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Re: My Brother Want To Marry A Widow With Three Children by Nobody: 9:46am On Dec 10, 2013
Chillisauce:
Jide..sorry ewuro, so you want to interrogate the former husbands family to know if their son death is suspicious. Maybe someone
(Wife) trying to play smart here. Ok

Aha! The second elephant in the room has been exposed! cheesy

When will the remaining elephant(s) be outed, I wonder? Some bravery from those thinking it, perhaps? lipsrsealed wink
Re: My Brother Want To Marry A Widow With Three Children by Nobody: 9:49am On Dec 10, 2013
Efemena_xy:
ROFLMAO!!!

And after reading your posts, I infer that your type is not worth responding to. I pick my battles - with intellects.

Having said that, you've been noticed. Now drop your opinion and move on - otherwise be my guest and feel free to rant on.

The dance floor's all yours, mate.

Lol!! grin
Re: My Brother Want To Marry A Widow With Three Children by Nobody: 10:22am On Dec 10, 2013
ileobatojo:

Aha! The second elephant in the room has been exposed! cheesy

When will the remaining elephant(s) be outed, I wonder? Some bravery from those thinking it, perhaps? lipsrsealed wink

Which one is elephant again cheesy. Efe and Ileo, come and explain yourselves o. I no understand o.
Re: My Brother Want To Marry A Widow With Three Children by Nobody: 11:24am On Dec 10, 2013
Chilli,in a lay man's term, she said, who r u b4 chilli?

I can now remember something, there was a day I was very angry at some posters selecting those they will yan with and CC said something about me and chilli being new. Chilli now said she rnt new but and old poster who just decided to get a new monicker.
Oya, make una unraveal the mystery.
WHO IS CHILLISAUCE?

ILE, d CIA, tell us naw, abegi tongue
Or give us small clue.
I'm now curious.
Chilli , I must get u. cheesy
Re: My Brother Want To Marry A Widow With Three Children by EfemenaXY: 11:47am On Dec 10, 2013
yellowpawpaw: Chilli,in a lay man's term, she said, who r u b4 chilli?

I can now remember something, there was a day I was very angry at some posters selecting those they will yan with and CC said something about me and chilli being new. Chilli now said she rnt new but and old poster who just decided to get a new monicker.
Oya, make una unraveal the mystery.
WHO IS CHILLISAUCE?

ILE, d CIA, tell us naw, abegi tongue
Or give us small clue.
I'm now curious.
Chilli , I must get u. cheesy

Really?

Abeg explain the bolded - how d'you mean? cheesy

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Re: My Brother Want To Marry A Widow With Three Children by Nobody: 12:00pm On Dec 10, 2013
Efemena_xy:

Really?

Abeg explain the bolded - how d'you mean? cheesy
Efe, comot for road!
It won't work, I want to know who chilli was b4.
I won't miss this one again.
Somebody puleeeeez give me a clue.
Re: My Brother Want To Marry A Widow With Three Children by Nobody: 12:31pm On Dec 10, 2013
This mentality is what keeps adults kids in Nigeria. I keep seeing people repeat a question "if its you will you allow your 25 yrs old kid marry a 56 yr old man". A 25 yr old woman can marry whoever she chooses, my daughter yes i will give her my blessings. You don't permit or allow adults to do what they want. I would have a honest conversation with my daughter about MY fears BUT i will not dissuade her just because this is not what i expect of her does not mean the man is not right for her. I will be disappointed if my kids don't have a mind of their own.

Every marriage has its own unique challenges. It is not for me to decide the challenge i want her to face in her marriage because as much as i want the best for her my idea of what is the best for her may not be right for her. Parents and family are not infallible and are usually clouded by bias, conditioning and judgements in situations like this.As a grown-up, I expect my daughter to appreciate me but she is not obliged to do everything that i ask or expect from her.

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Re: My Brother Want To Marry A Widow With Three Children by EfemenaXY: 12:33pm On Dec 10, 2013
Chillisauce:

Which one is elephant again cheesy. Efe and Ileo, come and explain yourselves o. I no understand o.

Elephant un: jazz

Elephant deux: poison

Elephant trois: it's huge... cheesy
Re: My Brother Want To Marry A Widow With Three Children by Nobody: 12:40pm On Dec 10, 2013
Re: My Brother Want To Marry A Widow With Three Children by Nobody: 1:24pm On Dec 10, 2013
CC,come back here and explain yaself!
*drags her back*

Vikin=chilli
Chilli=viikin
O gaa o!
Make I go look for vikin na.

So ewuro is not jydogal sad

Maybe she is right.
More confusion sad
Re: My Brother Want To Marry A Widow With Three Children by Nobody: 1:27pm On Dec 10, 2013
yellowpawpaw: Chilli,in a lay man's term, she said, who r u b4 chilli?


Lol @ CIA!

That's not the meaning o. Efe has broken it down in French.

Chillisauce:

Which one is elephant again cheesy. Efe and Ileo, come and explain yourselves o. I no understand o.

Chilli, imagine an elephant in your parlor. Then imagine everyone in your household sitting in your parlor not talking about it. Basically pretending they can't see the giant elephant in the room. That's the gist here.

People have talked about emotional and some financial issues but they have purposely said nothing about the likely things the OP and his family are thinking about. The usual stereotypes Nigerians have. Number one, she must have killed her husband, maybe sacrificed him in her witches coven. Number 2, she must have used jazz to nab their brother. Number 3 elephant.........
Re: My Brother Want To Marry A Widow With Three Children by damiso(f): 1:57pm On Dec 10, 2013
chaircover: Chilii is Vikin . . . . ***Puts on trainers very quickly and runs away faster than Usain Bolt***

I be all mouth but cant fight smiley

BTW Ewuro isnt Jidegirl & I tell you why. Ewuro said something on a thread that I know that Jidegirl will never say as Its very out of character for her. No doubt Ewuro is an old poster but I still cant place my finger on who it is YET!!! I am even tempted to beleive that ewuro is a guy.


Ehen CC are you sure sha grin grin
Its the 'drill' and 'interrogate' that swayed me .We all know how our beloved jydo does not like to 'taint the blue bloodlines' grin grin grin grin grin cool
Re: My Brother Want To Marry A Widow With Three Children by deols(f): 2:22pm On Dec 10, 2013
yellowpawpaw: CC,come back here and explain yaself!
*drags her back*

Vikin=chilli
Chilli=viikin
O gaa o!
Make I go look for vikin na.

So ewuro is not jydogal sad

Maybe she is right.
More confusion sad

I Knew Ewuro could not be jhidegirl..nahhhh
Re: My Brother Want To Marry A Widow With Three Children by nigerianescorts: 2:38pm On Dec 10, 2013
Let or brother do his wish.It is called love
Re: My Brother Want To Marry A Widow With Three Children by Nobody: 2:43pm On Dec 10, 2013
Just about to drop my Robust response and then this jidegirl ish? Peace Out!!


P.S Chilli is Vikin confirmed - qui?

Re: My Brother Want To Marry A Widow With Three Children by Nobody: 2:46pm On Dec 10, 2013
damiso:


Ehen CC are you sure sha grin grin
Its the 'drill' and 'interrogate' that swayed me .We all know how our beloved jydo does not like to 'taint the blue bloodlines' grin grin grin grin grin cool

And the plot thickens.... Why is CC trying to throw us off Jide's scent? Hmmmm...... grin grin grin
Re: My Brother Want To Marry A Widow With Three Children by Nobody: 3:26pm On Dec 10, 2013
Ha! From jide girl to chillisauce.

Chilli is vikin? grin

You pipu wanna kill me. Ogah o.!

Meanwhile a search shows that vikin is wanted cheesy


https://www.nairaland.com/1542937/account-deactivated-searching-vikin

Now CC links chilli to vikin.
Una wan kill me but God pass una!

I bind all undercover adulterated CIA. Amen!

Now back to ewuro.
Re: My Brother Want To Marry A Widow With Three Children by Nobody: 3:31pm On Dec 10, 2013
ileobatojo:

Lol @ CIA!

That's not the meaning o. Efe has broken it down in French.



Chilli, imagine an elephant in your parlor. Then imagine everyone in your household sitting in your parlor not talking about it. Basically pretending they can't see the giant elephant in the room. That's the gist here.

People have talked about emotional and some financial issues but they have purposely said nothing about the likely things the OP and his family are thinking about. The usual stereotypes Nigerians have. Number one, she must have killed her husband, maybe sacrificed him in her witches coven. Number 2, she must have used jazz to nab their brother. Number 3 elephant.........

Thanks for the explanation. Don't mind me o, when you and Efe start sometimes you get people like me lost. It's good to ask question o. See as YPP don fail exam. She thought she knew the answer meanwhile she failed grin.

YPP, I always tell you to wear your glasses closer to your eyes, like that you read all details tongue.
I don laugh tire.

But you right, a typical nigeria will say she killed her former husband, maybe poison to inherit his small wealth.

Thread derailed.
Re: My Brother Want To Marry A Widow With Three Children by Nobody: 4:18pm On Dec 10, 2013
Re: My Brother Want To Marry A Widow With Three Children by Nobody: 5:35pm On Dec 10, 2013
chaircover:

I dont think that Jide wouldnt have said this to a guy whose father was fighting for his life in hospital. I know how much Jide holds family. Something tells me that it isnt her


Why though? I don't think that post was meant to be malicious. Too matter of fact, yes, needed some more sensitivity, yes. But I don't get meanness or malice from it. Matter of fact, the use of the medical terminology "vegetative state" convinces me even more that it's her.


**Yes, I take full responsibility for derailing the thread** grin
Re: My Brother Want To Marry A Widow With Three Children by Nobody: 6:10pm On Dec 10, 2013
Re: My Brother Want To Marry A Widow With Three Children by EfemenaXY: 7:43pm On Dec 10, 2013
Chillisauce:

Thanks for the explanation. Don't mind me o, when you and Efe start sometimes you get people like me lost. It's good to ask question o. See as YPP don fail exam. She thought she knew the answer meanwhile she failed grin.

Lol!

But Efe didn't do anything na! cheesy cheesy

chaircover:

I dont think that Jide wouldnt have said this to a guy whose father was fighting for his life in hospital. I know how much Jide holds family. Something tells me that it isnt her

Actually CC, it's exactly the sort of thing she'd say - even moreso behind a new moniker. But that aside, there have been other clues - all you need to do is read between the lines and you'll them...all crystal clear. cheesy cheesy
Re: My Brother Want To Marry A Widow With Three Children by Nobody: 7:56pm On Dec 10, 2013
It seems like I really need my glasses. sad
More confusion.
Even chilli has joined the secret service sad
Re: My Brother Want To Marry A Widow With Three Children by EfemenaXY: 7:58pm On Dec 10, 2013
^^ grin grin
Re: My Brother Want To Marry A Widow With Three Children by Nobody: 4:01pm On Dec 18, 2013
chaircover: BTW Ewuro isnt Jidegirl


deols:
I Knew Ewuro could not be jhidegirl..nahhhh



grin grin grin
Re: My Brother Want To Marry A Widow With Three Children by deols(f): 4:11pm On Dec 18, 2013
ileobatojo:





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I am surprised she is the one. I probably did not know her well or she changed her style undecided

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Re: My Brother Want To Marry A Widow With Three Children by Nobody: 7:55pm On Dec 18, 2013
ileobatojo:





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Ku ise angry angry
Re: My Brother Want To Marry A Widow With Three Children by Nobody: 9:08pm On Dec 18, 2013
deols:

I am surprised she is the one. I probably did not know her well or she changed her style undecided
grin grin grin


grin

Ewuro707:

Ku ise angry angry

E ma binu! grin

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