her bf to forgive her cos easter ws fast approaching and she had no cash to go to the saloon! Disgusting!

mekaboy: I don't know about other guys, but it turns me off when a girl I just met tells me she is broke.and most times when girls say that I loose every respect for them.

I have once told a girl that told me she is so broke, to come and spend the weekend. Guess what her response was. Just like that? As what? U only met me a few days and you want me to come spend the Night at your place, what do u take me for?

I told her you only met me a few days ago and your telling me your broke, I guess u wld not mind if I gave you some money. She said of course that's helping someone in need and God will bless me for it.

I told her that spending the weekend is also helping someone in need and I will bless her for it.

Before she cld argue I deleted her pin.

Have you guys had such experience and what was your response?

switdick:



You didn't have to type that mehn!!!

How do you mean "so I can rest" ? How did that work ?? ....Must be a spell or something"

A girl that even called you stingy ??

My God!

mekaboy: I don't know about other guys, but it turns me off when a girl I just met tells me she is broke.and most times when girls say that I loose every respect for them.

I have once told a girl that told me she is so broke, to come and spend the weekend. Guess what her response was. Just like that? As what? U only met me a few days and you want me to come spend the Night at your place, what do u take me for?

I told her you only met me a few days ago and your telling me your broke, I guess u wld not mind if I gave you some money. She said of course that's helping someone in need and God will bless me for it.

I told her that spending the weekend is also helping someone in need and I will bless her for it.

Before she cld argue I deleted her pin.

Have you guys had such experience and what was your response?

12 inches!:

Not really. I have a principle of not refusing people on their first request if I have the ability to help next time may be different. It is my way of doing things. In trying to be smart, you may end up being to harsh and lose out from the benefits of kindness. Besides I wonder why someone will bug me so much over 100 naira.

Dude!

There's no benefit of kindness in this regard as you put it....and I wouldn't call that kindness....its Letting your guard down by succumbing to her unscrupulous and selfish demand at a whim.....

You have a principle of not refusing people on a first request??.. "WoW!!.. That's a new one,..but you refused earlier by your post and ....ok, How about this, Let your principle of benevolence be on to the deserving" huh?

Girls with Virtue,ones that wouldn't ask,and even when they do,they'd understand your reason for refusing in the first instance,not calling you Stingy!!

Not Some random Chiq who hasn't seen your smile in like 3months and just pops up only to demand for some change rudely ...

You don't see what the issue here is,?

Is the Power you Let go"...

You refused at first and then on hearing her vague rants ,you succumbed....that's not right, don't think she'd still respect you by that action o, it'd be a circle of this kinda display again again and again bro!.

KnegroDamus:
^ Are u kidding me?

You Naija men are a lost tribe of monkeys. How do you want complain about ladies feeling entitled to your money yet when a woman you have not even seen for 3 months asks for money you give like a mumu? How exactly is that teaching her to be more responsible?

You guys have to admit that 99% of the messed up and silly behavior in Nigerian women comes from the over-stupidity of nigerian men

FACT

SMH. You all have sister,and they may be broke 1 day. I pray they dnt get such reply frm people that claimd frndship with them.