It depends on the way and manner the relationship is ended. If both parties sit down in a cool spot (say a nice fast food joint or some other serene environment) and discuss openly why the relationship must end, there will be less ill feelings.

I Doubt it.

Orikinla: Yes.
You can end a relationship without acrimony by having a simple exit strategy.
The problem is most cases of break ups are caused by cheating or maltreatment.

I have ended relationships quietly without me or my partners getting hurt.
A girlfriend simply stopped seeing me for four years and later returned.
I stopped seeing a girlfriend and later we resumed our relationship again.

Those who left without any misunderstanding and are now married are still among my best friends.

ADVICE: ALWAYS HAVE AN EXIT STRATEGY IN A RELATIONSHIP EVEN IF IT IS COURTSHIP.
AND IT IS ALWAYS BETTER AND SAFER TO QUIT THAN TO CHEAT BEFORE ENDING A RELATIONSHIP.

In fact, I don't know what's with my fiancee this few days? She has just been feeling cold towards me, and when I ask her what's the problem she said there is nothing.

I have prepared my mind for the worst: this is not her first time, I know her very well. She come up with this attitude whenever some other guys are saying something in her ears. She has done so a number of time and I have overlooked same by talking sense into her head. But this time, having gone this far, it will be the end. I'm just assuming now; I just hope it's not what I'm thinking.

They don't see me coming!and they don't know when I leave!Badmeat!playa international

I don't think there is a maybe or exception. All relationships that come to an end always hurt! If its not you, it'll be your partner. Both of you might want to pretend but inside, we all know how you feel. 10yrs, 5yrs, 6months, 2weeks . . .even the over night fling! They all hurt at the end of the day.

yes o! if they both die or if they love each other unto seperation.

yes o! if they both die or if they love each other unto separation.

rottenegg: I don't think there is a maybe or exception. All relationships that come to an end always hurt! If its not you, it'll be your partner. Both of you might want to pretend but inside, we all know how you feel. 10yrs, 5yrs, 6months, 2weeks . . .even the over night fling! They all hurt at the end of the day.

wow!I like ya monika

i do not think so!! All i know is dat she will cry her eyes out even if na she do d breakup!...

NO, it is not possible. The party who was in love gets hurt.

no way

If there is no love in the relationship then it is possible.

is't easy to cut-off part of ur body witout feeling d pain?

Why not? Its all about maturity, understanding and reasons behind the ending/termination of the relationship.
I am a living witness . I still chat, laugh and giggle with my Ex gal despite the fact that we had called it off!
One can end a genuine relationship without any of the parties being hurt.

Yea its possible, just tell her you are Gay...

Justiyke4u: Please is it possible to end a relationship without anybody being hurt. If it is how is it done?

Yes its possible when you did not fornicate. Before I married my wife, I was in a relationship that was obviously not working, although I loved my girl friend So much. However, when we both saw that it was not going anywhere, we both agreed to go our Separate ways. It was a big relief for me. I believe we were both not hurt because during the period of the relationship, we never fornicated. That is a very important factor, FORNICATION.

ehizo25: It depends on the way and manner the relationship is ended. If both parties sit down in a cool spot (say a nice fast food joint or some other serene environment) and discuss openly why the relationship must end, there will be less ill feelings.

This will minimize the hurt and it shows respect for themselves. I believe this is the best way to end a relationship. Not acting up just saying it as it is.

Its only possible if the parties are not in love with each other. It really hurts to break up with someone u love. I will rather love she that loves me than waste my time and resources on a fellow that has no regards for me.

only possible if both of you die at the same time

I doubt

Funny how people think it is not possible. Maybe it's the kinda cheat/fight breakups they are used to. Or maybe it's just my understanding of "hurt" and the op's question.

Evestar200: YO MEHN!! I WANNA END MY OWN TOO,,,I CANT BE STUCK IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT DOESNT BRING ME JOY AND HAPPINESS

Can we start something new ... I would give you all the happiness you desire

Let both parties see the picture on the wall.... Like to my own experience if u are a man... Keep ur courage let the lady do more of the talking... U just do more of the listening. U will see it clearly she will keep the room for the peaceful separation... But the love must be sinking before this can really take effect...

If it a GAME? Yes..where you pay,you digged hole..no string attached,yes no one will feel hurt. U left her for new hole n she leaves for richer guys..shikena

Yes if d both party neva rili luv each oda

Ab025: @op, Can u make an omelette without breaking an egg....?

i dont know thats why am asking

dopeJemi:

it wilL onLy be possibLe if u guys never loved each other

even when there is no love sometimes i think it just hurts

I doubt it. One party will surely get hurt.

crackhaus:
With all the romantic movies and novels in circulation, not to talk of the unending recycle of relationship-themed topics on Nairaland, i really don't get why questions like this are still being asked. Okay sorry for being mean...just ask your father huh; but if you can't because he doesn't know you're in a relationship, maybe the problem is you're too young to be in one in the first place.

yes i agree with u but i beg to say that i av seen the level of ur reasoning thank u

only if u do not Love each other

Not possible. My last guy broke my heart and crushed my feelings

obadiah777: AND WHAT EXACTLY IS JOY AND HAPPINESS ? YOU EXPECT A MAN TO GIVE YOU THAT ? THATS SOMETHING YOU NEED TO HAVE WITHIN YOURSELF

YO MEHN!,,YOU CANT PASS THRU WHAT AM PASSING TRU RIGHT NOW,,,HOW CAN U BE IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT DOESNT SEEM LIKE YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP? WE HAVNT C EACH OTHER FOR SIX MONTHS NW,,IF I DONT CALL HIM,,HE WONT CALL ME,,IF I ASK HIM WHY HE IS NOT CALLING,,HE WILL GIVE LAME EXCUSE (NO MONEY TO BUY AIRTIME) IS THAT A RELATIONSHIP? And i havnt cheat on him all this while,,SO AM TIRED