Mynd_44:
Taken from part 1



the only difference is that the woman confessed. The woman is here talking about how she has saw similar catalogs from her husband's phone and he even beat her up when she confront him.

They are both cheats. The woman is just silly enough to admit it.

Mynd_44:
Taken from part 1



the only difference is that the woman confessed. The woman is here talking about how she has saw similar catalogs from her husband's phone and he even beat her up when she confront him.
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Mynd_44:

They are both cheats. The woman is just silly enough to admit it.

honeric01:

reason bro, reason.

Just check her replies to the husband's thread.

Accusations against the man even though the thread is there for us to read.

Even accusing the man of painting her a bad mother even though we can all read on the thread that apart from the cheating part, the man has been full of praises for the wife.

This woman to me is grasping at straws and most of what she wrote is to try to bring the 'game' to the man.

Go and read again with a neutral mindset, we know you love to support women but ignore sentiments this time around.

Mynd_44:
I'd love to think this is about sentiments but the man opened a thread where he acted like he was a saint. Did he mention that he had been chatting with diff women earlier? Hell no cos he knows y'all will tear him to bits and so he comes to paint himself like an angel but when the woman posts her side, he comes up with "I leave it to God and posterity"

She has serious points up there. I would love to see the man counter them.

I have said the woman is the one at fault. She should have not gotten into the marriage in the first instance. That's the problem with cheats. When they start, they never stop and she made the mistake of going through with the wedding and so she should not complain. What I have problem with is clearing the man of all blames

honeric01:

The man did talk about the pre-marriage because it has nothing to do with whats on ground.

Chatting with ladies and banging a colleague are same to you now?

You talk as if you are the colleague, do you know what we don't know?


Reason!

Idowuogbo: Oga bee and Egbon Toks! Wey una dey o!!!!

honeric01:

The man didn't talk about the pre-marriage because it has nothing to do with whats on ground. If you want to bring that in, then ask the wife if she was a v before marriage.

Chatting with ladies and banging a colleague are same to you now?

Does marriage stop anyone from having male or female friends?

You talk as if you are the colleague, do you know what we don't know?


Reason!

Nashville:

I agree with everything you have said. The woman has herself to blame. As the husband rightly said, any form of cheating before marriage should be ignored. Now after marriage, the woman does not really have proo[b]f that her husband was physically cheating even though he might have been emotionally cheating and depriving her of quality time.[/b]

As I have said before, cheating solves no marital issues. If your husband is lazy, your cheating will not change him, if he is abusive, your cheating will not solve the problem, if he cheats, your cheating would only make him worse and vice versa. I think the wife actually felt she made a mistake in marrying the guy and wanted to get what she was missing from somewhere else. Truth be told, i think this marriage is over. They should both move on with their lives.

biolabee:

i dey o... the mata weak me... i swear

However this has changed the dynamic of the story
Seems there are other issues in the relationship of contempt and disrespect
e says he had no relationship during marriage, shes not sure but is that enough to cheat while pregnant or shortly after
i no know

I still feel divorce is not the best option bcs of the kid but this one na wire o

2Legit2Qui: Whyme222.

You said you have never cheated on this woman. What do you mean? Is that the truth? She claims otherwise. Are you saying she is telling lies? So, who do we believe? Can you lay your p.e.n--.i.s on your head and swear you have never used it to nack another woman since you got married to your wife? Swear dude.

This is why its never good to seek any help on NairaLand, you never know how it will boomerang. Now, go back to your wife and seek forgiveness. Wife, go back to your husband and make up. Husband, your p.e.n--.i.s belongs to your wife only, give it to her. Now say Amen.

Idowuogbo:
Yaay!!! Welcome!!

Jokes aside...IMO, separation is d solution.

When mistrust moves in love goes out.

Imagine,d thought of your wife messing around while pregnant without protection na brain damage on its own mehn... Gawd! Dis wan na real wire.

Mynd_44:
Taken from part 1



the only difference is that the woman confessed. The woman is here talking about how she has saw similar catalogs from her husband's phone and he even beat her up when she confront him.

They are both cheats. The woman is just silly enough to admit it.

Idowuogbo: Oga bee and Egbon Toks! Wey una dey o!!!!

wifeofwhyme222:

When going 2 work he picks up women in the name of given dem lifts, dey exchnage pins and become chat mates...morning afternoon night updating each others on their lives and movements....he said there is nothing between dem...my husband registers in dating sites and puts up statistics of the kind of woman he luvs women responded 2 dis, even including our area where we live as his area of concentration....and he said he did that just 2 understand women better..

All dese he did while I was pregnant 4 my baby..there was a time I saw a crazy chat on his ☎ where he was telling a young girl how beautiful and attractive she is and how he couldn't resist walking up 2 her when he saw her from accross the street. I was shocked. He was supposed 2 buy the foam we used 2 set up my baby room and he ended up toasting the sellers daughter when I found out he said he was trying 2 make her feel better about herself...imagine !!!

Another time still while I was pregnant dis same man didn't bathe 4 4days he was busy chatting with a woman on yahoomail..describing in details 2 2 make luv 2 a pices woman the spots 2 touch 2 set her offs lots of raw personal chats...how did I see dis? He fell asleep and I saw it...I woke hoim up asked him and he said. She is a ldy he gave a ride and she complained 2 him she can't seem 2 get pregnant 4 her hubby...pls my husband is an engineer not a therapist or a councellor...

honeric01:

reason bro, reason.

Just check her replies to the husband's thread.

Accusations against the man even though the thread is there for us to read.

Even accusing the man of painting her a bad mother even though we can all read on the thread that apart from the cheating part, the man has been full of praises for the wife.

This woman to me is grasping at straws and most of what she wrote is to try to bring the 'game' to the man.

Go and read again with a neutral mindset, we know you love to support women but ignore sentiments this time around.

StateOfMind:

This, I agree with. I wonder if this is the same wife the man referred to as intelligent. Nothing about her posts depicts intelligence. Full of unnecessary information and hatred for her husband. Not one good thing was said about the man she married, yet she claims she's been begging him for months. If the picture she painted about her husband is really true, why exactly would she be begging him. She claims to be the breadwinner, left her baby for a week to work, yada yada, yet she has been begging this so called irresponsible man for 8months. One would expect someone like her not to feel remorseful at all but see her affair as payback.

I'm sorry Op, you asked us to be the judge but I am not convinced you are saying the truth. I repeat, If this man is as terrible as you just described, you would not have sleepless nights or keep begging for him for forgiveness.

Lastly, you need to go through your husband's posts on that thread and read how he kept singing your praises and his love for his daughter despite everything.

Ps- thanks for the entertainment too. Nairaland is usually boring on sundays.

StateOfMind:

This, I agree with. I wonder if this is the same wife the man referred to as intelligent. Nothing about her posts depicts intelligence. Full of unnecessary information and hatred for her husband. Not one good thing was said about the man she married, yet she claims she's been begging him for months. If the picture she painted about her husband is really true, why exactly would she be begging him. She claims to be the breadwinner, left her baby for a week to work, yada yada, yet she has been begging this so called irresponsible man for 8months. One would expect someone like her not to feel remorseful at all but see her affair as payback.

I'm sorry Op, you asked us to be the judge but I am not convinced you are saying the truth. I repeat, If this man is as terrible as you just described, you would not have sleepless nights or keep begging for him for forgiveness.

Lastly, you need to go through your husband's posts on that thread and read how he kept singing your praises and his love for his daughter despite everything.

Ps- thanks for the entertainment too. Nairaland is usually boring on sundays.

Clitorial.Dept.:
Why would a married woman cheat on the premise that her husband cheats as well?

I can't really understand this mentality. Is it meant to hurt your husband?

If my wife cheated on me, I won't first think; "I need to get back on her and have an affair as well".

Never! I will first and foremost kick her a55 to the curb.

You women are so dumb.

Any woman who gives this old and tired excuse on why she is having an affair, should know that she is equally a cheat and a disgrace as her husband. If you don't respect yourself or family reputation then I expect you should fear God.Excuse me, "WOMEN ARE SO DUMB"? What happens to decorum? And why I ask are U wandering about on this topic? Ur inputs are so biased, one can't make a thing out of them all! Better withold advises U aint sure is right, it will surely stand against U on judgement day. Be warned. @Mr and Mrs, U are in my prayers. Cheers.

Mynd_44: ............

Even though I think this whole thing is a fraud