dayokanu: @Ileoba

Have you considered that EVERY HUMAN man or woman every decision we make is as a result of the enviroment, the culture, the religion that shapes what we like or dont like?

dayokanu: @Ileoba

Have you considered that EVERY HUMAN man or woman every decision we make is as a result of the enviroment, the culture, the religion that shapes what we like or dont like?

if a human was born in the forest and raised by animals he would also think there is no need for marriage to be attached to any individual just cop an errection and shagg anyone including your parents like animals do

So women who grew up in Monogamous society majority would tend Monogamy, Those who grew up in Polygamy would tend to not find anything bad with Polygamy

ileobatojo:

I have. How does that change the question I'm asking?

dayokanu:

The question you are asking wont be necesary if you have considered it because Not only Polygamist make decisions based on their religion, culture and environment but ALL HUMAN beings which polygamists are a subset of.

You think Monogamy is right as a result of your culture religion and environment too. How about that?

dayokanu:

The question you are asking wont be necesary if you have considered it because Not only Polygamist make decisions based on their religion, culture and environment but ALL HUMAN beings which polygamists are a subset of.

You think Monogamy is right as a result of your culture religion and environment too. How about that?

bukatyne:

And how does this post answer my question?

Sisi's post nailed it.

coogar:

i digested the main facts and left out the opinion of a defeatist journalist!! even when she was told the wives are very happy, she still manages to paint the story in such a way that the women were suffering. i believe the quotes of the women interviewed are more credible than the opinion of the writer who is prejudiced even before she stepped her foot in their houses.....

in a nutshell, what you emboldened is irrelevant!




but these women are happy - do you know more than them? out of the 5 wives interviewed from 2 polygamous settings, only one of them who happens to be 63 years spoke with bitterness. the other 4 were quote happy with their marriage!

chaircover: I doubt it.

Deep Deep Deep down in them, I dont think that any woman wants to share a man that she genuinely loves . .and . .

Deep Deep Deep down in them, I dont think that any mother will want another wifes children to do better than hers.

Surface levels is another story altogether.

coogar:
There are plenty of reasons a polygamous family would be happy and there are plenty of reasons a woman would willingly share her husband with another.

open your local newspaper for a start and see the amount of swingers party that goes around in your neighbourhood - there are placed ads by married couples seeking a woman/man to complete a ménage a troîs.

this is the 21st century - stop viewing the world with the eyes of an aztec/mayans!

Are you're insinuating that polygamists and their wives engage in group se.x?

some-girl:

Refer to this post.

Replies from women in this thread should tell you that we could never truly be happy in such a setting, we could accept it however. If you aren't a woman, don't speak for women on the issue of polygamy.

Are you're insinuating that polygamists and their wives engage in group se.x?

lovelydoll: Women work and go to school now.Polygamy is not necessary for this time and day .so stop bringing up the past.

byvan: No matter how much we want to debate this topic , there is no place for polygamy in the life of the modern women.Women endured it years ago but we don't have to anymore,oh yes!we do have a choice!!


Thank God for civilization!!!!!!

AjanleKoko: Polygamy's a no-no. Way too expensive
Plus, what's the point really? One wife is enough headache already

kulyie: if you cannot go there and read up on your own instead of relying on secondary informations online,thats up to you.this convo is over babes

byvan: Playing victim ke kedu Ihe onye Na ako?

coogar:


why should i?
chaircover stays in the west. if she's a 5th wife in medina, would she be writing the same?



all the women on this thread lean towards western education, the opinion is bound to be the same. what about women in the northern africa or the middle east? the women on this thread do not speak for other women in the world!

biolabee:

I want to agree with the bolded but from commens of NL ladies who are supposedly empowered and are earning their own income, they still can't stomach sharing their man

Why is this so

vivalableue: I don't know, can A man stomach sharing his wife?

vivalableue: I honestly can't give an opinion because I was not born into polygamy. But, I can't imagine sharing my husband with anyone. That would tear me apart. Namely because of trust, would he tell other wives my/Our personal problems. Also, because of conflict resolution, would he turn to another wife when we have problems in order to clear his head. Finally, in my opinion it would create, big head syndrome, as in the man's head go inflate from too much attention.

biolabee:

We need to know where we come from before we know where we are going

'Monogamic marriage' as you call it a union of one man n woman may be a thing of the past in another 100 years itself

Anyone that still says humans are not a function of their environment is at best propounding a laughable theory
If this were yemeniland the ladies here will be opening classifieds to find the next wife for their harem as it too boring living alone

coogar:

why should i?
chaircover stays in the west. if she's a 5th wife in medina, would she be writing the same?



all the women on this thread lean towards western education, the opinion is bound to be the same. what about women in the northern africa or the middle east? the women on this thread do not speak for other women in the world!




why won't they?
they believe love is sharing, isn't it? if there's no fuss about their husband marrying multiple wives, why should there be any problem in group sex?

lovelydoll:

and homo marriage/no marriage/poly marriage can also be a thing of the future. but Today is monogamy . Polygamy is not necessary,men do not go out to war in large numbers anymore and women are not so dependent anymore.