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Re: What Will U Do If Your Husband Can Not Perform? by topup: 7:50pm On Aug 22, 2008 |
Perform?!?! What is this perform thing? What do you mean by perform? If his ***** is perfectly functioning then what's the problem? I'm not asking for a world athelete or a pro who's obtained 'medals' from all his past conquests? I'm asking for someone who can just focus on the here and now and pleasing his wife. Really, who cares if he's a pro or not, it's the moment that counts, if you're more bothered about marking his performance skills instead of enjoying the moment, then obviously you will find errors. Medical Problems are a different thing, totally. However, if it is something that can be treated, why not work through it, though if it can't be treated, I would have hoped that you both married each other for love first and so unless the love changes you still couldn't imagine being with someone else. Why has sex become such a big thing on everybody's agenda?? My answer; because everybody has been brainwashed into thinking that its one of the vital things for a successful relationship. |
Re: What Will U Do If Your Husband Can Not Perform? by tope2000(f): 7:51pm On Aug 22, 2008 |
This is why it is good to have sex b4 marriage |
Re: What Will U Do If Your Husband Can Not Perform? by tRoOE(f): 3:02am On Aug 23, 2008 |
Love concurs all |
Re: What Will U Do If Your Husband Can Not Perform? by topup: 4:37am On Aug 23, 2008 |
tRoOE: There's a pun in that! Love Conquers all! |
Re: What Will U Do If Your Husband Can Not Perform? by bigboyslim(m): 5:12am On Aug 23, 2008 |
topup: Oh really? and its not. right? |
Re: What Will U Do If Your Husband Can Not Perform? by topup: 8:40am On Aug 23, 2008 |
bigboyslim: I can't comment if it's right or not. But, seriously, we worry SO much about it, and it's causing so much unecessary stress, we are lucky today, we got Viagra, Jedi Jedi, Chinese, this n that and doctors, helplines and meds to deal with a large number of 'performance problems'. Truly and honestly, I would never put so much emphasis on sex or give it too much credit, because I believe if more effort is put into building a loving relationship, the relationship will thrive, but I mean apart from the sex, you have to talk, work, love, share finances, maybe have kids and communicate with each other (amongst other things), so if the sex is great, does that mean all these things come in line. I don't think it should be: Love Sex Vs Finane, Extended family, Children, Interests in Common, Dreams and Goals, Chemistry/Attraction[/color I think it should be sex in the list on the right as an equally weighted reason for a relationship. Sex is given too much weight these days as if a relationship/marriage/future/ REST OF YOUR LIFE can be based on sex you are currently/will have with a partner. It's almost as if great sex to some people means everything else will fall in place too. Whilst you can have the things on the list on the right, but if the sex isn't AMAZING of OLYMPIC quality, you disregard all the qualities and leave the person -** As always, I cannot speak for everybody because there will be some people who are able to have amazing sex, then argue and disagree and not get along, but the sex alone is virtually the only reason holding them together. I might get attacked, but I think that's selling yourself short, everybody deserves some love, and if you are substituting love for sex, it just ain't the same, after a while you'll get bored of the sex, and there will be nothing to fall back on. |
Re: What Will U Do If Your Husband Can Not Perform? by AMIGO112(m): 11:14am On Aug 23, 2008 |
BA G topup: GOD BLESS U. BARMAN!! PLEASE GIVE HIM ONE GULDER. |
Re: What Will U Do If Your Husband Can Not Perform? by bigboyslim(m): 5:47pm On Aug 23, 2008 |
@ topup Must you always be so reasonable? You have a very valid point. while i believe that sex is vital in a relationship (at least at the onset) the other elements you listed are also vital too. There's nothing as good as leading a balanced life but as humans we are imperfect and we always tend to have a bias for certain elements over the other. I guess striving to achieve that balance should be the goal of both partners in any relationship. |
Re: What Will U Do If Your Husband Can Not Perform? by vivaladiva(f): 5:59pm On Aug 23, 2008 |
that kind thing no fit happen ( we must try b4 we buy) |
Re: What Will U Do If Your Husband Can Not Perform? by spben(m): 8:04pm On Aug 23, 2008 |
The tested issue , in this case we should not be generalizing things with the sex before marriage , Because you might test death , it's absurd to be testing sex, Get married if you know you have flir for for sex don't advise people wrongly , we all have only one life to live why would i be toyling with my life ?? @ poster .,, atleast we have all gain more than enough , make use of the write advise , you can hear verybody, but make a wise choice. |
Re: What Will U Do If Your Husband Can Not Perform? by NegroNtns(m): 8:48pm On Aug 23, 2008 |
This is a real issue in most marriages. What will you do if you discovered on your wedding night and beyound that your husband you married can not perform at all in bed. Will u divorce him immediately, continue to endure or look elsewhere for what is lacking. Your view is needed please because it can happen to anyone out there. aanh anh, not this Negro, it aint happening! Look, even if my doctor warned that I need to stop fuckcing cus my heart can no longer sustain, I no go listen to am. You cannot dissuade a limping lion not to chase after the buffalo. I only need to sniff, I'm on it! |
Re: What Will U Do If Your Husband Can Not Perform? by topup: 9:43pm On Aug 23, 2008 |
bigboyslim: Exactly! That magical word 'balance', it's very difficult to achieve and maintain but we should all seek that. It is so much more easier to find a good sexual partner than a god partner for life. Maybe people have given up complete hope on finding true love and companionship these days. I don't blame them, but if there is a 'best' out there i.e. great partner (with many great qualities , including sex) then aim for it. Don't settle for any less, I'd say. |
Re: What Will U Do If Your Husband Can Not Perform? by maborukoje(f): 9:52pm On Aug 23, 2008 |
sorrrrry, am very sure nigerians are not stupid especially d PUSSYcat around before i marry a man we would have done enough HONEYMOON before d official HONEYMOON so hw wont i know maybe he can perform or not 2 be frank in nigeria we believe in sexs before marriage isnt it for more talks and chat email mi on mabos_olayemi@yahoo.com |
Re: What Will U Do If Your Husband Can Not Perform? by Gamine(f): 9:55pm On Aug 23, 2008 |
sharrap dia |
Re: What Will U Do If Your Husband Can Not Perform? by Nobody: 9:55pm On Aug 23, 2008 |
maborukoje: speak for yourself woman,and stop posting shits because that highlighted statement aint true |
Re: What Will U Do If Your Husband Can Not Perform? by kolaoloye(m): 9:47am On Aug 27, 2008 |
vivaladiva:This thing no be garri now. |
Re: What Will U Do If Your Husband Can Not Perform? by richo(m): 9:53am On Aug 27, 2008 |
i would call richo and book an all night appointment |
Re: What Will U Do If Your Husband Can Not Perform? by JJYOU: 1:13pm On Feb 03, 2009 |
vivaladiva:so what happens if this happen 1 month after your test drive? bigboyslim:na mama arugbo this girl be topup:always the tops as usual. God bless you |
Re: What Will U Do If Your Husband Can Not Perform? by Tranngirls(f): 1:32pm On Feb 03, 2009 |
That is why bad girls like me always get the best man, because we dont have to worry about shit like this. When you good girl were ready your books we were fucking all you husbands of the future so we know how to choice the best man |
Re: What Will U Do If Your Husband Can Not Perform? by JJYOU: 2:09pm On Feb 03, 2009 |
i think agbayaism is the NL word |
Re: What Will U Do If Your Husband Can Not Perform? by baibijayyahoo(f): 2:43pm On Feb 14, 2013 |
hmmmm...abi ooo! buh na wa for u |
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