Shocked betrayed and very sad. I tried to forgive but i cant forget. I cant trust people again especially romantic relationships.
Such a shame people warned me but i put all my trust in him. I remember how foolish i felt when i first heard LOL NAWA

geolan:
And ur proud about this. D depth of ur pucci don wan enta 6ft

surprisingly am still a virgin,my dignity remains wit me.it is only my husband dat'll hav it.not evry girl is lyk de female folk around u.

its actualy 1 of does tins bur its gona b d end of our relationship

Great?

Wat a horrible xperience. An unimaginable emotnal hrt break. I bcm so wild as i do d same tin, thou we're stil 2geda. I jst pray a change of hrt in me

When you love someone, hurt is kinda part of the package.
-TWD

BTW

I've not been cheated on before!

passionate88: Na wetin I dey fear pass, I hear say Naija babes like man wey good for bed so I dey avoid relationship wit a non-virgin.

ALL WOMEN like men good in bed. That's common sense!

veave: It makes one cold, withdrawn, unfeeling and so on and so forth. some dudes really dont know w@ they want. it all boils down to selfishness.

Change that to human and your statement will be more accurate. There are good and bad people on both sides of the gender.

Imanuelle: When you love someone, hurt is kinda part of the package.
-TWD

BTW

I've not been cheated on before!

wow!!! luv this.

With all due respect to the OP, I think this question need not be asked. All the responses that I have read were not unexpected. They are very
natural. NO ONE will be happy after they are cheated on. I think a more appropriate question would be: what did you do? Where did you bury his or her body? Just kidding. Just kidding.

Agybabe:
sweetheart, why cry over a spilt milk...he needs to apologise sincerely and promise on his life and swear to God that it won't repeat...then we are good to go. Life is too sweet to cry!

Aunty Agybabe, don't be naive. A cheat will always be a cheat. That is a fact, not a cynical statement. Of course, he will apologize profusely, but he will not change. In fact, he will only devise more subtle ways to cheat.

Dyt: Oh well
Its normal to feel so hurt and then seein whom u bn cheated, someone not upto, u jst snap and b like TF is dat
Its so normal for d trust to be shaky

This is a mistake so many of us make. How do you know this person is not up to standard? Looks? It is absolutely wrong to cheat, but never
think you are better than any other person just by looking at them. They may possess something that you don't. If beauty were the key to keeping a partner, beautiful people will never get cheat on.

I Feeeel good pa na na nah so goood so good. u can do it again

well, my bf cheated on me and told me of what he did. i felt bad but forgave him 4 having the courage to tell me. although the aftermath was pain, i couldnt jeopardize a good relationship because of that.

gothrones:

ALL WOMEN like men good in bed. That's common sense!

bt dm go say no Bleep untill u marry dm. No b fraud b that?

Imanuelle: When you love someone, hurt is kinda part of the package.
-TWD

BTW

I've not been cheated on before!

See this TWD addict lol.

passionate88: bt dm go say no Bleep untill u marry dm. No b fraud b that?

Really? Maybe it's because of the environment I am in. I have never met such women. All the women I have ever dated wanted to see how good I was at navigating sugarland.

ogugua88:

See this TWD addict lol.

Ogugua why?. Why u modify my post na?.

Rokiatuuuuuu!

Lyk I'm nt gud enf

He cheated with a ''MAN''



Disbelief and funny, after some months I started absorbing reality. We still friends though.

Don't wish it for anyone. Rather cheating with a woman.

I felt *********hmm,will not like to remember.it was not a good experience for me

rokiatu:
wow!!! luv this.

me too
I think it's true
The hurts May not be infidelity
But some other little things

[quote
author=geolan]
Hey don't be rude.....next time u'ld ask why cos u don't knw if av bn
cheated on to av wrote that. Now chimpazeechiamaka u shud get a
life [/quote]

Excuse me? gorilla Geolan, just cos' you're on a rebound doesn't mean you should go about with a chip on your shoulder. Live a little!

ogugua88:

See this TWD addict lol.

It's not easy to be an addict

Anyways, I m not the love-dating-relationship kinda guy, buh someao I always get these annoyin and damanding kinda gals who won't want 2 free you after just an "affair"....so anytime the cheat waves stirs up around them, even if its just the smell I percieve, Omo naa 2 go church go do thanksgiving ooo...like Finally, I'm freeeeeee....so Unto the next Game

Lool!!

Seeing the ladies writing off all guys as cheats and the guys doing d same abt d ladies.. Funny tho..

Both sexes have the capacity to cheat. A guy will cheat but most likely come back to his girl.

A lady will cheat and most likely leave her guy for the other. Guys (most sha,not all) see cheating as a way to explore variety,feelings and emotions arent always involved. But most ladies,due to their emotional and passionate character,cheat for love. If a lady is cheating on you,80% chance is that she wont come back to you. But wid a guy,its d oda way round.

Sha.. @topic, 3 times.. D first,like my world nearly fell apart, d second, d ground only shook, the 3rd? Hehhehe.. I don adjust by den.. It hurt but i quickly shrugged it off and moved on. Afraid of ladies now. Especially the marriage ish.. *shudders*

All had dia excuses and serzly expected me to say yeah yeah,its okay. Lol.. A guy tries dat,he's classified as a cold, heartless bastar.d..

gothrones:

Aunty Agybabe, don't be naive. A cheat will always be a cheat. That is a fact, not a cynical statement. Of course, he will apologize profusely, but he will not change. In fact, he will only devise more subtle ways to cheat.

100,000 likes!!!!!!!!!!!!
@topic - the sad ones are those busy making excuses for why they were cheated on or looking for ways to fight the other person when the problem lies with their gf or bf still denying or even rubbing it in their face llooooll. its becos i'm not gud in bed, i'm praying for him bla bla bla haaahaa long thing!!!! when low self esteem enters the story, its a different thing altogether mmmmm

rokiatu: Please for all those who have been cheated on, how was the aftermath like for you? How did the experience changed you? and how did you cope with it? And I will appreciate if you please take your time to please vote above. (poll)

off topic.
pls my sister, what tribe in Nigeria bears the name Rokia? I had a friend named Rokia. She was from Cameroon. Thanks.

Like revenging...but i dont revenge anymore. I just move on