yea.i will say doing ur home work is really important in
the art of wooing a guy
sometimes his physical features may make
u think u can go all the way for this guy
and after all ur seductive powers have been
exhausted only for u to now see that he wasn't
worth all ur trouble in the first place.


u have to be really sure b4 u woo a guy
if not ,i will say u let him do the dirty jod but with
ur silent guidance

its a tradition here that the lady is wooed by the guy
but if u want to do it the other way then extream skills is needed
becos if it turns out bad,hunnnnm!!!
the feeling is really terrible i must say

if it happens not to work, the lady would fill like dyin

@efosaval
thats right
so whoever is trying to woo a guy should be prepared cause u never can tell if its going to be successful.
And if it is not then am sure that will be very embarrasing for the girl.

exactly becos that is the same thing we ladies like doing to guy.
So they would like to pay us back

i dated one of Nigerians big boys in the music industries
once (name with held) it was at about 8 pm in the night
while i was try to get a bus home and this nice car pulled over
me being the kind of girl i am (said in my mind no way will i enter that car at this time)
then he drove back a bit when he saw that i did not move.
wining down a bit i saw his face waooooo my eyes twinkled
this na jack pot men , withing seconds my mind gave a rethink
but i was really trying not to be stupid and to access him very well

he said are u going my way?
putting up a small defense i said NOP!
looking at me again he said i think u should not be here
at this time .well after alot of talks i entered with my liver
in my mouth

after awhile i got relaxed abit well because he was funny
i knew that in his head he knew that i no him as a popular musician
so i decided to play on that by acting dumb to that fact.i asked him
what he does for a living and i could see the shock in his eyes but i didnt behave
like i cared.he then said u mean u dont know me guess what ,i played my game well.
i made him feel i wasn't a music freak and i didn't care about them at all
that was my trek and it worked unlike what might have ended in a one night
thing i held this guy down for 2years pulse before i moved on
as a result of too much female stress


the lesson here is to study him before u play along
like in my case he is use to girls runing to him
but i did it d other way and that just thrilled him
in other words i controlled the game and made
him do the job(4give the long story i just felt it relevant to the topic)

it really feels good for a guy to do the
wooing thing,why? cos to a large extent
its the girls only time too feel good and be
flattered.at this period u have all the guys attention
which is very important. cos as soon as u say yes
and the guy feels in charge hunmm! the music go change
especially if he now chops ur sweet potatoo waoooooo!
he may still love u,(well if he wants u for keeps)but the thing
go change.so whats the point why no just enjoy him do the job

Looks like a fabricated tale to me,oops!  

EFOSA VAL:

i dated one of Nigerians big boys in the music industries
once (name with held) it was at about 8 pm in the night
while i was try to get a bus home and this nice car pulled over
me being the kind of girl i am (said in my mind no way will i enter that car at this time)
then he drove back a bit when he saw that i did not move.
wining down a bit i saw his face waooooo my eyes twinkled
this na jack pot men , withing seconds my mind gave a rethink
but i was really trying not to be stupid and to access him very well

he said are u going my way?
putting up a small defense i said NOP!
looking at me again he said i think u should not be here
at this time .well after alot of talks i entered with my liver
in my mouth

after awhile i got relaxed abit well because he was funny
i knew that in his head he knew that i no him as a popular musician
so i decided to play on that by acting dumb to that fact.i asked him
what he does for a living and i could see the shock in his eyes but i didnt behave
like i cared.he then said u mean u don't know me guess what ,i played my game well.
i made him feel i wasn't a music freak and i didn't care about them at all
that was my trek and it worked unlike what might have ended in a one night
thing i held this guy down for 2years pulse before i moved on
as a result of too much female stress


the lesson here is to study him before u play along
like in my case he is use to girls runing to him
but i did it d other way and that just thrilled him
in other words i controlled the game and made
him do the job(4give the long story i just felt it relevant to the topic)

Looks like a fabricated tale to me.oops!

Don’t allow yourself to be deceived all in the name of love. Nowadays you need to open your eyes & shine your face well because love is not blind anymore, In Nigeria all ladies & men are looking who to loot and break your heart, In short true is hard to find and you luckily find one it won’t take anything.

mekk:

Looks like a fabricated tale to me,oops!
Looks like a fabricated tale to me.oops!

yea i understand people like u
if it didn't happen to u then it didn't
happen at all abi?

anyway we are all entitled to our own opinions
its pointless trying to make u believe or not

by the way if thats fabricated hummmm!
shouldn't i get some bows for that lovely pieces

skweezer:

Don’t allow yourself to be deceived all in the name of love. Nowadays you need to open your eyes & shine your face well because love is not blind anymore, In Nigeria all ladies & men are looking who to loot and break your heart, In short true is hard to find and you luckily find one it won’t take anything.

i agree with u totally but i think that is deviating from this topic
WOOING A MAN,,not love
u can woo a person just for the fun of it not for love
it really depends.all i will say is be smart about it cos the
person is also watching u.

lastly its the power u give to a person that he can use over u.
if u make ur self look dump than u will be treated that way

@ Efosa
So what later happened to the guy you 'controlled' by your specialized wooing system?

To woo me, just give me several glances and I will be at ya door knocking as many times as I could provided there was no road block to ya house.

EFOSA VAL:


yea i understand people like u
if it didn't happen to u then it didn't
happen at all abi?

anyway we are all entitled to our own opinions
its pointless trying to make u believe or not

by the way if thats fabricated hummmm!
shouldn't i get some bows for that lovely pieces

truth is, I like people keeping it real .that's it.besides,your point wasn't really logically.so,you made-up piece was absolutely uncalled for.

mekk:

truth is, I like people keeping it real .that's it.besides,your point wasn't really logically.so,you made-up piece was absolutely uncalled for.

oh plsssssssss cut that crap
u dont have to post back na

favcom:

@ Efosa
So what later happened to the guy you 'controlled' by your specialized wooing system?

wooaa! **_{u no read the storry}? * i had
two years to show for my specialized wooing system
ok and i moved on

Tell him you are a very naughtyyyyyyyyyy girl and that you need to be punished! He'll be all over you!

just walk up to him like men would always do.what a man can do,

buhahahahhaa
una try o!,,chai
make the tin con go f u ck up!
the bebe don enter gbege !
infact the guy would be the one to spread the news
4 her
and she go shame big time
infact she don turn to asha wo be that

realy its not our tradition so ladies just bone

go straight to the point, after all man no dey pretend when dem wan toast woman, no need shaking ur waist bla, bla, bla, as u wan take d role of the toastee or wetin we go call u now

toaster !

Quote from: ephisi on Yesterday at 08:58:43 AM

acidrop, it is very possible that u never woo guys. maybe u actually woo a guy and make hinm think he is the one wooing u. Thats d best u can do. if a lady likes a guy thats d best she can stay away from totally wooing d guy.

I once read a book, The art of seduction, Taught me the art of seduction and how to defend against seductin. But wait oh. which guy on this earth does not want to bee wooed. The odds are in our favour afterall.

Funny, my girl friend and hopefully wife to be, actually wooed me for 4years before i finally saw reason to date her.

guy,u don spoil show,why you tell her say you get girl?


aciddrop please drop an acid on that having a girlfriend line

lol wethere i drop acid or not, the whole me wooing him process will still not work. meanwhile ephisi congrats, so are ugonna ask her marry u?

What's Up Poster:To the topic:Just be yourself what's yours will come back to you and what's not will not come regardless of what you do. Even if it do come back it will not last which is the same to say it didn't come back. But remember natural selection have some roles to play. I have noticed that good ladies that got their shit together get married quicker than ladies that flirt or sleep around. Most guys need a lady in the house not a flirt.

just give him a simple and friendly facial interest,like smile and say hi.

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florishn:

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LOV DIS POST AS WELL
JUST BEEN READIN AND ENJOYIN ALL D STUFFS AND ALL DAT,

WHETHER D GUY WOO's d GIRL or D GIRL WOO's d GUY, WOT MATTERS MOST IS DAT THERE WAS A "WOO"

PERSONALLY, I THNK D bABES SHUD WOO MORE _{"notin hard 4 there ooo, na just d way una dey look am"}

be gracefull in everything u do
steal occasional glances
be down to earth
and let him know u're God fearin

Presently looking for some babe to come woo me

them never whoo me beforeooo

A woman's got to do what a woman's got to do. It goes with the saying. Just tell him that he is not as short as he thinks

abeg we shldnt debate on dis 4 too long haba!!!

wen one miss out 4rm d original source watelse? (FAKE) abeg oh!!! wooing na men's job abeg, letno ladies miss out on dat plssssss am pleading because is sweet n fun wen a guy walk up to u a sweet lady n do d usual stuff owoo!! mem!! there is nting like it, then d lady in qus will then display sm flow of sakara, u get, d rest is history abeg,


i luv d wooing game dat men display oh, sm re just sweet n funny while sm re   childish any is stil ok by me than any lady to take over a man's job. yeah d saying wat a man can do a woman can do better nt in all cases pls.

d men pls carry goooooo abeg!! feel d man dat u re made of n make d move pls   while we do d rest!!!

i don't know for u guys but i prefer if we the men do the wooing

Quote from Aisha2

when you meet a guy u like, you have to strike up conversation for me the sports or politics stuff always works for my kind of men. If you can't converse well in bothe fields, i run fast

[size=13pt]@ Aisha2
Lucky me huh, you gonn' run till Marion Jones runs out of drugs because i don't do sports and dirty politics. I do lots of music and movies maybe baby![/size]