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Re: She Wants Written Proof Before She Lends Her Bf Money(right Or Wrong). by Nobody: 10:54am On Nov 08, 2013 |
Awon boys Obviously the guy-man had no intention whatsoever to pay the moni back. Na shame dey catch am wey hin no fit pick call na. Sadly, it likely marks the end of their torrid affair Good riddance, I say. A man gotta know to handle his bidness. 1 Like |
Re: She Wants Written Proof Before She Lends Her Bf Money(right Or Wrong). by MrAboki: 10:57am On Nov 08, 2013 |
BoboYekini: Awon boys Obviously the guy-man had no intention whatsoever to pay the moni back. Na shame dey catch am wey hin no fit pick call na. Sadly, it likely marks the end of their torrid affair Good riddance, I say. A man gotta know to handle his bidness. If he wanted someone who would make him sign a surety or put down a collateral, he would have gone to a Bank. Whats the point of having a partner that you cant fall back on. Even I would be offended and if you arent offended that your girlfriend asked you for such, then you probably have no self-respect. I would rather borrow from a stranger with collateral and interest rather than sign a surety and leave a collateral with my girlfriend.. 2 Likes |
Re: She Wants Written Proof Before She Lends Her Bf Money(right Or Wrong). by Nobody: 11:00am On Nov 08, 2013 |
Re: She Wants Written Proof Before She Lends Her Bf Money(right Or Wrong). by Danhumprey: 11:03am On Nov 08, 2013 |
Mr Aboki:I agree with you. You've got some good points there. |
Re: She Wants Written Proof Before She Lends Her Bf Money(right Or Wrong). by Nobody: 11:03am On Nov 08, 2013 |
Iaz93: Kunu*hands him chilled bottle of kunu mixed with liquid milk* |
Re: She Wants Written Proof Before She Lends Her Bf Money(right Or Wrong). by Nobody: 11:04am On Nov 08, 2013 |
Mr Aboki:well, I get your drift. But 2 wrongs never made a right. He should have shrugged it off and signed the damn IOU, kini big deal? But that he got offended to such a level that he sulks for days p.s. on a side(but crucial) note, shey the babe na igbo? aka gum |
Re: She Wants Written Proof Before She Lends Her Bf Money(right Or Wrong). by Danhumprey: 11:06am On Nov 08, 2013 |
Tonalphs: I fink she did d ryt tin by askin 4 a collateral cos av bn in a situation wer afta borrowin ma bf som money, he refused payin back n afta a wile i decided 2 break up wit hm n til 2day he aint aware of d reason we broke up. N if he wants a break up as a result of dat, let hm go cos if u eventualy setle down wit ds kindda guy, ur doomed cos he'l leav u wit al d family responsiblities 2 cater 4.English please! Stop breaking Rule number 21! 1 Like |
Re: She Wants Written Proof Before She Lends Her Bf Money(right Or Wrong). by MrAboki: 11:09am On Nov 08, 2013 |
BoboYekini: well, I get your drift. But 2 wrongs never made a right. He should have shrugged it off and signed the damn IOU, kini big deal? But that he got offended to such a level that he sulks for days No comment.. on the main body of your post!! Side Note.... #Laffs&Dies... Mama didnt raise no fool.... |
Re: She Wants Written Proof Before She Lends Her Bf Money(right Or Wrong). by ikekings1: 11:12am On Nov 08, 2013 |
Hmmm... 400k aburo obere egoo... The babe shouldn't even give it to him even if he would pay back with collateral.. And the most important he's not even her husband, just her boyfriend... He's going to dump her any minute and the money go just enter super story mode.. Tell your girlfriend to tell that guy to gbawa door biko... If he desperately needs the money he should go to his male friends or rather he should be a truck pusher!!! Well, some guys no dey shame sef.. I can't even ask any lady for money.. I get shame jare.. Call it a caveman mentality but I can't ask a girl to lend me money!!! |
Re: She Wants Written Proof Before She Lends Her Bf Money(right Or Wrong). by Nobody: 11:16am On Nov 08, 2013 |
Trust yourself. There is a reason why you feel he should sign a paper before you hand over your money. And yes you super did the right thing. |
Re: She Wants Written Proof Before She Lends Her Bf Money(right Or Wrong). by Nobody: 11:18am On Nov 08, 2013 |
[quote author=ikekings1]Hmmm... 400k aburo obere egoo... The babe shouldn't even give it to him even if he would pay back with collateral.. And the most important he's not even her husband, just her boyfriend... He's going to dump her any minute and the money go just enter super story mode.. Tell your girlfriend to tell that guy to gbawa door biko... If he desperately needs the money he should go to his male friends or rather he should be a truck pusher!!! [b] Well, some guys no dey shame sef.. I can't even ask any lady for money.. I get shame jare.. Call it a caveman mentality but I can't ask a girl to lend me money!!! [/[/b]quote] Correct igbo guy.Dem no dey look weda woman dey drive hummer,always makin their tho with respect |
Re: She Wants Written Proof Before She Lends Her Bf Money(right Or Wrong). by freecocoa(f): 11:19am On Nov 08, 2013 |
MR aboki, all that thing you wrote there is wash, he should go and borrow from his friends na, see problem o. If someone asks me to sign an IOU before giving me money, I'll sign it as long as my intentions are genuine, I honestly don't see the big deal here, the dude prolly wants to con her, thank God she came to me o jare, rabbish. 1 Like |
Re: She Wants Written Proof Before She Lends Her Bf Money(right Or Wrong). by Nobody: 11:24am On Nov 08, 2013 |
E fit be say d guy dey find money wey he go take marry another babe sef |
Re: She Wants Written Proof Before She Lends Her Bf Money(right Or Wrong). by Iaz93: 11:24am On Nov 08, 2013 |
Mr Aboki:Mr. Aboki, spouse and girlfriend are two different things. My wife can give me a million without batting an eyelash, I can do the same too If they were married then it'd have been a different case. [s]he wants to use the money to polish another babe[/s] TAH!! |
Re: She Wants Written Proof Before She Lends Her Bf Money(right Or Wrong). by MrAboki: 11:26am On Nov 08, 2013 |
Iaz93: Mr. Aboki, spouse and girlfriend are two different things. My wife can give me a million without batting an eyelash, I can do the same too Bollocks.. What stops a husband from borrowing money from his wife and divorcing her?! |
Re: She Wants Written Proof Before She Lends Her Bf Money(right Or Wrong). by Eneze1(f): 11:28am On Nov 08, 2013 |
freecocoa: MR aboki, all that thing you wrote there is wash, he should go and borrow from his friends na, see problem o. if he is really sincere about returning the money let him sign the damn document,kapish, end of story |
Re: She Wants Written Proof Before She Lends Her Bf Money(right Or Wrong). by MrAboki: 11:30am On Nov 08, 2013 |
freecocoa: MR aboki, all that thing you wrote there is wash, he should go and borrow from his friends na, see problem o. Wait till your husband starts asking you for reciept of all the transactions you did with the money he gave you. You better not complain (since your expenses are 'genuine'). That relationship lacks TRUST!!! And without trust, its not a relationship but two people living and f|ucking together.. PERIOD! 1 Like |
Re: She Wants Written Proof Before She Lends Her Bf Money(right Or Wrong). by Nobody: 11:39am On Nov 08, 2013 |
I want you to be my new gehfriend Lynpetra #TeamGOM |
Re: She Wants Written Proof Before She Lends Her Bf Money(right Or Wrong). by freecocoa(f): 11:44am On Nov 08, 2013 |
Mr Aboki:See wahala o, what are you even going on about? If the transactions are the types where receipts are issued, why won't I show him the receipts? |
Re: She Wants Written Proof Before She Lends Her Bf Money(right Or Wrong). by Nobody: 11:49am On Nov 08, 2013 |
god_of_music: I want you to be my new gehfriend LynpetraBut you have always been my bf. 1 Like |
Re: She Wants Written Proof Before She Lends Her Bf Money(right Or Wrong). by Iaz93: 11:51am On Nov 08, 2013 |
Mr Aboki:She alone knows the kinda person her boyfriend is. I won't blame her if she's requesting for a collateral. She should even be cautious since she's been duped before. Trust made her lose before. Good thing she's trying to use her head now. |
Re: She Wants Written Proof Before She Lends Her Bf Money(right Or Wrong). by MrAboki: 11:52am On Nov 08, 2013 |
freecocoa: See wahala o, what are you even going on about? If the transactions are the types where receipts are issued, why won't I show him the receipts? Lol!! Typical.. You must present a valid reciept or proof of how you spent the monies he gives you. SIMPLE!! TRUST!! If you dont see the importance of trust in a relationship, then what are they doing together?! If you suspect that he would not repay you your money, he has the right to suspect that you have been using the monies he gives you to finance your small boy lover.. I am emphasizing on Trust! TRUST!! Without it, no relationship can survive. Wether Business or otherwise.. Your friend is wrong.. #Period!! |
Re: She Wants Written Proof Before She Lends Her Bf Money(right Or Wrong). by Iaz93: 11:54am On Nov 08, 2013 |
lynpetra:. |
Re: She Wants Written Proof Before She Lends Her Bf Money(right Or Wrong). by freecocoa(f): 11:55am On Nov 08, 2013 |
Oh so asking for collateral means she doesn't trust him to pay back? Its more like not wanting to hear stories and getting her money when she needs it, it has nothing to do with trust as far as I'm concerned cos she may need that money and he won't be able to pay up when she does, hence the collateral, simples. |
Re: She Wants Written Proof Before She Lends Her Bf Money(right Or Wrong). by MrAboki: 12:06pm On Nov 08, 2013 |
freecocoa: Oh so asking for collateral means she doesn't trust him to pay back? Did you seriously ask this?! So how does the collateral give her the money in the event that he defaults on the loan?! Or the Surety? All she is gathering is evidence for incase she has to call the Police on the Nigga.. When I go to my father for a loan, he does not ask for a collateral or surety because; 1. He has a 'RELATIONSHIP' with me. 2. He 'TRUSTS' me. #Period... |
Re: She Wants Written Proof Before She Lends Her Bf Money(right Or Wrong). by MrAboki: 12:07pm On Nov 08, 2013 |
Iaz93: She alone knows the kinda person her boyfriend is. I won't blame her if she's requesting for a collateral. And her lack of Trust might be her greatest undoing in love. |
Re: She Wants Written Proof Before She Lends Her Bf Money(right Or Wrong). by Nobody: 12:10pm On Nov 08, 2013 |
lynpetra: But you have always been my bf.*swallows spit in shock* but we haven't met!!! #TeamGOM |
Re: She Wants Written Proof Before She Lends Her Bf Money(right Or Wrong). by Nobody: 12:11pm On Nov 08, 2013 |
Mr Aboki: |
Re: She Wants Written Proof Before She Lends Her Bf Money(right Or Wrong). by Nobody: 12:12pm On Nov 08, 2013 |
god_of_music: *swallows spit in shock* but we haven't met!!!We don't need to. |
Re: She Wants Written Proof Before She Lends Her Bf Money(right Or Wrong). by MrAboki: 12:13pm On Nov 08, 2013 |
lynpetra: You forgot the 'RELATIONSHIP' part and 'TRUST' part.. What stops me from running away with his money?! TRUST & RELATIONSHIP are the key words here... |
Re: She Wants Written Proof Before She Lends Her Bf Money(right Or Wrong). by Nobody: 12:15pm On Nov 08, 2013 |
lynpetra: We don't need to.No joor, we need to mingle and Collaborate #TeamGOM |
Re: She Wants Written Proof Before She Lends Her Bf Money(right Or Wrong). by Nobody: 12:15pm On Nov 08, 2013 |
Mr Aboki: That's y its called a "Family issue".In the case of the gf,there is no legal ties. |
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