Odunharry: yap it is worth it...nt for evrybody

Nomski0: Me i can have a long distance affair.......though it depends on the distance sha and how often we see each other. Reasons why we are far apart matters too and Trust is a major factor, without trust, they're both deceiving each other.
Also if we have a long history together then we'll tackle the distance thing.
@op I've also seen people who made it work. It all depends on the partners involved.

Sanboy25: Some human beings, men and women, can control themselves when they are in a relationship with another person, that's called commitment. I think that in rare cases, long-distant relationship are worth it. But for the majority of people out there, the 'hungry' boys and girls, I would advise for them to put an end to the masquerade they are calling 'relationship' if they can't hold it and find a mate near their new location.

bennyraz: you know there's a difference between an affair and a relationship? you also said it depends on the distance which means if he is outside the country, something might happen? if you guys don't see each other for like 6 - 12months, something might happen?? well, long history together factor might work to some extent becuz by then, you would have known what your partner can or cannot do.. Long history together is an important factor if the distance thing would work out.. but it's quite sure to some extent that if a guy goes outside Nigeria today, he might drop his GF back in Nigeria for a white woman cuz of citizenship and all that.. do you agree

fittty: Can I please get likes for no reason?

-> Hum...... NO

druid06:
you meet someone online or via any social networking site and you both hit it off immediately and you began dating knowing the distance between you guys being one of the individual in that kind of relationship is thousand of miles and ocean away in another far country and that individual has no reason to leave to meet you for whatever personal reasons being it work or some personal stuff and you on the other hand don't think of ever relocating. On such scenerio, long distance relationships would never work.

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beauty ng: it highly depends on d loyalty nd sincerity dey have 4 each oda.....

Evestar200: @OP,,it depends on the kind of pple,,,some pple cant control themselves and those kind of pple are not good 4 long distance relationship,,,the pple who are strong and can control and deal with their emotion are the ones that can sustain and maintain long distance relationship,,

bennyraz: To me, i believe long distance relationship is a big sham by one of the party involved. It might be the guy or the babe but one party is definitely playing one party. How can you explain a girl in School in PH riding/sexing another man while answering the call of her supposed fiance in lagos saying "Sweetie, i miss you, I love you" while the joystick of another man is still inside her?? how can you explain another married man harboring a young girl in his home while his wife just took a trip to South Africa. Nairalanders.. my eyes have seen, my ears have heard and what more should i say? Is long distance relationship really worth the stress? knowing fully well that one party would cheat? and why do people involve themselves in long distance relationship? Is it because of their low self esteem or timidity? mind you, I have enjoyed the benevolence of long distance relationship it ended well but not an happily ever after well.

cisplatin:
My point? It is not really about the DISTANCE..., it is about THE PEOPLE keeping the distance.

NO RELATIONSHIP IS PERFECT! All of them are flawed, if you care to find the flaws. I advice you dare not try to find them...cause u will certainly see them.

Joavid: I believe we have discussed dis same issue countless times on this forum. y bring dis up again
If it doesn't work for u doesn't mean it wont work for others.
it is about commitment and trust.