FX: Babe, tinz have changed. U r on your own. Men are wiser now. They cant keep spending their energy, time, money and resources on women.

jay2k: d trut is dat money cant be left out in any relationship no mata hw any 1 looks @ it..dea4 both paties has got a role to play...dis gal staifies all ur desires(name it)...she needed to be appreciated,eider ways money is involved cash or materials,,dats d truth..nd a guy shouldnt wait to be asked of money,cos no mata hw small dat enters ur pocket ur babe should be part of d budget..by so doing she will understand dat u ve got notin wen u truly ve notin cos u usually do giv her wen dea is...but takin advantaage of a gal cos she hardly ask is very unfair..also d ladies shoul find out who loves dem by d way d person open up issues to dem for dem to ve a true pix of who dey r dealin with cos if u kno ur man u can tell d reasons for his actions..also most guys dont spend on who dey dont love as a way of letin u go wen u r tierd of d show so nne check well nd kno d reasons underlyin his actions by comparing dis to his oda attitude. I tink by so doing u will kno d way farward..

2legit2qwt:
Is money the only way to appreciate a girl

jay2k: d trut is dat money cant be left out in any relationship no mata hw any 1 looks @ it..dea4 both paties has got a role to play...dis gal staifies all ur desires(name it)...she needed to be appreciated,eider ways money is involved cash or materials,,dats d truth..nd a guy shouldnt wait to be asked of money,cos no mata hw small dat enters ur pocket ur babe should be part of d budget..by so doing she will understand dat u ve got notin wen u truly ve notin cos u usually do giv her wen dea is...but takin advantaage of a gal cos she hardly ask is very unfair..also d ladies shoul find out who loves dem by d way d person open up issues to dem for dem to ve a true pix of who dey r dealin with cos if u kno ur man u can tell d reasons for his actions..also most guys dont spend on who dey dont love as a way of letin u go wen u r tierd of d show so nne check well nd kno d reasons underlyin his actions by comparing dis to his oda attitude. I tink by so doing u will kno d way farward..

Jcob: Majority of
those that commented before me are either not in a relationship or are
still trapped in boyfriend/girlfriend syndrome.

In every serious/real relationship, there are things called filiar
responsibilities. Your woman should not ask you for money before you
support her. While it should not be an everyday affair, you can help her
financially through projects, luxuries and investments.

She also does her part by assisting you when she suspects you are a lil
broke. Can't count the number of times my woman has given me money to
either fuel the car or to just hold body. Though as a man I still do
more cos I believe every one naira spent on her is a big investment.

Better to give every dime to my woman than to spend it on one
goodforjustsex lady outside.

LastApostle: MONEY only impress lazy girls; when a woman works hard, a man with money is just a BONUS and not a ladder of upgrade!

olivegirl: wRong, I need my husband to take hold of me. How can I be womanly when I pay all my bills.

wckabuoh: No, make U no pay ur bills if U can. Continue to wait for ur man..............him be mayeee. U go use while him go pay.

chei: She can opt PORT for a sugar daddy if she likes.
Smh. .. Women and their nonsense wahala.

Caracta: I had to read the "story" again. Some guys don't even give until you ask. Relationship is about sharing...not just in monetary terms. If he is the type that doesn't share or make sacrifices AT ALL (both monetary and non-monetary), the lady should think twice about the relationship.

And i just hope she is not stingy too...

Olajumokeibk: No money, no pussy #chikena

Olajumokeibk: No money, no pussy #chikena

Jcob: Majority of those that commented before me are either not in a relationship or are still trapped in boyfriend/girlfriend syndrome.

In every serious/real relationship, there are things called filiar responsibilities. Your woman should not ask you for money before you support her. While it should not be an everyday affair, you can help her financially through projects, luxuries and investments.

She also does her part by assisting you when she suspects you are a lil broke. Can't count the number of times my woman has given me money to either fuel the car or to just hold body. Though as a man I still do more cos I believe every one naira spent on her is a big investment.

Better to give every dime to my woman than to spend it on one goodforjustsex lady outside.

Olajumokeibk: No money, no pussy #chikena

jjman2322:

LOL pathetic.. let me debunk all your crap..

"dis gal staifies all ur desires(name it)." - so you're saying shes basically a glorified hooker? because last time i checked, girls also enjoy sex.. so i'm technically satisfying all her desires too.

"she needed to be appreciated" - I appreciated my exgfs by being loyal, caring, affectionate, and treating them like queens.. Money doesn't equal appreciation.. Usually the best form of appreciate has nothing to do with money.

"cos no mata hw small dat enters ur pocket ur babe should be part of d budget" - WHY? is she my parents?? did she care for me when I was a child? The only reason you're thinking this is because she gives you sex... Otherwise,why arent your good/best GUY friends in your budget too? They have probably been there for you more than she has, with the only exception being they don't give you sex.. so technically it all comes down to your gf being a prostitute.

"but takin advantaage of a gal cos she hardly ask is very unfair" - this is the most pathetic thing i've ever heard from a guy, and thats saying a lot.. So by being a good bf, loyal, loving, caring.. So because i decide i dont want to give her money, that constitutes USING?? so you're saying basically that because she gives me sex, and i decide not to give her money, then im using her? Logically speaking, you're advocating paying her for the sex... Sex is a two way street... she also enjoys it... heck if you know what you're doing in bed then the girl better be paying you..

"also most guys dont spend on who dey dont love" - Are you really this silly? My first gf was my greatest love.. I never spent a dime on her except on her birthday or christmas.. she even paid for dinners sometimes, took me out, etc, and I had a lot more money than her.. I've also not spent on my mother and I love her to death... Money doesn't equal love...
The Nigerian maried men you see blowing money on girls are doing it because they want some pun, not because they love them..

Cheers

P/S just want to add im very generous.. If someone has a legitimate need I'm always willing to help.. I just refuse to believe that I have to put my gf in my budget just because she has sex with me.. Or buy her the newest blackberry just because she wants it, or give her money just because she decides she broke... or buy her N100,000 Brazilian hair just because she wants to show off.. Show me a girl who is being maintained by a guy, and i'll show you a mugu..

Funniest thing though, you could give your girl all the money in the world, then one day she's out somewhere, and guys like me will make her laugh, feel good & sexy, and she'll be blowing up my phone every other day.. That's what im experiencing now in Nigeria.. Girls who get money from their bfs, yet they want to hook up with me because they think I'm fun to be with.. So money doesnt equal loyalty either... These girls just want someone to pay for their fake hair and their bbm plan(so they can keep flirting with every other guy, in a bid to find the next mugu)

jjman2322:

LOL pathetic.. let me debunk all your crap..

"dis gal staifies all ur desires(name it)." - so you're saying shes basically a glorified hooker? because last time i checked, girls also enjoy sex.. so i'm technically satisfying all her desires too.

"she needed to be appreciated" - I appreciated my exgfs by being loyal, caring, affectionate, and treating them like queens.. Money doesn't equal appreciation.. Usually the best form of appreciate has nothing to do with money.

"cos no mata hw small dat enters ur pocket ur babe should be part of d budget" - WHY? is she my parents?? did she care for me when I was a child? The only reason you're thinking this is because she gives you sex... Otherwise,why arent your good/best GUY friends in your budget too? They have probably been there for you more than she has, with the only exception being they don't give you sex.. so technically it all comes down to your gf being a prostitute.

"but takin advantaage of a gal cos she hardly ask is very unfair" - this is the most pathetic thing i've ever heard from a guy, and thats saying a lot.. So by being a good bf, loyal, loving, caring.. So because i decide i dont want to give her money, that constitutes USING?? so you're saying basically that because she gives me sex, and i decide not to give her money, then im using her? Logically speaking, you're advocating paying her for the sex... Sex is a two way street... she also enjoys it... heck if you know what you're doing in bed then the girl better be paying you..

"also most guys dont spend on who dey dont love" - Are you really this silly? My first gf was my greatest love.. I never spent a dime on her except on her birthday or christmas.. she even paid for dinners sometimes, took me out, etc, and I had a lot more money than her.. I've also not spent on my mother and I love her to death... Money doesn't equal love...
The Nigerian maried men you see blowing money on girls are doing it because they want some pun, not because they love them..

Cheers

P/S just want to add im very generous.. If someone has a legitimate need I'm always willing to help.. I just refuse to believe that I have to put my gf in my budget just because she has sex with me.. Or buy her the newest blackberry just because she wants it, or give her money just because she decides she broke... or buy her N100,000 Brazilian hair just because she wants to show off.. Show me a girl who is being maintained by a guy, and i'll show you a mugu..

Funniest thing though, you could give your girl all the money in the world, then one day she's out somewhere, and guys like me will make her laugh, feel good & sexy, and she'll be blowing up my phone every other day.. That's what im experiencing now in Nigeria.. Girls who get money from their bfs, yet they want to hook up with me because they think I'm fun to be with.. So money doesnt equal loyalty either... These girls just want someone to pay for their fake hair and their bbm plan(so they can keep flirting with every other guy, in a bid to find the next mugu)

jay2k: @ jjman2322...u r more of a theorist...i kno ur likes,u r yet playin with kids...u need to be realistic in ur reasonin also i tink U realy need to meet matureed minds nd get ur self focused,,but gaz wat Dat will be wen u grow up...but for nw NO!! U will only tink lik a kid u r...my advice:- jst try nd grow up,get an english teacher nd get seriouse with life kk... @ redbenson...its not ur fault kk i understand,poverty has a way of dealin with people nd dat involves blindfolding u in understandin dat some has gone beyond wea u r....keep struglin with roofing ur house in d village nd helpin ur parents and @ d same tim keepin a so called GF u cant giv lil assistance cos u r roofing ur house nd supotin ur parents kkk..but stop tinkin dat evry 1 is still @ dat level kk..my advice:- dose r ur responsibilities so u dont complain about it as a reason not to involve ur true woman in ur budgets if u truly know who a woman is nd what she means to u kk..ogbenye amusu !!! Poor hugar!!

jjman2322:

What are you talking about? I'm about as mature as they come, im an old dude.. I've dated many girls.. I speak excellent english.. I dont know what you're talking about.. I'm not poor either... You need to make better points, rather than trying to attack my english(which is stupid, considering that english is my primary/first language), and you need to stop being a mugu....

arcbabe: wiser by being stingy and turning a blind eye when your girl needs you? My man is not like that and i just feel for girls that wil be involve wit stingy and greedy guys. Smh