dayokanu:

See as dem turn prenup talks on its head.

SPikey its a normal thing that human beings would try to use the available laws to their advantage.

A girl knows she just have to start small trouble, call cops and if she gets a good lawyer she would own the house i built with my money. Now ask me what would stop her from using that option?

Blazay:

I really do not understand why Africans should be talking about prenuptial agreements when both the man and the woman in the marriage are always broke. Unless you are a looting politician. Then, oh well. How many Africans in the diaspora have a savings account not to mention a prenuptial agreement?

Sagamite:

You sit your dumb arse in Nigeria and you assume all Nigerians abroad are in poverty?

Blazay:

Don't you see how you look like a classic hustler in your profile page to prove my point?
Shouldn't you be in school? Instead of taking pictures to scam dim-witted, elderly British ladies on Facebook?
Please, come back home. I will help you relocate adequately.
Refugee.

Blazay:

I really do not understand why Africans should be talking about prenuptial agreements when both the man and the woman in the marriage are always broke. Unless you are a looting politician. Then, oh well. How many Africans in the diaspora have a savings account not to mention a prenuptial agreement?

dayokanu:

^^ Hauwa,

Are we broke? We are not broke o. Me and you are living in Luxury

SemperFi

dayokanu:

I know a Naija man who got married when he divorced his wife They awarded her the house he had in NY and gave her custody of the child and pays Child support

The man had to come to TX to start life afresh. The son they had together, He is allowed to see him once a month.

Imagine that

stillwater:

God bless the West!!!
For every insignificant naija man that has been dealt with in the West over divorce proceedings there are uncountable cases of naija women thrown out of the house with her ghana must go for silly cases like she doesn't have a male child or the husband probably found a 'sweeter sweet sixteen' in Nigeria, to counter all your pitiful attempts to sympathize with a divorced naija man's plight.
So let's all see this as an equation that has been finally balanced. Hahahaha.

Sagamite:

Where did you go to school to do your own equations? 

So it is balanced in your equation if the son, of a Mrs A (divorced from Mr A) and was thrown out with her Ghana-must-go, is now harassed under the law for the benefit of the daughter of Mr B and Mrs B2 (who was married at the age of 16 after Mrs B2 cheated with him and got him to divorce former Mrs B1)? 

[Strokes his head like a Genius]

stillwater:

God bless the West!!!
For every insignificant naija man that has been dealt with in the West over divorce proceedings there are uncountable cases of naija women thrown out of the house with her ghana must go for silly cases like she doesn't have a male child or the husband probably found a 'sweeter sweet sixteen' in Nigeria, to counter all your pitiful attempts to sympathize with a divorced naija man's plight.
So let's all see this as an equation that has been finally balanced. Hahahaha.

You want me to believe that that dude is innocent or butter won't melt in his mouth? We know sabi how wicked and arrogant naija men can be if they want to?
Abeg go and tell this to a non-nigerian maybe he/she will give you the sympathy you want.

NubianQ:

Pre-nups are good! it saves alot of hassle when a relationship breaks down, if i had alot of money i will get a pre-nup, simple.

dayokanu:


Good girl. Dont wait till you have a lot of money. You might suddenly strike gold while married and the dude would come for half,

If you are anywhere in Texas, Lets sign the papers right away.

NubianQ:

Prenups are quite tricky,  because you are damned if you do and damned if you dont,  thats hard though,

NubianQ:

i still do not think its fair for someone to take half of another persons hard earned money. yes it takes two to be in a relationship but if two people are reasonable they shld agree on some settlement before going to court.

Sagamite:

I would rather be damned if I do.

Most women are irrational in relationships.

Even more than these most will be [more] irrational in divorces, which itself are mostly messy due to anger/revenge or misinformation to one party that their contribution is worth more than it actually is.

So the odds are quite bad.

Better safe than sorry! Especially if you are the one with the highest probability of facing the risk.

Ndipe:

As well as men. If you notice in Nigeria and other parts of Africa, when a couple divorce, usually, the woman leaves singlehandedly, irrespective of her contributions to the household. Look at the house in the first place, no matter if the woman was a 'co-builder' of the family dwelling place, the house is still regarded as the man's domain. So, dont ascribe irrationality to most women.

Sagamite:

I would rather be damned if I do.

Most women are irrational in relationships.

Even more than these most will be [more] irrational in divorces, which itself are mostly messy due to anger/revenge or misinformation to one party that their contribution is worth more than it actually is.

So the odds are quite bad.

Better safe than sorry! Especially if you are the one with the highest probability of facing the risk.

NubianQ:

Sagamite,  to be honest the main reason why SOME women are irrational is because of the men. do you know that in some high profile divorces the women ask for alot of money because when the men leave them, they start flaunting one young girl in their faces. it brings out alot of rage! and believe me the women will fight because of that slap on the face. i think some men should relax sometimes too,

NubianQ:

@Sagamite,

frankly speaking some men deserve to be milked ,  as for women who cheat,, hmmm no comment!

NubianQ:

Prenups are not bad but i doubt we can do it in naija,  in naija there is already a prenup without signing cuz once some men leave a woman that is ithe end of the womans butter

armyofone:

thank God for the West.