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Should You Ever Say Sorry To A Woman by Steroid101(m): 1:35pm On Jun 06, 2008
From www.datingkeys..com/


Many men believe that it is wrong to say "sorry" to
a woman. There are even some dating coaches who teach men to
say "too bad" instead of "sorry" to a woman whenever they
make a mistake.

I disagree.

I think it's perfectly okay to say "sorry" to a woman,
as long as:

1) You have a real reason to say it.

2) You don't repeat it.

3) You don't ask for forgiveness.

A real man shouldn't be afraid of admitting his own
mistakes. If he screws up really badly, he shouldn't be afraid
to apologize to anyone. Just apologize, and let it go.

After all, part of being a man is accept responsibility
for your own action.

What you DON'T want to do, however, is to keep on
begging a woman for forgiveness.

A lot of men who do apologize to women make the mistake
of apologizing "too much".

The human mind is very interesting. If you "keep on"
saying "sorry" to a woman, she is going to get on a power trip
and keep "pretending" that she's mad at you in order to hear
more - until she actually BELIEVES that she's mad at you.
Sometimes, they will eventually forget WHY they are mad at you,
but STAY MAD at you anyway in order to keep the upper hand.

So, instead of begging for forgiveness, just say
"sorry", admit you've made a mistake, and change topics. If she's
really mad at you, leave her alone and let her blow up some
steam. But don't ask for forgiveness. You've already apologized.
Asking for forgiveness won't do you any good.

Lastly, be careful about saying "sorry" if you're one
of those guys who are "always sorry". While there is no problem
with saying "sorry" when you have made a big mistake, you should
NOT apologize for everything you do on a date.

Nairaland real men, do you say sorry to your girl?
Re: Should You Ever Say Sorry To A Woman by ayeesha: 1:51pm On Jun 06, 2008
Steroid101:

From www.datingkeys..com/


What you DON'T want to do, however, is to keep on
begging a woman for forgiveness.

A lot of men who do apologize to women make the mistake
of apologizing "too much".

The human mind is very interesting. If you "keep on"
saying "sorry" to a woman, she is going to get on a power trip
and keep "pretending" that she's mad at you in order to hear
more - until she actually BELIEVES that she's mad at you.
Sometimes, they will eventually forget WHY they are mad at you,
but STAY MAD at you anyway in order to keep the upper hand.






really *ima go try it out then. will come back with my findings* grin
Re: Should You Ever Say Sorry To A Woman by Alapomeji1: 1:59pm On Jun 06, 2008
For wat now?
Re: Should You Ever Say Sorry To A Woman by ayeesha: 2:05pm On Jun 06, 2008
Alapo meji:

For what now?

so as not to lose her.
Re: Should You Ever Say Sorry To A Woman by Nobody: 2:08pm On Jun 06, 2008
You men need to stop being egoistic baboons . , say sorry. it wnt cut off your balls undecided
Re: Should You Ever Say Sorry To A Woman by fulldepth(m): 2:11pm On Jun 06, 2008
never beg a woman, angry angry angry angry
this is an advice to all Men,
do not beg them for any reason whatsoever,
nonsense.
Re: Should You Ever Say Sorry To A Woman by ayeesha: 2:12pm On Jun 06, 2008
toyinrayo:

You men need to stop being egoistic baboons . , say sorry. it wnt cut off your balls undecided

pls help me tell them o! they rather a woman says sorry for every argument they have, even when its not her fault. i`m sorry has never killed a man before.*or has there been past cases we`ve not heard about*
Re: Should You Ever Say Sorry To A Woman by krama(m): 2:12pm On Jun 06, 2008
Whats wrong with saying sorry? shocked
Re: Should You Ever Say Sorry To A Woman by Alapomeji1: 2:17pm On Jun 06, 2008
You men need to stop being egoistic baboons ,,, say sorry. it wnt cut off your balls undecided

u, u ve come with ur stupidity abi?

nobody as said anything insultfull here, male/female.

take ur time o!
Re: Should You Ever Say Sorry To A Woman by Nobody: 2:19pm On Jun 06, 2008
Alapo meji:

u, u ve come with your stupidity abi?

nobody as said anything insultfull here, male/female.

take your time o!
No, you've taken priviledge of your stupidity. . .

like I said, egoistic baboons. . .and you're already proofing it. ,

read my siggy buddy. . .adios kiss
Re: Should You Ever Say Sorry To A Woman by Alapomeji1: 2:21pm On Jun 06, 2008
so as not to lose her.

hen hen! so r u saying u cant loose a lady even after saying sorry?
Re: Should You Ever Say Sorry To A Woman by Alapomeji1: 2:22pm On Jun 06, 2008
tank u.
Re: Should You Ever Say Sorry To A Woman by Nobody: 2:25pm On Jun 06, 2008
Alapo meji like 9ice~ copycat grin
notin does ya tongue
Re: Should You Ever Say Sorry To A Woman by Alapomeji1: 2:29pm On Jun 06, 2008
Alapo meji like 9ice~ copycat 
notin does ya 


Jassie like D'banj/Don Jazzy ,  copy cat grin

Notin did u too jare wink

Me Alapo plenty,various,many,surplus, unlimited . . . etc

how u doing today?
Re: Should You Ever Say Sorry To A Woman by Nobody: 2:33pm On Jun 06, 2008
grin grin grin u'r crazy mayne grin grin grin



I just dey PERE for here.

If u wanna party with a kokolet just sing 2 her jassie, sho ti jassie grin
Re: Should You Ever Say Sorry To A Woman by buzyDiva(f): 2:34pm On Jun 06, 2008
krama:

Whats wrong with saying sorry? shocked

I tire o

why not? . . .if not? undecided
Re: Should You Ever Say Sorry To A Woman by Nobody: 2:38pm On Jun 06, 2008
buzyDiva:

I tire o

why not? . . .if not? undecided

OMO, NO MIND THEM JARE. . .they think part of being a man is being egoistic baboons cheesy cheesy cheesy

If my guy does not say sorry when he does sth wrong, wahala dey grin
Re: Should You Ever Say Sorry To A Woman by buzyDiva(f): 2:39pm On Jun 06, 2008
toyinrayo:

OMO, NO MIND THEM JARE. . .they think part of being a man is being egoistic baboons cheesy cheesy cheesy

If my guy does not say sorry when he did sth wrong, wahala dey grin

beats me how some of these men think?

the way God created man na so he created women.
Re: Should You Ever Say Sorry To A Woman by Aladunni(f): 2:40pm On Jun 06, 2008
may some men not die under the full weight of EGO one day
Re: Should You Ever Say Sorry To A Woman by donpapa(m): 2:41pm On Jun 06, 2008
~SORRY~ any mature man can admit when he's wrong and apologize.
If its deserved I say it. But if its not then I won't.
specifically,i might not be able to say sorry. It might be hard for me to say the words but i might show it in a different way (being extra nice,buying you things, taking you out, etc) rather than SAYING the words "I'm sorry" but being sorry is a feeling not the specific action of saying the words.
So as long as you two learn to communicate with eachother, you will see that i says sorry more often than not.
Really, the issue isn't about SAYING sorry but being sorry. wink
Re: Should You Ever Say Sorry To A Woman by onyinye2(f): 2:42pm On Jun 06, 2008
a man should always say sorry cuz he is always wrong
Re: Should You Ever Say Sorry To A Woman by Nobody: 2:42pm On Jun 06, 2008
onyinye2:

a man should always say sorry because he is always wrong
lmao. . . not always wink
Re: Should You Ever Say Sorry To A Woman by buzyDiva(f): 2:44pm On Jun 06, 2008
Aladunni:

may some men not die under the full weight of EGO one day

Amin o

just because of that yeye thing dangling between their legs. grin
Re: Should You Ever Say Sorry To A Woman by Aladunni(f): 2:47pm On Jun 06, 2008
buzyDiva:

Amin o

just because of that yeye thing dangling between their legs. grin

ha!!! i weak O
Re: Should You Ever Say Sorry To A Woman by Nobody: 2:48pm On Jun 06, 2008
buzyDiva:

Amin o

just because of that yeye thing dangling between their legs. grin

that's why they need to behave. abi, where will it eventually end up? grin
Re: Should You Ever Say Sorry To A Woman by buzyDiva(f): 2:54pm On Jun 06, 2008
toyinrayo:

that's why they need to behave. abi, where will it eventually end up? grin

U'll neva know . . . these days . . its growing in their heads, their brains to be precise.
Re: Should You Ever Say Sorry To A Woman by RThESlyR: 3:29pm On Jun 06, 2008
There is nothing wrong in saying sorry if its CRYSTAL CLEAR that you've done what's wrong.
Just tell her you are sorry. . you aint gon die by saying so. . .
If she keeps talking. . .Just say ''sheeeeeeeeeeeesh''. . .Then go for a kiss. . . kiss
I promise you wont regret it. . . cool
Re: Should You Ever Say Sorry To A Woman by buzyDiva(f): 3:31pm On Jun 06, 2008
®Th£ Sly®:

There is nothing wrong in saying sorry ifs is CRYSTAL CLEAR that you've done what's wrong.
Just tell her you are sorry. . you aint gon die by saying so. . .
If she keeps talking. . .Just say ''sheeeeeeeeeeeesh''. . .Then go for a kiss. . . kiss
I promise you wont regret it. . . cool


good boy . . . i taught u well tongue
Re: Should You Ever Say Sorry To A Woman by RThESlyR: 3:43pm On Jun 06, 2008
buzyDiva:

good boy . . . i taught u well tongue
U didn't teach me nothing jare. . . cheesy
Re: Should You Ever Say Sorry To A Woman by buzyDiva(f): 3:49pm On Jun 06, 2008
®Th£ Sly®:

You didn't teach me nothing jare. . . cheesy

c'mon naw . . u know i did tongue
Re: Should You Ever Say Sorry To A Woman by onyinye2(f): 3:52pm On Jun 06, 2008
as i said before the man is always wrong so he should always apologize
Re: Should You Ever Say Sorry To A Woman by buzyDiva(f): 3:53pm On Jun 06, 2008
onyinye2:

as i said before the man is always wrong so he should always apologize

nahh , not always sweetie
some girls are very stubborn too o

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